Now What? Virgo/Scorpio
"I haven't said anything more about the card to him, but neither has he. What the heck? The day it happened, he agreed that he understood why I would be thinking what I was thinking. How about some reassurance here? Did I mention I'm the size of a circus tent right now! Almost 7 months pregnant. So, here we are ignoring the HUGE issue that's hanging in the air. I'm having trouble ignoring an issue like this."
Umm your pissed at him for dodging the issue and just like with the sex you haven't done a damned thing to work it out either. Does he need to feed you and clothe you too. I mean, can you initiate anything?
"Yes, most people don't have issues initiating..I have done so in past relationships, but I was never with someone that was so bothered by the fact that I didn't initiate much. But with our situation so far gone, it's become so difficult. Here's my tantrum: I want my old scorpioman back, the way he used to be in the beginning."
Get over yourself, you haven't done anything to deserve your old scorp man back. The guy is giving you more than you deserve by sticking around.
"To answer an earlier question, yes, we hold hands and hug alot, usually initiated by him. He's usually at the door when I get home from work (he gets home before I do) and hugs/kisses me everyday. He asked me once to "throw him a bone"..well, I did. I clearly told him that I would not do most of the sexual initiating in the relationship -- I handle plenty of other areas of our relationship and I look out for him."
Anyone else seeing a pattern?
" I was attracted to him because he was the "I Love You" guy -- said it all the time and showed it, showed up at my work with flowers, initiated sex all the time and is very affectionate. "
Which basically means you found a guy you could manipulate into doing providing what you want without meeting him half way.
"There's no changing allowed darnit!! LOL."
I know you meant this as a joke, but sometimes there is truth in jest. I don't know what your problem is but you have a kid on the way and you need to wake the F up and start acting like an adult in a relationship. Right now your every mans worst fear, a head case they got pregnant. You need to own up to YOUR situation that YOU chose and start realizing that YOU ARE HALF OF THE PROBLEM. You recognize the problem but every time you get advice on it you then scew it into being his fault and then hoping everyone is dumb goes "See, I am just the victim here."
Umm your pissed at him for dodging the issue and just like with the sex you haven't done a damned thing to work it out either. Does he need to feed you and clothe you too. I mean, can you initiate anything?
"Yes, most people don't have issues initiating..I have done so in past relationships, but I was never with someone that was so bothered by the fact that I didn't initiate much. But with our situation so far gone, it's become so difficult. Here's my tantrum: I want my old scorpioman back, the way he used to be in the beginning."
Get over yourself, you haven't done anything to deserve your old scorp man back. The guy is giving you more than you deserve by sticking around.
"To answer an earlier question, yes, we hold hands and hug alot, usually initiated by him. He's usually at the door when I get home from work (he gets home before I do) and hugs/kisses me everyday. He asked me once to "throw him a bone"..well, I did. I clearly told him that I would not do most of the sexual initiating in the relationship -- I handle plenty of other areas of our relationship and I look out for him."
Anyone else seeing a pattern?
" I was attracted to him because he was the "I Love You" guy -- said it all the time and showed it, showed up at my work with flowers, initiated sex all the time and is very affectionate. "
Which basically means you found a guy you could manipulate into doing providing what you want without meeting him half way.
"There's no changing allowed darnit!! LOL."
I know you meant this as a joke, but sometimes there is truth in jest. I don't know what your problem is but you have a kid on the way and you need to wake the F up and start acting like an adult in a relationship. Right now your every mans worst fear, a head case they got pregnant. You need to own up to YOUR situation that YOU chose and start realizing that YOU ARE HALF OF THE PROBLEM. You recognize the problem but every time you get advice on it you then scew it into being his fault and then hoping everyone is dumb goes "See, I am just the victim here."
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LS, do you know his mailing address, send a nice sweet congratulations card. That would be the best I think. Did you have any nicnames for eachother, if so use that instead of your real name on the card. That would be more personable. Something he can look at and think of you... What cha think?