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Posted by raad182I AM being real.
Be real guys lol
Posted by newToThisLibra1980Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by newToThisLibra1980Yes to all this for me. Just genuine/authentic open communication with someone you care about....not manipulating to be with him or being overly apologetic....just unadorned agenda-free honesty...so rare with people in my experience but one of the most powerful things in the world.....Posted by heliumfiascoI am a scorpio woman. I will tell you this. We scorps put 150 % into our relationships.
He still replies to me. Is still very much open, just has pulled wayyyyyy back. Like basically cut off any romantic emotions in conversation etc. which I totally get. Do you think I can turn this around. Or have my flaws in relationships probably created too big of a security/ clingy issue? Should I just bow out respectively?
I think for a scorp LOYALTY is more important than "crazy pants" stuff you did. SO, i would not completely write him off yet.
I think that scorpion men and women have a hard time getting closure if they are being dumped. From your post it sounds like you have been jerking him around, so he may not have had the full closure on the break up. If he is responding, that's a great sign, even if it is sparse. Sometimes scorps manipulate back and let you get the taste of your own medicine, so to speak.
Where to go next??? there is one powerful technique remedy. Write him a powerful letter, make sure you are genuine, apologetic (not too excessive) and VULNERABLE. Make sure it is genuine.
I would go that route instead of just talking to him in person in circles. Let your thoughts, intentions soak in. For scorpios, when they LOVE you deeply, the form of communication (e-mail, letter or in person) can have the SAME power. Make sure you don't manipulate because scorps are ahead of you in that department. If they smell even a faint manipulation or lack of genuine intention, they will cut you lose and sting.
So, i am saying, write him up a genuine letter and let him make his decision. Keep your contact, do not manipulate going with NC.
NC only works if you didn't treetrunked. Then that's powerful. If scorps know they are "in the right", then any sense of manipulation will back fire.
So, in summary, not all is lost and the fact that he is responding is a good sign. When scorps stop talking, then that's a done deal..
@EnochtheWise
LOL. Are we related?? I just got typing on your thread stating that i agreed with your content posting. Then refreshed the screen and saw you support / second my opion. That's crazy.
CRAZY.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewThe title alone has me curious. Incest and lies? Wtf?
Unhide it. I'm interested.
Posted by Havoc077
I mean. The name, Rocky.
The name tells you all.
No shade, but real talk with a name like that I can't take any of this girls posts serious ever.
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