Suicide Loss, Coping, and Prevetion
I haven't written an actual topic in a while. Suicide is one of those topics that can be difficult (sometimes impossible) to discuss. I myself have never been suicidal, but I've known those who have been, some of whom unfortunately have taken their lives.
Suicide is so abrupt and so sudden, that it elicits unique emotions that are not necessarily evoked when someone dies from other causes. Regardless of your thoughts/stance on suicide itself, how have you coped with losing of a person to it?
I personally got angry when my friend died, then after some time chose to remember him by recalling funny personal memories about him. It was the best way for me to cope and to honor the my firend's memory. Part of this was because I tend to tell a lot of funny stories and it seemed that being positive helped my other friends cope with their emotions too.
What has been your experience?
Suicide is so abrupt and so sudden, that it elicits unique emotions that are not necessarily evoked when someone dies from other causes. Regardless of your thoughts/stance on suicide itself, how have you coped with losing of a person to it?
I personally got angry when my friend died, then after some time chose to remember him by recalling funny personal memories about him. It was the best way for me to cope and to honor the my firend's memory. Part of this was because I tend to tell a lot of funny stories and it seemed that being positive helped my other friends cope with their emotions too.
What has been your experience?
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I'm sorry to hear this, I find Cancer and Pisces such a beautiful, classic match. Your two Taurus moons would've been tricky though, lot of room for disagreement.
The break up process differs for girls and guys. Girls usually get hit with the full impact of the break up early on but then are able to bounce back. Guys go through phases of self-denial and burying their emotions (pretending they're fine with the break up) before eventually feeling the impact much later on. Now would be a good time to expand your network so that you have your support/people to talk to when you need them.
Time will heal everything. Focus on improving yourself and your life by hanging out with your friends (steer away from any self-destructive behaviour), doing activities you enjoy and living life. I don't have any personal experience with this but I've seen plenty of my friends in your position.
All the best and stay strong!
The break up process differs for girls and guys. Girls usually get hit with the full impact of the break up early on but then are able to bounce back. Guys go through phases of self-denial and burying their emotions (pretending they're fine with the break up) before eventually feeling the impact much later on. Now would be a good time to expand your network so that you have your support/people to talk to when you need them.
Time will heal everything. Focus on improving yourself and your life by hanging out with your friends (steer away from any self-destructive behaviour), doing activities you enjoy and living life. I don't have any personal experience with this but I've seen plenty of my friends in your position.
All the best and stay strong!
Posted by lisabethur8I admit my answer was very generic and restricted to Sun Sign stereotypes. Technically you'd have to look at the entire birth chart.Posted by AquaScorpio9ya'll need to look at the moon for emotions. lol that's what every astrologer keeps saying.
All signs are capable of feeling emotions, some just choose not to show it.
I agree that Virgo, Capricorn and Aquarians are the most unlikely to show their real emotions. They do feel it but have trouble/don't like expressing it i.e. crying for most of them is seen as a sign of weakness and the last thing they want to be perceived as is vulnerable and weak. Thus they earn the reputation for being cold and out of touch with their emotions.click to expand
Also, I have a Capricorn moon but I'm very open, expressive and in touch with my emotions. I definitely don't match the typical Capricorn mooner.
Posted by queenaries_Already explained why. All are combos a Virgo sun can have. If you want a specific combo, just ask.
Why are you only posting some combos
Posted by BiboroonAsk for combos and I will help. Not going to post the entire book with all the combos for no reason.
Post some more sun mars combos pls 🙂
Posted by Dead_Kermithe wants to FEEL badly....to understand WHAT it is what i got from it.Posted by lisabethur8You think so? I thought him to be rather emotional, albeit more in the sense of sadness and his wish to belong.
every guy there and other people say, he is awesome in the Blade Runner role.cause he a robot/no emotion.
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that is his desire. to get away from the coldness and the darkness and merge with the light.
Posted by DamnataSun in libra mars in scorpio, sun in cap mars in sag. Thanks 😊Posted by BiboroonAsk for combos and I will help. Not going to post the entire book with all the combos for no reason.
