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Posted by GemitatiNo sex from hubby right? in 10 years? I don't know chile... I already told you what I would do... but hey, I'm independent. I don't wait on or for nobody.Posted by VenusAquariusI was overweight. And married then for 17 years.Posted by sultrykittyThey can't... guess why? There possessions, money, means more to them than each other. Greedy... sometimes the greed shows in other aspects of their lives...For example, @Gemitati was very overweight... she made it no secret. She wants it all... with security.Posted by GemitatiWhatever floats your boat. Seems like there's a lot of potential hurt there though. Seems like it would be easier for everyone to just cut ties and enjoy life.Posted by Astrology101Your opinion is narrow minded.Posted by sultrykittyWhen you become involved in a secret orgy... you want no part of. ??? I find cheating gross on so many levels.
I'm gonna get hammered for this, but the older I get, the less I believe that "side chicks" exist outside of a committed relationship.
A man who has committed to you will either a) not cheat or b) marry you. Or both.
Women know when their man is out playing.
Basically, if a man's gonna cheat, then he's fair game and no one is his main chick/side chick, etc. If he settles down with one it doesn't matter which one it was. They're all in the game together.
And I agree a cheater does have this mentality. They don't want to give up on anyone.
??????? gross.
We both married and don't have sex within marriage. And don't have sex outside of us. We have fighted it for 5 years.
Now as soon as he is free I am going to be as well. So I am getting all 'news' and 'problems' first. Some of which he doesn't share with wife even when it concerns their grown up children. I am the one to have a say. He reports to me on a development. I don't mind side chick status because I don't care. I just worship his ass! And I wouldn't change it!!!
? Away!
But hey, my husband's cousin left her husband for her manager. They literally live in a trailer down by the river. Her kids stayed with her ex-husband... who is not there father.
When the on-the-job affair was discovered, they lost their jobs... hence, the trailer by the river.
I haven't moved on him.
He loved my ass! Lately he said he wishes it stayed that way! So nor my husband nor him cares! It's my charming personality I think...?
I don't even mentioning my other ass-ets...click to expand
Except my babies... Venus love the kids!
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow???? I think you just put a nail in their coffin and buried them 10 FEET UNDER ? ... this was hilarious and made my morning. And good for you! Ain't nothing like having the person you truly want and they want you back the same. I think they are in fear of "gays" which is so immature because educated people who want to learn and open up to new ideas and things they don't know would not act in the way they would towards you or anyone to that matter. Very good read and analogy. Feel better friend ❤️Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSTalking trash is pointless and a waste of time, it's a never-ending cycle. I prefer to make it short & final. When you hit someone with a cold dose of reality, how can they come back from that when they know it's 100% true?Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowYes that's right forgot you aren't well I apologize... and baby? That's your SO?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSWell I am as sick as a dog right now. Just saw my baby off to class and now I took my medication & off to bed again.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowWell I'll be damned... I would like hear more about you but you tend to dissapear... I'll see you when you pop up again. Interesting take by the way.
Diss phrases are below me. They're just empty words.
I prefer to cut straight to the bone, go for the jugular. Nothing cuts deeper than being slapped in the face with the hardcore truth. Thanks to my Scorp Pluto, I read between the lines & see right through everyone. And I tell them what I see.
PS: they never like it because ignorance is bliss and waking up to the truth cramps their style . Shuts those bitches down instantly. And if they come back, I tell them what I see all over again and I'll keep telling them. I can play that game forever because I'm the fucking best at it and I love it.
I'll give you an example from here. I joined a little over a year ago with another account that I got locked out of. At this time last year I was a total mess. Here I was, a gay boy madly in love with a straight guy who I believed would never reciprocate and would run for the hills if I told him the truth about my feelings. The whole thing made me suicidal. I posted about it here and people were fine with it.
Several months later my life had improved significantly, and 12 months after all that happened, me and the "straight" guy are together. As soon as things improved for me, the haters started coming in, it was the same 3 losers every single time (Dastardly, Hydorah, Ands). One would make a derogatory thread about me, and the other 2 would help keep it going. The funny thing is they'd always do it on the times of the day when I'm not around, because if I'm there I'd shut those bitches down with one sentence.
And that one sentence is the real reason why they were doing it. Most people here are miserable, their lives suck. So, misery loves company. As long as I was miserable, they didn't have a problem with me. When I stopped being miserable and was spreading the joy around, it served as a reminder to them that their own lives still absolutely suck, and they couldn't stand that. So they set out to try and make me miserable again.
