Unhappily married...not sure what to say
Posted by Cake_Anyonethere isn't a nice way. saying "no" to missing someone happens. there have been times i left for weeks and my SO and I didn't miss each other. LOL. phases happen.
Hubby was away for a couple of weeks, got back today and has asked me if I missed him. I said I wasn't sure and that I'd just got on with things. But in all honesty I haven't missed him.
Is there even a polite way of saying no to that question?
try to get the communication going, then the romance. sex fixes every thing. at least for me. LMAO.
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Posted by blackphaseThat is so awesome!
Wildlife rehabilitation is my passion, and I am currently working towards that now!
I prefer animals to people to be honest :-) Would you consider working with animals in Africa?
Cancers use the bullying as fuel, and they express it as anger, l havent really seen passive agressive behavior, except in Cancer women. But Scorpios are pure hatred, they act normal but sting you infinite times....Aries have a quick anger always, and Caps are mean ?
Posted by lisabethur8Lol, I will pursue. Just don't be lazy and be worthy of it and be interesting and learn reciprocation. And other stuff.Posted by Damnatait sounds like you all need someone who will PURSUE you.Posted by Infinite8Yeah I was actually thinking of that!Posted by DamnataI'm exactly the same way... but my reasoning for not assuming is different. I just don't always trust my instincts and I don't want to be wrong and be the fool (pride I guess).Posted by Infinite8I just had an epiphany this morning that the whole crux for me is that I have to really really like you to the point where my fire placements overcome my sun and venus. If I'm at that stage I won't even think if you like me or not and then I will be blatant in a way you won't miss. I also will not care to decipher hints coming from you because I will be obvious myself
I refuse to assume or read into things... so, I end up being oblivious to their types of moves. I honestly can't tell when they are treating me differently than the rest.
But if I just..kinda like you? Then I go into overthinking. I hate assumptions and I am very friendly so in my mind it's better to assume people are friendly than just be vain and go "Oh they are totes into me". Idk, I feel it as vanity. Virgo innocence I guess. *halo*
Funny...when it comes down to it, it has to be me making that call and there's no way to endear yourself to me if I'm not feeling you from the start.
So... you feel like you need to be making the call? In a way, initiate? Definitely sounds fiery and Aries-like. I've said it before and I'll say it again - I know you would be obvious when you really want someone. You get fired up.
For me, I like feeling the fire and passion from the person and that is what usually makes me also much more passionate. Otherwise, I'm pretty much in control of myself.
Was low key hoping you were going to answer to this topic.
100% .
Now for me to write a novel about a Sag dude (I'm sorry Sag dude, wherever you are).
none of the women on this site pursues men.click to expand
I can only pursue men if I know deep down that if I stopped suddenly they'd pick it up at the same level of interest I put forth. Cannot do passivity.
The only thing more useless than synastry, is you.
Posted by Astrology101I put down a lot to curiosity too because curiosity killed me and then proceeded with the metaphorical cat.
Then one fine day he asked for my number... I thought he just wanted to hang out because we had been pally.
Then we were talking... and he asks me if I have a guy in my life. I'm still thinking he's curious .. gem curiousity.
Then he said would you like to be my girlfriend?
And I was blank.
That was the most oblivious I have ever been.
Why you so hateful and petty and pathetic and can't let things go?
murdered by this woman who was scorned.
any thoughts on this? what do you think?'
i was interested in some conversation, insights and analysis on what you think? i also saw this mentioned on Linda Goodman's site.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/213872.html
some women don't want to marry and be giving and giving because the man will just find a younger prettier woman. it is very scary.
this is his chart, Scorpio sun/Aquarius moon/Cap venus/Scorpio Mars/Jupiter Virgo, URanus Gemini/Neptune Libra/ Sag mercury
the obituaries are online /pubilc.
he is buried with his wife. They probably had planned their graves before hand to be buried together.
any thoughts on this? what do you think?'
i was interested in some conversation, insights and analysis on what you think? i also saw this mentioned on Linda Goodman's site.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/213872.html
some women don't want to marry and be giving and giving because the man will just find a younger prettier woman. it is very scary.
this is his chart, Scorpio sun/Aquarius moon/Cap venus/Scorpio Mars/Jupiter Virgo, URanus Gemini/Neptune Libra/ Sag mercury
the obituaries are online /pubilc.
he is buried with his wife. They probably had planned their graves before hand to be buried together.
Some posts really gave a lot of perspective. Some made me cry. But thank you all. Even if I don't actively agree with it I respect all feedback. I have seriously read every post and thought some more. I have decided to stick through with my plan of reaching out to him. I asked him if I could message him again after the summer semester in August and he agreed so im sticking by it. Truth is, I don't expect anyone to understand. There are details nobody but him and I know that makes our case unique and I have to consider that, as well as follow my heart.. So. I will write him a letter. If he ACCEPTS and responds back I will befriend him again and go from there.. One thing that I wasn't sure about before, but I am now is that i'm for sure NOT going to ask him to leave her. I realize how disrespectful and damaging that could be for the friendship and my chances. I have to approach this very carefully and logically.
True love is rare for me to find so when you find that special someone who lights your heart up, you take it seriously. I'm not throwing this away. I'm going to follow both the heart and my mind this time.
True love is rare for me to find so when you find that special someone who lights your heart up, you take it seriously. I'm not throwing this away. I'm going to follow both the heart and my mind this time.
Posted by Astrology101HI5, I'm Sag rising.Posted by DamnataYes i have gem rising... i say things i don't want to all the time.Posted by Astrology101I put down a lot to curiosity too because curiosity killed me and then proceeded with the metaphorical cat.
Then one fine day he asked for my number... I thought he just wanted to hang out because we had been pally.
Then we were talking... and he asks me if I have a guy in my life. I'm still thinking he's curious .. gem curiousity.
Then he said would you like to be my girlfriend?
And I was blank.
That was the most oblivious I have ever been.
I just think people are like me lolclick to expand
Posted by Blue_FroggieHow do you know pisces is the most vulnerable point in my chart? What determines that? And i didn't think i had anything related to pisces in my chart. What point is it and i really hope it stabilizes xDPosted by LoadzPosted by Blue_FroggieMy fiance is a pisces and i love her and everything about her so much but we dont really see eye to eye and we argue alot. Could be because of long distance. It's strange that you would recommend me a pisces cause ive seen that they aren't the best match for Leos but then again my chart is pretty water heavy as you said.Posted by LoadzI didn't get the tag...
Hey all,
I was wondering if anyone experienced enough in astrology could please take a look at my chart and tell me more about myself and mainly my love life? Who am i compatible with and what would be the best match for me taking into consideration all the planet placements.
Okie, you have a water heavy chart and with your moon and Venus in Scorp/Cancer and a heavy 8th House chart, you would be attracted to water signs... A Pisces placement around 12°would complete an all important geometric pattern formation in synastry. But I'm not sure about Pisces Sun. It could work as long as they have either air or fire in their chart.
The best pick would be a Gemini Sun, early Libra moon, Scorp Mars, Pisces Asc, Cancer IC on your Cancer Venus/NN and your Leo Sun falling in their fifth house...
Or a Pisces Sun, Gem or Libra moon, Water Mars
It depends if you are comfortable with water suns... If you are it can be great. But a Pisces placement would give stability and longevity
Never dated anyone other than a cancer, scorpio, aquarius and pisces x2. And theres another which i dont remember. She might have been a Gemeni. We got along very well.
Pisces is the most vulnerable point in your chart, if it is stabilized things could go long term!
And your fiance is a Pisces ?click to expand
