Bisexuality...The Discussion
Creepypants .. everybody, from my perspective, is indeed, bi-sexual.
From the position of where I observe the world .. the laws of attraction aren't limited to the sexual act "itself", as you pointed out, quote, "a ligitimate relationship isn't necessarily a prerequisite to being bisexual".
In the animal kingdom, to include, homosapiens, we are wired for attraction NOT according to our "thoughts", rather, from our instincts. Our most rudimentary instinct is to procreate, and this drive comes from pharamones, which is not detectable by our conscious awareness .. this instinct is our strongest and supercedes all others, it directs us with every interaction we have with other humans, to relate to friends of same, as well as, opposite genders.
So, in reality .. when a person befriends a person and becomes very close to that person, whether thier "thoughts" are sexual, or not .. has no bearing on their inherent sexual orientation, since it was the drive to procreate that made these two people attracted to each other.
Straight, Gay, Bi .. those are just labels that our "brains" told us to do because we can't make sense out of why we have these desires when they aren't asked for by our intelligence. So, if we label ourselves and say "I am straight" .. then I have a certain criteria in which I've programmed myself to adhere to, in an attempt to push back any desire that might present itself.
Just like dogs .. if we listened to our instincts, instead of obeying the programming, we would be humping what our scents picked up, irrespective of gender
From the position of where I observe the world .. the laws of attraction aren't limited to the sexual act "itself", as you pointed out, quote, "a ligitimate relationship isn't necessarily a prerequisite to being bisexual".
In the animal kingdom, to include, homosapiens, we are wired for attraction NOT according to our "thoughts", rather, from our instincts. Our most rudimentary instinct is to procreate, and this drive comes from pharamones, which is not detectable by our conscious awareness .. this instinct is our strongest and supercedes all others, it directs us with every interaction we have with other humans, to relate to friends of same, as well as, opposite genders.
So, in reality .. when a person befriends a person and becomes very close to that person, whether thier "thoughts" are sexual, or not .. has no bearing on their inherent sexual orientation, since it was the drive to procreate that made these two people attracted to each other.
Straight, Gay, Bi .. those are just labels that our "brains" told us to do because we can't make sense out of why we have these desires when they aren't asked for by our intelligence. So, if we label ourselves and say "I am straight" .. then I have a certain criteria in which I've programmed myself to adhere to, in an attempt to push back any desire that might present itself.
Just like dogs .. if we listened to our instincts, instead of obeying the programming, we would be humping what our scents picked up, irrespective of gender
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