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Posted by nikkistarUnfortunately, she's not allowed to answer this question.Posted by firebunny@ladyneptune can tell you.Posted by nikkistarPlease elaborate.
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I have a Gemini Ex who I went out with for 6 months last year, He broke up with me back in December last year. We still talk every day and we've been going through the toxic loop. I wanted to make things work. I laid everything out on the table and he always says he doesn't know what he wants but he can't stop talking or texting me so we decided to be friends but we were always more than just friends because we still have sex and sex is fantastic with him. At this point, I just want him to cop on because he doesn't want to move on and yet he doesn't want to make things better for us. I this morning I decided to leave him altogether.
On the other hand, since I wasn't in a relationship. This year technically speaking, I've started off as being single. Went on few dates and came across one guy. He's Aries. At the start, we were both just looking for casual dating as he's moving away to NY for a year. Long story short, I fell for him hard. But he's such a challenge. He also has this effect on me where I overthink everything when it comes to him because I like him so much. When he moved to NY last month, I was prepared to be single again even though I was super devasted. He ended up texting me every day and rining me. We got into a bad fight 2 weeks ago because he forgot my birthday and I made a deal about it but he knew it was more than that. I bottled things up with him because I wanted him to be happy. so we laid it all out and he got super mad at me for not telling him how I feel about him. Anyway, he knows I love him. but we never defined the relationship. I'm visiting him in 5 weeks and I can't wait but I don't think he's interested anymore. He's texting me less. I've confronted him before and he said he's stress because he's still looking for a job and get settled in etc..
I think the problem is me. I once had this perfect relationship with a Libra man 5 years ago and let me tell you I was stupid and I didn't treat him right. since then every relationship I've been in I always compared to the one I had with him. He would do anything for me.
I regret it everyday thinking back and wishing I could go back and treat him right. I'm not in love with the Libra ex anymore. I just miss the idea of being loved and loving someone,
I'm so tired of not being able to open up and connect with people. please tell me I'm not the only one.
Any one who's been through this, please tell me there's hope.
On the other hand, since I wasn't in a relationship. This year technically speaking, I've started off as being single. Went on few dates and came across one guy. He's Aries. At the start, we were both just looking for casual dating as he's moving away to NY for a year. Long story short, I fell for him hard. But he's such a challenge. He also has this effect on me where I overthink everything when it comes to him because I like him so much. When he moved to NY last month, I was prepared to be single again even though I was super devasted. He ended up texting me every day and rining me. We got into a bad fight 2 weeks ago because he forgot my birthday and I made a deal about it but he knew it was more than that. I bottled things up with him because I wanted him to be happy. so we laid it all out and he got super mad at me for not telling him how I feel about him. Anyway, he knows I love him. but we never defined the relationship. I'm visiting him in 5 weeks and I can't wait but I don't think he's interested anymore. He's texting me less. I've confronted him before and he said he's stress because he's still looking for a job and get settled in etc..
I think the problem is me. I once had this perfect relationship with a Libra man 5 years ago and let me tell you I was stupid and I didn't treat him right. since then every relationship I've been in I always compared to the one I had with him. He would do anything for me.
I regret it everyday thinking back and wishing I could go back and treat him right. I'm not in love with the Libra ex anymore. I just miss the idea of being loved and loving someone,
I'm so tired of not being able to open up and connect with people. please tell me I'm not the only one.
Any one who's been through this, please tell me there's hope.
There's a good chance she is telling the truth and is just busy. Regardless, when someone doesn't respond back, the only thing you can do is go about your business. Don't let it trouble you. If she gets back to you, great. If not, it's no big deal. The last thing you want to do is scare her off by being clingy/needy. Give her the space to come back to you.
Likewise, unless an Aqua is upset with you (which doesn't seem to be the case here), just know that ghosting is in their nature. They may do this because they are busy or because they are trying to figure out their feelings for you. I've known a few Aqua women who admitted to ghosting on the guys they later started to date. Aquas are often more detached from their emotions and sometimes need a moment to sort them out.
