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So me and this guy have been dating for like a year now before this we were like best friends. Its all good when we meet up, it's fun and we get along for the most part, he'l constantly make fun of me in a friendly teasing way of course and takes care of me at the time. But for me there are a few issues and i've put up with it a long while, recently it's been getting too much to handle though because I knew how he was with his exes in comparison.
With one ex for example he wrote her love letters and was so affectionate towards her brought her gifts, celebrated her birthday and valentines day, the other ex I saw the kind of stuff he wrote to her in text messages. Like caring thoughtful messages. even I miss you, I wanna hold you, I love you etc etc. So that's one thing that's missing, any kind of emotion. Im not an overly emotional person myself but it would be nice for him to show me some expression of emotion. I guess it's weird because we started as friends and at that transition point he said he felt more for me and he likes me in the more than friends way as his feelings developed. But since that point he just doesn't express himself. I don't much either but as the man I expect it from him first.
when I bring it up he comes out with all kinds of reasons such as the previous women gave him sex and that love is physical and emotional and he does bring that up a lot. I don't believe in sex before marriage. he says he holds back because of that as if ill get all the emotions if I give.him the physical side of things.
The next issue is in between us meeting up he barely initiates messages, but when I do he's pretty friendly enough and replies quick enough, when I stop initiating for a while he'l be like.where have you been why didn't I message and I thnk well why didn't you.
The last few weeks I became moodier with.him as evrything was building up. First I said let's meet on tuesday about two weeks back he was lik I should know he doesn't meet on tuesday and to meet friday (he makes a fuss over what day we can meet too ) or the following week, I said ok but I was ill the following week ..n then the week after that which ws last week he cancelled because he has to help his friend with his wedding plans, but most of that week I knew he ws simply going out with his friends and enjoying himself. BUT he dd say he hadn't seen them in months so I thought ok fine.
I got a little angry over all that still and he just laughed at me n said why am I going so crazy but when I stopped talking to him for a while he kept messaging me trying to cheer me up and then said ok we.can go away on holiday for a few days. That's the only time in a long time he's made an effort to keep me in is life.
Two days ago now what happened was I showed him a picture of a couple of instagram and said they look so in love and look what he says about her. I said you should be more affectionate like.him you're just cold and empty. He then proceeded to make a comment which did it for me. He said maybe if you dressed up like the woman and actually made an effort to dress up I would be like that with you. he was half joking half being serious but that really didn't help. its like he's coming up with yet another reason why he isn't the way I want him to be.
he then said if you need help I can get you someone who can help you dress better. Also it doesn't help the fact that I know he follows about 700 woman on instagram whther they're make up artists or models, but complete randoms. Its just weird to me to follow that many woman. I usually stick to a few celebrities maybe and a few people I know.
anyway that was enough for me at that time I just flipped and said you know what you do what you like and I'll do what I like and he said alright good luck so I blocked.him on social media. and we havnt spoken since.
I just don't know what to do now did I take it.too much to heart because he is constantly kidding around with me and am I over reacting. I feel like deep down he definitely has a soft spot for me since we have been friends for a good eight years now and it ws better when we wer friends because since it.became "more" iv just not seen eye to eye with him and he doesn't give me what I want I.e the emotions and according to him I don't give.him anything sexually and that's what he wants
With one ex for example he wrote her love letters and was so affectionate towards her brought her gifts, celebrated her birthday and valentines day, the other ex I saw the kind of stuff he wrote to her in text messages. Like caring thoughtful messages. even I miss you, I wanna hold you, I love you etc etc. So that's one thing that's missing, any kind of emotion. Im not an overly emotional person myself but it would be nice for him to show me some expression of emotion. I guess it's weird because we started as friends and at that transition point he said he felt more for me and he likes me in the more than friends way as his feelings developed. But since that point he just doesn't express himself. I don't much either but as the man I expect it from him first.
when I bring it up he comes out with all kinds of reasons such as the previous women gave him sex and that love is physical and emotional and he does bring that up a lot. I don't believe in sex before marriage. he says he holds back because of that as if ill get all the emotions if I give.him the physical side of things.
The next issue is in between us meeting up he barely initiates messages, but when I do he's pretty friendly enough and replies quick enough, when I stop initiating for a while he'l be like.where have you been why didn't I message and I thnk well why didn't you.
The last few weeks I became moodier with.him as evrything was building up. First I said let's meet on tuesday about two weeks back he was lik I should know he doesn't meet on tuesday and to meet friday (he makes a fuss over what day we can meet too ) or the following week, I said ok but I was ill the following week ..n then the week after that which ws last week he cancelled because he has to help his friend with his wedding plans, but most of that week I knew he ws simply going out with his friends and enjoying himself. BUT he dd say he hadn't seen them in months so I thought ok fine.
