How to help my Pisces male friend in dark times
Hello just thought I'd come in here for some suggestions. I know Pisces men pretty well however I'm not a Pisces (cancer) so don't know exactly how they process stuff. My neighbour is going through a really dark period his dad dying and he has hit the 90 day reality check grief period of his long term girlfriend leaving him so is dealing with a lot. He is typical Pisces lots of booze and women drugs not such a problem but he is starting to go off the deep end too much staying awake for days drinking not turning up to work (own business) ...more women than in the queue for toilets at a festival. He came home at 5am drunk after being in a fight and called me and woke me up and just let it all out especially with his dad.
He has opened up to me and cried about both problems and knows he can come to me like a brother and has asked me to help him get his act together but only when intoxicated. I am not sure what to do as I'm torn between letting him get away with his behaviour to cope and knowing I need to help him tone it down even just a bit. Problem is most Pisces will live their life Their own way and you can't really stop them from my past experience.
What can I do to help him but let him deal with things how he needs to but also as he has asked me for help. I feel the fight was sort of the amber light as could have been a lot more serious but Pisces always have 9 lives and rarely need to use more than one for some reason.
Thanks in advance
He has opened up to me and cried about both problems and knows he can come to me like a brother and has asked me to help him get his act together but only when intoxicated. I am not sure what to do as I'm torn between letting him get away with his behaviour to cope and knowing I need to help him tone it down even just a bit. Problem is most Pisces will live their life Their own way and you can't really stop them from my past experience.
What can I do to help him but let him deal with things how he needs to but also as he has asked me for help. I feel the fight was sort of the amber light as could have been a lot more serious but Pisces always have 9 lives and rarely need to use more than one for some reason.
Thanks in advance
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Tough one..because the Gem male already comes burdened with a reputation whether deserved or not that other Gemini have fostered.
Id keep a very close eye on him, but dont make noise and nag. Let him see that youre not stupid, and weak. Dont ever be a weak doormat in the presence of a Gemini. If he talking to her, thats not good though.
Id keep a very close eye on him, but dont make noise and nag. Let him see that youre not stupid, and weak. Dont ever be a weak doormat in the presence of a Gemini. If he talking to her, thats not good though.
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by BrittnieVery quiet and shy at FIRST lolPosted by MoonshineLeoLol what is your boyfriend like???
Honestly i dont really like cap woman either, i have a cousin who is a cap and she is verrryyyy conniving in a sneaky way and i HATE that, but my bf is a cap and mmmmm he makes my heart race.
Hes very playful and very funny, we can laugh for hours. Hes very patient and persistent, he pursued me for months. They are very dedicated to work, he loves to help people (firefighter). MMM hes soo sexy and ugh i cant get enough. Sometimes he starts a fight with me just to see me be spicy then he'll ask me to come over and stop being like that. Even when arguing they are playful. Loyal...i can go on and onclick to expand
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In my fathers den..an oldy but still fuckin disgusting/disturbing..?
I have been dating an Aqua for a year now. The sex has been mind-blowing and to my surprise, it hasn't diminished in intensity. He awakens something in me and I seem to do the same in him, each time I feel ravenous.
I know that our signs are not typically compatible. Just wondering if anyone here has had the same experience with a Taurus.
He has a Taurus moon and I have an Aqua moon... + I have Venus in Aries and Mars in Scoprio; he has Venus in Pisces and Mars in Cap.
Maybe it's also that there's an age difference, he's 7 years older than me...
I know that our signs are not typically compatible. Just wondering if anyone here has had the same experience with a Taurus.
He has a Taurus moon and I have an Aqua moon... + I have Venus in Aries and Mars in Scoprio; he has Venus in Pisces and Mars in Cap.
Maybe it's also that there's an age difference, he's 7 years older than me...
I don't really care about Ands' sexuality. It's some irrelevant matter to me. Who cares if he's gay or not? The only time it is brought up is whenever Ands would say something nasty about my looks. After which, I would rebut him by saying, "look who's talking? You wanted to have sex with me!"
I dont want to bring this up but he keeps on harassing me by mentioning it over and over again. He couldn't move on. I just wanted to talk about other stuff now. It's getting really old and tiring.
Look, Ands, if you think people believe you and not me, you don't really have to prove anything anymore. However, if you're trying to convince me, forget it. I'm already certain about all the events that took place. I have studied fact-finding as my profession; you couldnt lie to me.
