Iv yet to hear back from the Libra, so I sent a proposition to meet. What do you guys think?
Posted by StarSkyI know my libra friends take their time responding. My question is, was what I wrote worth a response in your opinion. If the person was invested.
One thing I have learned is, that if you're communicating and the other person isn't responding, cut your losses and move on. If a person doesn't wish to communicate it's because they have issues with communicating effectively, whether or not they're interested, a person should always give a response back. It's the decent thing to do.
Wait and see.
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Posted by GemitatiPosted by quirkycrabbygirlSo find a forum where there are daisies and butterflies...and fk their brain with your unsolicited teaching!Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeIts not about handling perceptions. You dont have to put someone down in order to put your point across.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlSo you can't handle others perception? Don't ask questions if you won't like answers
The world is full of unkind people. Wherever you go you will get one such person who will manipulate stuff, or try to put you down, say mean things, spread negativity. Why can't people be simple? Why do they have to complicate each and every thing? Is it so necessary to show your sarcasm expertise at each and every level than to show your kindness?
And on dxp it's even more. People hide behind these anonymous names and fake pictures and spread as much negativity as possible. What do they get out of it? Is it their source of energy to deal with the real world?
Spread kindness wherever you go. Spread positive vibes.
Do I think you're insane cause you're angry your friend was watching a movie instead of calling you?
Hell yeah I think that's insane. You asked for ppls pinion
Why can't cancers take any kind if feedback
So fuking weak
Fyi I am very much open to people giving free opinions. But I am not cool with people calling you names instead of giving opinions.click to expand
lol the entire forum is asking for advice though (in the relatinships)
there's even room here for happy happy folks, as well, as sadness and doom and gloom too.
and middle aged women like yourself with a capricorn and scorpio men for backups!!
and JED.
Posted by quirkycrabbygirlDon't you think you taking too much upon yourself telling people what to do when easiest way would be just to leave and letPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeTrust me when I say that I have no problem with you telling me that i was sounding insane. Coz I know I was. Overanalysing things.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlTrue. But it emphasizes thingsPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeIts not about handling perceptions. You dont have to put someone down in order to put your point across.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlSo you can't handle others perception? Don't ask questions if you won't like answers
The world is full of unkind people. Wherever you go you will get one such person who will manipulate stuff, or try to put you down, say mean things, spread negativity. Why can't people be simple? Why do they have to complicate each and every thing? Is it so necessary to show your sarcasm expertise at each and every level than to show your kindness?
And on dxp it's even more. People hide behind these anonymous names and fake pictures and spread as much negativity as possible. What do they get out of it? Is it their source of energy to deal with the real world?
Spread kindness wherever you go. Spread positive vibes.
Do I think you're insane cause you're angry your friend was watching a movie instead of calling you?
Hell yeah I think that's insane. You asked for ppls pinion
Why can't cancers take any kind if feedback
So fuking weak
Fyi I am very much open to people giving free opinions. But I am not cool with people calling you names instead of giving opinions.
Being gentle and kind takes too long
Saying you're insane is quick and to the point
Calling you a bytch shows annoyance
Calying you insane how dumb you are
It's all short cuts to the same conclusion
But name calling? People can really save it for those who really deserve it.
My point is "dont have an opinion? Then just avoid the thread. Please dont include those useless sarcastic name calling for the sake of it"click to expand
The door hit your ass because apparently your friend wont'
People equate Gemini's with being, unfaithful, disloyal, liars, sneaky, mean, and evil. This is far from the truth. A Gemini is a very sensitive loving soul. We want the best for ourselves and other people. We would never intentionally hurt someone. With that being said, I need someone who I can trust and they trust me, I need to be able to communicate with them, and I need someone who's ok with giving me space.
Posted by 8434Ei kinda agree with this. i'm very active although my mars is in "Pisces" 1st house.
Sun House 11
Moon House 12
Mercury House 12
Venus House 10
Mars House 1
Jupiter House 2
Saturn House 11
Uranus House 10
Neptune House 11
Pluto House 8
Chiron House 4
Ceres House 1
Pallas House 12
Juno House 7
Vesta House 9
Node House 1
Lilith House 7
Fortune House 1
House 1 4°08' Pisces
House 2 2°31' Taurus
House 3 1°03' Gemini
House 4 20°09' Gemini
House 5 7°18' Cancer
House 6 27°38' Cancer
House 7 4°08' Virgo
House 8 2°31' Scorpio
House 9 1°03' Sagittarius
House 10 20°09' Sagittarius
House 11 7°18' Capricorn
House 12 27°38' Capricorn
I would imagine Aries Mars in Pisces house would affect it more too.
my ascendant is Aquarius so 1st house ruler is an active planet Uranus.
