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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
prejudices? don't even start that with me.....
I think i understand the whole shutting down thing. I have done that before when i've felt completely overwhelmed. I wrote her a letter but have been reluctant to send it... generally it says that i know she's going through alot right now and i had hoped that she would have been able to come to me with her issues and that through all the problems my feelings for her have not changed. I promised her that i would never abandon her and i said that i don't intend to break that promise so when things are going better for her i will be there. ended it by telling her that i still love her very much.
I'm also going to take some time and refind my center. Hopefully by the time she's gotten through this i'll be able to handle her coming back into the picture without any resentment. I've been pretty good about not getting bent out of shape when she acts like this. I don't know if i'm a typical fish b/c i have not been able to hold a grudge against her for any prior problems, i tend to let them go b/c everything just seems right when we are together
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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
I've read that a lot of people are sleeping in seperate rooms because they can't sleep....snoring etc..... personally I don't care NOTHING would keep me from sleeping in my husbands arms every night.
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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
I think all that "living our own lives and doing our thing" stuff is weird....... I mean to me the idea of marriage is that this is the person you want to spend your life with and SHARE your life with..... that doesn't have to mean spending every waking moment together - and I have no problem with "guy's night out" kind of stuff..... but these days people even take seperate vacations ! it's just weird.....
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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
If I were prejudiced I would say that all aries are selfish so I won't give them a chance - I give everyone a chance regardless of what my previous experiences may have been.
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I actually feel that I am being negative about people if I decide not to trust what they say and that goes against the core of Libra. We're positive in principle.
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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
which I don't do - as I said I give everyone a chance - or perhaps I should have said "clean slate" - you may find it hard to believe but I honestly don't treat anyone with prejudice - no matter what my past experiences or general opinions - each person I meet comes into my life as a blank canvas, I may be aware that they are some "type" and that I've had certain experiences with that "type" but I never assume that THEY as an individual will be that way. I take a "this is what I know I know of this "type" of person - let's what THIS person is like" attitude - every new person I meet is a new opportunity to form a new opinion.
"Want me to kick his ass??"
I'd love to see a Virgo kick another Virgo's ass :p