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Posted by munchkin

wow. I wonder how they did it.



It was interesting to say the least and yet so simple. The first session (half of it) was all three of us and the counselor asking us the general and positives of the little one. Then it was her turn, to tell him what she thought the positives were about us.. then it was the negatives. She didn't have any negatives (except her bed time lol)...all we brought up was the cursing.

The second half of the first session was one on one (her with the counselor). In the car she told us she was sorry for cursing, she also informed us (and later found out by the counselor) her mother told her it was ok and "fun". Not one curse word that night and got most of the next week.

The following week the three of us went in for the first half again (the mother was called to join and declined), and the week was discussed. She cursed at her brother once that whole week. We left again, and when she came out, she never cursed again and apologized to her brother when we got home. The school was the ones who suggested the counseling because of the affect from the custody battle and anger from the mother losing custody. I wasn't getting in the middle of it, and chose not to. My step kids were disciplined by the father. Once they got past the custody issue and the mother taking off and getting over that they were really great kids. My step son was a handful between 14-15 and ironically it was after the summer he spent a week with his mother. Anger at her. He too ended up in counseling. Best thing for situations like this.
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That is actually not even true, Although I may have disagreed with you on some of your points, I don't believe I've ever been disrespectful to you. And more often than not, I actually personally agree with your opinion, but not always. Same differences and agreements on topics happen between me and Elle.

In general I think your an intelligent, caring person. But yes there are other things about your personality and actions that I find perplexing. Which would be expected since astrologically we are very different.



So I guess you're not going to answer the accusation of who is being defensive?

hmmm are you sober now? Did you forget our little dances shared in dxp. Or are you playing dumb on that? You like elle, show back up here like you are the sweets of dxp and it's a fucking joke to be honest. Then there was the hard core porn you shared knowing kids were around, not caring at all..using porn to get your point across. Quite frankly, I don't give a rats fuck what you think of me positive or negative. You are in the dead zone with elle. I'm being up front and honest. If I remember correctly it was typically when you were drunk. Or maybe not, but I remember. Now unless you can tell me who is being defensive and of what, I'd really rather not exchange anything with you.
Regarding the astrological bullshit both you and elle like to throw into the mix, give it a rest, no excuses for that either.
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Posted by munchkin

wow. I wonder how they did it.



It was interesting to say the least and yet so simple. The first session (half of it) was all three of us and the counselor asking us the general and positives of the little one. Then it was her turn, to tell him what she thought the positives were about us.. then it was the negatives. She didn't have any negatives (except her bed time lol)...all we brought up was the cursing.

The second half of the first session was one on one (her with the counselor). In the car she told us she was sorry for cursing, she also informed us (and later found out by the counselor) her mother told her it was ok and "fun". Not one curse word that night and got most of the next week.

The following week the three of us went in for the first half again (the mother was called to join and declined), and the week was discussed. She cursed at her brother once that whole week. We left again, and when she came out, she never cursed again and apologized to her brother when we got home. The school was the ones who suggested the counseling because of the affect from the custody battle and anger from the mother losing custody. I wasn't getting in the middle of it, and chose not to. My step kids were disciplined by the father. Once they got past the custody issue and the mother taking off and getting over that they were really great kids. My step son was a handful between 14-15 and ironically it was after the summer he spent a week with his mother. Anger at her. He too ended up in counseling. Best thing for situations like this.
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Glad it worked out! Lol @ her only negative feedback being the bedtime. Sounds like a happy kid! 🙂
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Posted by Astrobyn
Oh.. and both of you are defending your personal opinions and more importantly life choices. So in fairness it was directed at both of you. Although it wasn't any kind of insult, I just honestly don't understand the point.

but I will gif my expression to try and clarify my intent...




Missed this...well, it's clear who THE DEFENSIVE one was here and who also now claims to have only come in here to derail and disrupt as a "fly by". I supported this father and spoke about upbringing. Was it defensive? Like I said, I have no respect for you and don't give a rats ass what you think. You carry on with your new front and since the point flew over your head...does it really matter? The playing dumb gif fits...I wouldn't expect anything less.