is he still with the person he cheated on you with? scorpios are complicated and can get intimidated by relationships and being venerable. have you talked since?
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Jan 07, 2009Comments: 305 · Posts: 14219 · Topics: 239
Cancer and Pisces have it all. Cancer first.
I've been dating this Libra man 10/92 I'm a Gemini 05/31/1992, for a little over a month now. We meet on a dating site and quickly exchanged numbers. Every since then it's been so romantic. He will always text good morning and good night. Tells me his misses me and all ways compliment me. We we hung out, he was very drawn to me. We connected from the first time we messaged and even more when we finally met. We live nearly an hour apart.
He's has mental difficulties(depression, anxiety, PTSD) and told me that he has had a really hard life. He lets me know when he's going thru hard times and I've been supportive. I also have anxiety and depression, he has been supportive of me.
We kept in touch all day, mostly initiated by him and I replied right after everyday. And then started to have bad episodes and what he told me is that didn't have his meds refilled. I invited him to hang out on a Friday and he told that he will most likely have to wait most of the day for the refill. I kind of felt a bit upset. But not very much just I had plans that I didnt tell him and really wanted to happen. So I go and hang out with a friend, for the evening. He texted me that he was basically not in a good place. My car got broken into the next day and I told him what happened cause I was really upset. He comforted me the whole day. He told me that he missed me and wanted to see me. I told him I couldn't because my car was jacked up. He wasn't upset, we keep in text the rest of the day. And then the next day when I get my car stuff taken care of, he told that he had a really bad headache from being off of meds, (which he told me he would be dealing with when he didn't get them in Friday. That will be in pain) so I asked if he wanted be to come over and he told me not today that will tomorrow. I texted him later the evening that I'm going to be very distant over next few days...or so. He asked me why I didn't tell him.
So the next day, which was Monday, and I didn't hear from him. I text him in the evening hi and he replied, that he was having a busy day. And I asked what he was doing he told he was playing video games. I asked do you still want to meet up, he told me not today and that he didn't want to see anyone today. That's when I was like ok...goodbye I wish you well. And he was confused by it. I told him that I was kinda afraid of red flags. He then ok then thanks for wasting my time, goodbye. I told him I feel like really rejected because I really want to see him and he seemed like he didn't want to. And that I was afraid that he'd lost interest in me. He told he didn't...but now I'm gone. I said what? I'm sorry...I just don't want to get my feelings hurt again. Then he texted well you hurt mine. I told him I didn't mean to just get really fearful. The last thing he texted was "everyone leaves me"
It's been a week now since I heard from him and nearly two weeks since I've seen him because I was busy with work. Though he wanted to see me during that time. I didn't have time.
So I tried to reach out to him. I have not gotten a response yet. And I'm kinda like regretting g everything I said cause I really like him. What do you guys think? Is this normal or should I just give up?
(Btw this is my first time posting on here newbie)