I got a little angry over all that still and he just laughed at me n said why am I going so crazy but when I stopped talking to him for a while he kept messaging me trying to cheer me up and then said ok we.can go away on holiday for a few days. That's the only time in a long time he's made an effort to keep me in is life.
Two days ago now what happened was I showed him a picture of a couple of instagram and said they look so in love and look what he says about her. I said you should be more affectionate like.him you're just cold and empty. He then proceeded to make a comment which did it for me. He said maybe if you dressed up like the woman and actually made an effort to dress up I would be like that with you. he was half joking half being serious but that really didn't help. its like he's coming up with yet another reason why he isn't the way I want him to be.
he then said if you need help I can get you someone who can help you dress better. Also it doesn't help the fact that I know he follows about 700 woman on instagram whther they're make up artists or models, but complete randoms. Its just weird to me to follow that many woman. I usually stick to a few celebrities maybe and a few people I know.
anyway that was enough for me at that time I just flipped and said you know what you do what you like and I'll do what I like and he said alright good luck so I blocked.him on social media. and we havnt spoken since.
I just don't know what to do now did I take it.too much to heart because he is constantly kidding around with me and am I over reacting. I feel like deep down he definitely has a soft spot for me since we have been friends for a good eight years now and it ws better when we wer friends because since it.became "more" iv just not seen eye to eye with him and he doesn't give me what I want I.e the emotions and according to him I don't give.him anything sexually and that's what he wants
Posted by m200991Posted by Cancan26I've learned it's pointless to argue with 'Fate' and 'RNGesus', as they call Murphy and Chance to handle up on their light work. Those mo'fkr's don't play right.Posted by m200991Why would vote her... She is townie...
@Shadowcat
RNGesus has spoken, and so it shall be. I vote @GC02click to expand
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Posted by FafaBut a few months isn't enough time to really know someone. I'm not going to be spouting "I love u's" and planning the wedding and baby names and shit. And if he's doing that it's a big neon red flag.Posted by Arielle83But what if commitment is what they want and if ur not about it they will exit. Not everyone looking to date. I have a friend who married after one year. 6 years strong aqua and libra baby on the way. And they are so damn cute togetherPosted by LadyNeptuneYa to me it's a sign of insecurity if someone tries to rush you into commitment.
Seems perfectly sane to me. I don't give away my heart easily. It's gonna take more than a few months to prove yourself to me.click to expand
It's not like we can't keep dating. Just saying that a few months isn't long enough for me to become attached. Taurus Venus.
Posted by xghyPeople are attracted to what they are attracted to.......it might not make sense ...or be logical ...
Being attractive doesn't equate being likeable. You have to master your own gift/talent/skill.
Work with what you have and know how to use it -that goes for attractive people.
People like what they like. There is not formula to being likeable
Generally, better looking people have better lives. It is the exception that is otherwise.
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Fourth...she will never compete with your brightly coloured yummy foodPosted by TauruswithspunkPosted by Evoxxxscorpio2??? did you say grade school .... I'm crying laughing yo.... now that's little boy shit frfrPosted by Tauruswithspunkheck I'm guilty of doing that back in grade school.Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Now this makes perfect fucking sense lol. That just might be the issue lol.
Lol the heck are you sure they're men not boys?
You ain't getting shit like that from me. If I'm not texting you it could mean 3 things. First I just don't like you. Second I'm busy with work but you'll still get a simple text. Third you just suck balls and I'd rather break with you at a later time. Lolclick to expand
Never *come* between an Evo and his food
Haha
And now I just can't sleep. I sooooo need this vacation. I don't think the Scorpio is too excited I'm going! Haha Let's hope I don't get a hangover the first night and ruin my damn trip! ???
My outfits are fire! I'm most excited about that!
My outfits are fire! I'm most excited about that!
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by PhoenixRisingI'm crazy?
I don't know the backstory, but isn't "I'm just not totally feeling us and for that reason it's best to part ways" enough of a reason to simply move on? What type of "closure" are you looking for?
More importantly, what else could he say that will not lead you to personalize and play his words over and over again in your head?
I want to know what about me turns him off
I need to know if I'm weird or if I give off crazy desperate vibes.
Idk i love torturing myself and I can't let goclick to expand
Yeah, I figured that out after reading two posts. More like masochist vs crazy.
Just from reading some of your stuff though, you give off a "I don't know what they f*ck I'm doing" vibe in a non grounded way. Like you don't know what you want, need or how to truly get it. That may translate into "desperate" outside of DXP, I don't know. I do know that the lack of stability and confidence would be....unnerving to me in real life. Possibly a turn off to most. In other words, if the intention was to simply have sex, then stick to the script. Trouble is, I question if your intention was truly just sex and you just went about achieving your goal the wrong way.
Posted by LePetitFiskJesus. I feel her breast would crack my jaw if I tried to motorboat.
Forget this guy. Let's start picking out some workout outfits for you to wear in the gym...
Erm.... I was talking about their passion, drive, technique or lack there of. Just my personal opinion .