Eh?!
Thanks for all your advice, much appreciated 
We had a talk tonight and I asked him if there was a problem. He said he was stressed out about having to move and that stress affects his sex drive. He also said it was upsetting him and that it had nothing to do with me or anything I was doing. I have to respect that although for me, sex takes my mind off my problems! It still doesn't explain all his actions in the bedroom department, but he was starting to get tetchy so I thought I'd leave it!
And just to clarify, we had talked about what we both liked beforehand so I knew what he'd like, it's just at the point I asked him if it was ok he was totally silent and laid still, so I was checking that he was actually enjoying it. Csn't think of anything worse than me thinking I'm doing a good job and the other person hating it!
We had a talk tonight and I asked him if there was a problem. He said he was stressed out about having to move and that stress affects his sex drive. He also said it was upsetting him and that it had nothing to do with me or anything I was doing. I have to respect that although for me, sex takes my mind off my problems! It still doesn't explain all his actions in the bedroom department, but he was starting to get tetchy so I thought I'd leave it!
And just to clarify, we had talked about what we both liked beforehand so I knew what he'd like, it's just at the point I asked him if it was ok he was totally silent and laid still, so I was checking that he was actually enjoying it. Csn't think of anything worse than me thinking I'm doing a good job and the other person hating it!
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It sounds like you did the right thing. With Cancers it is always a back and forth thing. It becomes very annoying. So right now-Just relax and do just what you said. See what his next move will be.
Good Luck and I am so sorry for your pain. Cry it out, Talk it out, Journal...
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Sorry I simply could not resist that...It sounds like you did the right thing. With Cancers it is always a back and forth thing. It becomes very annoying. So right now-Just relax and do just what you said. See what his next move will be.
Good Luck and I am so sorry for your pain. Cry it out, Talk it out, Journal...
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