Crybaby & Cold feet

Posted by Tayshia
I'm a Cancer woman myself with a Taurus Moon and I've found Aquarian men very hard to deal with in relationships. I've only dated three Aquarian men and those relationships only lasted a few weeks long I'd say no more than four weeks tops. I'll give you a few reasons why they are hard to deal with.....

1. Some of them are players, flirts and big compulsive liars and matter a fact they are terrible liars. Even the oldest Aquarian men act like this. They are man-children

2. Most of them are cheaters

3. There is no in between with them either they are totally independent; unpredictable uncommitable and hard to pin down like here today gone tomorrow or they'll be extremely obsessive, jealous and possessive

4. They are not emotional beings they don't know how to separate logic from emotion. And It's hard because us Cancer women are emotional beings. If your going through a tough time in life and need a shoulder to cry on they'll just sit there and look at you like your crazy.They'll go into dating and relationships like it's some kind of scientific experiment.

5. Alot of them have some major insecurity issues and they will constantly criticise and critique your looks and your whole character overall just to make themselves feel better.

6. They will expect you to open up and tell them what's on your mind or what your thinking every second of the day and before you know you'll be in a relationship with them and never know anything about them.

7. The whole relationship will revolve around them after awhile just be prepared for that. They will literally DRAIN you. They think all women were put on this Earth just to cook, clean and lay in bed with.

But again it depends on that chart. I'm not saying an aquarius and cancer would never work out it could with extra work and patience. I'm just giving input based on my experiences. They make great friends though.
That sounds awful, I'm a cancer with a sag moon and he's a aqua with a sag moon too. Are those like things that happened immediately upon dating or they just progressed over time? I've experienced the cheating aquas and I've never heard of them being analytical yet I have heard they view everything as if it was less of what it is rather than viewing it as sort of a task or something like that. This aqua I'm talking to he lives with his parents almost never leave the house and has no job so I'm unsure of whether or not he's a player or not but I think he's a flirt for sure hea always doing these cool smoke tricks and staring at me. But I asked him out and he said sure but I'm kind of looking for a job right now and has yet to take me up on the offer! So maybe he is a player. And if things are supposed to revolve around him things are probably not going to work out for us because things revolve around me lol! Thanks for the insight though! It's what I was looking for.

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Posted by VenusAquarius
You are what is called "real" and probably even raw, pure.

No mask.

Real can be intimidating. That's why you seem confident to others.

Sometimes when it comes to dating, and a guy knows he has no intention.... you show up real and pure... he just can't. He enjoys you but, he won't go there. He's not ready.
why?

should i put on mask on myself to be like everyone and then more boys would come to me?

yes you are right i was not sure if someone of you all understood me right but yes. you said what i wanted to say.

i am likethat- but why men dont want me the way i am?

because i show emotions?

so whom i should be?

what types of woman , men my age are attracted to?



...but don't judge yourself on who likes you ...if you think you are a good person....that is all you can do smile
I didn't flinch or get startled when some stupid idiot set off fireworks right outside my living room window which sounded like a small bomb went off, nevermind the rainbow-like light show. I simply frowned & turned my head towards the direction of the source of the blast, whereas the Lion-Virgin jumped like he had been shot out of a cannon yelling WHAT THE HELLLLLLL???

All of the sudden I'm accused of being a psychopath just because I didn't react to it and I laughed at him. I outgrew the "know-it-all judgemental" Virgo phase in my late 20s so that means I gotta put up with this for a few more years.

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Posted by VenusAquarius
You are what is called "real" and probably even raw, pure.

No mask.

Real can be intimidating. That's why you seem confident to others.

Sometimes when it comes to dating, and a guy knows he has no intention.... you show up real and pure... he just can't. He enjoys you but, he won't go there. He's not ready.
why?

should i put on mask on myself to be like everyone and then more boys would come to me?

yes you are right i was not sure if someone of you all understood me right but yes. you said what i wanted to say.

i am likethat- but why men dont want me the way i am?

because i show emotions?

so whom i should be?

what types of woman , men my age are attracted to?

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Just be yourself .

Be yourself and be kind ...the rest you can't control smile
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...but don't judge yourself on who likes you ...if you think you are a good person....that is all you can do smile
i think i am ok and a good person but since 2 years its been me who was taken advantage of or played.

and i didnt realise it.

whene i said no and cut contacts people started to realise and now they come back, delicately, really.

even when ii am abroad they start to talk to me.

or want to write to me. idk why, because they see i can go away?
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