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Posted by fish_andchips_yeah
Virgorean thankyou for the imput.. While it does get hard at time to disscern between dulision and reality this was something ineed address..
While when iwas with her it was obviouse there was an mutual attraction between us.. Only able to go as far as being her friends boyfriend would let us.. Tho if that wasnt the case i have no dout we would be talking ... Man virgos head must go back and forth alot.. Because i read that the examples iv given would be cause to think more, virgos flirt the oppersite way?? To the rest of us.. She might be colder then an aqua but she aint as scary lol haha
Ohh and to be clear ididnt mean my cock i ment gave her the fuck me eyes befor she shyly looked away and back. Tree trunk what kinda auto correct is that.
Aquas have alot of bestfriends but their relationships are useally shallow and this is her "visit every now and again friend" wich my gf has embarrased the virgo publically. A gew times which i found funny.. We also would get high and take other drugs.. Which virgos and pisces especially should stay away from..
The thing is (might sound delusional) when ido listen to my gutt, intuition, higher self meditating, and dreams) and i have acted on them i watch a synchronised series of events take place that i have for seen in insight (tho no 1 would believe this to be real) i guess thats the gift of being a pisces.. Pisces literally can turn dreams to reality.. And my my alarms are saying as hard or unrealistic this is therw is still a pssibilty this could work (as no one truely k ows it wont)
Piscestruedreams thankyou to for a different look tho idont know how to exactly let my gf know iwanna talk to her friend wothout wanting to fuck her it would be a good idea to keep openning communication as mucg as possible
Virgos u mind is hectic nothing like ur outside apperence . id love to bring vixen out.. Where is the girl veesion of me?
As I’ve stated, there is no denying an attraction exists between Virgos and Pisces. They are our opposites on the zodiac wheel. But from your read she is simply being courteous. Out of respect for her best friend she has to communicate with you to a degree because you are her best friend’s boyfriend-an important part of someone’s life she values. You are mistaken Mr. Dreamy. Virgos are the devil. Piss one off and you’ll wish you haven’t.
Not only are you reading too much into the Virgo impression of being into you, but you are justifying it by calling their friendship fake? I have a few close friends who I haven’t spoken to for months at a time, one who happens to be a Pisces himself, but when I reconnect with friends it’s never awkward. We pick up where we dropped off. It’s called adapting to the changes when our lives become busy.
You’re clearly one Delusional Pisces.
Mr. Sandman, bring me a dream (bung, bung, bung, bung)
Posted by EvatheDivaWell, I am a Taurus you know, were possessive lolPosted by thecrazyariestaurus1. Who sleeps with you? He does.
I was talking to my Taurus bf's mom yesterday, and she started talking about one of his exes. She ended up telling me that her, my bf, and his ex all had lunch together recently. I don't know how recent this is. She said that she came to visit from another city, and called him and wanted to have lunch. She assured me that they've always stayed good friends after they broke up, and she's married and has two kids now, and her husband knows and lets her have lunch with him.
I was livid, but I had to hold myself back from exploding on him because his brother just died 2 days ago. I just feel like shit. I feel like I'm wasting my time being there for him and his family when he talks to his ex and hides it from me. I know this sounds really immature and selfish but I'm just so hurt. They were together for 4 years (from high school to after high school) and they've been broken up for years, but I still am not ok with the whole situation.
I want to tell him that he needs to choose between us because this is something I'm not gonna tolerate. I just feel selfish for even thinking this. Am I over reacting?? When's a good time to tel him?? I can't do this right now because he's got enough shit to deal with
2. Who does he kiss? You.
3. Who does he say, "I love you" to? You.
4. Who talks/texts with him? You.
5. Who eats lunch/dinner (okay, breakfast) with him? You.
Why does this generation always fall in the JEALOUSY pit? (the green ugly monster?) You don't OWN him (EVEN if you were married; thus the vows, "forsaking others" in marriage, HELL you, will you have lunch w/your ex-bf/ex-wife when I'm your current wife). So what if they had lunch together? The mother is doing nothing behind your back; neither is your boyfriend. And y'all post that Pisceans are SELFISH...not!cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
That's why I came on here, to get older more experienced people's perspective. All my friends are young, and they're all gonna say "fuck him! Move on! Blah blah".
