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Jul 27, 2016Comments: 0 · Posts: 561 · Topics: 16
"Is he really interested and wants time or is he using me as a backup" can be a very difficult question to answer. The problem is both these kinds act similarly and honestly we girls have to just take a risk and decide for ourselves going by our gut or we have to wait till the climax to figure it out.
And when we're emotionally dependent on them, the decision can be really difficult to make. It is tiring. The best solution I think is to set a time limit for him to gather his senses and let him be - just be yourself and don't tell him about the time limit. If even after a significant period, he's not giving you what you'd want, go by your decision without giving him any concern! Cheers!