Unfortunately they kept failing to realize that a single grain of sand is more significant than those 3 losers put together. So the harder they tried, the more it amused me to know that they're sooooo triggered by my newfound happiness and they can't stand it. So every time they open their mouths, I'm more than happy to remind them of their own misery and that they can't touch me. They're still miserable and alone, living an empty life devoid of companionship and love. Whereas I won over the man of my dreams who just outed himself to his mother on Friday. She knew I was in love with him, but she didn't know we have been intimate for a few months now. He told her.
I'm an Aries-dominant Fish with Virgo moon & Sag rising, he's a Leo-dominant Virgo with Cap moon & Fish rising.
Fire begets fire
PS: those are also the same guys who are quick to label other people as catfish without any proof. They can't stand it when there are better people than them around. Dastardly is just a sociopath and the usual ring leader, Hydorah is like 50 years old and tries to act like one of the cool kids, and Ands is most similar to a mental asylum escapee, trying to live out his fantasy of being a playboy. Too bad that's never gonna happen with a face like his. They're also much more subdued when Dastardly isn't around. He seems to be getting temp-banned a lot.click to expand
Me:
Sun: Aqua
Moon: Scorp
Venus: Cappie
Mars: Taurus
According to my chart i would go well with someone whose earth dominant with a water stellium so i dont know hmm..
Sun: Aqua
Moon: Scorp
Venus: Cappie
Mars: Taurus
According to my chart i would go well with someone whose earth dominant with a water stellium so i dont know hmm..
Posted by saweetz1988Leos are very enthusiastic in new relationships, especially in the beginning. We also enjoy the feeling of love. However Leos can confuse romance and passion with love in the beginning of a relationship. So pace yourself.
Like, what am I expecting? This is moving crazily fast but I think we both fit in each other's lives perfectly. Like, it's crazy! I'm still spinning but he's already talking the future and we havnt even met! We meeting this Monday. But we are pretty much alike in everything in life! It's insane and a little creepy but I really like it. I just think, he's like a lion on fire? Would he allow me to go out Latin dancing? Like ???? Am I expected to b a home stay house wife lol coz I enjoy my independent life and I'm not sure if I'm ready to do a massive switch... I'm just trying to b mentally prepared... before I do the first kiss thing lol
I'm going to say right now unless you pump the breaks, you're setting yourself up for a pretty dangerous fall. While you both may have a lot of similarities, you still haven't met each other yet. There's a lot you still don't know about this person. NEVER accept exclusivity from someone you haven't even met.
Additionally I've said it many times, people take at least 3 months to start showing who they really are. Until then you may be dealing with a facade. You have no idea if this person has any glaring character flaws. Maybe he's clingy, controlling, obsessive, paranoid, abusive, etc.
Also why are you asking us if HE will let YOU go Latin dancing. You're an adult, no one can tell you what you can and can't do, especially a person you haven't met yet. Likewise why are you even worried about marriage? You're putting the cart before the horse here. Slow it down and meet the guy first. Then give it time to make sure he's the person he says he is.
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Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSNah, they're in fear of HAPPY people. They're miserable so they can't stand hearing about other people's happiness. I mean, HAPPY people will gladly swap stories about how good things are going for them at that time, and they inspire each other even more.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow???? I think you just put a nail in their coffin and buried them 10 FEET UNDER ? ... this was hilarious and made my morning. And good for you! Ain't nothing like having the person you truly want and they want you back the same. I think they are in fear of "gays" which is so immature because educated people who want to learn and open up to new ideas and things they don't know would not act in the way they would towards you or anyone to that matter. Very good read and analogy. Feel better friend ❤️Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSTalking trash is pointless and a waste of time, it's a never-ending cycle. I prefer to make it short & final. When you hit someone with a cold dose of reality, how can they come back from that when they know it's 100% true?Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowYes that's right forgot you aren't well I apologize... and baby? That's your SO?Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSWell I am as sick as a dog right now. Just saw my baby off to class and now I took my medication & off to bed again.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowWell I'll be damned... I would like hear more about you but you tend to dissapear... I'll see you when you pop up again. Interesting take by the way.
Diss phrases are below me. They're just empty words.
I prefer to cut straight to the bone, go for the jugular. Nothing cuts deeper than being slapped in the face with the hardcore truth. Thanks to my Scorp Pluto, I read between the lines & see right through everyone. And I tell them what I see.
