Posted by IsoldeI don't think many men think like that at all. Women who are attractive, witty and intelligent have options, every guy knows that but they are a challenge at least because they assume that those women are hard to get, which means they don't sleep around easily (in a guy's mind) which actually makes a guy loosen up a little because his expectations of getting her aren't that high anyway and he doesn't feel any pressure. Actually the highly attractive and flirty party girl would scare a lot of men even more because she might be pretty and hot but also witty and fun to be with, yet you will never know whether she is one you can trust or not. So often enough it's way easier to approach pretty women who come off as intelligent than pretty and funny party girls.Posted by halalbaeIt's not the women that are intimidated, it's the men.Posted by Isoldeyou definitely have that cancer deeper intuition, i totally felt awkward...Posted by halalbaePosted by Isoldeits not how i view myself so i dont even know how to answer that question
@halalbae I would assume being strikingly pretty combined with high intellect can be intimidating and a deal breaker for men. Aren't men scared of you?
but when it comes to matters of the heart... people dont want to intellectualize, they want to feel and rationale is not going to do that
its probably why ive only been with water signs before the libra, they make me feel and shake my head in disbelief lol
with the libra its been a good balance between both
It was a rhetorical question but thank you for answering, didn't want to make you feel awkward ?
I've always been around super attractive women whom are also hyper intellectuals, most of them are usually single as they don't get approached by the opposite sex as much.
In comparison to the average looking people go from relationship to relationships as they come across as more approachable, thats the point I was trying to make.
what do you think or have observed those attractive and intellectual women are intimidated by? ?
I've seen them easily flirt with anything with a pulse but as soon as they start speaking to the highly attractive ones they become really awkward. The men compliment them and then run away, they can't keep up with the wit. And if anything remotely intelligent comes out of her mouth them they start to feel insecure.
I'm good at reading a room, absorb a lot of people's energy.
And my intuition sucks! Life isn't unpredictable anymore, love surprises never thought I'd miss that ?click to expand
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Posted by 8434ESo it's not just you being in love with the idea of love with her or say it was all just compassion like you're saying..but you wanted to show the world that she fell for you, is it??Why? What was the context that made you post your private conversations?Posted by TeenaWe were in DXP chat a lot and it was mostly there, and yes i went too far with it.
That sounds scary tbh. It's a scary place to be in(lioness's I mean). But what's with this plastering of butter everywhere ? You posted screenshots of your private conversations with her or something?
Got all excited about the thought of love all over again, really the feeling is deep compassion and i confused it and let it go too far, and sprouted into love when really it was just compassion, it's my own stupid fault and no on else's.click to expand
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Posted by 8434EBecause you posting this is inappropriate and not the way to go about it either. You're just making things worse.Posted by GetMistedI'm not the victim here, i'm the victim of my own doing.
Lots of I's in there.
Should just be.. "I hurt Lioness"
Don't make yourself into the victim.
I don't get how people cannot see what i am saying.click to expand
Stop it.
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Posted by 8434EBecause you don't NEED to show anyone any side. Why are you so concerned about what DXP thinks about something that's between you and one other person? It's nobody's damned business but you two and making this thread just makes it everyone else's bidness.Posted by GetMistedHow does someone show their side without doing so?Posted by 8434EYour OP comes across as a plea for sympathy on your behalfPosted by GetMistedI'm not the victim here, i'm the victim of my own doing.
Lots of I's in there.
Should just be.. "I hurt Lioness"
Don't make yourself into the victim.
I don't get how people cannot see what i am saying.
Or are you just here to twist and enjoy only 1 side and to try and dismantle someone?
Seems to be the trick on DXP.click to expand
If someone has something to say, say it now! Before Canbull remove the thread!
Clock is ticking!
Clock is ticking!
