The Emotionally Unavailable
i feel like every guy i meet and date is emotionally unavailable...and i keep getting into these situations where these guys are like "i'm not ready to be serious right now...but then i met you...and now i'm not sure what to do."
and every time that happens...we'll keep dating and i will get more invested and so will he, but then one day he pulls back and says "whoa, whoa. this is getting too serious, it's not what i wanted." and then they leave and i have to deal with that. or when they decide they are ready...they just aren't ready to be serious with ME.
it's never turned into a serious relationship for me if that's how it is at the beginning. and i always think i just need to be patient...but you can't change someone. they gotta do that on their own. it's more about how long you're willing to be there. i felt like i wasted a lot of time being patient...but at least i learned to just walk away from someone who isn't ready.
and every time that happens...we'll keep dating and i will get more invested and so will he, but then one day he pulls back and says "whoa, whoa. this is getting too serious, it's not what i wanted." and then they leave and i have to deal with that. or when they decide they are ready...they just aren't ready to be serious with ME.
it's never turned into a serious relationship for me if that's how it is at the beginning. and i always think i just need to be patient...but you can't change someone. they gotta do that on their own. it's more about how long you're willing to be there. i felt like i wasted a lot of time being patient...but at least i learned to just walk away from someone who isn't ready.
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it varies for me. i can be very compassionate and warm and completely shut off the next. i'm not sure if that freaks guys out, but i know it helps me get my way. 
Message posted by: wheelhomies on 4/25/2007 3:19:18 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.112
"Satan is a man, tiki."
lmfao...BLAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH that's funny
*blushing*
"Satan is a man, tiki."
lmfao...BLAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH that's funny
*blushing*
oops...thought you were a girl but I bet you have women chasing..don't lie
it is my gift,
but can be a curse now,if i start entertaining them.
it is my gift,
but can be a curse now,if i start entertaining them.
You wanna really get grossed out?
You know how when people get older, they get jowls and their skin basically starts falling off their face?
Well, other .. skinned parts .. fall too .. saggy.
One day you're out walking the mall, and your like, "Hey, what's that flapping against my knee"
You know how when people get older, they get jowls and their skin basically starts falling off their face?
Well, other .. skinned parts .. fall too .. saggy.
One day you're out walking the mall, and your like, "Hey, what's that flapping against my knee"
it varies for me. i can be very compassionate and warm and completely shut off the next. i'm not sure if that freaks guys out, but i know it helps me get my way.
YOU GO GIRL!!
YOU GO GIRL!!
please stick one minute in that last post. 'preciate it.
"*blushing*"
don't be embarrassed, it was cute.
"*blushing*"
don't be embarrassed, it was cute.
ewww DK, she's got cooties...
Thanks Tiki...we're always here ::gestures to the eyes::
Thanks Tiki...we're always here ::gestures to the eyes::
Damn I could do with winding down right now
Let me have some
Let me have some
No. You can still be feminine without being emotional.
Men seem to like a girl that can go toe to toe with them and isn't afraid of them.
Men seem to like a girl that can go toe to toe with them and isn't afraid of them.
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Message posted by: wheelhomies on 4/25/2007 3:19:18 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.112
"Satan is a man, tiki."
lmfao...BLAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH that's funny
Message posted by: notso07 on 4/25/2007 3:19:27 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.55
M,
You are not unemotional. Spare me the Aquatale.
Message posted by: DK09 on 4/25/2007 3:19:30 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.89
Unemotional women make sex good. Because they is animals in bed.
Message posted by: Lady_M on 4/25/2007 3:20:05 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.225
Notso...I was waiting for you to comment on me and DK's identicalness...
so predictable...
Had any Vitamin H8 lately...
Message posted by: tiki33 on 4/25/2007 3:20:09 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.42
I heart Lady M
girl you are one the coolest people on the board and I'm not even front'n...you seem to be the sanest one too lmao!!
Message posted by: DK09 on 4/25/2007 3:20:32 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.89
Message posted by: notso07 on 4/25/2007 3:18:49 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.55
Twins my ass.
My twins and I are way better than you two. We could kick your doublemint asses anytime, anyplace.
Nice notso likes our asses. I want to sex you!
Message posted by: wheelhomies on 4/25/2007 3:20:47 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.112
it varies for me. i can be very compassionate and warm and completely shut off the next. i'm not sure if that freaks guys out, but i know it helps me get my way.
Message posted by: tiki33 on 4/25/2007 3:20:54 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.42
Message posted by: wheelhomies on 4/25/2007 3:19:18 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.112
"Satan is a man, tiki."
lmfao...BLAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH that's funny
*blushing*
Message posted by: ~devil's_the_name~ on 4/25/2007 3:21:31 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.141
oops...thought you were a girl but I bet you have women chasing..don't lie
it is my gift,
but can be a curse now,if i start entertaining them.
I know women aren't giving you a chance to chase them...they are jumping in front of the hunter begging to be slayed lol!