Things you find awkward or uncomfortable

Posted by clay541

Posted by kmri365

Posted by clay541

Posted by kmri365
letting my mom keep my fav cat when i moved out

hell no! go get it now?

nah the cat was like 9 when i moved out it woulda been cruel if i moved him into a new environment lol but i do miss him

what was his name

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Posted by Whorpio
Depends how I die...

Posted by Endlessly-dreaming

Posted by Teena

Posted by Endlessly-dreaming

Posted by Teena

Posted by Endlessly-dreaming

Posted by Teena

Posted by Endlessly-dreaming
Hello everyone,


Everything was good for awhile and we enjoyed our time together. We were talking through texting and occasional phone calls from Feb-late March, and then we finally met in March. He then stayed with me for an entire week, so we hung out for a whole week and we got to know each other a lot during that time. After that we have been seeing/hanging out with each other every weekend. But I noticed that the texting got very distant for some time, as in we wouldn't text or call as much.So one day, I asked him why he stopped texting me and he told me that sometimes he doesnt want to talk all the time especially since we see each other often. Which to me was fine, but there was one weekend where we didnt talk or see each other ( because I was very busy with school work) and then I asked him if the reason he isnt talking to me as often is because he is losing interest and he told me no. So I continued to overthink reasons why he is being this way, so I called him twice at separate times with no answer, and I left it with a goodnight text at the end of the night. He messaged me the next day saying that he wanted to be alone for the weekend and that he didnt like that I was calling and texting even though he wasnt answering, which I get. But at the same time we argued about this because I told him that he needs to let me know if he wants space.

I'd probably react the same as him after this part.Not fair I know but I don't ask people when I need space. I can't.

Hmm, I see. I mean for me I was just more concerned over him losing interest and him not being communicative about it. As in, if someone I'm dating tells me they lost interest then I respect that and move on. So, because he isn't very vocal about his feelings it made me think that he just wasn't gonna say anything if he did lose interest.

Yeah I get it. I'm not vocal about my feelings either. But the argument would have scared me enough to push me away. That would be the reason for me to talk just like he did about not wanting to have a serious relationship. And hence the mixed signals(whether they were intended or not)Talking about your concern of he losing interest in you n how would you know if he does, he'd just stop trying if that's the case I guess.

I can definitely see how the argument may have pushed him away. I think that's where we clash because the arguments also push me away and then we come together later like nothing happened but I find that a little unhealthy since things should be cleared.

For the last part, I try to see it but I over think things a lot. It's something I need to realize and work on.

Lol! I know what you're talking about when you say you guys get back together later like nothing happened. I don't feel the need to clear things out. Till the other person brings it up the next time n makes it an issue, we're good. If you don't bring it up n ask for an explanation, we're never discussing it ever again.

Yeah! lol that's exactly how he is. Like he would just move on with it and not feel the need to talk about it. But then I feel like it ends up coming back like later. I want to have a talk with him tomorrow since I am seeing him tomorrow to just lay everything out on the table and move on from there. Idk if that would push him away more or if it would actually help the issue.

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Posted by compy
This guy is not going to have the patience to wait for her to heal, not to mention to try to help her ease the pain, at least. The most beautiful relations with Aquas start with friendship and real unconditional support, but he is too young and restless to understand it. The girl still pays attention to him, which means she might consider something more in the future, but not now.

To fulfill his needs for love (or lust, whatever), he should look somewhere else. If he wants something long lasting and serious, he should be there for her, when she needs him as a friend first and foremost.

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Posted by Shadowcat
a gun is being loaded

Was fun playing with you guys..

NOT -_-

Always so paranoid lol

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Posted by GraceV15
Aquas can be very affectionate. They love hard, they're just selective with who they show that side of themselves too.

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Sagiluv27

Posted by saggurl88
I spoke with him yesterday and am still in the same boat. Not much I can do. I am really trying to have patience with him but its getting annoying.

Are you overly emotional with your sun sag and cancer moon?

What sign is he???

I posted both of our charts. I'm not emotional at all. I don't know what all my "water" means but it just makes me caring for close family and intense with sex. I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama. I don't have the energy for it. I look like a girly girl but have a man mentality.

I don't argue or scream but I am aggressive. Most people think I'm heartless/ cut throat until they get to know me. I'm only affectionate in private. I'm not the huggy type.

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