Houses and mother figure
Posted by AnxiousVirgo24Scared away many potential romantic interests with my cold selfPosted by EtherealTravelerI was the same way in high school, but for me in my opinion appearing intimidating kept the assholes far away from me, but sometimes it had a negative effect on my friends if they'd upset me they were always scared I'd snap when I'm in reality pretty patient. My mom's a Pisces and she's super emotionally driven sometimes I get her but other times I feel she's too emotionally driven it's just a weird situation.Posted by AnxiousVirgo24Never really told my dad about how I feel mostly
I have a Pisces Moon square Pluto (in Sagittarius) as well and I really understood where you said you were judged for your emotions. I know it's a lot harder for guys because of the stigma, but for me my dad (A Taurus with mostly Aries placements) has always been a "toughen up" kind of guy, and to this day he always says I need to stop being so soft hearted all the time. For the longest time I've tried to be the coldest most closed off person I could be and really I can (I believe it might help that my sun is Virgo.) It just you know...it's weird lol for me I'm still learning about aspects and the tiny details of Astrology, and I never knew my moon squared pluto was the reason I've felt so put down for my "soft heart" (Still love my dad to death though)It's only my mom that knows and even then I keep it secretive so in reality barely anyone knows how much I feel. My dad's a sag and he just kinda spreads his philosophy and antics about climbing and being successful I guess... He does try to control and manipulate me in subtle ways about some of my behavior though (I'm mostly immune to it).
I can also relate to being cold and closed off, like I bet I intimidated many people (especially girls) with my cold behavior at times. Those cold stares and glares combined with sometimes sarcastic, toxic remarks. All of those are ways to hide my vulnerability.click to expand
I think all my crushes thus far see me as a cold, silent, awkward person that seemed very bitter in a sense and arrogant too. But its fine. On the other hand, I've attempted to seek emotional intimacy and failed and as a result I turned a lot more bitter than I should. My friends are fine I guess, I just never really trusted them completely and sometimes I get isolated by my own will or just forced to be isolated. My mom's a Cap with Gem moon I think and she's fairly critical but loves me all the same. She influenced a lot of my life and I love her too, she rarely cries and gets emotional and is stern and hardworking like a typical Cap
but she can be nice. I'm the odd one here with feeling emotions so well and so much it's sometimes painful.Leave Your Feedback
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Posted by HarukkaThank you.Posted by DamnataI got anto big fight with my libra sister .. ??
For me nothing worked in dealing with my temper until I went to the extreme and got in a fight I shouldn't have gotten into. I got scared at myself in the aftermath of that. Mine is conjunct Moon and in the 4th so there is no mitigating aer/earth influence.
You have to find a valve to release it, be it competition/sex/sport/any hobby that involved physicality. When you feel ablaze in an argument, just put one foot forward and walk it off.
But yeah I need to something about this anger..
I will try what you said ..thank u Damnata ♥ u look great in your pic ?click to expand
What house is your Mars in?
when does he forgive? how long will it take? what do I do?
i didnt cheat or betray anything, just lost my temper a few times about his ex and at the last argument (May) he got upset, block delete everything and picked up with the ex. I've given it months to cool out and the 2 conversations since the last argument were civil. how can I fix it?
i didnt cheat or betray anything, just lost my temper a few times about his ex and at the last argument (May) he got upset, block delete everything and picked up with the ex. I've given it months to cool out and the 2 conversations since the last argument were civil. how can I fix it?
what does it take you forgive? how could someone get your forgiveness and possibly come back into your life?
Posted by SsupermanThat the Aries in your pic?
I go about 2x a month. Taking the Aries out tonight and thought I'd see how often y'all go out
Be checking for acid washed jeans in her closet. . .
Posted by scorpiorubyLook, I'm the last person to tell you to not go for something because my chart is heavy fire/water and cardinal driven. But if you go for it, you have to bear the odds in mind. And with someone who is 36 and has a "waiting" approach to their love life...I don't know, I don't see that as something I would pour myself in. Seems like a pedestal is erected straight off the bat and if you run into a Virgo who has very specific ideas of what they want...if you don't measure up it will leave you feeling worthless.
Thank you Damnata and Astrofan for your opinions.
I myself also think that at this point, he's not into me yet. He used to say publicly that women are troublesome but he didn't push me away so to me it's a good sign. He once told me about his past relationship in which it took him 1 year to make up his mind and confessed to the girl he loved. But unfortunately that girl ended up cheating on him. So it's hard for him to open his heart now. He also claimed that he doesn't like to play around and at his age now (36yrs), he want to wait for a person who can be his true love.
Considering the fact that we just know each other for nearly 6 months and I'm much younger than him, should I wait for him a little more while try to prove him that my feeling for him is real?
At any rate, go for what gives you peace of mind. See if there is any reciprocity there.
I go out on average once a week.
I party every night when I'm on week long vacations. Go to day clubs too and party during the day too. Surprisingly you get used to the 24 hour alcohol diet. It's hard to stop when you leave. Usually have my last two drinks at the airport and on the plane to go home. And of course that first drink always begins on the 6am flight ♥️Yolo
Once every 2 weeks.
There's not much to do here besides eat and shop.
There's not much to do here besides eat and shop.
Do sagg men take a long time to reveal themselves to you? I feel like this guy is just an enigma, craves constant attention but doesn't ever give me any personal info about himself.
also anyone know if we are at all compatible?
Him
Sun: Sagg
Moon: Libra:
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Scorpio
Mercury Sagg
Asc: Pisces
Me:
Sun: scorpio
Moon: cancer
Venus: capricorn
Mars: cancer
Mercury: sagg
Asc: Sagg
also anyone know if we are at all compatible?
Him
Sun: Sagg
Moon: Libra:
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Scorpio
Mercury Sagg
Asc: Pisces
Me:
Sun: scorpio
Moon: cancer
Venus: capricorn
Mars: cancer
Mercury: sagg
Asc: Sagg
Posted by compyYou have a point.
This is a personality test and has nothing to do with astrology. In the end, they add up points based on some criteria and then identify the final result with an astrological sign. The test is too short and too general to be accurate from the astrological point of view, but it's accurate overall in terms of personality.
I am a Libra and I got Capricorn, but I have no Cap in my chart. BUT - I am indeed introverted, I am VERY ambitious (Sun in 10th house, so extremely career oriented), I am cardinal (obviously), I am resilient (fixed dominant) and so on.
The charts that give dominant signs have a different way of calculating them and let's not forget that various planets/aspects affect various treats of our personality, but this does not mean that the dominant sign is what we are. We are actually represented by the Sun + Moon + Ascendant and slightly changed by the others.
I will say that the criteria in the test is questionable, gems are generalized as being super social and that's nothing like me. All my choices were introverted, self contained emotions etc.