Met up with an old college professor off campus. He was a bit touchy feely weird.Should I worry?
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Teenaright?
Some people are touchy. But involuntarily or not consciously so. I wouldn't have worried in general. But he emphasizing n actually explaining that would definitely make me think ??
when people feel the need to justify their actions that is when I get suspicious
also one pat on the back vs like 5 or 6.
and two random back rubs
and the close sitting / close talking...like really close?click to expand
Lol! Yeah justifying would make me suspicious too. Or maybe he explained after seeing you getting uncomfortable? A very similar thing happened to me. I tried to ignore or reason his behavior in my head many times until one day he tried to tuck my hair behind my ear in a very ..umm..weird way.Also after that this professor asked me to come over to his place to take some books(which were so not needed) n added that his wife is not gonna be in town that night n also for few more days. I still wasn't sure if I was jumping into conclusions.. considering his age n all. But few more things following that confirmed that for me.
I usually don't notice things..yes being touched too.. unless it's very inappropriate to start with.Initially when my friends observed this about me they were like "Did he actually just do that to you n you're actually saying you didn't know?" I be like "What?" I really didn't know!! I either had them telling me what happened or I realize after seeing some pics "ok so this guy actually put his hand on my waist or yeah this guy was all over me"?.Me noticing itself is a huge deal n there sure must be something wrong lol.
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Lol y'all are cracking me up buuuuuuttt I've done nothing wrong. I really want to call and cuss him out but that will be me "giving in". He is being SUPER petty.
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Posted by lisabethur8Posted by CrabralolPosted by lisabethur8Posted by Crabrai was just posting about Venus and Moon in Gemini for men.
"Gemini: someone who you can talk for hours with about anything and everything without getting bored, who you’re completely open with, who you can be weird with, who is funny, intelligent, and witty"
This is definitely what I look for in a partner first and foremost. Spent my whole life dating leebs, when I probably should be going for gems.
you guys love the "hands" too and expressing that, and can't be bored.
You nailed it! Hands helps with expression, and variety helps from getting bored. The needs/desires of a Gemini/Venus moon are constantly changing. I feel Gem suns would be able to meet this variety requirement quite easily.
i was reading on those astrology sites that women with water and earth suns that have air and fire venus (esp. sag venus) get bored of the water and earth venuses, and call them boring.click to expand
Lol, I can see that. Being a water sun myself, an earth or water Venus probably just won't do. But I attribute that to my air moon more so than my water sun.
Posted by bittercupcakePosted by justpeachee03don't be dramatic. ... Aquarius aren't like Libras where we throw the word Love around and it means Nuthin' .... he loves you but is being petty and is probably sulking hoping for you to kiss ass to him
We been seeing each other for 2 years. The "L" word has been exchanged but I guess that means nothing.click to expand
Me??? Dramatic?? Nooooo...?
This is what my birt chart from Cafe Astrology says about my
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House VIII in Scorpio
Lots of vivacity and hastiness put life in danger too often, and one of these times could be too much.
8th house in Scorpio
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Posted by MiZLeo1. not anymorePosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI'm not sure what you're asking and the context as to why you're asking is the same thing. Correct me if I'm wrong but from what I remember from previous post and this one.Posted by MiZLeoBecause I got a bit of a situation with my Jed, and it appears his Leo cusp reared its ugly head lol. I think my telling him how beautiful he is all the time
Why do you want to know so bad?
(and him lapping it up like a parched camel)
might've gone to his head a little bit. He appears to be getting less attention from the opposite sex than me. Last week I got flirted on by a 40+ woman in front of him for several minutes, she would not pry her eyeballs off me. A couple days ago a new friend of his was practically drooling over me, had her arms locked around my shoulders and was hanging off me. And I didn't push her off right away. I mean she wasn't doing anything like grabbing my ass. And she did smell very nice. I was lucky to be able to smell ANYTHING with my sinuses so clogged up for weeks.
For starters he's fully aware I only like sausage so it's not like I'd be tempted to give her a shot, so then I got thinking "hmm he seems to be quite bothered by this". So he's either gotten territorial "bitch that's my man and I'm gonna drop you", or "what does he have that I haven't got??". Lol ok I don't believe he'd be outright jealous of me, but we do have a bit of a in-house friendly rivalry going for the lulz. Little shit has brought out my competitive side.
1. Jed is straight.
2. You are gay
3. You're not a couple
4. If you are a couple, no one is aware of this.
5. Women are openly flirting with you and you are not pushing them away(which to him looks like you are enjoying the attention)
Leo's do not like to compete. Which is what it looks like you are doing. He is going to be upset and it's going to be a turn off. It's not about if you are better looking than him, it is about you getting attention and openly enjoying this attention. In a romantic sense. In a friendship sense it is a competition as to who gets more girls and it's going to bruise his pride if it's you and not him.
