Stop using "gay" as an insult..
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Regardless of the way you mean it to be used.
What if it really *is* homoerotic, like boybands and pop music?
I reserve the right to call showtunes gay.
I reserve the right to call showtunes gay.
Posted by DopeFlyWhy are you homophobic?
What if it really *is* homoerotic, like boybands and pop music?
I reserve the right to call showtunes gay.
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamJust like calling bisexuals greedy. Chill it with the microaggressions. Sexuality is no different than race or disability.
is it an insult?
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchExactly
Can we add "retarded" too?
I have to be honest....when someone uses either of those words, I totally am judging their intelligence.
Sorry, not sorry
It's like, you can't find a more appropriate word to accurately describe your thoughts in an adult manner? There are like a billion words to choose from.
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It's not being "insensitive". It's called not putting up with homophobic bullying.
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It's not being "insensitive". It's called not putting up with homophobic bullying.
Posted by _DazedThose things are literally gay. Stop zo-ing and take off your cape.Posted by DopeFly
What if it really *is* homoerotic, like boybands and pop music?
I reserve the right to call showtunes gay.
Why are you homophobic?click to expand
Posted by DopeFlyBoybands and pop music are sexual identities?Posted by _DazedPosted by DopeFly
What if it really *is* homoerotic, like boybands and pop music?
I reserve the right to call showtunes gay.
Why are you homophobic?
Those things are literally gay. Stop zo-ing and take off your cape.click to expand
Posted by GenXgemPost your chart.
What about using gay as a compliment?
Posted by _DazedLamePosted by DopeFlyPosted by _DazedPosted by DopeFly
What if it really *is* homoerotic, like boybands and pop music?
I reserve the right to call showtunes gay.
Why are you homophobic?
Those things are literally gay. Stop zo-ing and take off your cape.
Boybands and pop music are sexual identities?click to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by _DazedPosted by CoffeeAndCream
is it an insult?
Just like calling bisexuals greedy. Chill it with the microaggressions. Sexuality is no different than race or disability.
nah I'm sharing my opinion and you need to chill with trying to shut my freedom of expressionclick to expand
Dxp disagrees..
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c) that harasses, degrades, intimidates or is hateful toward an individual or group of individuals on the basis of religion, gender, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, age, or disability;
Posted by GenXgem
What about using gay as a compliment?
That would be rather vintage
Posted by GenXgemIt's in my profilePosted by _DazedPosted by GenXgem
What about using gay as a compliment?
Post your chart.
Ok. But after you post yours.click to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamIt's always interesting to me how one thing applies to race for you.. but not when it comes to sexuality.Posted by _DazedPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by _DazedPosted by CoffeeAndCream
is it an insult?
Just like calling bisexuals greedy. Chill it with the microaggressions. Sexuality is no different than race or disability.
nah I'm sharing my opinion and you need to chill with trying to shut my freedom of expression
Dxp disagrees..
7. CONDUCT
You agree not to post, email, or otherwise make available Content:
c) that harasses, degrades, intimidates or is hateful toward an individual or group of individuals on the basis of religion, gender, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, age, or disability;
Thats an extreme reach that saying gay would entail harassment intimidates and is hateful
you're reaching.click to expand
Posted by GenXgemAs in, retro, because that's what people did prior to the 1960s.Posted by DopeFlyPosted by GenXgem
What about using gay as a compliment?
That would be rather vintage
Vintage how? You mean out dated?click to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamNobody said the struggle/cause is the same.
I love how Gay people try to equate their cause to black people. Stop that BS - Black people agenda and LGBTQ agenda is two different things.
1) Black people are conservative - just because a black person is for the black cause don't mean they need to back LGBTQ, most don't even agree with it - and racism to them is more of a problem than sexual orientation
2) 30% -40% Of Gay men (presuming they are white) voted for Trump (because white patriarchy)
Stop all this hem hawing
We're not all in the same fight.
The discrimination based on perceived differences is.
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamYou need a history lesson.Posted by Sith_RogenPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by Sith_Rogen
People are still using "gay" as an insult in 2020?
