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Wow I'm almost 18 and I'm still a virgin who never kissed yet 
Posted by EarthgoddessAries can be so blunt to their own feelings.. I had an aries gf for six years. She finished the relationship, feelings were still there but it had became too difficult for us to be together. Four months after I was still trying to get back. She always refused. I moved on. Five months after I told her I had met someone. She freaked out, said that she felt betrayed, that I hadn't tried to be with her. Wtf?.. Three months more was messaging me that she missed me. ???
So been seeing this Aries guy for a while and I think every thing is great!!! We hang out, we laugh, we just enjoy each others company. Well early on we had a talk an WE decided not to label or force anything. I knew he saw others an so did I. We both agreed to be sexually exclusive tho and I believed he was so I was as well.
Anyway he saw me at dinner with a guy friend of mine ( platonic) And over the phone basically called me a hoe ?? so we argued. We made up tho so no big deal.
Well today he says he's tired of chasing me ( how?)
And that it sucked watchin me with my friend
Then he calls me a "mind Fuck "
So I just hung up..like really...he said he didn't want a relationship!!!!!
He has called 8 times but I need time to process. Like wth did I miss.
I suck at this ?
Btw ima Virgo
He clearly has strong feelings for you! He's just jealous. If you can make that a relationship is different..
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Just a refresher about this chick for those of you not aware-
She has a kid with a loser who was in jail. Custody issues, a lot of bits and pieces that were shared that made no sense. She creates these posts but never answers questions or takes much advice given when it comes to getting resources.
First, it was she was homeless and had a kid and her ex got all the assistance for the kid and didn't give it to her. And her family wouldn't help her at all.
Then it was her wanting to give up her kid for adoption because of the financial situation.
She has no car and she lost her previous job due to lack of transportation if I remember right.
It all seems as if it's a bad stroke of luck from poor choices she made because she's young, immature, and prefers to hit up DXP for advice once in awhile vs using the internet to look up resources and figuring out how to help (don't forget she was knowingly dating a married man, so she continues to make piss poor life choices). I really find it strange she keeps coming here for advice on something that's specific to her own state and situation. Last I checked, you don't hit up a random astrology forum for assistance on any of this stuff.
Call me bitchy for pointing this out, but the last two times she posted about this stuff, there were holes in her story and a lot of little things that didn't add up, nevermind the piss poor effort to look into obvious resources.
This seems more like that resources are there, but she can't be assed to do it and wants people to do shit for her.
Props to the OP for wanting to get away from the welfare cycle though. She seems to want to head in the right direction, but I just find all her stories off, tbh.
No props to the fact she never learns and continues to make poor life choices.
She has a kid with a loser who was in jail. Custody issues, a lot of bits and pieces that were shared that made no sense. She creates these posts but never answers questions or takes much advice given when it comes to getting resources.
First, it was she was homeless and had a kid and her ex got all the assistance for the kid and didn't give it to her. And her family wouldn't help her at all.
Then it was her wanting to give up her kid for adoption because of the financial situation.
She has no car and she lost her previous job due to lack of transportation if I remember right.
It all seems as if it's a bad stroke of luck from poor choices she made because she's young, immature, and prefers to hit up DXP for advice once in awhile vs using the internet to look up resources and figuring out how to help (don't forget she was knowingly dating a married man, so she continues to make piss poor life choices). I really find it strange she keeps coming here for advice on something that's specific to her own state and situation. Last I checked, you don't hit up a random astrology forum for assistance on any of this stuff.
Call me bitchy for pointing this out, but the last two times she posted about this stuff, there were holes in her story and a lot of little things that didn't add up, nevermind the piss poor effort to look into obvious resources.
This seems more like that resources are there, but she can't be assed to do it and wants people to do shit for her.
Props to the OP for wanting to get away from the welfare cycle though. She seems to want to head in the right direction, but I just find all her stories off, tbh.
No props to the fact she never learns and continues to make poor life choices.
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamLol nevermind the dense whiner, you got bigger problems. Like not having had sausage or fish in years from the sound of it.