I dont want to bring this up but he keeps on harassing me by mentioning it over and over again. He couldn't move on. I just wanted to talk about other stuff now. It's getting really old and tiring.
Look, Ands, if you think people believe you and not me, you don't really have to prove anything anymore. However, if you're trying to convince me, forget it. I'm already certain about all the events that took place. I have studied fact-finding as my profession; you couldnt lie to me.
Posted by neves@neves Thank you so much for the reading. I'm really glad about the result. I searched for aspects or positions that are favourable for writers and most of the time, they talked about how the mercury has no major aspect with other planets (as in JK Rowling's case).Posted by gicangicanYou're asking the wrong question. Success is impossible to predict. Even if i had some psychic abilities - which allow me to see the future - and you'd be successful in that future... If i was to tell you about your success - you'd be sure to Fail. Since you'd do things differently - with this detail in mind... a detail that would sabotage your chances of success. In a different context... let's say you were the top of your class at literature - and based on your results - your teacher might assume that you'd be quite successful in this field... You may have a high potential - but even that's not enough to guarantee success.
Hi, I'm so glad that I bumped into this thread.
I don't know if you only want to read charts for couples or if you are also willing to read a personal chart but I'll try anyway.
I want to be a professional fiction writer. Currently, I'm editing my manuscript. It's been my dream to be a novelist but I don't have enough confidence. The genre of my books is melodrama, a bit heavy and dark; depression, rape, family dysfunction, suicide.
Does my natal chart tell anything about my being a successful writer?
Thanks!
And that's what one could see in a astrological chart: Potential. What you do with it - that's up to you... That being said... if your question was: "Do i have the potential to be a professional writer?" My answer would be... Yes.
You have the Sun (the core of your being) - in the house of creativity (among other things). And same goes for Mercury (which reflects our thinking / a creative mind - in this case). Your 5th house, the Sun and Mercury is in Scorpio - and you have a Plutonic Moon as well. Which can explain your creative interest - in subjects that reflect the darker side of humanity. Your Sun is close enough to Mercury - to have a shared influence (what i would call "a mental creature"). While your Mercury has an harmonious aspect with your Pisces Moon (an emotional nature which strives for expansion - for a broad range of feelings and emotions - as defined by the 9th house / a bit dreamy to - since it's in Pisces).
Also... your 2nd house (the house representative for self-worth - for our sense of values and how we hope to achieve that in life ) is in Leo. And the Sun rules this sign. Since you have the Sun in 5th - creative writing - is indeed a favorable profession. Even for financial gains (also something that could help - with your confidence - with your self-worth).click to expand
I guess I just needed some reassurance and I got it. Thanks a lot!
Thank you to @Blue_Froggie too. Even though this is a couple compatibility reading only
Posted by LibrasettingPosted by BiboroonNot sure if you're a male or female. But Libra Sun with a Pisces moon female was really intense for me more intense for her tho because she quit her job and moved!! Lol like damn
I wasn't in a relationship with Virgo/Libra, but had a roommate with this placement. We had a good arrangement and we were compatible as roommates, but couldn't connect on a friendly level. We would talk for five minutes, then she would start to have monologues until I got annoyed because it was apparent that she wasn't interested in what I had to say so I always left the room. She was friendly but a bit too self centered for me. I couldn't imagine being in a relationship with a person like that.click to expand
Lol this sounds like something I would do in my younger years. Maybe even now, for a right person. Yes I am female
Posted by firebunnyYou mean he posting this over n over? Or me saying that?Posted by The_Ands@Teena, how is this not harrassment?click to expand
If it's about him posting that over n over, he's just being petty. Very petty n cheap. He hit his lowest n that's the only explanation I have. I give you the same suggestion. Stop engaging. One has to stop at some point. He's a man child. You be the bigger person n let go. Or just block him!
N if you're talking about me saying that...
This is what he wanted Bunny! Understand that! To rile you up n for us to fight over it n create drama. Don't let that happen.The context I said that was thinking he was being hurt(because crazy me was meddling in your fights thinking you guys were not being serious to start with). N that's what I really thought when you said you were not kidding about him being gay/bisexual. Till that point I thought you guys were fake fighting.
IGNORE!!! Really!!
I'm currently seeing a bull (on a regular basis for five months) and my experience is similar to yours, even similar placements here (I'm the Aqua with Scorp Mars, he has ViP). We have both Gemini moons, it really helps with communication. He keeps me on my toes actually and vice versa, but the chemistry is really outstanding.