Let me guess...they think an And 1 shirt, basketball shorts, knee socks, and slides is acceptable fashion in their 30s?
How does one use "gay" as an insult, saying something is agay is not an insult.
So are you okay with someone calling something they think is stupid "ablack"?
Stupid? Who siad anythhing about calling something stupid "agay" look I get it it's a slippery slope and I get your point- but that word meant something else before the gay community hijacked itclick to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamYou literally just grouped all black folks into one category.Posted by Sith_RogenPosted by CoffeeAndCream
I love how Gay people try to equate their cause to black people. Stop that BS - Black people agenda and LGBTQ agenda is two different things.
1) Black people are conservative - just because a black person is for the black cause don't mean they need to back LGBTQ, most don't even agree with it - and racism to them is more of a problem than sexual orientation
2) 30% -40% Of Gay men (presuming they are white) voted for Trump (because white patriarchy)
Stop all this hem hawing
We're not all in the same fight.
It's not a contest.
It's respecting people for who they are.
i don't respect gays who voted for Trump sorry.
Not all gays are the same, just like not all black people are a monolith.click to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamIt'll be nice when you finally come to terms with your homophobia so we can properly address it.Posted by _DazedPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by Sith_RogenPosted by CoffeeAndCream
I love how Gay people try to equate their cause to black people. Stop that BS - Black people agenda and LGBTQ agenda is two different things.
1) Black people are conservative - just because a black person is for the black cause don't mean they need to back LGBTQ, most don't even agree with it - and racism to them is more of a problem than sexual orientation
2) 30% -40% Of Gay men (presuming they are white) voted for Trump (because white patriarchy)
Stop all this hem hawing
We're not all in the same fight.
It's not a contest.
It's respecting people for who they are.
i don't respect gays who voted for Trump sorry.
Not all gays are the same, just like not all black people are a monolith.
You literally just grouped all black folks into one category.
I am speaking of majority here...but keep looking for details.click to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamYou've come a long way, but your homophobia is well documented here.Posted by _DazedPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by _DazedPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by Sith_RogenPosted by CoffeeAndCream
I love how Gay people try to equate their cause to black people. Stop that BS - Black people agenda and LGBTQ agenda is two different things.
1) Black people are conservative - just because a black person is for the black cause don't mean they need to back LGBTQ, most don't even agree with it - and racism to them is more of a problem than sexual orientation
2) 30% -40% Of Gay men (presuming they are white) voted for Trump (because white patriarchy)
Stop all this hem hawing
We're not all in the same fight.
It's not a contest.
It's respecting people for who they are.
i don't respect gays who voted for Trump sorry.
Not all gays are the same, just like not all black people are a monolith.
You literally just grouped all black folks into one category.
I am speaking of majority here...but keep looking for details.
It'll be nice when you finally come to terms with your homophobia so we can properly address it.
I'm not homophobic at all, but keep stating that if it'll make you sleep easier at night.click to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamTrumpism? Are you talking about pushing race down their throats?Posted by Moon_River
Just gonna nudge this one out there.
and this is why America lost to trumpism 2016
ya'll can't read the tea leaves or know what people are truly thinking - pushing idealogy down people throat they don't want. I am only speaking from what I witness/read/see all the time being around people of color.
Someone else can have a different experienceclick to expand
Posted by GenXgemOkay, so you're into stereotypesPosted by DopeFlyPosted by GenXgemPosted by DopeFlyPosted by GenXgem
What about using gay as a compliment?
That would be rather vintage
Vintage how? You mean out dated?
As in, retro, because that's what people did prior to the 1960s.
I meant more like “that style looks gay but I’d definitely wear it because gays have good sense of fashion”. My hair dresser is gay and I choose him because he is gay and a man, and I think he does best job, better than all the others did.click to expand
You know how much of a Trumper you sound like when you say Black folks don't like the gays because of Conservativism?
