Lost my big girl pants...
Life is not about doing ONLY what you want, or what suits you.
In this case is just 24 hrs.....really, get over yourself, it's laughable.
I agree with Gemitati.
In this case is just 24 hrs.....really, get over yourself, it's laughable.
I agree with Gemitati.
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Signed Up: Mar 31, 2017
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Posted by Smidge
the same way you do, only better
Oh really? Give us tips.
Posted by SmidgeI am a Gemini! Nobody is 'better' than is at it! Pick your own strength!
the same way you do, only better
And really? How can you let meat in your mouth? Must a huge struggle and gaggle!
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Posted by WhorpioRight? Some people have nerve!Posted by Smidge
the same way you do, only better
Oh really? Give us tips.click to expand
I can hardly imagine dick made as vegetarian hot dogs...and it spits orange juice! Lmao!
Posted by raad182Posted by EnochtheWiseBut Taurus is the one that plays Hot or Not game...kinda superficial IMOPosted by SoulOfABirdPosted by EnochtheWiseI would disagree. Taurus are rather into looks and the materialist, so they are rather a bit superficial. They want their lover to be physically attractive, which in my opinion, isnt loving the person for who they are. That's not all there is to them.
Venus in Taurus, right where it belongs...taught me the meaning of "making love"...
not my experience at all...but I'm not disagreeing with your's....if you've had one? And I want my lover to be physically attractive too. I don't think that makes me superficial at all. I think that's just honesty. Its not the most important thing for me, and my idea of beauty is not the same as others, but have I ever wanted to sleep with a woman I did not find physically attractive? Definitely not....
For these kinds of convos, I'm sure it depends on the individual firstly, the rest of the synastry and so much more....Virgo/Taurus is a very good connection IMO and I have Venus in Virgo so I've always chalked it to that, plus it always made sense that the energy of Venus would express most naturally through the sign of its rulership. But for me, the eye contact, the emotional connection, the rhythm, *every* sense engaged and indulged....a thing of beauty....click to expand
what i love about Taurus, (is very very similar to Scorpio)
is that they will fall for a beautiful woman, who is fit and gorgeous, but after babies, and menopause, and old age, they will STILL love you forever!!! even if you get bigger. They will stay with you cause they chose you (this is just like Scorpio imo) and because their love is very deep...
check out Pierce!!! one of my fave bulls, love to the end....he just loves his wife even in old age..
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Posted by Dreamyboy
Holy shit that's a good question... Do vegetarians swallow????? And if so... Does that make them vegetarian still????
Vegetarians eat eggs, so I'd assume sperm is ok. It's vegans we need to be suspicious of ?
Posted by DreamyboyI knew someone would get it!!! ???
Holy shit that's a good question... Do vegetarians swallow????? And if so... Does that make them vegetarian still????
I can think of maybe if only with condom...
Still...it's not so vegan because balls don't fit in...????
@lisabeau90 - The girl I was seeing after her came up in a conversation. When she asked more questions about the situation, is when I sent the response about her possibly not wanting to know due to our history. She responded by saying she didn't want to her about it.
Yes naturally I am a caring person. I am at a stage where I don't want any type of negativity in my life and I don't want to create any negativity directly or indirectly. We do work together and sit 10 feet away from each other so I don't see any reason why we cant be colleagues and professional. I have said this in the past, but now that I have moved on it seems like she is ok with it and I am happy with that.
My ex and I broke up in September last year and the new girl I am seeing is since April this year. My went back to her ex in December last year, which is bizarre because that wont go anywhere in the future due to the cultural circumstances. She is still with him now and I wish her the best of luck.
My ex and I have never had a conversation about each others partners, and we only recently started talking about certain things in our past. Bear in mind that we talk briefly when our paths cross yet she spends half her day emailing me.
If she wants to be friends now, I get that and I am happy with it, but she spends half her day still looking at me at work, and still has problems opening up about certain issues and does display signs of jealousy at times. It's those things I want to understand so I can set boundaries and work things out. I don't want any more awkwardness at work, life is too short for that shit, but the problem is that when it comes to me and the emotional situations attached to me, my ex wont speak or open up about it.
As for my feelings, too much has happened for me to even consider my feelings or take her back. In my eyes, she has done everything that I do not want in a woman since we broke up. Its almost like she is now a different person.
