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Posted by DistilledI really don't know where you're going with this. Children aren't part of my side chick/not a side chick argument.Posted by sultrykittyPeople have babies with side chicks/men-Posted by ScorpioTruthI'm not arguing that. But regardless of the reasons *people* get married, the *law* sees marriage differently than a non-married relationship, because society as a whole still sees a difference between a marriage and a bf/gf relationship.Posted by sultrykittyDifferent people have different perspectives on wedding vows. A lot of men see wedding vows as just something to shut her up. Both of my sisters have married and been divorced, my dad is on his third wife. Marriage vows don't carry much weight like they used to, clearly.Posted by DistilledBecause you've made legally and spirirually binding vows to each other in front of friends and family, and to future children, to stay faithful. I think that level of agreement should stand for something.Posted by sultrykittyYeah it is fair game out there for sure.Posted by DistilledYou're right, but my point was that marriage plays by a whole different set of rules, imo.Posted by sultrykittyI agree with parts of this.
I'm gonna get hammered for this, but the older I get, the less I believe that "side chicks" exist outside of a committed relationship.
A man who has committed to you will either a) not cheat or b) marry you. Or both.
Women know when their man is out playing.
Basically, if a man's gonna cheat, then he's fair game and no one is his main chick/side chick, etc. If he settles down with one it doesn't matter which one it was. They're all in the game together.
... But not marriage part- in this case this is not a guarantee. At all.
In fact it can mean all the difference for the games to continue on and increase the stakes.
I would go so far as to say (in general) if you're not married, there's no real "side chick" thing happening.
Why is marriage different in your opinion?
My ten year relationship with my sons father had more substance than my two sisters marriages combined. And we weren't married. Perspective is everything and while I agree that wedding vows are something sacred TO ME, considering the divorce rates I'd say it's obvious that's just not the case for everyone.
But this is straying far off the tooic of "the side-piece". I still contend that there is no such thing in a relationship where there isn't a marriage, or a commitment between 2 people with the same values.
...Or even people not married to each other?
What does marriage have to do with this?
Where is the law in this?click to expand
People have babies, and by law, the parents have to take care of them or surrender them to the state. The parents are not, by law, obligated to each other in any way, unless they are married or divorced.
Posted by SimsimiThe occult tarot I found on YouTube doesn't have July tarots yet.. is that the correct one ?Posted by SofiaV87Occult tarot, JamieandNikki
Tyler's tarotclick to expand
Posted by ScorpioTruthLike I said, the older I get the less like that I think.Posted by sultrykittyUnderstood. and I can see how that looks better on paper. But In the heat of the moment, none of that is going to matter to a woman that has history and emotional investment in a man. If a woman comes for mine, she's getting choked the fuck out, married or not. ? The other girl could be like "but you weren't marrieee" and before she let that "d" come out her mouth ill still knock her damn teeth down her throat. LMAO but seriously.
I still contend that there is no such thing in a relationship where there isn't a marriage, or a commitment between 2 people with the same values.click to expand
I used to though, for sure.
Posted by The_AndsSometimes I don't hate you! Lmao!!!?
Terminal Illness
He wants to mend every cubicle he hurt
Someone who I met recently. This person might not like me anymore but I've gotten closer to figuring out my own shortcomings and gotten the closest to ever solving them. The other people in my life have either left, came too early, or wanted me to fulfill their own whims and ignore my needs. This one just wants me to change.
Posted by Shadowcat??pray HE won't ⚡️you!
He found jesus
Posted by ChickpeasYou just had Easter?Posted by ShadowcatLMAO
He found jesus
Easter just passed.
No need to resurrect the old working relationship.
Should just let it RIPclick to expand
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Posted by ChickpeasGet naked!!!Posted by seraphPosted by Chickpeas
He lied before and speak very unprofessionally, that's partly reason I stopped talking to him.Posted by Chickpeas
And now he just dropped by my desk, wanting to resume the long chat.
He said When is your Birthday again ?
Remember we were going to get you a Vibrator.
That he made me a normal human being, and now I regressed back.Posted by Chickpeas
Just now, he said I once stood on top of my desk with short skirt because of cockroach.
Gold.
What should I do now ??
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Why are you so concern about nobody who means nothing to you??!
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Posted by sultrykitty*Like* to all your comments...
I'm gonna get hammered for this, but the older I get, the less I believe that "side chicks" exist outside of a committed relationship.
A man who has committed to you will either a) not cheat or b) marry you. Or both.
Women know when their man is out playing.
Basically, if a man's gonna cheat, then he's fair game and no one is his main chick/side chick, etc. If he settles down with one it doesn't matter which one it was. They're all in the game together.
I've said it before. Females be claiming a man as "my man" as soon as they are interested... just interested... "my man."
They even post here... "she stole my man. She knew I was interested in him."
Even sidechicks... "my man."