Posted by MondayMorningPosted by Mr_PinchyI already did text him to thank him, and he was standoffish and distant
Call him now that youre okay. Disguise it as a thank you call. He will most likely be very pleased if not outright happy you called.
The disappearing after nurture is him not wanting to give an impression he expects a date out of you because "i nursed her back to health, only me, myself and I". Or coming too strong. But he'd like one for sure.That was 5 days ago now and he didn't continue the conversation. He is so strange! I know from experience this means he has headed off to his doubts again so I leave him alone.
I think he finds it comforting after being intimate with one woman to be quickly intimate with someone else. Maybe a defence mechanismclick to expand