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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWith your question of being strong but needy, just because I'm strong doesn't mean I don't need things. I'm still a person.
Also you need water sign friends they'll let you crumble abs I'll advice you to be open with people they might not know what you need. Be vulnerable.
That's strength.
And that's the thing, I do let them know sometimes if things get bad, maybe I play it off a little more than I should but I do say something. One of my closest friends, I finally had enough and I was just telling her how I felt really lost with everything and was in a bad spot, and I think she realised that I was actually truly hurting rather than just being low-key, and she told me she'd make time to spend a day with me and have girl time as soon as she was free, and she had a bunch of time and over a month later not a thing about it. That's not care in my eyes, and it took a lot for me to open up to her, and I felt like I could, but here's more than just talking I need when I open up to someone, I need a friend, a family. Someone who is willing to just be there and sit with me or hold my hand while I cry and tell me that they understand or that I'll be fine. I know I'll be fine, I know it'll pass but it's nice to have that, and when someone tells you they'll be there, and proves to not be reliable, and when a bunch of peoooe everywhere prove the same thing, it gets really lonely, especially when you have people going to you and you always keep to your word. It hurts. I put a lot into everything and everyone in my life, I constantly am working at my personal life and career, and that includes taking the time out for those I care about to spend a little time to see them smile and make good memories. But I'm just the fun one, or the smart one, the leader of my life, no one seems to see me as an equally vulnerable person even when I open up. I need a little love too.
And water sign friends are great...except I don't bode well with the men. The women are wonderful especially cancers and scorpio
Uplifting activities xx thats my advice. Aries friend got into Buddhism and it took away much of her Downing thoughts! She felt the support from those people.
im not telling you to choose a religion though lol but it could be something like the arts?
you know what your interests are and being surrounded by people with the same interests can help for a healthier mind..
As for people doing what they say they will and being there for you, its a harsh reality. people can be shit sometimes! but its nothing you can force to change in people... except doing what was said above, make yourself vulnerable and let your shields down.
I definitely think you need a new circle of people in your life though.
im not telling you to choose a religion though lol but it could be something like the arts?
you know what your interests are and being surrounded by people with the same interests can help for a healthier mind..
As for people doing what they say they will and being there for you, its a harsh reality. people can be shit sometimes! but its nothing you can force to change in people... except doing what was said above, make yourself vulnerable and let your shields down.
I definitely think you need a new circle of people in your life though.
I don't think Libra works romantically, but I know that I've cried over leaving my Libra male friends when they graduated school, and I've never done that with anyone. Never ever ever, only libras. There is a connection but the thing is never have I ever gotten too deep with any of them. Never have I had a deep conversation or something really really intense with them, just simple interaction and daily conversation, lots of love, and attention or another. I know they've had crushes on me but it wasn't completley mutual enough to pursue for me. But still in my heart they take a bigger place than most people could ever imagine.
Nope. My best friend appears to be this way (and he has a lot of pisces in his chart) because he's kind of a follower in his own way but a leader as well. He's a HUGE people pleaser, does everything by what people want to see or expect or see him to be, but then you get down to it, and you go past the sepurface and realise he doesn't do anything he doesn't want to do. He is stubborn and you can't make him if he isn't going to nope. He acts like he'd be a pushover, and then you try to push him over and you realise exactly how mistaken you are. AND BOY DO YOU GET BURNED. Believe me, him and I test each other all the time, always picking at each others boundaries, bossing each other around, pissing each other off. We are petty too, and I think everyone around us finds it amusing because it always gets joked about, but it's very much real and it defiantly helps us see our faults, helps us see where we are being close minded, and to open ourselves a bit, but it's so annoying. We need it though, lots of love between us, you can feel it from outer space if you tried. Point being....no aries is a pushover, just you try, push them with something they ARENT interested in doing but know where to stop poking the boundaries or else they will leave.
Posted by Capricorngirl1111They would look younger.
He is older and mature compared to a younger aqua I dated before. 37 years old. Give me some signs that an Aquarius man is in love!!
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Posted by LadyNeptuneHe's the pussy who wanted to know how to make his Fish gf dump him because he lacks the testicles to end it himself.
What's the problem??
