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I’m just getting cold feets. But it’s still happening, I just want to make sure it’s good and fun for everyone. And extremely stressful. Lol.
Posted by OCJackI thought you was a fuckin MAN?? How you judging what somebody that's actually attracted to men, got to say??
Mel Gibson is just... gross you fuckin weirdo.
Bruce Willis PLAYS an average joe, but he doesn't look average. He's a 10 in his own way, at least an 8 if you can't accept that judgement.
Posted by xoxfluteYeah cafe astrology was the only site that said Libra. And I know my birth time!Posted by HippieGemHaha, it's probably Leo Rising then. I take it cafeastrology is the 4th and says you have a Libra Rising?Posted by xoxfluteLol, yep Aries Moon 😊 Sometimes to my detriment. I thought for a long time I was Libra Rising, going by cafe astrology. Then I checked Astro, astrotheme and Astro-seek which I just discovered and told Copperdove about. But idk if it’s a reliable site yet.Posted by HippieGemDang, I forgot you had this moon.
That’s me 😬Leo Rising?
But I kind of liked reading charts on there because it seems like it’s geared towards beginners who don’t know how to read there own charts (aka me) lol.
But three out of four sites say Leo Rising so I guess that’s what it is?
By the way, you're dating a Cap yes? Or did I also remember that wrong?
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So if three out of four say it’s Leo I’ll go with that. And yes, still with the Cap. We had some rough times, but the good days and moments outweigh the hard moments. He’s it. Like really it for me. It’s kind of scary. But I’ll take the risk. And now I’m getting all mushy :/
I’m sure I’ll complain about him again in a thread one day, haha.
What’s your moon and rising? I wish I was good at remembering everyone’s placements but I’m really not.
Hello,
I am a Virgo sun Sagittarius moon who was involved with a Gemini man just about one year ago. I am a 30-year-old female and he is a 27-year-old male. We both work in the film industry and that's how we met each other. When we originally met he was working the second unit camera and I work grip and electric department. We were hired by the production company separately and he really had no authority in any way. We were involved with one another for seven months and then one day he ghosted me. I wasn't aware of the term ghosting before I met him. After a lot of confusion, I was searching the internet and learned about the term. I was very heartbroken and thrown off when he disappeared. About four months after that event he started seeing another person and still currently they are together. Today I received a text message from a woman asking if I wanted to work for him pretty much. Telling me he is the Director of Photography, thus he recommended me for the job. The amount I would make for a ten hour day would be $ 600. So, he would be the director of photography and essentially I would be his "swing" between gripping and electric. I must note that he has moved up in the ranks and now has some authority if he's working as a DP. My question really is what the hell was he thinking when he recommended me? I know no one knows exactly what someone else would be thinking but he is very much a textbook Gemini so maybe this would leave clues. I'm very off-put by it all, we didn't exactly leave off on the best of notes. We aren't friends and I'm sure he's very aware that I've blocked him in every form of social media. He surely must have other people to call for the job, he's a social butterfly. The whole situation seems contrived, even the amount of money I would make that day. It's as if he's trying to entice me, lure me in. Please, any advice on why he would do this would be so much appreciated.
I am a Virgo sun Sagittarius moon who was involved with a Gemini man just about one year ago. I am a 30-year-old female and he is a 27-year-old male. We both work in the film industry and that's how we met each other. When we originally met he was working the second unit camera and I work grip and electric department. We were hired by the production company separately and he really had no authority in any way. We were involved with one another for seven months and then one day he ghosted me. I wasn't aware of the term ghosting before I met him. After a lot of confusion, I was searching the internet and learned about the term. I was very heartbroken and thrown off when he disappeared. About four months after that event he started seeing another person and still currently they are together. Today I received a text message from a woman asking if I wanted to work for him pretty much. Telling me he is the Director of Photography, thus he recommended me for the job. The amount I would make for a ten hour day would be $ 600. So, he would be the director of photography and essentially I would be his "swing" between gripping and electric. I must note that he has moved up in the ranks and now has some authority if he's working as a DP. My question really is what the hell was he thinking when he recommended me? I know no one knows exactly what someone else would be thinking but he is very much a textbook Gemini so maybe this would leave clues. I'm very off-put by it all, we didn't exactly leave off on the best of notes. We aren't friends and I'm sure he's very aware that I've blocked him in every form of social media. He surely must have other people to call for the job, he's a social butterfly. The whole situation seems contrived, even the amount of money I would make that day. It's as if he's trying to entice me, lure me in. Please, any advice on why he would do this would be so much appreciated.
