Now What? Virgo/Scorpio
CapAngel:
"Ask him if you can look at his phone (address book, call history) and tell him if you see a suspicious phone call or number. You can then call that number in front of him and speak to the person. If he has nothing to hide, he should comply (if he objects then he's probably guilty so snooping is plan B)."
I am sorry, but hell no... Even if I had nothing to hide, you would have to pry that phone out of my cold, dead hands and you can be rest assured that would have a GREAT impact on our relationship. A person you care about should not have to PROVE that they are doing nothing wrong when they are doing nothing wrong. Perhaps some Joe Blow off the street, but NOT your partner. A person should not have to continually prove their character to the person that they love and "supposedly" loves them.
I posted this on the Libra board, but I think that it works here, too:
"Yeah, gotta agree with that one. Like Libras, once Scorps are in they are in for the count and loyal to the bone. And, to ever question or doubt that is one of the biggest slaps in the face. To ever mistrust him would be a direct reflection of your feelings towards him and the type of character you think that he has. If you cannot trust the person that you are with, then perhaps you should not be with them in the first place, as you obviously believe them to be a very low person..."
"Ask him if you can look at his phone (address book, call history) and tell him if you see a suspicious phone call or number. You can then call that number in front of him and speak to the person. If he has nothing to hide, he should comply (if he objects then he's probably guilty so snooping is plan B)."
I am sorry, but hell no... Even if I had nothing to hide, you would have to pry that phone out of my cold, dead hands and you can be rest assured that would have a GREAT impact on our relationship. A person you care about should not have to PROVE that they are doing nothing wrong when they are doing nothing wrong. Perhaps some Joe Blow off the street, but NOT your partner. A person should not have to continually prove their character to the person that they love and "supposedly" loves them.
I posted this on the Libra board, but I think that it works here, too:
"Yeah, gotta agree with that one. Like Libras, once Scorps are in they are in for the count and loyal to the bone. And, to ever question or doubt that is one of the biggest slaps in the face. To ever mistrust him would be a direct reflection of your feelings towards him and the type of character you think that he has. If you cannot trust the person that you are with, then perhaps you should not be with them in the first place, as you obviously believe them to be a very low person..."
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fine..but 2 days later he jus said sumthng to arouse my interst in him,and amy jealousy..he hinted about a girl ( i cant tolerate her coz shwe alwz uses my cap frnd for assignments..but she is least bothered about him..and my capp too knows about it too well!!)..and then he grinned at me..to test my nerves..likewise i cudnt help but falling in his trap..and told him i damn her..and that wasnt over..he started giving me so much attention,caring for me..and everytime reminding me of my special feelings for him!!why????
Afetr some weeks,i again told him how i felt for him..and asked him to explain clearly why he wasnt ready for commitment..and he gave me a number of excuses(he wasnt ready for any girl..,his family is conservative..,he is scard of being hurt..blah blah!!)...i know it was a big blunder i made..and i was pretty persistent(i am a pisces)..
anywaz even that didnt stop me frm talking to him or calling him up..coz he was alwaz nice to me and seemed to respond to my demands...it increased my dependancy on him..finally i asked him out on a date in our colege library..and believe me it was suchh a boring date..i was nervous..and yet alwaz had to be the 1st one to start a topic..although i am a girl..and he was kinda nervous too..but neither cud share a hearty laugh as we used to when we wre jus frnds!!..but on that very day after our 1st date,he called me up and told me that thngs werent going in the right direction,coz he had no such feelings for me,so we shud stay aloof or i wud be the one to end up suffring..(that was a nice piece of advice he gave..a nice guy..others cud hav simply used me without my knowledge!)..i told him that i wud not bother him after college buut while in colege it is realy difficult for me to get over him..and he said he understood me and promised to give me suport whenever i need it..indeed he gives me..and since then i hav been either emailing him or calling him up to talk to him..
fine..but 2 days later he jus said sumthng to arouse my interst in him,and amy jealousy..he hinted about a girl ( i cant tolerate her coz shwe alwz uses my cap frnd for assignments..but she is least bothered about him..and my capp too knows about it too well!!)..and then he grinned at me..to test my nerves..likewise i cudnt help but falling in his trap..and told him i damn her..and that wasnt over..he started giving me so much attention,caring for me..and everytime reminding me of my special feelings for him!!why????