@fafa - we work together so there is bound to be some interaction. Yes I agree the emails can be seen as inappropriate. I was open and honest about the situation with current SO. What I am trying to understand is what her game is, all of a sudden there seems to be this weird push and pull and I don't really want to play, but at the same time need to deal with the situation as a colleague. For example she was emailing me today about something silly and wanted to play a guessing game. I said in a friendly manner whats the prize, and she said nothing, so I said there is no point in playing. She was very forceful in getting me to answer her question, which I found rather odd. I am trying to determine of its attention she is seeking or jealousy so I can deal with it appropriately. I will be working very closely with her so I don't want the awkwardness or play the silly games with her behind the scenes while she pretends in front of the others at work there is nothing wrong (people did not officially know we dated). Rest assured my focus is on my new relationship. I come here asking for advice because it is a forum, I respect the opinion of others and sometimes people may say something that I may not have thought of.
@Capmercury87 - My ex does not drink and has only ever had 2 partners me and her ex. It is possible that her intentions are bad, this is a girl that completely ghosted me for almost a year and it was me that reached out to her because I did not want any more negativity at work. There is age difference between us and she is younger, but from what I have seen she is emotionally immature, lost and a completely different person to what she was when she was with me. Granted I accept that the dynamic I created had a lot to do with that. I took my responsibilities towards her seriously and handled my business. All she had to do was turn up look good, smile and have a good time. However things are different now and she is different, hence why I have come to my DXP family for advice.
I have told her I am in a serious relationship which is going somewhere and gave her respect and dignity of telling her before she heard it in the office. This is something she did not do with me when she went back to her ex despite me emailing her and asking her. I don't know if she wants something with me now or not, which is why I am here and wanting to understand her behavior out of respect for my current SO as she is my first priority. I am also a man who believes that I gain no value in belittling a woman so I don't want a situation to be created at work where my ex looks stupid. My morals and values don't allow that.
@aqua0215 - I understand your views and respect your opinion. I have never tried anything with her after we broke up. The most I did was speak to her about reconciliation but still respected her boundaries. Our situation was about her breaking up with me because she was tied to her parents and her parents did not accept me. Whats funny is she went back her ex and his parents didn't accept her so they broke up. Yes it sounds messed up. I accept your opinion about dealing with ex's and you may well be correct, I just haven't seen it yet from my ex. The way I see it is that now I am no longer showing her an interest she seems to showing me need for my attention, I am ill, I am hungry, I don't feel well, I cant sleep etc.... its sounds worse than what it is when I write it but its all too frequent and that's what I question. She still tries to control when and how she speaks to me and what she says, I don't want the games and just want a level playing field where I can come to work, speak to a person I once dated and love, give her the respect of a colleague and someone who once in my life I would have torn mountains down just to see her smile.
@everyounce - A little bit of background may help. My ex started working with me in at the end of September 2015, so by the end of November we were dating. She was attracted to me and chased me, so when I hear about people saying Aquas want friendship first this wasn't actually my case. There was an attraction at work which developed. As an Aquarius who does not see the need to communicate to be done with someone who you are done with romantically she sure seems to be communicating with me now more than ever. Leos are Aqua opposites I would have been happy with having a chat (and I did say this to her) to set boundaries so I don't overstep the mark and neither does she. Guess what no response. Its almost like on an emotional level I am completely blocked which I find bizarre considering she has a boyfriend and has been with him for over 11 months. These are the things I would like to understand.
Thank you all for your time and assistance.
Yes naturally I am a caring person. I am at a stage where I don't want any type of negativity in my life and I don't want to create any negativity directly or indirectly. We do work together and sit 10 feet away from each other so I don't see any reason why we cant be colleagues and professional. I have said this in the past, but now that I have moved on it seems like she is ok with it and I am happy with that.
My ex and I broke up in September last year and the new girl I am seeing is since April this year. My went back to her ex in December last year, which is bizarre because that wont go anywhere in the future due to the cultural circumstances. She is still with him now and I wish her the best of luck.
My ex and I have never had a conversation about each others partners, and we only recently started talking about certain things in our past. Bear in mind that we talk briefly when our paths cross yet she spends half her day emailing me.
If she wants to be friends now, I get that and I am happy with it, but she spends half her day still looking at me at work, and still has problems opening up about certain issues and does display signs of jealousy at times. It's those things I want to understand so I can set boundaries and work things out. I don't want any more awkwardness at work, life is too short for that shit, but the problem is that when it comes to me and the emotional situations attached to me, my ex wont speak or open up about it.