Posted by capitalismYer welcome, and what are your placements? Dish it, if we’re alike I’m really curious.Posted by HippieGemThanks!
I don’t know how to explain myself and how others perceive me. I’m really friendly and sociable when I’m forced to be, but not outgoing and pretty shy. Not as shy as I used to be, but I still get panicky when like three people are all giving me there undivided attention and I’m talking. I freeze up and want to seriously run away.
My mom tried to get me diagnosed with “chronic shyness” when I was six because I was reading above my grade level and my teacher wouldn’t put me in the advanced group since I wouldn’t talk, lol. I don’t even know if that’s a thing but she tried.
I’m sociable, and one of my jobs is waitressing, I like to force myself to interact with others. You’d probably get the first impression that I’m really friendly and quiet, but I have that Aries Moon temper and I’m really loud at times and sometimes no one can shut me up. But I’m all of that. I can be quiet and keep to myself often even with the ones that matter most in my life.
I strategically throw my phone in places where it won’t break regularly when I get upset. Then I’m over it and trying to correct whatever problem just happened whether it’s my fault or not.
And meh to flirting. I don’t, even when I’m not in a relationship. But some people take being really nice as flirting so...idk. I don’t cheat and I would never do that to a guy I want a future with.
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Posted by LibraMudra
Will he ever put his lion pride aside and apologize? Ever? Even for all that christmas drama? Shit drives me nuts. Typed out my piece for him on Xmas. Did it with dignity, love and respect. Well wishes. Sorries. Blocked him on everything but clearly forgot email. We never email.
Can I ever submit and play like he is right even when I know he is full of shit to keep the peace? Ignore it all like nothing happened? No. I'm not a little bitch. Equals or that's a hard ass pass.
Am I stubborn too? Hell yea but I can bend and compromise. Suck it up and say sorry even when it makes me cringe.
Will I ever come out of my detached state of being from him? He will get nothing out of me until he can own up to the fuck ups. When it comes to his turn, he changes the subject or denies lol. I spent many nights crying on the floor missing him but now I really like having my space back. Actually, it's fucking awesome.
He left the country back to ireland with immigration phases left and he wanted space? Here's his space. Sure, he had it in the back of his head on the 2nd air plane that there would be a chance I wouldn't ever take him back? He was ok with that.
I know what it is like when this guy wants me. It is fucking phenomenonal. His love is... God, I don't feel like I could ever have love like that again. His actions this past 3 months seperated... He is hurting and not making great decisions. I'm just... done... 3 months of this teeter tottering. If he wanted me, he would be solid like he used to be. I feel so closed off from him now.
Letting go comes easy. You know why? Because I work at a place where people are at complete rock bottom every day in trauma and sickness. People need me and I need them. I work my fucking ass off in this place to feed and cloth a little girl. An extension of myself who is number one. To make sure she is well taken care of in the future, I am making something of myself and finishing school. I've got shit to do... And it's better to not put it off anymore which is what I would be doing with him here. Actually, I thank him for leaving.
All over this guy, I picked myself up off the ground, I prayed. I prayed so fucking hard. I swear, meditating is just about all I could do to stay afloat with the pain in day to day life. Nights and nights. All the tears. Regrets and remorse. Reclaiming my awesome city and transforming failure into strength. There's no other choice but strength. And here it is. And here it will continue to be.
