What is your honest interpretation of me?!
This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by DMV on Sunday, May 7, 2023 and has 81 replies.
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Are we ready to hear the truth about ourselves. Hear others perceptions of who they think we are.
There is this online dating show called Singles Live with Kendra G and the comment section is wild. Often then not, the comment section gets it right.
Sooo, what do you think my problem is?!
Here’s my picture for reference
Here’s video if you want more to judge on
https://www.youtube.com/live/mioVft5ff8M?feature=share
https://www.youtube.com/live/mioVft5ff8M?feature=share
Why are you asking this? Is there a problem?
Lol I’m gonna have to check this out! I don’t see a problem tho 🤷♀️
I don't know about that but I just want to say I just watched the I always want to be the pluto person video and it's so true.
Just a few weeks ago a guy with his Venus right on top of my Pluto blocked me and I felt a bit hurt for negative 1.5 seconds; flipped my hair, got over it, and went about my day feeling even more empowered.
The guy was cute and he had reached out to me for hook ups several times. I almost never replied and when I did, I'd ghost conversation but I wasn't looking for right now. This time I replied to his message 3 to 4 weeks later.
I wanted to plan the meet up and control the narrative and the way he feels and how everything unfolds. I felt like things between us should happen when I want to, how I want to, whenever I want to.
So yeah, I guess he perceived my 3 to 4 week reply as me using him as last resort, third rate, booty call and took offense. Oh well.
Just a few weeks ago a guy with his Venus right on top of my Pluto blocked me and I felt a bit hurt for negative 1.5 seconds; flipped my hair, got over it, and went about my day feeling even more empowered.
The guy was cute and he had reached out to me for hook ups several times. I almost never replied and when I did, I'd ghost conversation but I wasn't looking for right now. This time I replied to his message 3 to 4 weeks later.
I wanted to plan the meet up and control the narrative and the way he feels and how everything unfolds. I felt like things between us should happen when I want to, how I want to, whenever I want to.
So yeah, I guess he perceived my 3 to 4 week reply as me using him as last resort, third rate, booty call and took offense. Oh well.
Eh, during my very brief online dating phase I found it a huge nuisance to have to find pictures of myself that gave off the vibe or certain perception that I wanted and I also didn’t want to go out of my way to take new pictures that did. But there are plenty of others out there that do. So I didn’t judge others’ pictures too much. Their general bio often told me more about their actual inner intentions.
Way to make this about you @Dastard2020 🤣
You look like an African Queen 😍. You’ve a very powerful presence D.
But why are you worried what others think of you?
But why are you worried what others think of you?
Posted by KachiSounds like a typical sag sun w/ scorpio moon to me tbh
Quite intimidating, selective who she chooses to interact with, vocal about her opinion, knows her vulnerability, emotionally expressive, maybe a bit too guarded
Posted by DMVYou do have scorpio moon in your eyes, intense.
Posted by Dastard2020Once you go Pluto you’ll never want to go back.
I don't know about that but I just want to say I just watched the I always want to be the pluto person video and it's so true.
Just a few weeks ago a guy with his Venus right on top of my Pluto blocked me and I felt a bit hurt for negative 1.5 seconds; flipped my hair, got over it, and went about my day feeling even more empowered.
The guy was cute and he had reached out to me for hook ups several times. I almost never replied and when I did, I'd ghost conversation but I wasn't looking for right now. This time I replied to his message 3 to 4 weeks later.
I wanted to plan the meet up and control the narrative and the way he feels and how everything unfolds. I felt like things between us should happen when I want to, how I want to, whenever I want to.
So yeah, I guess he perceived my 3 to 4 week reply as me using him as last resort, third rate, booty call and took offense. Oh well.
I just don’t want to be taken advantage of.
I’d rather be the butcher and not the cattle
Posted by TXCowboyAccurate
The weak need not apply.
Posted by geminiflybyWhat do you see when you look at me?
Why are you asking this? Is there a problem?
What judgement calls do you make when you hear my voice?
I wanna know it all
Posted by GeminiJimI have been accused of being weird.
Well you are brave for doing this..
Not sure about the hat, looks like some voodoo thing 🤨
Fitting accusation.
So the hat gives you pause…interesting
Posted by MyStarsShineNot worried.
You look like an African Queen 😍. You’ve a very powerful presence D.
But why are you worried what others think of you?
Just Curious.
How often do strangers tell you exactly how they perceive you?
Some worry about being too racist, too sexiest , too politically incorrect.
I’m ready to hear it
Posted by KachiFacts.
Quite intimidating, selective who she chooses to interact with, vocal about her opinion, knows her vulnerability, emotionally expressive, maybe a bit too guarded
All truth
Posted by faileddPosted by DMV
Holy sht you're black! I always thought you were a 25 yo basic white woman that lives in a Starbucks 😂😂😂click to expand
I do enjoy the Occasional pumpkin spice latte and farmers market.
Posted by StubbornSagIm a big Peaky Blinders, Daniel Day Lewis, Gangs of New York kinda gal.
Ok I'd say hat is odd, so why the hat? Problem? Idk what to say...you have sort of intimidating presence in this photo at least. But idk is that considered a problem or not? lol
There’s just something about a top hat that sets my sails
Posted by MelanthoShe’s super weird.