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamMost racist white people go to church.Posted by Moon_RiverPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by Moon_River
Just gonna nudge this one out there.
and this is why America lost to trumpism 2016
ya'll can't read the tea leaves or know what people are truly thinking - pushing idealogy down people throat they don't want. I am only speaking from what I witness/read/see all the time being around people of color.
Someone else can have a different experience
I don’t have experience living as a black person but the ones I am friends with and interact with have extremely different views than what you are putting out there in this thread.
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That whole monolith thing....
Most Black people grow up in the church. But okay compare PNW , which has .05% black people the most dense black populations in Americaclick to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamSo you didn't mean that being gay goes against their Conservative, Christian beliefs?Posted by _Dazed
You know how much of a Trumper you sound like when you say Black folks don't like the gays because of Conservativism?
No, that's not what i am saying, i am saying they hate the association of we have same fight/cause.click to expand
Posted by GenXgemWell, it's sort of like saying Jews are naturally good bankers or that black people are exceptionally good at basketball and singing. So, yeah, if I were you I'd hold back on giving that as a compliment.Posted by DopeFlyPosted by GenXgemPosted by DopeFlyPosted by GenXgemPosted by DopeFlyPosted by GenXgem
What about using gay as a compliment?
That would be rather vintage
Vintage how? You mean out dated?
As in, retro, because that's what people did prior to the 1960s.
I meant more like “that style looks gay but I’d definitely wear it because gays have good sense of fashion”. My hair dresser is gay and I choose him because he is gay and a man, and I think he does best job, better than all the others did.
Okay, so you're into stereotypes
I am into honesty and keeping it real. We all do stereotyping, in some form or fashion.
I genuinely admire some things gay people do and I think they do it better than the rest. I hope it’s not offensive to compliment them on it?click to expand
Posted by ElvisStalinWoods
Again, who really cares? Asking seriously in the idea that it's pretty much agreed on that anyone who uses "Gay", "Retarded" and other words brandished in a derogatory manner aren't often worth paying any mind to.
Hate, bullying, oppression & co. all have worse manifestations. And I stand by anyone who wants to defend others against people who want to threaten another's wellbeing.
That being said; life is hard and it will never, ever be a utopia. If someone in an age range outside of the last throes of teen angst--say 22yrs old max., to be generous--is still suffering heavily because of words lobbed at them by an ignorant asshole, I'm not sure they're even worth defending.
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I think it not only depends on the intention but also your accent...for example, British people can call me queer and a “fairy” all day because it’s too funny to be insulted
Not even trying to make a joke
I’m serious
Not even trying to make a joke
I’m serious
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Research the history of the word gay, particularly the early 19th century's use of the word.
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Posted by Moon_RiverI never said otherwise. I said research the history of the word. Its interesting.Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Research the history of the word gay, particularly the early 19th century's use of the word.
That’s quite obviously not the meaning he’s mentioning if you read the bit in the title after the word gay. 🙄click to expand
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Posted by Moon_RiverYeah there was a case here in UK about a radio dj who used it in similar reference if I recall. I think alot of kids used to, but thankfully times do change for most peoplePosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Moon_RiverPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Research the history of the word gay, particularly the early 19th century's use of the word.
That’s quite obviously not the meaning he’s mentioning if you read the bit in the title after the word gay. 🙄
I never said otherwise. I said research the history of the word. Its interesting.
But we aren’t talking or using it about prostitution at this point? Yeah the history is interesting but the current usage since circa mid 1990s from what I remember is referring to things that are lame or uncool as “gay” which honestly I used up until I was a teenager. Was a hard habit to break.
But once I grasped what I was really saying it felt necessary.click to expand
Posted by _Dazed
Regardless of the way you mean it to be used.
What is the proper word so we don't make that mistake?
Posted by aquarius_man_You're pjxscott?
It was out of excessive love for the LGBTQ community that the OP was posting pics of another DXP user on the front page the other day, in the comments section. Parading 'Carlos' around in a futile attempt to troll me seemed like paki-bashing. So, I guess it's safe to say OP is a closet homophobe . As for the other one, the female support secretary , she's just clueless. She erroneously thinks that being politically correct means shoving your opinions down everyone's throat. That's a form of fascism, intolerance and policy of thought. OP and the woman are hypocrites.