So many lessons. I just surrender. All we have is time now. And I'm gonna spend this time becoming the best human I can be. I won't be responding to him. I need a month or maybe a few. Not this once a week reel of emotions to snag on. I realize he may not ever respond after this time. I love him dearly. I set it free.
It has been 9 days. Would you reply?
I dont know, but I think its perfectly possible he is torn.... he may love you, but your life together and him leaving his country to be with you was maybe too much for him...
you didnt really know each other (I mean, everyday life together) before jumping into the marriage... that is why you didnt know about his drinking problem and lazyness.... and he didnt know enough about your rigid requirements in a "cleaning and domestic chores" department...
even for people who have known each other really well before marriage and lived together is hard to adapt to an everyday reality
you both were just yourselves, and started to learn about each other AFTER the marriage...
is it salvable? sure
is it worth it? only you two know
he may love you dearly, but he maybe missed his usual home environment and family and friends more than he expected.... being homesick is a genuine thing... maybe thats why he didnt apologize for it, because he doesnt think he did something wrong by going home (but he was wrong for doing it the way he did - maybe he doesnt see the difference between wanting to go home, homesick - legit, doing the way he did - not good
I hope you two will somehow solve it - either you both will realize you love each other and how to compromise on both sides to be able to be together....
Personally, if I would still in love with him and wanted to give this a chance, I would fly out to see him and talk about it in person - so you can see his environment and understand him more
The 15th @nikkistar ? Ayyy. You’re hearting my heart. Let’s start in two days 😬
@Zagittarius please sign up! Hope I spelled your name right Zag. Please join guy 🙏
@Zagittarius please sign up! Hope I spelled your name right Zag. Please join guy 🙏
Posted by capitalismOh my. That’s a lotta Cap. I love that, but it’s weird you say I’m not like her and you are. This is why I question my belief in astrology. But I can’t not believe, it’s in the stars. I think I believe in this more than anything else.Posted by HippieGemYou sound nothing like my girlfriend that's a gemini sun , aries moon, leo rising.Posted by capitalismYer welcome, and what are your placements? Dish it, if we’re alike I’m really curious.Posted by HippieGemThanks!
I don’t know how to explain myself and how others perceive me. I’m really friendly and sociable when I’m forced to be, but not outgoing and pretty shy. Not as shy as I used to be, but I still get panicky when like three people are all giving me there undivided attention and I’m talking. I freeze up and want to seriously run away.
My mom tried to get me diagnosed with “chronic shyness” when I was six because I was reading above my grade level and my teacher wouldn’t put me in the advanced group since I wouldn’t talk, lol. I don’t even know if that’s a thing but she tried.
I’m sociable, and one of my jobs is waitressing, I like to force myself to interact with others. You’d probably get the first impression that I’m really friendly and quiet, but I have that Aries Moon temper and I’m really loud at times and sometimes no one can shut me up. But I’m all of that. I can be quiet and keep to myself often even with the ones that matter most in my life.
I strategically throw my phone in places where it won’t break regularly when I get upset. Then I’m over it and trying to correct whatever problem just happened whether it’s my fault or not.
And meh to flirting. I don’t, even when I’m not in a relationship. But some people take being really nice as flirting so...idk. I don’t cheat and I would never do that to a guy I want a future with.
You sound more like me to be honest. LOL
Ascendant Capricorn
Sun Capricorn
Moon Capricorn
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Sagittarius
Mars Libraclick to expand
So how is she really towards you? I usually read every thread I posted in but I didn’t yet. I’m going to do that now. But how long have you two been dating or together?
And to be honest, trust your gut feelings more than any faith, in science, stars or astrology. Your feelings are the most important and meaningful.
Posted by HippieGemI'm postponing it for delights 😁
The 15th @nikkistar ? Ayyy. You’re hearting my heart. Let’s start in two days 😬
@Zagittarius please sign up! Hope I spelled your name right Zag. Please join guy 🙏