As long as they have thick skin
& arent sensitive or obnoxious
& arent sensitive or obnoxious
Hello everyone , I just have a lot of questions about a Capricorn behavior
So long story short , I've been with thi dating this Capricorn ( long distance relationship ) we broke up , he kept popping every 1 /3 months , last time I spoke to him we went off on each other and i told him to just never talk to me ever again , yet here he is again popping into my life trying to talk to me ... I dont understand what's up with this , I feel like he just bored , but i mean wouldn't a person leave forever if you kept telling them to leave you alone BTW his a Capricorn sun , saggisatirus moon , im a Virgo sun & moon
So long story short , I've been with thi dating this Capricorn ( long distance relationship ) we broke up , he kept popping every 1 /3 months , last time I spoke to him we went off on each other and i told him to just never talk to me ever again , yet here he is again popping into my life trying to talk to me ... I dont understand what's up with this , I feel like he just bored , but i mean wouldn't a person leave forever if you kept telling them to leave you alone BTW his a Capricorn sun , saggisatirus moon , im a Virgo sun & moon
Posted by lisabethur8My emotions are very balanced. I am considerate and kind when I get treated that way.Posted by saggurl88well considering how you just didnt care about your ex scorpio, and made him cry or called him a cry baby, are you sure you are a cancer moon scorpio venus? cause you sound kind of mean and cruel to him, (if he were my brother and you were doing that shit to him i would be pissed off at you cause i want people i love to be with good women who care about them)Posted by aflyingarrowI think it may be the not giving a fuck attitude we have just like Aquas. Sag's usually won't be stubborn and just give in like Aries cause they feel bad and want to work through it.Posted by aquarius_man"Aries women have more heart"Posted by saggurl88aries women have more heart and you can get to live real love stories with them
I'm a Sag and I find them attractive. So why aren't they on your list? Did you have to chase them?
Also, What makes you prefer Aries women over Sagittarius ones?
with my sagittarius girls, we're kinda the same, me & them, no real emotion - lotsa banter, lotsa good fun, but the relationship itself is kinda shallow and hard to pin on the map
Uh what? ?
What make you say a sag have less heart?
I can be very stubborn and just say fuck it
unless that ex of yours is a real jerk and cheated on you alot and abused you, then that's what he gets, he didnt respect you so no respect either.
the fire sign with your placement are water signs in real life, so it's soooo fucking weird to hear you write that. they are really considerate and kind and try not to hurt others.click to expand
And I didn't make him cry. He would whine when he didn't get his way. And if I don't want to do something, then I won't do it. Feel free to do what you want by yourself. I need space and don't want anyone up in my ass all day.
Luckily we never lived together cause I knew he would turn into the stalker type.
I said I still talk to him to this day, how is that not caring? If you're gonna read something that is written, read it word for word. I'm a straight shooter. There are no hidden meanings of anything. You don't need to assume anything or read between the lines. I care about everyone until you give me a reason not to.
Posted by PalerioThis.Posted by 8434EMy honest advice is: before you help others, help yourself first because you're out of control.Posted by PalerioMy brother is factually like this though...
Plot twist: now Aries is suddenly a passive energy 'cause it turns out I don't have it in my chart...
He has poor hygiene too, and introverted.
Same rising as me in Pisces.click to expand
Posted by TheSagPosted by IsoldeI don't think many men think like that at all. Women who are attractive, witty and intelligent have options, every guy knows that but they are a challenge at least because they assume that those women are hard to get, which means they don't sleep around easily (in a guy's mind) which actually makes a guy loosen up a little because his expectations of getting her aren't that high anyway and he doesn't feel any pressure. Actually the highly attractive and flirty party girl would scare a lot of men even more because she might be pretty and hot but also witty and fun to be with, yet you will never know whether she is one you can trust or not. So often enough it's way easier to approach pretty women who come off as intelligent than pretty and funny party girls.Posted by halalbaeIt's not the women that are intimidated, it's the men.Posted by Isoldeyou definitely have that cancer deeper intuition, i totally felt awkward...Posted by halalbaePosted by Isoldeits not how i view myself so i dont even know how to answer that question
@halalbae I would assume being strikingly pretty combined with high intellect can be intimidating and a deal breaker for men. Aren't men scared of you?
but when it comes to matters of the heart... people dont want to intellectualize, they want to feel and rationale is not going to do that
its probably why ive only been with water signs before the libra, they make me feel and shake my head in disbelief lol
with the libra its been a good balance between both
It was a rhetorical question but thank you for answering, didn't want to make you feel awkward ?