PS: they never like it because ignorance is bliss and waking up to the truth cramps their style . Shuts those bitches down instantly. And if they come back, I tell them what I see all over again and I'll keep telling them. I can play that game forever because I'm the fucking best at it and I love it.
I'll give you an example from here. I joined a little over a year ago with another account that I got locked out of. At this time last year I was a total mess. Here I was, a gay boy madly in love with a straight guy who I believed would never reciprocate and would run for the hills if I told him the truth about my feelings. The whole thing made me suicidal. I posted about it here and people were fine with it.
Several months later my life had improved significantly, and 12 months after all that happened, me and the "straight" guy are together. As soon as things improved for me, the haters started coming in, it was the same 3 losers every single time (Dastardly, Hydorah, Ands). One would make a derogatory thread about me, and the other 2 would help keep it going. The funny thing is they'd always do it on the times of the day when I'm not around, because if I'm there I'd shut those bitches down with one sentence.
And that one sentence is the real reason why they were doing it. Most people here are miserable, their lives suck. So, misery loves company. As long as I was miserable, they didn't have a problem with me. When I stopped being miserable and was spreading the joy around, it served as a reminder to them that their own lives still absolutely suck, and they couldn't stand that. So they set out to try and make me miserable again.
Unfortunately they kept failing to realize that a single grain of sand is more significant than those 3 losers put together. So the harder they tried, the more it amused me to know that they're sooooo triggered by my newfound happiness and they can't stand it. So every time they open their mouths, I'm more than happy to remind them of their own misery and that they can't touch me. They're still miserable and alone, living an empty life devoid of companionship and love. Whereas I won over the man of my dreams who just outed himself to his mother on Friday. She knew I was in love with him, but she didn't know we have been intimate for a few months now. He told her.
I'm an Aries-dominant Fish with Virgo moon & Sag rising, he's a Leo-dominant Virgo with Cap moon & Fish rising.
Fire begets fire
PS: those are also the same guys who are quick to label other people as catfish without any proof. They can't stand it when there are better people than them around. Dastardly is just a sociopath and the usual ring leader, Hydorah is like 50 years old and tries to act like one of the cool kids, and Ands is most similar to a mental asylum escapee, trying to live out his fantasy of being a playboy. Too bad that's never gonna happen with a face like his. They're also much more subdued when Dastardly isn't around. He seems to be getting temp-banned a lot.click to expand
But these chumpstains have nothing good to share with others, so they instead make threads accusing people of catfishing, or making threads making fun of people like me, or making threads attracting attention to something stupid a specific member did like privately posting a dick pic or something like that. Anything to distract themselves from thinking about how shit their own lives are. Also another jackass to avoid is DonJohn (uses a Trump avatar).
He's allegedly an Asian model who instead trash-talks everyone and puts people down ala those other chumpstains I mentioned above. He's often involved in the catfish witchhunts too. The irony is he's most definitely a catfish himself. People who live a good, healthy life will be too busy enjoying themselves instead of putting everyone down like that. So there you go.
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Posted by The_AndsActually what she described is the essence of YOU.
What you describe is the essence of #cope
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Posted by Arielle83
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.
What the fuvk?
I don't talk to the love bomb freak.
Is this what narcissism looks like?
Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?
Oh I defo don't wanna try your "fresh fudge".
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Posted by nikkistarIt's simple. Ignorance is bliss. The truth is depressing to them, so they instead prefer to make themselves feel better by living in a state of delusion. Ands is a prime example of that. Although the harder he tries, it's even more indicative of the delusion actually failing to register in his mind so he tries even harder.
Let's discuss delusions people have
There are those that live in the "Glory Days". You all know a person, that loves to tell stories about their past accomplishments in high school or in their younger years. They live in the past, and can't step out of it. They are incapable of understanding that the person they were then, is not the person they are now 10+ years later. Physically and mentally.
Then there are the people that believe they "deserve" a certain level of physical attractiveness in a potential spouse, even though they themselves aren't of the same caliber as what they require of their significant other. Reality to these people is only the tangible one that they have built in their mind, but is probably not realistic to their current status.
Then there are the people that may represent themselves to the world as more than what they are. By that, I mean, that they may "say" they are X, Y, and Z to potential spouses, but are really A, B, and C. This isn't always something that can be proven off the bat, but its something I notice happens. I call this the chameleon effect.
Discuss your experiences or why you believe people would opt to be delusional
Posted by LadyNeptunePart of me respects that hustler mentality but overall if you have to deceive people for money it's just a nah. as trump says, "sad."
You wouldn't want to do business with me then, I do some shady ass shit.