What's something sweet I can do for Pisces?
again it's all about him in the words you speak. please stop being so blind because you're showing me the reason why he left you. it's all about him and not you. pisces men love women who are independent because that is what we are, but when a women loses her self than the pisces male loses all respect for her. he's a loser and he let you go, don't think about this trash. the only reason why you can't stop thinking about him is because you have no other guy there for you. he blindsided you and had a safety girl by his side. trust me go out, have fun, date other guys for fun, and screen them...
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Scenario:
- I met this Libra man 7 years ago. He was 30, I was 29.
- We are now married (4 years in August)
- Since the very beginning, he has been VERY sexually reserved.
- When i pursued he completely backed away, it seemed sex occured only on his terms.
- He was very awkward with it and not at all adventurous when we did have sex.
- The first little bit of our relationship, i was really bothered by this. I tried to talk to him about it, but he became very nervous when i did and would leave the room.
- I got angry when he did this and he can not stand confrontation so communication was and still is difficult (although it has gotten slightly better)
- Walking down the isle at our wedding, i still had the issue of sex in the back of my mind. The night of our wedding, we didn't even celebrate it sexually.
- We recently went to counselling, where we were able to talk openingly with counsellor and in that session, he admitted that he doesn't need sex - he can take it or leave it. This is a problem for me, because i don't feel emotionally connected to him either. He can't open up with his feelings, he doesn't ever seem to have an opinion and he just keeps within himself.
- About 3 weeks ago, we talked again and i asked if he had been in a relationship before me, and he said no. I was somewhat shocked, but then again, not surprised.
On the flip side to this, he is very Happy go lucky, in the sense that he uses Humor to defuse a situation. We never fight (we may bicker) and we enjoy hanging out together. But there is no passion and slowly i am becoming more and more distant from him. He is trying very hard to connect with me, but i am worried it is too late.
I am not sure what to do, or how to handle this because he is such a great person and our relationship is not at all volitile. It is not a situation i have to get out of, but it is a situation that i feel is not fullfulling. Does that make sense?
Sign - ME : HIM
Sun - Aqua : Lib (core you)
Moon - Aries : Sag (emotion)
Rising - Virgo : Cancer (external you)
Mercury - Cap : Libra (Communication)
Venus - Sag : Virgo (love)
Mars - Sag : Cap (lust)
- I met this Libra man 7 years ago. He was 30, I was 29.
- We are now married (4 years in August)
- Since the very beginning, he has been VERY sexually reserved.
- When i pursued he completely backed away, it seemed sex occured only on his terms.
- He was very awkward with it and not at all adventurous when we did have sex.
- The first little bit of our relationship, i was really bothered by this. I tried to talk to him about it, but he became very nervous when i did and would leave the room.
- I got angry when he did this and he can not stand confrontation so communication was and still is difficult (although it has gotten slightly better)
- Walking down the isle at our wedding, i still had the issue of sex in the back of my mind. The night of our wedding, we didn't even celebrate it sexually.
- We recently went to counselling, where we were able to talk openingly with counsellor and in that session, he admitted that he doesn't need sex - he can take it or leave it. This is a problem for me, because i don't feel emotionally connected to him either. He can't open up with his feelings, he doesn't ever seem to have an opinion and he just keeps within himself.
- About 3 weeks ago, we talked again and i asked if he had been in a relationship before me, and he said no. I was somewhat shocked, but then again, not surprised.
On the flip side to this, he is very Happy go lucky, in the sense that he uses Humor to defuse a situation. We never fight (we may bicker) and we enjoy hanging out together. But there is no passion and slowly i am becoming more and more distant from him. He is trying very hard to connect with me, but i am worried it is too late.
I am not sure what to do, or how to handle this because he is such a great person and our relationship is not at all volitile. It is not a situation i have to get out of, but it is a situation that i feel is not fullfulling. Does that make sense?
Sign - ME : HIM
Sun - Aqua : Lib (core you)
Moon - Aries : Sag (emotion)
Rising - Virgo : Cancer (external you)
Mercury - Cap : Libra (Communication)
Venus - Sag : Virgo (love)
Mars - Sag : Cap (lust)
And the roller coaster ride continues!!!
Tonight (Thursday) Mr Libra lets me know that he can't do dinner on Sunday night coz get this....he's got his daughter until 6.30pm and then he has to "do dinner" at his exe's house for a birthday...now let me tell you its not for her, its not for his daughter so I can only assume its for one of her other children......so I've been dumped for his ex!!! Oh but he can come over AFTER dinner at her place!!!! Great, another late arrival, another late night for a Sunday and another crap start to another week and no doubt things will continue as they have been with him doing everything his ex tells him to.
What the????
I am pi $ $ ed off big time now. First he replies within an hour of my invitation then lets me down 2 days later coz he kinda remembered there's a dinner on sunday night??? what the??? she must really have him in a tight grip somehow.