I've always been around super attractive women whom are also hyper intellectuals, most of them are usually single as they don't get approached by the opposite sex as much.
In comparison to the average looking people go from relationship to relationships as they come across as more approachable, thats the point I was trying to make.
what do you think or have observed those attractive and intellectual women are intimidated by? ?
I've seen them easily flirt with anything with a pulse but as soon as they start speaking to the highly attractive ones they become really awkward. The men compliment them and then run away, they can't keep up with the wit. And if anything remotely intelligent comes out of her mouth them they start to feel insecure.
I'm good at reading a room, absorb a lot of people's energy.
And my intuition sucks! Life isn't unpredictable anymore, love surprises never thought I'd miss that ?click to expand
Thanks for a male perspective, are those your personal views or you've witnessed other men too?
From experience that is my theory anyways, I'm sure I've even heard men speak about beautiful women that don't get approached (forget the intellect part, that makes them the complete package).
Example: They are aware of the woman's background experience let say they are work colleagues or something and the guy could pine after her but doesn't think he deserves her or deems her out of his league a lot of self doubt basically, also I think most people (not all) always settle they never go after the love of their life.
I remember an interview from Halle Berry saying something like that too, where she doesn't really get approached and the men she dates are usually are pursued by her.
Success, image & intellect really are intimidating for most (not all)?
And as this is an astrology site I would say Aqua, Gems & Scorps are into intelligent women and the attractiveness just happens to be a bonus.
And I do see your point about a confident party girl, cos she proactive and not hanging around to be pursued.
This link below may explain more in a clear manner than my roundabout observations.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-couch/201601/do-men-have-problem-dating-smart-women
And just to be unbiased and open minded found you another link that may prove your point instead of mine but it was s worthy read.
https://medium.com/iron-ladies/are-men-threatened-by-intelligent-women-94297b36cc5d
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by saggurl88Posted by Wineaux15I dealt with a Scorpio man for years and the constant drama and cry baby attitude got annoying. He used try and set stuff up and cancel on me on purpose for a reaction and I just used to be passive about it and ignore it. He would just keep trying. I had to tell him that I adapt to situations if you do it enough times and then I just don't care anymore cause I think you are a liar lol.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Wineaux15Oh I understand. Yeah Scorpios are super sensitive and go cold if they think you have a coldness towards them. They mirror you and if they want something and you go against them, they have a little emotional fit too.Posted by saggurl88Consistency is acting the same everyday. He does text everyday. He calls everyday. I see him everyday. However, I could talk to him in the morning and he's happy and cheerful and by evening he's cold and distant. That's inconcistent. I don't do drama and it seems he thrives off of it... like he wants me to chase him.... psssh please. By consistency I mean be the same person around me you normally are. If I evoke an emotion... discuss it... we talk... we move on. I didn't respond because I wasn't sure how to respond because he said/asked it right after he didn't talk to me all day. I told him I wanted nothing to do with him because he's too wish washy and irrational but he keeps coming back!Posted by Wineaux15So is consistency texting daily? Skipping a day is a big deal? He said something heartfelt, did you respond?
P.S. yesterday he asked me where my heart was.... today he was cold and distant. And they say us Aquas are cray?
If you like someone do you prefer to hear from them everday?
You Aquas don' show much and can hide everything internally while Scorpios hide feelings internally but cant help but show it outwardly.
So you don't get bothered with texting and phone calls all day from someone?
Wow you must know Scorps. Sounds just like him. Ummmm it's weird. I do get bothered by it from other people, but not him. I seriously could be with every minute (when he's not upset and acting out) all day and be absolutely fine. The only other people I could fk that with us:
Pisces: Ex husband
Best friends: Sag & Aqua
Mom: Sag
Sister: Pisces
Otherwise people irritate me
But he still tried!jeez you made him really unhappy.
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You know... I've been wondering.... am I the only one who's nerves you get on? You're soooo quick to judge and you are way off base... not even close to the base of the situation. I'm sure I made him upset, but ??I'm applauding to that. He looks at other women and flirts JUST to get a reaction out of me. He stalks and obsesses over me and does really shitty things to get me upset. It's so childish and as a fellow AQUA you'd think you understand. I'm tired of tiptoeing around people on DXP...judgemental woes! If you don't like me oh well I have a gang of people in Real Life who do! By the way I'm tipsy... I'd never say all this if I wasn't, so it's how I feel.