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Posted by Kityyyyyyy

I value and appreciate all the advice you are giving me, even the tough love speil, because I would give the same advice back too. I have done the disappearing trick because I find myself in a catch 22 situation now. I know I can't do a ling distance relationship, yet I allowed myself to talk to him for four months allowing myself to get invested. I am to blame for my situation. And yes, I was hoping for a grand gesture. I've totally ballsed up the situationship yes. So you still believe it's in my best interest to actually meet knowing this information Yes?.
yeah, i do think you should meet him.

don't worry too much about making a mess of the situation. it's nothing that can't be undone.

you might find when you meet him, "oh god, he is not for me" or it will be a case of "he is so great, i want to see where this goes". you might find you feel different about the long distance thing. perhaps you can find a compromise you can be happy with or maybe his travelling will come to an end at some point and you will be happy to work on building a relationship until then.

none of this you can work out until you actually meet him.

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