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Apr 10, 2016Comments: 4 · Posts: 606 · Topics: 26
For the last year I've had problems with one friend after another. To the point where I don't know if I even have any left, as I've had to walk away from a couple of them. Maybe it's an age thing (all were easily 15 plus years older than me.) Maybe it's a gender thing (all single men.)
And no, there's been no romantic feelings whatsoever, so that isn't an issue.
And all of these friendships weren't exactly new. I'm not exactly a people person, but I made efforts to get to know these guys and help them out as much as I could, spend time with them so they wouldn't feel so lonely. Help them during their hospital stays and illnesses. Of course, they didn't always have problems so we still hung out when everything in their life was fine.
They're in bad moods and overreact; it's my fault. They don't agree with me and want me to believe what they do; that's my fault. They get aggravated and start yelling at me, complete with F bombs; that's my fault too. My tastes and likes are juvenile, bland, etc., and they need to criticize; my fault. They yell at me while drunk; my fault. I'm closed minded, brain washed, etc., because I don't share their beliefs; my fault.
Everything's my fault and something is wrong with me, according to them.
None of these people know the other, so it's not like they're in cahoots or something. And it probably doesn't help that they're mostly earth signs.
Anyway, I'm left sad because I miss these people. Despite what I seem like on here, I am really big hearted and funny and kind. I have my moments like everyone else, but I am respectful, and I apologize. Perhaps a bit too often. I'm just so sick of it all and the fact that I'm going to see a couple of these guys at work soon (I am the "boss" of one) makes me nervous and even sicker!
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Feb 16, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 6172 · Topics: 7
Try to enjoy yourself today!!
I mean it.
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Sep 03, 2016Comments: 36359 · Posts: 40828 · Topics: 321
I have done in the past but the focus seemed to be too much on sex
If I dated again, I would like to wait a while to get to know the man and he I
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Aug 19, 2014Comments: 290 · Posts: 1716 · Topics: 107
If the design is cute, but the quality is shitty (think forever 21 quality) Would you still buy it?
If it's high quality, and the design is cute but it's pricey, would you buy it or look for a cheaper option that's lower quality?
What's the main thing that draws you into a piece of jewelry (design, price, quality, etc)?
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Jan 09, 2015Comments: 2 · Posts: 429 · Topics: 56
I'm a 35yrs old Aries woman dating a 35yrs old Sagittarius man for 8 months long distance. We've never had sex, never even really talked about our feelings although he has came and house searched with me for a home for us and our kids. Next week we're going on vacation for a week and maybe I'm nervous or over thinking it, but how soon is too soon for sex when dating long distance? Also because I've heard that Sagittarius loses interest fast after getting what they want.
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Jan 31, 2015Comments: 1573 · Posts: 6705 · Topics: 16
I don't buy low quality no matter what the design is.
Design and quality is what I look at first, then if I can afford the piece, great, but often I can't afford what I am drawn to the most, so I just admire. Because the price of gold is high now, I sometimes opt for gold-filled which is a thicker layer of gold than plating.