Afetr some weeks,i again told him how i felt for him..and asked him to explain clearly why he wasnt ready for commitment..and he gave me a number of excuses(he wasnt ready for any girl..,his family is conservative..,he is scard of being hurt..blah blah!!)...i know it was a big blunder i made..and i was pretty persistent(i am a pisces)..
anywaz even that didnt stop me frm talking to him or calling him up..coz he was alwaz nice to me and seemed to respond to my demands...it increased my dependancy on him..finally i asked him out on a date in our colege library..and believe me it was suchh a boring date..i was nervous..and yet alwaz had to be the 1st one to start a topic..although i am a girl..and he was kinda nervous too..but neither cud share a hearty laugh as we used to when we wre jus frnds!!..but on that very day after our 1st date,he called me up and told me that thngs werent going in the right direction,coz he had no such feelings for me,so we shud stay aloof or i wud be the one to end up suffring..(that was a nice piece of advice he gave..a nice guy..others cud hav simply used me without my knowledge!)..i told him that i wud not bother him after college buut while in colege it is realy difficult for me to get over him..and he said he understood me and promised to give me suport whenever i need it..indeed he gives me..and since then i hav been either emailing him or calling him up to talk to him..
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But besides that...these stupid Dxp medival lists are nothing by shitty little popular contests which I never win. How much a bitch do I have to be to get mentioned? I tried nice so that didn't work...I mean...this site sucks for that reason.
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I didn't even realize that that was the Muse of History...>_>
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Charrrrrrlie.
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Coming to this site is so much and you get to hear so many different peoples story!!And when good things happen with the people we care so much about its so much fun to come here and share and give others the hope that something amazing will happen to us..lol "hopless romantics" I say!! Whatever the cause Its fun, and it is neat to see that most cap have cap. qualities, and gemini, scorps, and so on!! However I think that if all of us ran the birth chart thing we would see soo much "truth" in those and then we would see things that we are nothing like! wanna know why? Cause we are all different and only God knows the ways...However it is very entertaining!! But I dont live my life by those!! LOL
I hear the new 20's is your 30's and so on and so forth!! 45 is still young...sweetie My dentist chick said that her 40's have been the best years of her life!!! WHOOO HOOO I cant wait. My daughter will 18.... you know how fun that will be!! If Gods plan for you is to be alone...well then there is somone else who needs your attention for the time being, mom, dad? Children, grandchilden...or possibly God telling you...you need him for the time being and giving him all that love..he he
thank you for all of your "experience in life, a litte wisdom, a lot of belief and hope and most of all strength to go on when things seems so so bad," it really does help
even if it does sting a bit... but you are a scorp!! lol
love, GEG
Coming to this site is so much and you get to hear so many different peoples story!!And when good things happen with the people we care so much about its so much fun to come here and share and give others the hope that something amazing will happen to us..lol "hopless romantics" I say!! Whatever the cause Its fun, and it is neat to see that most cap have cap. qualities, and gemini, scorps, and so on!! However I think that if all of us ran the birth chart thing we would see soo much "truth" in those and then we would see things that we are nothing like! wanna know why? Cause we are all different and only God knows the ways...However it is very entertaining!! But I dont live my life by those!! LOL
I hear the new 20's is your 30's and so on and so forth!! 45 is still young...sweetie
My dentist chick said that her 40's have been the best years of her life!!! WHOOO HOOO I cant wait. My daughter will 18.... you know how fun that will be!! If Gods plan for you is to be alone...well then there is somone else who needs your attention for the time being, mom, dad? Children, grandchilden...or possibly God telling you...you need him for the time being and giving him all that love..he he thank you for all of your "experience in life, a litte wisdom, a lot of belief and hope and most of all strength to go on when things seems so so bad," it really does help
even if it does sting a bit... but you are a scorp!! lol love, GEG
Damn HP... like I said you are the detective (and Nic ofcourse) Wow, yeah SL you would probably want to admit you like the guy... Seems like he thinks higher of you than you of yourself. Pretty out of charactor for a Scorp (ya know confident and all, being comfortable in our own skin etc.) Wow... You confuse the hell out of me, so I know you confused the hell out of him....
Maybe you should really concentrate on loving yourself before trying to accept it or reject it from someone else. Just my opinion...
Maybe you should really concentrate on loving yourself before trying to accept it or reject it from someone else. Just my opinion...
I'm not fibbing. I just picked the name on random...just felt right...>_>
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