Likewise, unless an Aqua is upset with you (which doesn't seem to be the case here), just know that ghosting is in their nature. They may do this because they are busy or because they are trying to figure out their feelings for you. I've known a few Aqua women who admitted to ghosting on the guys they later started to date. Aquas are often more detached from their emotions and sometimes need a moment to sort them out.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by TerramineYou do realise Lisa is a hypocrite?Posted by edgelord
*thread about standards*
*lisa has a bitch fit about women with standards higher than hers*
Honestly, just judging by the side she's on in regards to retardironi, tells me she's pretty alright in this regard. She knows worthwhile priorities at least.
She's married to a dude that supports her financially, so she can stay home and follow celebrity gossip and bitch at other women.
So she obv is okay with her husband working and paying her way.click to expand
seriously my husband was POOR when i met him. why does that make me a hypocrite?? i dont look for guys who are wealthy.
this topic still going?
and @arielle, you argue with women on here all the time. I dont know why you went to point that out, like you seem upset i am married with someone who takes care of me. i also work too you know but not full time.
Posted by LadyNeptunei just went to look up statistics in the U.S. and the AVERAGE income is 30k for individuals.Posted by lisabethur8Dead end job is the Starbucks barista with an engineering degree who is content to make coffee for minimum wage.Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXif he stays a postman, then what?? you gonna leave him? or he stays a truck driver? it's time to divorce?Posted by lisabethur8
lol
that "can't stay in a dead end job" makes me lol
cause honestly if i said that to my future man (before i married)
he would literally tell me to fuck off.
literally say just like terramine said, you're not entitled to my success bitch. lol
edit alot of men HATE entitled bitches.
How is it ridiculous to expect your mate to share the load with you financially?
Are you supposed to suffer financially or carry the load financially for the rest of your life because you chose "love" over financial stability and security for not just yourself but the future children you'd most likely be having in the future?
You act as though women on here are saying they want doctors and CEO's. All they're asking for is financial stability and security. Both of which should be important to ANYONE entering a serious relationship whether they be male or female.
then all you care about is money.
maybe LIVE within your means/your needs. dont go luxury and budgt.
it's not hard. people live within their means all the time though.
even both couples working full time with 30,000 a year income on average.
All the examples your saying, truck drivers and postal workers make good money. If your unionized your set for life.
I'm not sure where you can survive off of 30k in the us without being stuck in the rent trap? A 1bd/1ba rental here will cost you 20k for the year. It's not about luxury and excess, it's about quality of life.
In order to afford to own property and have children you need to make over 100k these days. Unless you were fortunate enough to inherit property or purchase 20 years ago. The struggle is real 😅click to expand
so if it's average, then alot of other people make even maybe less than that.
the wealthy are actually a smaller percentage if you think about it. All that stuff on Forbes are for the elite folks who probably never seen a soup kitchen.
i do agree with Terramine in that you have to be HUMBLE, you can't just go around being entitled, but that was my opinion. I know people will want to be entitled all they want. But i notice that Terramine has Virgo venus Scorpio mars, Pisces moon so i do agree with him alot in many things.
my husband and his friends, them being men would never go for an entitled woman. I was never entitled that way. i didnt know what would happen in the future.
edit so yes my advice was SPOT ON and dead on. be humble, and really? my arguement was with bitcheronni over her leaving men who are truck drivers, postman ect, normal jobs, and glad to see that LadyNeptune pointed out that they are unionized. i take it that's alot of benefits for the family household?
good.
my husband and his friends, them being men would never go for an entitled woman. I was never entitled that way. i didnt know what would happen in the future.
edit so yes my advice was SPOT ON and dead on. be humble, and really? my arguement was with bitcheronni over her leaving men who are truck drivers, postman ect, normal jobs, and glad to see that LadyNeptune pointed out that they are unionized. i take it that's alot of benefits for the family household?
good.