I guess our DXP duo should be more like this, gay as in gay Paree :
If not, you're post above means shit. It also means you're not an aqua.
Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsThe target audience of this thread isn't here (not surprisingly), but their condoning of said terms by her young son among himself and friends, is the purpose of the thread.
Again, who really cares? Asking seriously in the idea that it's pretty much agreed on that anyone who uses "Gay", "Retarded" and other words brandished in a derogatory manner aren't often worth paying any mind to.
Hate, bullying, oppression & co. all have worse manifestations. And I stand by anyone who wants to defend others against people who want to threaten another's wellbeing.
That being said; life is hard and it will never, ever be a utopia. If someone in an age range outside of the last throes of teen angst--say 22yrs old max., to be generous--is still suffering heavily because of words lobbed at them by an ignorant asshole, I'm not sure they're even worth defending.
Words like this don't cut me. But I do think it's important to point out that if grown ass users here are capable of throwing them around without regard, there's no doubt in my mind that they are doing so around their children as well, whom are most likely using it around their friends and other children.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesWhat does that have to do with using it as a means to insult?
Research the history of the word gay, particularly the early 19th century's use of the word.
Posted by NemDeuxI'm going to assume you mean "cigarette".. which means you didn't understand the intent of the thread. Not surprised.
i need a fag right now lmao
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesIs your goal here to contribute and inform the readers of this thread? Or is it to back up your ringleader?Posted by Moon_RiverPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Research the history of the word gay, particularly the early 19th century's use of the word.
That’s quite obviously not the meaning he’s mentioning if you read the bit in the title after the word gay. 🙄
I never said otherwise. I said research the history of the word. Its interesting.click to expand
Posted by DonnaLibraLamePosted by _Dazed
Regardless of the way you mean it to be used.
What is the proper word so we don't make that mistake?click to expand
Uncool
Weak
Take your pick.
Posted by aquarius_man_No shit. "fag" as in a cigarette. Which is why DXP's language filter changes "fag" to "cig"Posted by _DazedPosted by NemDeux
i need a fag right now lmao
I'm going to assume you mean "cigarette".. which means you didn't understand the intent of the thread. Not surprised.
She meant f a gclick to expand
Posted by aquarius_man_"which means you didn't understand the intent of the thread. Not surprised."Posted by _DazedPosted by aquarius_man_Posted by _DazedPosted by NemDeux
i need a fag right now lmao
I'm going to assume you mean "cigarette".. which means you didn't understand the intent of the thread. Not surprised.
She meant f a g
No shit. "fag" as in a cigarette. Which is why DXP's language filter changes "fag" to "cig"
Yes but you need to look at this in a certain context. You can bum a f a g off someone, but you can’t call them a poofterclick to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamThank you for using "balls" as a term defining strength.Posted by capincc
Finally someone had the balls to say it.click to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamI didn't say that. It's just an interesting choice of words to describe strength.Posted by _DazedPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by capincc
Finally someone had the balls to say it.
Thank you for using "balls" as a term defining strength.
ok so now i can't say balls...click to expand
Posted by aquarius_man_Okay Carlos.Posted by _DazedPosted by aquarius_man_Posted by _DazedPosted by aquarius_man_Posted by _DazedPosted by NemDeux
i need a fag right now lmao
I'm going to assume you mean "cigarette".. which means you didn't understand the intent of the thread. Not surprised.
She meant f a g
No shit. "fag" as in a cigarette. Which is why DXP's language filter changes "fag" to "cig"
Yes but you need to look at this in a certain context. You can bum a f a g off someone, but you can’t call them a poofter
"which means you didn't understand the intent of the thread. Not surprised."
I don’t know what you meant by it I’ll admit but one thing is certain: I will always speak my mind. And you’re a hypocrite.click to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamThis is why no one takes you seriously.Posted by _DazedPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by _DazedPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by capincc
Finally someone had the balls to say it.
