Can someone help me to understand what is going on in his Aquarian mind?

Hmm. Tricky. It's comforting to know you think he likes me and his behavior was genuine, because I feel a bit blindsided by the "let me nurse you when you're sick" / "let me totally disappear" act. It feels like weird behavior to me and also made me feel a little abandoned by someone I let get close to me at a vulnerable moment, which didn't feel nice.

@Mystarsshine I do feel a little exhausted tbh. Like it should be this complicated, but at the same time I actually deeply care about this man now so it's frustrating.

I will try and give him a small amount of leeway on this and maybe try doing some things as friends.