why do i feel big change in 2017 and on? ( Aries)
my moon is in capricorn and so as saturn in capricorn- is it related somehow? even thought i am Aries, i feel like having 2 personalities. Very outgoing for external 'mask' and shy, more subtle for best friends, for family and so one. I do not open up and show people my inner side very often.
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Posted by Chuckcemare leo men not usually texters?Posted by warriorlionessWell literally the way it sounds, as if you have emotional/trust issues. Guys typically aren't looking for women with issues, especially if we've had to deal with emotionally damaged women in the past. It's just not attractive. This could lead to a guy closing himself off from you as a safegaurd. While some guys like their women a bit unhinged, most want a woman who is generally low maintenance (or "chill"). Again every guy is different, so this is all general.Posted by ChuckcemWeird I was literally told that 2 weeks ago to be careful with my words.Posted by warriorlionessJust wait and see what he does. I do advise that you be a bit more careful with your words in the future. Telling him not to get attached while stating that you have initimacy issues may have come across a certain way. Since he knows you are going through a divorce, he may be more understanding about your situation though.Posted by ChuckcemPosted by warriorlionessPosted by Chuckcem
Sounds like he may be ghosting. It's possible he's the one that gave you the STD (or maybe he found out already). Regardless, it's only been a month. It doesn't say much about the guy if he's already disappearing on you.
That being said, he might've been scared off when you said that you had something "important" to tell him. Seeing that it's only been a month, there's no way that can be good. Might be another reason he's silent.
When I told him I had something to tell him I stressed that I was not pregnant and that it had nothing to do with love nor commitment.
I get it, but I'm just giving you an outside point of view. If you knew someone for only a month, it's highly unlikely than any important conversation that needed to be discussed so soon would be positive. He may have run through a laundry list of possibilities already (good, bad, and neutral):
"I'm pregnant" (which you already)
"I'm married"
"I'm wealthy"
"I'm sick/dying"
"I may/may not have an STD" (which is actually the case here. This could even be too intense for him)
"I love you" (which is not good if he doesn't feel the same way about you after a month)
"I'm between jobs"
"I'm leaving town for a while"
"I'm going to jail"
"I have kids" (which would scare some people. In this case I'd asssume this would be fine since he has a child)
"I'm very religious" (depends on the person)
"I've never been in a relationship before" (a red flag for many people)
"I used to be a man"
"I need a date for my friend's wedding"
"I'm getting divorced"
"I'm in rehab"
"I really like you and have been hurt before" (completely normal, though possibly too intense if the person isn't serious)
"I can't do this unfortunately"
I know these are all over the place, but with only a month in, he may not be invested enough to have an important conversation. While ghosting isn't the best response, who knows where his mind is. For example, who knows what his past relationships have been like. He could be overreacting and thinking, "Great...another crazy one," even though he doesn't know the full situation yet.
That being said, he could just be a busy guy. We Leos are busy people by nature and usually have a lot of activities soaking up our time (jobs, school, social activities, family, etc). He may be waiting until he has a free moment to engage you. However if/when you do tell him your news (which is the right thing to do), just know that he may not be that understanding about it. He may drop things altogether.
And I know there could be more in the list but I've been honest from the get go. He knew I was I'm the process of divorce(he even knew when I filed it)he knows I have kids and other things on that list I went through. I'm definitely not a pushy type and honestly all our whatever it is lol I have not texted him much at all.
My gut says he has alot on his plate and he's afraid of adding on more with whatever this important is.
I do genuinely like this guy other than him not reaching out and it may be he's busy however I just want answers and to tell him whatds up. Till this things where completely cool.
When we 1st met I told him not to get attached and so yea not sure what that did to him either with me saying that. I also told him when we 1st met flat out what I wanted. Not a long term serious relationship with a guy. Just hanging out, getting to know each other, maybe having sex, doing this but I also said if I DO decide to get into a relationship that's long term and serious I want it to be with a nice guy. He seemed he wanted more in the begging too as opposed to me and idk maybe the dynamics switched. The day o did tell him I had something important to tell him I also told him remember when i told you not to get attached? He said yea and I said I said that because I fear real intimacy(not sex) and I'm still afraid but ready to go in baby steps and than he said me too. So see why I'm confused? Lol
"Telling him not to get attached while telling him you have intimacy issues might come across a certain way" ok so how could one take that?
Also generally speaking if a guy hasn't invested much time with you, revealing your personal problems too quickly could send him running for the hills. While it's always best to be honest, doing that too much honesty could also make you appear desperate. Desperation is never attractive. From his point of view, he won't know how deep your issues are until further down the line. In which case he may not stick around to find out.
It's the same reasons guys are told not to divlge any of their issues/fears early in the relationship with women. It may make them look crazy/needy and scare women off.click to expand
Ok so wait and see what he does so just dont reach out to him at all and than if he reaches out try to get together to talk about things?
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Posted by FishyDudeEnded up going for the Oneplus 3. I should have it by the end of next week, yay.Posted by rockyroadicecreamPerhaps find out about the Nokia 8? I don't think it has bloatware.Posted by FishyDudeLooks like it's up there with the Honor 8 generally, but the the OS and bloatware though. :/
I've just recently got myself a Huawei P9 on contract and I'm very happy with it. Superb camera, runs fast, and it looks good. I was thinking of either going for a Nokia 8 or a Huawei P10, but I can't justify paying so much a month for a phone. The P9 isn't pure Android, like the Nexus devices of course, but it's enjoyable. I like it because I came from an iPhone, and I feel I have so much more freedom with Android.click to expand
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You're better off masturbating than starting threads if you're looking to make yourself feel good.
I am an empath for one so add that onto the Leo heart yes I have done a TON for others in the past, but this for me goes into more than just being a leo. My family unit, etc...big people pleaser putting everyones needs in front of my own and not doing what is best for me. Thats changed after 20 years now and now i take care of myself and dont do stuff for peple like i use too.
Posted by ChuckcemLOVE this! Yes because if we put all that energy in what happens to use? The Leo sun burns out!
When I was younger, but then I matured and realized that you can't fix people or their issues. It's important to respect yourself and the energy you put out as well. That means I no longer spend much energy on those who don't appreciate what my efforts.
He’s addicted to video games. It’s hard to have any relationship when there’s a serious addiction problem. I don’t believe you’re in a real serious relationship. Just a casual one for the sake of companionship.
Posted by LibraLovesHimHahaha. What a lovely way to explain it ❤️
Relationships of any kind are like the perfect ingredients coming together. Sometimes all the spices come together, sometimes salt only meets pepper. Sometimes you find parsley trying to creep into the indian recipe coz he's been confused for cilantro, before you know it he's like wtf am I doing here?! hahaha!
Posted by aquarius_manPosted by SofiaV87a male escort. its usually young good-looking males who choose to have sex with older men for money.Posted by aquarius_manWhets a rentboy ? Lol
at least he wasnt a rentboy
suck an old mans flaccid cock for hard cash.click to expand
Ahhhh, well, some ppl would do anything for money. I would rather gauge my eyeball out with my toenail than do anything that would make me feel uncomfortable , cuz u know some of these rentboys aren't feeling the most comfortable in those type of situations lol
I just want him to come back to me how do you get a leo man to come back lol
Does it matter if he’s gay or bi? No need to make a big deal about it even if it bothers you. He is who he is. He told you because he trusted you. Maintain that trust within yourself too.