Thank you for using "balls" as a term defining strength.
ok so now i can't say balls...
I didn't say that. It's just an interesting choice of words to describe strength.
Thanks for being gay enough to post that capincc!
Feel better?click to expand
Posted by Aqua-MarineOh do explain..
Oh the hypocrisy is unbearable
Like most things, context matters.
My gay friends refer to me as faghag. I wear that tittle with pride.
Language is funny like that tho. Certain terms that were insulting and derogatory have been reclaimed and are worn as a badge of pride, like queer or n word. But you really should be part of that community in order to use that term. Otherwise your gonna offend.
But I promise you, people are more concerned about you voting to take away their basic rights as a human being then the derogatory terms your using to describe them.
My gay friends refer to me as faghag. I wear that tittle with pride.
Language is funny like that tho. Certain terms that were insulting and derogatory have been reclaimed and are worn as a badge of pride, like queer or n word. But you really should be part of that community in order to use that term. Otherwise your gonna offend.
But I promise you, people are more concerned about you voting to take away their basic rights as a human being then the derogatory terms your using to describe them.
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamfixed*
Today i am feeling agay, should i get a croissant with my watered down coffee?
Posted by Aqua-MarineWho have I bullied?Posted by _DazedPosted by Aqua-Marine
Oh the hypocrisy is unbearable
Oh do explain..
Do you really need me to?
You are playing some sort of social justice white night. Talking about “bullying” when you have bullied so many people on here. I don’t even know why you tagged me in this thread when I had nothing to do with the topic of using the word gay. I don’t like that word being used as an insult but I never said anything about that. I just replied with a gif to NemDeux cause I agreed with her post about moonriver taking everything out of context.
But gosh acting like you care now about people bullying others. I guess you only care about seeming like some social warrior but an individual person you don’t care about. So this is hypocritical. Bullying is bullying period.click to expand
Posted by Aqua-MarinePosted by NemDeuxPosted by Moon_RiverPosted by NemDeuxPosted by Moon_RiverPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by aquarius_man_Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by aquarius_man_Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Moon_RiverPosted by aquarius_man_
Virgo moon sounds kinda gay no offence is that my best match booo 😝
No. And “gay” isn’t something you should use in a negative context.
Unless you mean “happy”.
My son uses it a lot and i say to him "you'll get your lights punched out one day if you say that to a gay person".....he says "i do" and they laugh and do it themselves.....you're far too sensitive Mum".
To be fair he can take it back and gets called stuff but like he says they're not too sensitive...
You re prejudiced, gay people don't mind it. It's how they define themselves sexually, why would it be an offensive term?????????????????????????????
Anyway, what I meant is, str8 from the Urban Dictionary: 'So Gay not necessarily meaning homosexual, gay can mean stupid or pointless, even meek, lame or timid.'
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To conclusions maybe?
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cheers to that.
here´s to hoping that in your next reincarnation on dxp you´re not gonna be this insufferable.
like wtf really.
Still butt hurt about Pisces women threads? 😂😂😂
no. i don´t give a shit about starsigns.
i just see you blowing every little shit out of context. no matter the topic.click to expand
Posted by Aqua-MarineOr is it because those that I attack are just as much a bully as you consider me, but you back them up because they are your "friends"?Posted by _DazedPosted by Aqua-MarinePosted by _DazedPosted by Aqua-Marine
Oh the hypocrisy is unbearable
Oh do explain..
Do you really need me to?
You are playing some sort of social justice white night. Talking about “bullying” when you have bullied so many people on here. I don’t even know why you tagged me in this thread when I had nothing to do with the topic of using the word gay. I don’t like that word being used as an insult but I never said anything about that. I just replied with a gif to NemDeux cause I agreed with her post about moonriver taking everything out of context.
But gosh acting like you care now about people bullying others. I guess you only care about seeming like some social warrior but an individual person you don’t care about. So this is hypocritical. Bullying is bullying period.
Who have I bullied?
I shouldn’t have to tell you who you bullied. If you cant see it yourself then there’s a problem.click to expand
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