As for my feelings, too much has happened for me to even consider my feelings or take her back. In my eyes, she has done everything that I do not want in a woman since we broke up. Its almost like she is now a different person.
@fafa - we work together so there is bound to be some interaction. Yes I agree the emails can be seen as inappropriate. I was open and honest about the situation with current SO. What I am trying to understand is what her game is, all of a sudden there seems to be this weird push and pull and I don't really want to play, but at the same time need to deal with the situation as a colleague. For example she was emailing me today about something silly and wanted to play a guessing game. I said in a friendly manner whats the prize, and she said nothing, so I said there is no point in playing. She was very forceful in getting me to answer her question, which I found rather odd. I am trying to determine of its attention she is seeking or jealousy so I can deal with it appropriately. I will be working very closely with her so I don't want the awkwardness or play the silly games with her behind the scenes while she pretends in front of the others at work there is nothing wrong (people did not officially know we dated). Rest assured my focus is on my new relationship. I come here asking for advice because it is a forum, I respect the opinion of others and sometimes people may say something that I may not have thought of.
@Capmercury87 - My ex does not drink and has only ever had 2 partners me and her ex. It is possible that her intentions are bad, this is a girl that completely ghosted me for almost a year and it was me that reached out to her because I did not want any more negativity at work. There is age difference between us and she is younger, but from what I have seen she is emotionally immature, lost and a completely different person to what she was when she was with me. Granted I accept that the dynamic I created had a lot to do with that. I took my responsibilities towards her seriously and handled my business. All she had to do was turn up look good, smile and have a good time. However things are different now and she is different, hence why I have come to my DXP family for advice.
I have told her I am in a serious relationship which is going somewhere and gave her respect and dignity of telling her before she heard it in the office. This is something she did not do with me when she went back to her ex despite me emailing her and asking her. I don't know if she wants something with me now or not, which is why I am here and wanting to understand her behavior out of respect for my current SO as she is my first priority. I am also a man who believes that I gain no value in belittling a woman so I don't want a situation to be created at work where my ex looks stupid. My morals and values don't allow that.
@aqua0215 - I understand your views and respect your opinion. I have never tried anything with her after we broke up. The most I did was speak to her about reconciliation but still respected her boundaries. Our situation was about her breaking up with me because she was tied to her parents and her parents did not accept me. Whats funny is she went back her ex and his parents didn't accept her so they broke up. Yes it sounds messed up. I accept your opinion about dealing with ex's and you may well be correct, I just haven't seen it yet from my ex. The way I see it is that now I am no longer showing her an interest she seems to showing me need for my attention, I am ill, I am hungry, I don't feel well, I cant sleep etc.... its sounds worse than what it is when I write it but its all too frequent and that's what I question. She still tries to control when and how she speaks to me and what she says, I don't want the games and just want a level playing field where I can come to work, speak to a person I once dated and love, give her the respect of a colleague and someone who once in my life I would have torn mountains down just to see her smile.
@everyounce - A little bit of background may help. My ex started working with me in at the end of September 2015, so by the end of November we were dating. She was attracted to me and chased me, so when I hear about people saying Aquas want friendship first this wasn't actually my case. There was an attraction at work which developed. As an Aquarius who does not see the need to communicate to be done with someone who you are done with romantically she sure seems to be communicating with me now more than ever. Leos are Aqua opposites I would have been happy with having a chat (and I did say this to her) to set boundaries so I don't overstep the mark and neither does she. Guess what no response. Its almost like on an emotional level I am completely blocked which I find bizarre considering she has a boyfriend and has been with him for over 11 months. These are the things I would like to understand.
Thank you all for your time and assistance.
Posted by SmidgeOk! Can you lick hot dog or suck on steak? You don't have to EAT IT...Posted by Gemitatiwhen they say "eat dick" they don't mean it literally... you fuckin monsterPosted by SmidgeI am a Gemini! Nobody is 'better' than is at it! Pick your own strength!
the same way you do, only better
And really? How can you let meat in your mouth? Must a huge struggle and gaggle!
?click to expand
So yes or no!
Posted by Leo-melloLet him go. Cancer men have complexed personalities with deep issues. Just have positive thoughts that he will fix himself, it will take a long time. Don't wait for him either, live your life to the fullest.
