Posted by GetMistedWtf do morals have to do with anything at all?Posted by SpreadLieswtf do morals have to do with the number of partners someone has had?
Yep
It lets me know where they stand morallyclick to expand
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Posted by OrGasMeHas she ever seen him dating ppl? Is this the first time ? Maybe she has feelings now & didn't before , hard to sayPosted by SofiaV87Posted by OrGasMeI don't know, have u asked her ? Maybe she's bored.. does she like to play games ?Posted by SofiaV87I wonder if she is just bored or desperate? And maybe she's now talking herself into him?
Sounds like she friend zoned him but wants all the attention from him still
I honestly don't get it.
It's not considerate of her.
But she says he is not the same to her. So is it all her fault to be treated differently now? Or did he just have an alterior motive all along and gave up? So now he doesn't care to put the effort into communication with her like he once did.
It's a grey area to me because can you really blame her if she's used to being treated a certain way by him?
I have asked her. I've suggested she's bored and that she needs to find a man if it's so important to her.
She insists she would never play games with him. She doesn't understand where her emotions are coming from. She says her and him have always talked about partners with each other. She's never been upset about it before.click to expand
Posted by EtherealTravelerMake friends with females in college. But don't put yourself in situations where your education plans could be derailed. I've found that Caps fall in love with those who we not only see as the romantic ideal, but those with whom we share an incredible friendship. It was the same with my parents, and the same with me and and my ex-husband. So, make friends...midway(age 20 or so)if you find yourself having romantic feelings for someone, make sure they understand the importance of your goals and that they are willing to support you as you see them through.Posted by AllegoryAddictSo when should I exactly start venturing again? At your age when you first dated or?Posted by EtherealTravelerI would if I were in your place. When Caps fall in love, we go all in. Right now, you need to focus on your studies. Your future self will thank you.Posted by AllegoryAddictI come from a slightly less long line of Caps but my cousins are Caps and they're one of the most successful ones in the family line (My mom's brother's daughter is a doctor while my dad's brother's son works in a bank). In my case, my grandmother and mother are also Caps, with my mom being a Sag-Cap cusp but still on the Cap side. I'm the slightly odd one out since I'm a male amomgst the Caps in my family line.Posted by EtherealTravelerI come from a long line of Caps (both parents and brother), and we were all late bloomers. Caps just like to have their lives in order before venturing out into the romantic world. No worries. Leo moon and Saturn in Scorpio.Posted by AllegoryAddictThis gave me a bit of hope. I'm 17 and never dated yet. So at least it shows that Caps can be late bloomers or simply get into relationships later on rather than rushing into one really soon!Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.
Also OP, what's your moon sign? I have Pisces moon and Taurus in Saturn and I'm insatiable in the form of materialistic goods and emotional intimacy.
I try every now and then to venture into the romantic world in all honesties, starting from 13. But sadly, all of those ended up in a fail and sometimes I got hurt and disappointed over it myself. All this time I tried to seek emotional intimacy, but maybe it's time to stop and get my life in complete order before retrying?
I've been teased that I wouldn't kiss someone before 20, should I not care about those remarks;click to expand
Posted by OrGasMeThe change would make most question it I would think. It was either just a friendship or it was people pretending to be friends but really wanted more? Or one was a friend and the other was seeking more. Sounds like weird expectations being placed by both of them.Posted by GetMistedBut she didn't know she wanted it at the time (if she even does now)
Wants what she can't have and she lost her chance.
Once he looks else where, it's pretty much over.
If she wanted it, she should have went after it.
And he wanted it. But he did not go after it. He failed to communicate. How was she supposed to reciprocate?
Also, I think she is put-off by the way he's treating her now. They've been friends for a long time and he's always treated her a certain way. So to change the way he's treated her, she says it makes her question how much he valued her to begin with. And if there was always an alterior motive to their friendship, ya know?click to expand
Posted by AllegoryAddictThe Cap speaks again with intelligence that can be remembered and used forever ? Thank you for helpingPosted by EtherealTravelerMake friends with females in college. But don't put yourself in situations where your education plans could be derailed. I've found that Caps fall in love with those who we not only see as the romantic ideal, but those with whom we share an incredible friendship. It was the same with my parents, and the same with me and and my ex-husband. So, make friends...midway(age 20 or so)if you find yourself having romantic feelings for someone, make sure they understand the importance of your goals and that they are willing to support you as you see them through.Posted by AllegoryAddictSo when should I exactly start venturing again? At your age when you first dated or?Posted by EtherealTravelerI would if I were in your place. When Caps fall in love, we go all in. Right now, you need to focus on your studies. Your future self will thank you.Posted by AllegoryAddictI come from a slightly less long line of Caps but my cousins are Caps and they're one of the most successful ones in the family line (My mom's brother's daughter is a doctor while my dad's brother's son works in a bank). In my case, my grandmother and mother are also Caps, with my mom being a Sag-Cap cusp but still on the Cap side. I'm the slightly odd one out since I'm a male amomgst the Caps in my family line.Posted by EtherealTravelerI come from a long line of Caps (both parents and brother), and we were all late bloomers. Caps just like to have their lives in order before venturing out into the romantic world. No worries. Leo moon and Saturn in Scorpio.Posted by AllegoryAddictThis gave me a bit of hope. I'm 17 and never dated yet. So at least it shows that Caps can be late bloomers or simply get into relationships later on rather than rushing into one really soon!Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.
Also OP, what's your moon sign? I have Pisces moon and Taurus in Saturn and I'm insatiable in the form of materialistic goods and emotional intimacy.
I try every now and then to venture into the romantic world in all honesties, starting from 13. But sadly, all of those ended up in a fail and sometimes I got hurt and disappointed over it myself. All this time I tried to seek emotional intimacy, but maybe it's time to stop and get my life in complete order before retrying?
I've been teased that I wouldn't kiss someone before 20, should I not care about those remarks;
Caps are ambitious creatures, and not everyone understands that. Just make sure you choose someone who does, and preferably, is ambitious too. Cap men appreciate strong, intelligent, and goal-oriented women who have things going for themselves.click to expand
Posted by OrGasMePosted by The_AndsPosted by OrGasMeHis aesthetics are the friend zone indicatorPosted by The_AndsPosted by OrGasMeRightPosted by The_AndsPosted by OrGasMeHimPosted by The_AndsWho's in the friend zone? Her or him? I'm just wondering if she's been in denial and actually has feelings for him.
There is no gray area
Clearly in the friendzone
Broheim just had the audacity to date someone else
The audacity of it all!!
She should find a new pet to feed her ego
I don't think she means any harm. I think she's in denial or wants his attention and is used to him being there immediately. But I think he was only there immediately because of his affections.
Which he never clarified what he wanted from her to me.
I know he wanted to get with her. So I don't really know if even as her friend he is coming from a place of respect. He may have just wanted to bulldoze her. ??♀️
If they are above average
He will always be an option once he throws his hat in the mix
If they are subpar he has to play the nice guy game and go with the puncher's chance
Lol. He's ripped, tall and built. He only wears nice/expensive clothes and drives a Beemer convertible.
If that's what you mean by aesthetics?
I've gotten to know him this past year. And he doesn't seem to date around or be interested in people. My friend told me he has been like that as long as she's known him.click to expand
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