Do Scorpios waist their time with girls they don't like?
Posted by sweet_cancerWaste. (I have a 32" waist).
Let's say that a Scorpio talks to a girl from time to time and tries and tries to get to know her and talk about topics with her. Of course, he's always the initiator.
What would be a Scorpio's true intentions behind this? Do they have an interest in the girl or they just talk to her for no reason?
Would you talk to a girl you're not interested in?
Is there such a thing such as just friendship to a Scorpio. Or they always want something more with the girl they communicate with?
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what about the narcissistic who doesn't look good?
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Posted by tizianiI gave it a thought for a little more while. That has been the case many times yes...but not always like I said. I don't know what exactly made these people feel threatened. Just bringing the other person up in a conversation was enough for them to speak something negative about them.Posted by TeenaPosted by tizianiPosted by TeenaPosted by ChuckcemI dunno if attracting mates is the sole reason...but I never came across a guy who spoke all good about another guy even if they both are really good friends. I'm not saying they lie. But they tend to highlight this other person's negative traits a lot. This usually happens when the person (girl) they're talking to know both the guys. And I saw this happening among guys a loooot more than among girls.
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Women don't necessarily become jealous of other women for this same reason. Women have been known to wear fashionable clothes for the sake of boosting their appeal in front of other women, not just men. Women like to feel desirable and often showcase this in a number of ways. While this can be for the sake of attracting a mate, it's not always for that purpose. Men will also typically wear fashionable clothes for the sake of boosting their status in front of other women, but not necessarily for other men.
To put it simply, men don't really care what other men think unless it means showing our potential/ability to mate (looks, status, cloths, money etc). Men probably wouldn't care to have any of these things if women weren't involved. Yes as men we do like our "toys", but we are also aware of how these items raise our appeal to potential mates.
N as for OPs question, I didn't see guys criticizing other guys' looks much. It has always been about their general nature.
I've seen this happen but only after the woman praises one of the guys outright.
I wanted to add that too.. it is not always the case. I think it's more about them feeling we like the dude rather than we actually liking them ?
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You're all up in here discussing schedules, proper ways to have oral, and all this dry as fuck bullshit. Guys are picking up on that and going lol no.
If you already had sex with all three of those dudes and they turned you down for round 2, chances are you're boring in the sack and/or are just as dry and clinical in the bedroom as you are talking about it.
You sound like you're reading from a freaking manual when approaching sex. Stop that ish.
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I'm clinical on here because that's just how I am in writing and when I'm trying to learn/understand something.
And I never even met those 3 guys in person.
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You're treating all of this as if it has an instruction manual.
You only can learn from actual interaction. Not texting. Tinder and all that other shit you speak of is written form and you come off dry and boring via text. Do you have any of these convos face to face with these dudes?
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Fuck, if you can't handle going anywhere alone, why would you think you could handle any of this? How about you work on being able to go out alone and go from there?
Guys are picking up on your vibe and it screams weirdo.
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Posted by ChuckcemTrue^Posted by TeenaAttracting a mate was the point in this case. A lot of guys make the mistake of putting down a guy to make themselves look better in front of possible mates. That's not to say that a viable mate is always present in these scenarios, but this happens a LOT when men are looking to talk to make themselves look better in the face of potential competitionPosted by ChuckcemI dunno if attracting mates is the sole reason...but I never came across a guy who spoke all good about another guy even if they both are really good friends. I'm not saying they lie. But they tend to highlight this other person's negative traits a lot. This usually happens when the person (girl) they're talking to know both the guys. And I saw this happening among guys a loooot more than among girls.
It's a bit different. Men generally only get jealous of other men when it comes to attracting a mate. A man could be a complete slob if it meant he could still attract quality women (or other men). The status, clothes, looks, money all mean nothing otherwise.
Women don't necessarily become jealous of other women for this same reason. Women have been known to wear fashionable clothes for the sake of boosting their appeal in front of other women, not just men. Women like to feel desirable and often showcase this in a number of ways. While this can be for the sake of attracting a mate, it's not always for that purpose. Men will also typically wear fashionable clothes for the sake of boosting their status in front of other women, but not necessarily for other men.
To put it simply, men don't really care what other men think unless it means showing our potential/ability to mate (looks, status, cloths, money etc). Men probably wouldn't care to have any of these things if women weren't involved. Yes as men we do like our "toys", but we are also aware of how these items raise our appeal to potential mates.
N as for OPs question, I didn't see guys criticizing other guys' looks much. It has always been about their general nature.click to expand
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Posted by sierraleooneUmm... nope lol! I think you lost me?Posted by Teenaoh then you only meant that guys when they talk about other guys almost always never just talk about positive but also negatives?Posted by sierraleooneNo no no! None of what I said is related to looks. But what you said can also be one case.Posted by Teenawell if you're jealous of someone's looks... not much you can do about that.. i mean you can't change someone's face or looksPosted by ChuckcemI dunno if attracting mates is the sole reason...but I never came across a guy who spoke all good about another guy even if they both are really good friends. I'm not saying they lie. But they tend to highlight this other person's negative traits a lot. This usually happens when the person (girl) they're talking to know both the guys. And I saw this happening among guys a loooot more than among girls.
It's a bit different. Men generally only get jealous of other men when it comes to attracting a mate. A man could be a complete slob if it meant he could still attract quality women (or other men). The status, clothes, looks, money all mean nothing otherwise.
Women don't necessarily become jealous of other women for this same reason. Women have been known to wear fashionable clothes for the sake of boosting their appeal in front of other women, not just men. Women like to feel desirable and often showcase this in a number of ways. While this can be for the sake of attracting a mate, it's not always for that purpose. Men will also typically wear fashionable clothes for the sake of boosting their status in front of other women, but not necessarily for other men.
To put it simply, men don't really care what other men think unless it means showing our potential/ability to mate (looks, status, cloths, money etc). Men probably wouldn't care to have any of these things if women weren't involved. Yes as men we do like our "toys", but we are also aware of how these items raise our appeal to potential mates.
N as for OPs question, I didn't see guys criticizing other guys' looks much. It has always been about their general nature.
so i guess from what you said.. guys who are jealous of other guys' looks tend to try to say a lot of negative things about their attitude or nature?click to expand
Idk how to make it simpler ?
I meant looks aren't the reason for guys to talk something negative about the other guys...but can be one reason maybe. I think I just repeated what I said?
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Tell her this in person. Just come clean about how you feel and explain you just need some time and space to get over your feelings so that you can have a proper friendship.
Posted by sierraleooneI've had experiences with both. The first one is the best option because the second guy is a liability. He may turn off the women at ANY point in the encounter, thereby ruining my chances. The first guy will only add to the night while the second guy will only take away from it.
like a sort of wingman
A dude who looks very good-looking but is pretty chill, nice and humble about it?
or
A dude who looks very good-looking but is an absolute narcissistic doosh about it?