As many unsavory people
and pedophilic characters
here on this site lurking, ne.
I will not endanger my kids.
People do save pictures to
do what they will with them.
Fun is fun but no thank you.
and pedophilic characters
here on this site lurking, ne.
I will not endanger my kids.
People do save pictures to
do what they will with them.
Fun is fun but no thank you.
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Posted by ItsMeRomanYes I take birth control regularly and he knows this I told him this. Also we were both tested before having unprotected sex and we shared the results with one another. He wanted me to also take plan b as extra precaution in addition to being on the pill.
I think that's incredibly irresponsible for both of you.
Why wouldn't you want to take a plan B since you clearly don't know this person?
I don't think it's an asshole move. I think it's realistic but you both are idiots for rawdogging the whole weekend without knowing one another and meeting online.
Also plan B won't work lol just FYI. You have to take it within a specific time period.
I wouldn't feel offended but I'd be worried as fuk how often he does this. Do you have unprotected sex often with randoms?
Posted by awesomeblossomPosted by BlackburnNope, I let him know I think it's hot. But, from now on, I will try downplaying the part of my wanting him to have more experience.
I think is a bad idea to try to convince someone of something pretending is for his well being when is a fetish of yours. Better be upfront about it, not everyone needs to try everything to settle and there's a first time for everything.
There are too many amazing women out there for him to be so focused on just one. He needs to live a little. I'll be here when he gets back.click to expand
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If you are honest there's no problem, I still think everyone is different - some people just don't like to be with many people -, but your lack of possessiveness is great.
Is this the one with the rented car getting damaged?
So, how to permanently rid yourself of eeyore qualities is my question
Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by NatureBoySure, it was "someone"
I dont mean to derail this thread but why on earth is there 4 gay books at the bottom of my page in this thread? Does everyone see this? lol Is this the website? Has someone used my PC for "gay" purposes? I clicked on another thread and I didnt see these books..click to expand
Koniuchaa now u know I only love you and all your "Uranus" self, plus tin man helped me step away from the ledge
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesYesPosted by Capz
what is plan B
sounds like its the "morning after pill" which is odd considering I think you need to take it within 72 hours and wont really help if they spent 4 days together.click to expand
it's the morning after pill. But I take birth control regularly which he knows. Posted by MontgomeryThank you for your response
"... his moments where he would say things to me without sugar coat and came off as a dick."
He kind of *is* a dick.
After a MONTH of talking, he knew what you
wanted out of this, I imagine.
And yet... it didn't seem to matter.
We can blame you for going to bed with him,
but he knew what he was doing.
I wonder why you'd want to date someone who
disregarded your feelings so easily.
Poor character... him.
Posted by BlindedByLoveyou don't sleep today?Posted by hydorahJedded
sled?click to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeLmfao! Even black people are prejudiced against black people.
too many black men in prison.
Posted by EnochtheWiseGreat advice!!!Posted by awesomeblossomhe may not know how cool you are with it, just how much it turns you on, may just not be in his character even when single to do, etc....is he naturally flirtatious/assertive with women?Posted by EnochtheWiseNIIIICE! I like those!Posted by awesomeblossomtotally understand the fantasy of it; could never play either part in this scenario in reality though....give it a shot if he's into it; it may feel entirely different than what you're imagining....this doesn't even sound like voyeurism for you....you plan on watching?
The other reason is that the thought of an open-relationship is a turn on for me. I like the thought of other women being into him, of him hanging out with other women, of him possibly making out with other women. I'll be honest, I don't know how I TRULY will feel because I have never done this before, but the idea of him being with other women is just...HOTT to me.
If you get off on seeing other women attracted to your partner (totally understandable), just hang out with him in public, watch lowkey and allow him to flirt and work his charms, watch him dance with other women, etc. Should create a similar effect without having to potentially sacrifice the entire relationship by fully pimping the dude out....should be an ego boost when he turns them down after a while, and comes back over to you each time....
I have done the dancing idea - I've asked him to dance with other women when we'd go out, but he always keeps it G-rated. I tried just seeing if he'd flirt back on his own when women approach him, but he doesn't go through with it. I'm thinking he might do better if I'm not there to see.
key is communication....what turns you on, may be at cross purposes with what does it for him so there could be deep incompatibility there, but still there are ways to augment it.....some men really prefer and are turned on by jealous/possessive women for instance; it translates as strong desire/passion for them....if you are too laid back about it, it may seem like you don't even care.....you can strike a balance though by playing that role for him a bit when he comes back to you, if that's what he needs....questioning him about how he feels about the girl, getting a little angry/rough with him over it, maybe frisking him discreetly for evidence of arousal....lol.....I can see it being pretty fun, but the way you framed it originally, it just seems you're willing to risk losing him and, I don't know your background but, you could be crossing over into the territory of self-sabotage....click to expand
Damn, I'll admit I've been more focused on what it will do for me than for him. He's more of a "play it by ear" type of person, so I know it'll take the fun out of it for him if I try to plan the whole thing out.
When he finds a girl, it'll be interesting to see how things go. He may come home, tell me things, and then we make eye contact and burst out laughing that we even tried it. Who knows? I am willing to find out, though. I know for sure that a few encounters will definitely not be enough to end our relationship, hahaha. But your concerns are valid and I'll keep them in mind. I definitely want to keep it fun.