That is different from someone coming up to him and saying "your boyfriend is hot, good job in snatching that one up"click to expand
2. ooooooooh yeeeeeeeeah
3. we are in everything but name. Jed outed himself to his mom several days ago.
4. I was accused of sharing too much here lol, people don't like to hear happy endings, only sob stories.
5. that was only the one and the whole hoolabaloo lasted for about 20 seconds lol. I really did just like the way she smelled. I have NEVER looked at pussy that way. the instance with the older woman, she never laid a finger on me nor would I have let her. But believe me, he did way worse recently, encouraging his male cousin to send me nudies of himself, testing me to see if my repeated statement of "I have eyes for only one man" is indeed true. He got spanked & fingerfucked for it.
And as it turned out, it was as I suspected. He's become more territorial. He is insanely cute when he's trying to appear irritated as if he's the wronged party, but ends up blushing instead because he's been caught out. He sulks and then the sheepish smile appears.
Wanna join us for an early morning run? I'm more or less 100% and still got plenty of flu meds just in case, and he's all perky even after the Diablo 3 allnighter we just pulled. "nothing a lava-hot shower can't fix" - words to live & die by lol.
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Posted by crocodileWestern population decreasing has more to do with the cost of living and astronomical debt as opposed to changes in dating and mating. But your 'blame women' mentality speaks volumes of your butt hurt.Posted by LadyNeptuneSo it is all about a revenge, isn't it?Posted by crocodileBut you haven't said HOW they are falling apart. Your one example is women divorcing their husbands and taking the kids. Not any different than what men have been doing for centuries...Posted by LadyNeptuneAnd can you comprehend that just because you can play with the words, the reality doesn't change. Western societies are falling apart. If mine is not a one fits all...then why the society falls apart? You don't see the connection don't you? But you can play with the words. Hows that useful?Posted by crocodileYour sounding a little dramatic, even hysterical. What's your sign?Posted by DistilledThat is a good question. And I have no good answer.Posted by crocodileThat may very well be in some cases. And that's thanks to all of us. Both genders allowed whatever is happening to happen.Posted by DistilledIt is today.Posted by CherrylipsRight on.Posted by crocodileNo. Not feminism at all!Posted by CherrylipsIt's feminism. It gives them an unrealistic image of themselves.Posted by crocodileWestern women....meaning americans? Or women in Europe too? I think it's global. And I think the social networks f***** things up....Posted by CherrylipsUnder normal circumstances, I would have agreed with you. I have nothing against anything you just said, except one thing.Posted by crocodileIt's better to be with the right one than just anyone....48...so what??? Stop putting too much importance to numbers in life.Posted by CherrylipsHe is 48. It will pass in his grave.
For some people it's harder to find love. It is what it is. If it's any consolation to you, it's the same for me. This "dying to love someone" feeling will pass. Push through! If anyone can, scorpio can.
I say he better go straight to asian women. At least they love to cook food for their husbands.
These women can't have the "right" person. Such a person simply doesn't exist.
I can get along with most western women if I want to. But their insanity, fickleness and unreliabileness is a big deal breaker.
Well, maybe I should tone down a little bit. Maybe their right person simply doesn't exist. Maybe I am lucky that I am a man, and have an easy way out of this situation. The existence of asian women is like a godsent gift...I cannot imagine what would it be if that option didn't exist.
In a way, I somewhat feel sorry for western women. Something really fucked them seriously up.
Feminism is not about women having more power or say than men!
Some people blame the 60's/70's. But those are long over- who do we blame now?
I honestly hate the word myself.
I feel that I am lucky that I do not have to deal with it at all and I can choose an asian woman to go for.
I don't think I would be able to deal with it if I didn't have an asian woman choice.
In a way I feel sorry for western women. They will get hit hard. They already are getting.
Perhaps they will learn to cooperate among each other like amazon women once did.
Can you comprehend that your choice is yours alone and not a one fits all?
My sign is same with yours.
How does that break a society? It doesn't.
Your so DRAMATIC.
The western populations are decreasing. Men refuse to marry women. Women are getting slowly bred out of circulation. That is how it is falling apart. And if you were attentive enough to my previous posts, you would have noticed that I have already said that many times. Why is it not clear to you?click to expand
Your way in your feels. So a female or two broke your heart.
Shrug.
Get over it. And get back to living life with the rest of us.
Posted by LePetitFiskHoly shit it is me !!Posted by Cancan26Posted by LePetitFiskI can't see it on my teeny tiny phone
aaaaaaand FYI:
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..does it say that a chick that has a cancer sun, Scorpio moon, Pisces mars is the zodiac killer... Cause it shouldn't ....
Most Dangerous Zodiac Signs: Who Is Number One?
https://www.instantcheckmate.com/crimewire/post/zodiac-killer/
Fckn tinypic resizing my shit. nevermind the jokes ruined.click to expand
But it would have been me regardless too many water bits...