Posted by BlindedByLove? lulzPosted by OrGasMeOMG what is happening herePosted by 8434EPosted by OrGasMeI told her i'm a cunt for doing it, did she ever tell you that, and that i don't deserve her, narc? you have no fucking clue as i said, just want to talk your own side.Posted by 8434EPosted by OrGasMeHmm interesting story you have there, Virgo was playing head games with me and i cut both off there and then because it was too much.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by OrGasMeIs that what was happening to that Leo girl that is no longer here?Posted by 8434EIf it makes you stop emotionally manipulating innocent/vulnerable women-- I think it might be good for the atmosphere.
If i dip cheese in coke is it good for the atmosphere?
Yeah. This narcissistic cretin thought it would be a good idea to confess his love to an emotionally vulnerable woman, make her fall in love with the idea of him, and proceed to tell her he had fallen for someone else all in less than a week?
Way to involve yourself in something you have no clue about and only see one side of.
I saw what you did to that innocent woman.
You plastered that shit everywhere.
What an embarrassing Male specimen.
It was rough for both sides, but it's ok you have to do what you have to do, i did what i did but i left it too long.
I have actually never done or been like that ever, just that point i called it quits.
You have absolutely no excuses for yourself; none.
That's exactly what narcissists do. They make excuses for their bad behavior. They aren't willing to admit fault and only see what situations do TO or FOR them; not others.
You came across a woman in a vulnerable state and completely took advantage of her. You saw the capacity of love that she possessed for someone else, and you wanted it. You leeched onto her knowing that she would provide you with immediate gratification of feeling 'loved'
You promised her the world (that you would move for her) and you intentionally elicited every emotional interaction out of her. But as narcissists do.... You took everything she had to give you and then got bored. So you attempted to leech onto someone else or a new idea of 'love, affection, immediate gratification, ego boosts, and lust'
You should be absolutely ashamed of yourself. But you can't be; because you're a narcissist.
How dare you awaken a woman's emotions with no intention of loving her-- that's the male scum of the Earth IMO.
In addition, people tried to reason with you. They tried tried to save this mess from happening. They tried to prevent her heartbreak. But you angrily cursed them all out and encouraged her to do the same. Saying things like people don't understand.
Oh hun, we understood EXACTLY what you were doing.
Why were you so angry about us trying to protect someone's heart? Were you worried we would pry you from your source of food like the leech you are?
I even mentioned that genuine relationships don't need to be spammed out to the world. That a more private relationship might be a better route since it was so new. And you called me a slut for saying that... LOL
But how tf do you think she felt after falling for you and plastering shit all over the place only for that to be so quickly taken away?
You're an absolute embarrassment.
Real feels on dxp again
This is so deep
I'm just here for the Jed stories and to wish everyone well
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Posted by BlindedByLoveYes that's canbull, Bruce is Eu lol no clue who admiral is, but I miss that guy.
Wait who is who anyway
If 8xge is canbull
Who is Bruce
Is that admiral or Eu?
I thought admiral was moonintheman
I ate too much for lunch.
Now I can't decide if I want to take a big dump or have a food coma for 10 mins.
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Posted by ChuckcemNice. He told me similar things as you said too. Sex is important to me and i tend to want to do it a lot. As a leo man, how do you see that kind of woman who has a high sex drive (like me) ?Posted by aquaglassIt's fairly important. I won't feel truly connected to a partner otherwise.
How important is sex for you in relationship?
That being said, I also get to know a woman in the other ways as well if I'm interested in her. So be wary of men who try to use sex as leverage for an emotional relationship. A guy should be trying to get to know romantically/emotionally outside of sex as well.click to expand
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I told her she puts people of Walmart to shame.
Posted by drunkghost??? hilaaaarious gifPosted by xBruceCampbellxPosted by OrGasMeYou don't want to let it marinate too long.Posted by xBruceCampbellxPosted by OrGasMeGot too much cheese on the burger.
My panties have gotten too small for my vagina. Do you think it's because it needs to be routinely emptied out?
Does this mean I have a hamburger pussy? Do you think it's better to leave it alone and let it marinate? Or have someone pound it and make it moist?
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