Posted by AznnationI guess I'm just paranoid that he'll still have feelings for her. You're right, it is insecurity and I'm not afraid to admit it.Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
I was talking to my Taurus bf's mom yesterday, and she started talking about one of his exes. She ended up telling me that her, my bf, and his ex all had lunch together recently. I don't know how recent this is. She said that she came to visit from another city, and called him and wanted to have lunch. She assured me that they've always stayed good friends after they broke up, and she's married and has two kids now, and her husband knows and lets her have lunch with him.
I was livid, but I had to hold myself back from exploding on him because his brother just died 2 days ago. I just feel like shit. I feel like I'm wasting my time being there for him and his family when he talks to his ex and hides it from me. I know this sounds really immature and selfish but I'm just so hurt. They were together for 4 years (from high school to after high school) and they've been broken up for years, but I still am not ok with the whole situation.
I want to tell him that he needs to choose between us because this is something I'm not gonna tolerate. I just feel selfish for even thinking this. Am I over reacting?? When's a good time to tel him?? I can't do this right now because he's got enough shit to deal with
Why would he have to tell you if its nothing important to him? When there is nothing to hide? whats wrong for her husband to let her have lunch with him when he trust her ?lol.
Why are you not okay with the situation? It shows insecurityclick to expand
Posted by m200991lol - foo tunny - I have been known to say to a few men "hey - if you don't want to do right by it - I'm sure someone else does" ...Posted by tctaPosted by m200991I'm not jealous. Yes, I can come off that way as well - not caring. I know who I am (Taurus and Cap help) and I have told men upfront. If you decide you want something else then go for it - I am very faithful and I demand the same.Posted by tctaNot to hijack this thread or anything, but being as you also share these placements with me I had a question. How are you with jealousy? I don't think I have a jealous bone in my body, so little I can come off as though I don't care. Anyway... just curious.Posted by m200991I have both as well and I truly believe in a combination of placements because I am like the above - hard and direct and quick in labeling what I want and then being more laidback, calm and passive as the relationship progresses - I think the Taurus Sun/Rising/Capricorn Moon kicks in after I get what I want. If it ends up to not be what I want, the Cap takes care of the clean up - LOL!
I have both of these placements. For me, it's pretty much a bit of both. If it's something I want it's being forward all the way. Once I have what I want and/or everything is nice and comfortable I tend to be mostly passive. As I'm writing this I realize it's probably little to no help; haha. I blame my Sun in Pisces for this one... or the lack of coffee thus far.
So the thing to be ware of is to not get too comfortable until you are together at least a year which is pretty much the should be norm but it isn't.
What I wrote not 15 days ago:
"The way I look at it is... if you liked them/it so much... then get to gettin'. You're obviously more interested in what's going on over there. No point in acting shady or trying to hide anything. We're adults after all."click to expand
If he is having lunch with his ex AND his MOTHER it's clearly important enough.
I would be upset as well if he didn't tell me but I don't think supporting him through this time is pointless. His brother just died so let him get comfort where he can because he needs it, as long as he is not cheating. It was only one lunch meeting, which is not cheating. Just ask him about it nonchalantly if you don't want to come off as insecure. People like Aznnation love to pull the "OmG YouRE So InSeCuUurRrEE [insert spongebob picture]" card but I think your reaction is fine. A little dramatic, but fine.
I would be upset as well if he didn't tell me but I don't think supporting him through this time is pointless. His brother just died so let him get comfort where he can because he needs it, as long as he is not cheating. It was only one lunch meeting, which is not cheating. Just ask him about it nonchalantly if you don't want to come off as insecure. People like Aznnation love to pull the "OmG YouRE So InSeCuUurRrEE [insert spongebob picture]" card but I think your reaction is fine. A little dramatic, but fine.
you just put up a thread saying you were sad about an Aries passing - supposed to become the "uncle" ... so it's ok for you to have the opposite sex friends but your boyfriend not to ? I'm confused - please clarify
I do understand that him not telling you is a thing - I agree with you there - he should be upfront with everything because it only leads to misunderstanding
I do understand that him not telling you is a thing - I agree with you there - he should be upfront with everything because it only leads to misunderstanding
Posted by tiziani
"I'm here for you" text messages.
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And I'm the psychological catfish yeah?