I should have just said no to him coming over for just the fun part on Sunday night...now, after thinking its all going to be great, he pulls this one on me!!
Tonight (Thursday) Mr Libra lets me know that he can't do dinner on Sunday night coz get this....he's got his daughter until 6.30pm and then he has to "do dinner" at his exe's house for a birthday...now let me tell you its not for her, its not for his daughter so I can only assume its for one of her other children......so I've been dumped for his ex!!! Oh but he can come over AFTER dinner at her place!!!! Great, another late arrival, another late night for a Sunday and another crap start to another week and no doubt things will continue as they have been with him doing everything his ex tells him to.
What the????
I am pi $ $ ed off big time now. First he replies within an hour of my invitation then lets me down 2 days later coz he kinda remembered there's a dinner on sunday night??? what the??? she must really have him in a tight grip somehow.
I should have just said no to him coming over for just the fun part on Sunday night...now, after thinking its all going to be great, he pulls this one on me!!
i just neva heard that.. so that kinda confused me..
I'm not even sure why this thread is called, "Virgo's choice".
It suggests that the author leaves such a big life decision up to another .. one to whom isn't even bound.
It suggests that the author leaves such a big life decision up to another .. one to whom isn't even bound.
Not a male Virgo here, so I can't answer that question. However, I know mine well enough to know that he doesn't care for concieted people.
From his perspective .. a gem is determined from his eyes and not the other way around.
PAngel thanks so much for your comment butI am far from being a conceited person but I do know my worth and which every good hearted person should as well...I just think that virgo men are so careful with who they give their heart to because when they do it is a wrap! My virgo once told me that when he settles down there will be no getting back up...
From his perspective .. a gem is determined from his eyes and not the other way around.
PAngel thanks so much for your comment butI am far from being a conceited person but I do know my worth and which every good hearted person should as well...I just think that virgo men are so careful with who they give their heart to because when they do it is a wrap! My virgo once told me that when he settles down there will be no getting back up...
Is is something the woman does or does a light bulb come on in your head that makes you realize that you have been blessed with a true gem?
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yes - the light bulb glows over their heads in DREAMS.
Then they START analyzing the bulb intensity i.e. whether it's 60W bulb, dim light , 100 w blub and on and on and on and on....
By the time they make final move your fuse will have been burned and you might have moved on!
:-)
One just needs to be happy that they atleast made out to hold a place on virgo list of "victims"!!
HAHAHHA
caprigirlwithvirgo...I like that one!
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yes - the light bulb glows over their heads in DREAMS.
Then they START analyzing the bulb intensity i.e. whether it's 60W bulb, dim light , 100 w blub and on and on and on and on....
By the time they make final move your fuse will have been burned and you might have moved on!
:-)
One just needs to be happy that they atleast made out to hold a place on virgo list of "victims"!!
HAHAHHA
caprigirlwithvirgo...I like that one!
lol. Actually, sometimes it's good to be confident in yourself like that butterfly, just make sure there are some actions to fully back up those words. They'll see the light, eventually.
They may not treat you like gold, but there's always room for improvement and really getting our acts together.
reniniba-chan...I most definitely back up my words with actions and then some but I guess even with actions you still have to be careful because it could all be just a bunch of game!!! Thanks for your comment
They may not treat you like gold, but there's always room for improvement and really getting our acts together.
reniniba-chan...I most definitely back up my words with actions and then some but I guess even with actions you still have to be careful because it could all be just a bunch of game!!! Thanks for your comment
I see....
But Lorelai, the character, is an aqua for sure...
Alexis Bledel is like Rory in RL...all virgo women, celebrities, have really bad interview personalities it seems...they come off bland.
As for Suki....hmm, she's a libra!!!
Kirk is maybe a pisces...he's too weird though...I dont wanna say aqua tho.
But Lorelai, the character, is an aqua for sure...
Alexis Bledel is like Rory in RL...all virgo women, celebrities, have really bad interview personalities it seems...they come off bland.
As for Suki....hmm, she's a libra!!!
Kirk is maybe a pisces...he's too weird though...I dont wanna say aqua tho.
"Message posted by: butterfly1107 on 4/9/2007 3:26:20 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.254
Listen honey...I have dated 4 virgo men in my life
Just some food for thought .. if, as you say, "I just think that virgo men are so careful with who they give their heart to because when they do it is a wrap!" ..
.. is true, then how much of a gem are you to them if you are on your 4th one?
Gems are in the eye of the beholder !!!!
Listen honey...I have dated 4 virgo men in my life
Just some food for thought .. if, as you say, "I just think that virgo men are so careful with who they give their heart to because when they do it is a wrap!" ..
.. is true, then how much of a gem are you to them if you are on your 4th one?
Gems are in the eye of the beholder !!!!
lol. yes. were going out today bling. plus im helping him move his things.
HE IS MY FRIEND!
HE IS MY FRIEND!