Hey so iv never bothered seeking advice like this but i feel its time to get the world wide knowledge for once. Word of warning this may end up a long one.....
Basicaly, Im a leo woman (26 years) who has a crush on a cancer man (35 years). He happens to be one of my bosses.
So being a leo, i pursued him a bit by making the first out of work contact on FB a couple of months back asking to grab a coffe to wich he said that would be great. We had breif conversations for a bout a week but he never seemed to put much effort in actualy chatting (getting to know each other) and of course, we never went for that coffee and he seemed to brush off the other couple times i tried to see him on an out of work basis.. so... I left him alone after this assuming theres no interest.
At a work do, his best friend told him i liked him so sure enough once i was in the cab home i get a message from him after no contact for about a week asking if id got home safe. The converstation quickly turned into him initiating sexting wich isnt my cup of tea but i had a f*** it moment and went with it. ( first sexting experience!) This went on for a couple of days with him also showing just a tad more interest in getting to know me to. Realy just a tad though. He did however start messaging me everyday without me having to be the initiator. However, even with the "sexting" he never seemed keen on meeting up to do the deed itself. He was wuite happy taking care of himself. (He did have the opportunity to ask me round or come round mine.) So another week or so passed and i asked him what it was we were doing as we werent friends, we wernt having sex either and we were werent dating. He said he didnt want to date but wanted to build up trust with me and that he was wary due to our work situation. At this point i clarified i like liked him and not just for sex although sex would be great but not a priority. We agreed to be friends/ collegues watever....
I stopped contacting him except for work related stuff and of course never heard from him unless he was responding to my work queries. (Just like to add that at work he seems to look out for me quite a bit and i often catch him looking over my way but i cant say he makes any extra effort to be around me)
We often go for drinks after work with the rest of our team and iv noticed when he drInks he open up to me and we chat for hours. He has told me about his past relationships. The last night out was interesting as he said he was not over his ex-ex girlfriend, as in the girlfried before his last ex. I also found out through another collegue that hes on tinder but "hes sick of it as the girls arent serious".
Since i invited him to my birthday party and again we were chatting for hours and he crashed at mine.... in my bed.. he asked if he should cuddle me or not so i said sure. He didnt try anything at all and when i turned over he said "oh you not go na cuddle me anymore) so i had to cuddle him again.
The following morning, still likely drunk he told me he was "in the mood" and i politley rejected the offer as i was haaanging so he got up and stumbled out of the house about 5/10 minutes later . He messaged me when he got home to say hed got in safe and we chatted a bit (me asking questions him giving straight answers as usual). He then attempted to intiate sexting again.
Having written it all out it seems clear to me now that yea hes just interested in sex (which contradicts his anti-timder comment) and is emotionaly or generaly unavailable. (For several reasons noted above) But hey advice anyway i guess..?
So, should i steer clear as im looking for relationship portential or just hang around slying for a bit still and keep it PG and hope for the best? Any cancer men out there who can relate to what hes doing/ what he could be thinking/feeling in regards to me?
Im no beleiver of the whole FWB thing and "he'll fall madly in love with me" so id rather steer clear of that because il be the one endIng up D whipped! Ha...
Posted by EvatheDiva
Jesus girl, he's playing with you.
"they say absence makes the heart grow fonder (SO is a conjunction) so you can hold on to that (OR is another conjunction) or just move on, you have two choices"
Your CALL, but he's confused because when one says, "Absence makes a heart grow fonder." Taurean (John) and I don't see one another until like eight days later WE are kinda sorta a "couple" (his call; not in a hurry); yet you TWO have broken up (thus the ex, but have "feelings").
Flip this on him and tell him YAY or NAY....period (.) He's depressed and wants to hold on to "something" and it's not your fault of his diagnosis, taking his meds, seeing a doctor, controlling his temper (anger management classes?). Yeah, he's right, give him your final answer (no phone a friend, etc).
DO you want to hold on to him OR move on? The OTHER saying I like is, "Time reveals a person's heart"cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Thanks for the input!
I straight up asked him what it means and said because that leans more towards him wanting me to wait on him romantically and not just friends. He said "interpret it how ever you like". It pissed me off haha. But either way I'm going to to move on, I hate games like this. Seems childish to reply like he did.