Posted by Jules-llPisces MoonPosted by DiamondAcePosted by bkbella86I argued my way through every single time when I wanted girl time with my mom and sisters which happened no more than twice a year. He even had the audacity to call me a disobedient wife for arguing and wanting free time. I admit I stayed in the marriage because I confused it with love and I was confused when he treated me so sweet yet treated me this other way. I learned the hard way and I hope OP doesn't have to go through what I went through.Posted by DiamondAceThat's what abusers do. They isolate you from your loved ones and your life before them.Posted by MoonbutterMy ex sag was so very charming verbally and physically but he did not like me spending time with my mom, sisters, and even our own flesh and blood children. To me, it hurts more that he couldn't love anyone else except for me. Some people may think that's cute and all that he wants only me in this world but I think it's topnotch selfish.Posted by Ladi1975I went through the same epiphany with my ex, thought we would be together forever but then I met my now bf and he is soo much better then my ex. So what I'm saying is, hold on sistah there is a better guy out there for you who won't hurt you.Posted by bkbella86That is exactly what my gf's say but it hurts just so damn much. You think you found your person and they are just a verbal abuser.
I'm sorry you went through this tho and I hate to sound harsh but this man never deserved your generosity.
Is he Scorpio moon by chance?click to expand
To all Virgo men I ask you this simple question, do you want to be pursued by a woman? Be asked out on a date? Or would you much rather be in control?.... after analyzing and figuring out what the heck you want after 278394619037564 years.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusListen to the "young chickies"...guess what?! You're gonna lose the BEST thing God sent you...him! I am currently communicating with a Taurus man. He's 44; I am 52; asked him if the age difference was a "deal breaker" for him. "No", he said. I date from 44-54. I hit the jackpot! He's in California as we speak. Am I calling him 30 times a day? No. He's visiting his father who was diagnosed with stomach cancer and isn't doing too wellPosted by EvatheDivaWell, I am a Taurus you know, were possessive lolPosted by thecrazyariestaurus1. Who sleeps with you? He does.
I was talking to my Taurus bf's mom yesterday, and she started talking about one of his exes. She ended up telling me that her, my bf, and his ex all had lunch together recently. I don't know how recent this is. She said that she came to visit from another city, and called him and wanted to have lunch. She assured me that they've always stayed good friends after they broke up, and she's married and has two kids now, and her husband knows and lets her have lunch with him.
I was livid, but I had to hold myself back from exploding on him because his brother just died 2 days ago. I just feel like shit. I feel like I'm wasting my time being there for him and his family when he talks to his ex and hides it from me. I know this sounds really immature and selfish but I'm just so hurt. They were together for 4 years (from high school to after high school) and they've been broken up for years, but I still am not ok with the whole situation.
I want to tell him that he needs to choose between us because this is something I'm not gonna tolerate. I just feel selfish for even thinking this. Am I over reacting?? When's a good time to tel him?? I can't do this right now because he's got enough shit to deal with
2. Who does he kiss? You.
3. Who does he say, "I love you" to? You.
4. Who talks/texts with him? You.
5. Who eats lunch/dinner (okay, breakfast) with him? You.
Why does this generation always fall in the JEALOUSY pit? (the green ugly monster?) You don't OWN him (EVEN if you were married; thus the vows, "forsaking others" in marriage, HELL you, will you have lunch w/your ex-bf/ex-wife when I'm your current wife). So what if they had lunch together? The mother is doing nothing behind your back; neither is your boyfriend. And y'all post that Pisceans are SELFISH...not!
Love,
Eva
That's why I came on here, to get older more experienced people's perspective. All my friends are young, and they're all gonna say "fuck him! Move on! Blah blah".click to expand
If I lose him because I'm "Jealous" I will be the one kicking myself in the ass. Am I gonna lose him? Only if I see evidence that he is not legit, lying to me, etc. I've done my homework with this Taurus man. He texted me an app where I saw him driving from Texas to California (it was as if I was sitting right beside him in his truck). He's a good man. I asked him whenever he wants to have me fly up to CA to see him, I would leave it up to him. We decided in about a week or two (he just arrived on Tuesday, 6 June 2017). Remember, I'm the one that read her tea leaves (coffee cup) and I saw me spooning with a guy in bed, an angel with beautiful wings looking over at us, a man's organ, a turtle, and a Taurus? That was me. I posted this back in December and this year (2017) I asked where the hell is this Taurus man? He arrived on 30 May 2017. Take advice from a wise owl.
cyber hugs! Love
Eva