You were honest and you got rewarded for that honesty with a 'dope' sex sesh. I'm not seeing the problem here...
Posted by Isabeau90Heh, I love comments like this. I actually go every Saturday to a Zen Buddhist meditational gathering, I won't say I'm a dedicated Buddhist but it is the religion I most relate to.
Uplifting activities xx thats my advice. Aries friend got into Buddhism and it took away much of her Downing thoughts! She felt the support from those people.
im not telling you to choose a religion though lol but it could be something like the arts?
you know what your interests are and being surrounded by people with the same interests can help for a healthier mind..
As for people doing what they say they will and being there for you, its a harsh reality. people can be shit sometimes! but its nothing you can force to change in people... except doing what was said above, make yourself vulnerable and let your shields down.
I definitely think you need a new circle of people in your life though.
And arts yes, I am actually quite heavily in the arts, I play multiple instruemts, compose, write songs, and am going to be starting dance again in a couple of weeks, and all my closest friends are in one way or another also very involved in arts. There's no real reason for me to be depressed or sad, I've picked my life up and fixed things a lot, it's not perfect but it's a lot better. I just have down moments and get really lonely when I realise I only have myself truly, even though a lot of people have me. And I know deep down that the charectistic traits I have that make me reliable will benefit me a ton, it also just sucks right now because I feel alone in it.
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And don't confuse me with Aneema, I don't jack myself off within viewing distance of my students.......brain rapist!
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeStrong doesn't mean invincible.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeWhy are you so emotionally available to ppl who aren't available to you?Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWith your question of being strong but needy, just because I'm strong doesn't mean I don't need things. I'm still a person.
Also you need water sign friends they'll let you crumble abs I'll advice you to be open with people they might not know what you need. Be vulnerable.
That's strength.
And that's the thing, I do let them know sometimes if things get bad, maybe I play it off a little more than I should but I do say something. One of my closest friends, I finally had enough and I was just telling her how I felt really lost with everything and was in a bad spot, and I think she realised that I was actually truly hurting rather than just being low-key, and she told me she'd make time to spend a day with me and have girl time as soon as she was free, and she had a bunch of time and over a month later not a thing about it. That's not care in my eyes, and it took a lot for me to open up to her, and I felt like I could, but here's more than just talking I need when I open up to someone, I need a friend, a family. Someone who is willing to just be there and sit with me or hold my hand while I cry and tell me that they understand or that I'll be fine. I know I'll be fine, I know it'll pass but it's nice to have that, and when someone tells you they'll be there, and proves to not be reliable, and when a bunch of peoooe everywhere prove the same thing, it gets really lonely, especially when you have people going to you and you always keep to your word. It hurts. I put a lot into everything and everyone in my life, I constantly am working at my personal life and career, and that includes taking the time out for those I care about to spend a little time to see them smile and make good memories. But I'm just the fun one, or the smart one, the leader of my life, no one seems to see me as an equally vulnerable person even when I open up. I need a little love too.
Maybe you shouldn't take time out for others aND take care of yourself or go see a therapist
Whelp all you're saying is how smart you are how much if a leader how strong yet you're crying life a little bytch here and you said you're depressed so...what's up with the facade
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I'm strong because despite everything bad that has happened in my life I've pushed through and made more of myself and have risen to accomplish a lot for the places I'm in. I managed to pull through even with people constantly telling me to quit, or to dropout of high school, I've built myself back up from an abusive home, and got out. I have scars. I have hurt. I'm strong because I'm not going to let it stop me from going after my goals every day, but I'm lonely in it, and frustrated that no one really realises that I'm hurting as much as I am.
I'm not invincible. Don't read this if it's annoying you, that is not my problem.
But you're right about me not taking care of others. I talked about that recently with my mom who said I am always helping people who don't even help themselves just because I'm capable of it, she told me to stop and only focus on me. She is correct just like you are. It's just hard to watch others struggle to come to surface and watch them drown. I've been there, I've been in tough places, i want to be able to build those people up the way I needed. Some people just can't help themselves, i like to build them up and give them strength, but I'm not recovered yet and I need to fix myself before I fix others, and I totally agree with that. But it's still very lovely here,