If you're so sick of it, stop allowing it, you dense whiner. Jfc.
You're the moron who keeps this guy around and keeps going back. You taught this guy how to treat you. Live with the consequences of your stupidity.
I think Machiavellianism being a dominant trait in anyone is a bad thing but having a complete lack of it is also a bad thing. So essentially my opinion is the ultra basic 'everything in moderation' perspective.
To be honest I actually like Machiavelli as a historical figure. His humor was top notch! I've read some of his plays and letters he wrote to friends, he was super funny and had poignant critiques against the status quo and the church.
To be honest I actually like Machiavelli as a historical figure. His humor was top notch! I've read some of his plays and letters he wrote to friends, he was super funny and had poignant critiques against the status quo and the church.
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Posted by haylz124Sounds like story of my life. Minus the kids for me tho. I feel you, it sucks sometimes to be the one who always has to be that "strong" one no matter what. Big hugs!
That gets mistaken for being tough and cold but is actually extremely soft and loving? I'm tired of people thinking I can handle stuff so they throw it at me. This includes work, relationship and life scenarios.
Work- I always appear cool and calm even when it's busy and there's a big work load so this leads to me getting handed more work because "she can handle it"
Life- friends seem to think I am their therapist and even with the worst advice (dump him as soon as they start complaining about their partner) they still feel they can burden their feelings off on me. I don't speak about my problems and when asked I often down play cos the convo would go on all day if I got started
Relationships- men seem to think "oh she has it together it can all be about me for a while" Iv actually been told this by men Iv dated! Early stage relationship talks are usually about them and picking through their problems. No I don't have it together Iv just already analysed and figured my issues out!
I really have trouble finding a man that can, I don't know how to put this but I guess the word that fits best is dominate me. For once I wouldn't mind being taken care of. Iv been out with men allot older than me and younger than me, ones that own big companies and are well groomed with their own home and car yet I still end up caring for them and helping them get it together!
I don't know if it's my independence, they say no man is an island but this woman is! I have in the past tried my hand at anything offered which has led me to be able to do heavy DIY duties around the house and can even fix cars. I have money and a good job, home, car I have kids but I'm not one of those mums looking dishelved in the supermarket while her kids act up, they behave and we mesh and get on great! If I have an issue I don't pick up the phone and call friends I deal with it my own way.
In truth though I would like to be cared for for once. I would like to have a partner I can lean on for support. Does any other aqua have these types of problems? Have you over come them?
Posted by SoulOfABirdHaha...not even my first kiss ? n I'm going to be 25 this November. I never worried about it honestly. Never will be.I'm not scared that I'll regret giving it away to a wrong person ( I know I won't tbh?). It's not something I'm "saving" . I don't consider it that way. It's not like I want it n didn't do it. I just never felt this urge to do it with anyone.Posted by TeenaHave you had a first kiss yet ? Im 20 Im going to be 21 quite soon ? And I havent even had my first kiss. But it's okay that were in our 20's and still virgins. Too many regret giving it away so soon. Im saving those special moments with a guy I love. Virginity shouldnt be given to just anyone ! Lol
I'm sure that's gonna happen before I turn 27/28... probably... hopefully ?
But honestly, idc if that's gonna happen or noclick to expand
Posted by DreamyboyOh no!! I mean you don't ever use it???!! ...Like EVER EVER??? ??? What if you got her pregnant??? How are you gonna handle that??!Posted by GetMistedThe first day my condom broke was the last day I ever used a condom. I like taking risks now.
18
Super Bowl Sunday
Condom broke
Didn't relize because virgin
Went to planned parenthood the next day for Plan B
Edit: She was a Virgoclick to expand
Posted by KoniuchaaVenus in piscesPosted by hbbrnaquaWhat Venus do you have?
I have that combination! Nice!
I'm pretty social with both my family and friends and I can be weird with people I don't know well (that's the aqua side). I barely fall in love but if I do I fall way too hard, putting my crush on a pedestal and I have a hard time letting love go (leo moon/feelings). I am stubborn too.click to expand