I'm not a leo sun but I have mercury and venus in leo and can relate to the giving nature. I also have a pisces jupiter as my dominant sign and planet. It has been taking me a while to acknowledged that giving needs to be reciprocate. Not because you should give expecting something back (never), but because personal relationships should be reciprocate and should be a two way channel.
Posted by Terramineas for the 1% i totally believe you, it's all over online if you google.Posted by lisabethur8
i just went to look up statistics in the U.S. and the AVERAGE income is 30k for individuals.
so if it's average, then alot of other people make even maybe less than that.
the wealthy are actually a smaller percentage if you think about it. All that stuff on Forbes are for the elite folks who probably never seen a soup kitchen.
There's a Rich 10% , and then there's the Megarich 1% that is stealing every other groups' money. Including the Rich 10% 's money lol. Everyone else is either "poor" or "poverty". There's no average middle class anymore. It's just that "poor" in a first world country isn't as bad, as other countries. You can buy playstation 4s and all that jazz at a relatively slow but feasible pace.
Anyways yeah, There's more people on the lower end than there is on the higher end. That would also still be true without the huge wealth gap. There's always more people below the average line than above.click to expand
that's just crazy.
and the top 10% is just as small.
thanks for the post above but i dont always feel worthy.
that might be my capricorn speaking, which sucks.
my husband always tells me you can't think like that. it's a hard battle though.
https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/03/brookings-1-percent/473478/
edited because i copied and pasted my answer with the link twice.lol
Posted by Nevermoreuh, that was our choice later when we got married, both our choices.Posted by lisabethur8Putting down on others of their own choice. If they don't want to have a person who has a dead end job, then so be it because thats their choice. Nothing to judge, angry or need to lashes others of their own taste. Nor even should feel taken personal at all since they are not living in the same line as you.Posted by Arielle83Posted by TerramineYou do realise Lisa is a hypocrite?Posted by edgelord
*thread about standards*
*lisa has a bitch fit about women with standards higher than hers*
Honestly, just judging by the side she's on in regards to retardironi, tells me she's pretty alright in this regard. She knows worthwhile priorities at least.
She's married to a dude that supports her financially, so she can stay home and follow celebrity gossip and bitch at other women.
So she obv is okay with her husband working and paying her way.
seriously my husband was POOR when i met him. why does that make me a hypocrite?? i dont look for guys who are wealthy.
this topic still going?
Like you choose to be an housewife while your husband work and reading celebrity gossips.click to expand
you are all on here reading astrology and posting yourselves.
dont try to spin this on me.
it's like you all dont like the way i give advice. It totally sucks. cause it's the advice i would give MYSELF.
and how would i put down others?? if anything people put me down. but it looks like i am the one putting others down.
dead end job again? jesus christ..
you people are strange.
Posted by TheTinManPosted by lisabethur8Um *scratches head* like this post of mines will sound a bit strange and unusual if not a whole lot strange and a whole lot unusual. I know it'll have all the readers here think I'm some kind of nutshit. But oh well... anyway.....
and @arielle, you argue with women on here all the time. I dont know why you went to point that out, like you seem upset i am married with someone who takes care of me. i also work too you know but not full time.
Personally I don't have no problems with you nor Arielle. The both of you seem pretty alright. I just dont understand why most here is against you honestly. You give good insights and probably can read my chart like a book if I post it. Now here's the funny nutshit part. It has nothing to do with this thread at all yes it's completely off and some might even say somethings wrong with me but all is fine. I just want to say this. As far as the men on this site goes, I have nothing but love for those ones who has humor like ands (Yes me may be slacking off a bit but he still cracks me up here and there), Terramine, GlaringTruth (sad he deleted), twinkletoes just to name a few. And as for the females of this site I got nothing but the ultimate love for those ones who showed their feet. They know who they are. Even those ones who I have had issues with or still have issues with If they show their feet those issues will indeed be reversed.click to expand
lol
yeah i love joking and having fun on here.
but sometimes, some issues are super serious. people can't tell jokes at times.
your jokes are pretty obvious though.
well most of the time.