Post some more sun mars combos pls 🙂click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manPosted by joanne_p Taurus woman.
she was a queen bee in a company.
before - maybe 4-5 years ago i had some assumptions she could be toxic and had a bad influence on me.
even sometimes my mum was telling me that i shuld have cut contact with her. but ok..
3 years ago she was the queen in a company. every boy knew her. she was telling that virgo was her best friend. she was befrending every man in a company, giving him her secrets and taking out his secrets because of a 'true friendship'.
you should've listened to your mom. taurus girls are the stupidest women on earth, like dumb cows.
and their influence on aries women is really really bad.
you wrote here a shitload of information - not all of it interesting but pretty dull i would say - but the conclusion im drawing here is you let yourself be abused and manipulated by work colleagues. why are you lame like that?
why don't you step over them and tell them to let you be? you aries are not common folk like dumbass taurus women cows or gay-ass virgo males.
there's a saying - qui se semble se ressemble, you know what that means. if you keep hanging out with these people, they will never understand you but will try to control you.
fucqk the stupid taurus woman and the gay ass virgo, i sayclick to expand
yes i left the company, i left taurus and i deleted her and her fake friends from my life.
i think now virgo realises i am not dependable on her.
because before when i started being in a company i was a nice person. i didnt want to hurt anyone and that s why i was the 'nice girl'.
but she felt that and was manipulating me. i didnt know that because i have never been in a situation like that.
i am aries i have the power. but my power was stuck in me for so long.
i didnt open up to people very much because i knew that some of them would be scared of my power.
when i left the company they saw me as an individual unit working on myself.
not dependable of a taurus girl anyone
taurus woman had a tendency to gossip around about people who were not invited. and many times i was a witness of some weird stories about someone that is not present in a company. like giving the advices and telling about people. so bad. i didnt stick to that for long time
Posted by AquaScorpio9Posted by lisabethur8I admit my answer was very generic and restricted to Sun Sign stereotypes. Technically you'd have to look at the entire birth chart.Posted by AquaScorpio9ya'll need to look at the moon for emotions. lol that's what every astrologer keeps saying.
All signs are capable of feeling emotions, some just choose not to show it.
I agree that Virgo, Capricorn and Aquarians are the most unlikely to show their real emotions. They do feel it but have trouble/don't like expressing it i.e. crying for most of them is seen as a sign of weakness and the last thing they want to be perceived as is vulnerable and weak. Thus they earn the reputation for being cold and out of touch with their emotions.
Also, I have a Capricorn moon but I'm very open, expressive and in touch with my emotions. I definitely don't match the typical Capricorn mooner.click to expand
that's why i like to look at Terrace House and the real life interactions of people who don't know astrology so they are NOT "biased" and they just think this way...i want to see the realness of people without their knowledge. and see how they interact. the knowledge may interfere...
your combo is really cold though lol
unless you are dominant water/fire, ......
cause Abraham Lincoln is domiannt Pisces and Sagittarius, even though he is Aqua sun/Capricorn moon and he was loved alot.
Posted by norelationshipgoalsHahahaha! I actually joined a few days ago to get advice on my now ex as we just couldn't seem to better our communication.
And you joined dxp
Nowhere to go but up from here
It's a good forum though, I found some really great advice here.
Posted by aquarius_man
oh i see now - u left the company! that s the spirit! avoid these toxic stupid ass taurus women & virgo gay men
ps - aurus woman acting like a bitsch in heat? only because she likes the virgo man for herself, ill tell you that
yes i know but why?
she has been in a relationship for 2 years with 5 year younger aqua man...
before 8 -7 years ago it was the same.
she wasin a relationship with a cancer man, befrending virgo ( other virgo man who left the country 3 years ago). when she became single virgo was hitting on her. she didnt want. then she was involved with capricorn befrending virgo man ( the older one). then left capricorn. virgo hit on her again she didnt want. he was doing everything to her. she didnt want him.
he told her she was a bad person and left the country to work abroad. now after -7-8 years she added him again in social media and so one.
and its the same circle. that she must have a controll over virgo men in her lifes.
this is the 2nd virgo man there was something between me and him and she is involved.
i will tell you that in high school 7-8 years ago i was dating that 1st virgo man as well and then she appeared .... and the story is the same now.
im not joking.
i am away now.
i dont know her.