You remind me of the Tia Dalma goddess of The Pirates of the Caribbean.
I like that
Visually you project strength, confidence and individuality (yes, the hat).
But then you post things like this from @xxAjuxx’s thread. “ You were asked.
Your response should have been No.
Forgiveness is overrated.”
You’d rather break than bend. I don’t know you or your past but it feels like you’ve been badly hurt and you’re damn sure it doesn’t happen again. Life is not so black and white but more like a million shades of gray.
But then you post things like this from @xxAjuxx’s thread. “ You were asked.
Your response should have been No.
Forgiveness is overrated.”
You’d rather break than bend. I don’t know you or your past but it feels like you’ve been badly hurt and you’re damn sure it doesn’t happen again. Life is not so black and white but more like a million shades of gray.
Posted by geminiflybyInteresting
Visually you project strength, confidence and individuality (yes, the hat).
But then you post things like this from @xxAjuxx’s thread. “ You were asked.
Your response should have been No.
Forgiveness is overrated.”
You’d rather break than bend. I don’t know you or your past but it feels like you’ve been badly hurt and you’re damn sure it doesn’t happen again. Life is not so black and white but more like a million shades of gray.
Interesting
I’d like to double down on that post. Sometimes as a Mercury in Scorpio, I talk in bullet points without elaborating
Forgiveness is very overrated
Most take advantage of your ability to forgive because they read the same studies you do and see the same memes. “Forgive, forgive. Do it for you, not for them.” “Forgiveness helps you move on.” Blah blah blah. All in the game fr fr
How about, you don’t do dumb shit the first time so your ass won’t need forgiveness later on.
Is it truly that hard to be a standup member of society.
I guess who needs to come correct if you’re just going to be forgiven later.
Whoa whoa whoa...
You do natal charts?
Do you charge?
And I have not known this!
Your energy... when I saw your picture,
an old one, I felt something was attached* sticking* to you. This was energy I felt. Something that is not yours. I don't see this at all in the youtube video though. The picture is less easy to see 👀
🌟
You do natal charts?
Do you charge?
And I have not known this!
Your energy... when I saw your picture,
an old one, I felt something was attached* sticking* to you. This was energy I felt. Something that is not yours. I don't see this at all in the youtube video though. The picture is less easy to see 👀
🌟
Just stopped by to say I fucking live the hat & the whole outfit!!! ♥️
Posted by xxAjuxxYeah, e-mail if you want a reading.
Whoa whoa whoa...
You do natal charts?
Do you charge?
And I have not known this!
Your energy... when I saw your picture,
an old one, I felt something was attached* sticking* to you. This was energy I felt. Something that is not yours. I don't see this at all in the youtube video though. The picture is less easy to see 👀
🌟
You know I’ve heard that before from an Indian astrologer.
I’ve felt like I’ve carried something with me all my life. I don’t know what it is tho
Whatever it is, IT not me, IT attracts some wild energy. I had to block myself from a lot of people besides family because the energy is just off and exhausting. It’s tiring to be constantly at the mercy of unhealed trauma. Then I realized that I don’t have to be around people I don’t like. What an eye opener.
I always felt you were pretty awesome. You never interact with me much, which is probably for the best imo. Because of that I actually respect you a bit more then most. I can view you from a distance, you don't ever fuck with me, and life can be forever exactly that. I'm not saying I would hate getting to know you on a deeper level or anything, nor do I really want to. Not because of anything personal or anything, I just feel that way about everyone. So I generally like the type of people who keep their distance, exist, and don't fuck with me. You along with many others meet that criteria, so I respect you, and would even defend you on a personal level. At least here on dxpnet.
Posted by DMVTry Shaman healingPosted by xxAjuxx
Whoa whoa whoa...
You do natal charts?
Do you charge?
And I have not known this!
Your energy... when I saw your picture,
an old one, I felt something was attached* sticking* to you. This was energy I felt. Something that is not yours. I don't see this at all in the youtube video though. The picture is less easy to see 👀
🌟
Yeah, e-mail if you want a reading.
You know I’ve heard that before from an Indian astrologer.
I’ve felt like I’ve carried something with me all my life. I don’t know what it is tho
Whatever it is, IT not me, IT attracts some wild energy. I had to block myself from a lot of people besides family because the energy is just off and exhausting. It’s tiring to be constantly at the mercy of unhealed trauma. Then I realized that I don’t have to be around people I don’t like. What an eye opener.click to expand
Posted by DMVMy honest and true interpretations of you is as follows
-intense
-someone that won't hesitate to run someone over with your car if you get highly upset
-an extrovert (a big time city girl)
-strict
-a mother (possibly even a mother figure)
-respectful
An outgoing personality (waves at every tom dick and harry)
Posted by BunnyMacDougal😂😂😂🤔
Like Monopoly is a life and death game for you and everyone fears landing on your properties
Posted by LaGenereuz😂 Nope, no kids
I actually had a dream about you last night, that I asked you out and you said no because you had a son 😭 🤣🤣🤣
First I never dated or asked a girl out and not sure if you do actually have a son or not (feel free not to answer that)
But in the dream you were like not direct and avoidant until I confronted you and said it's ok to say No, so maybe this can say sth about you?! Not sure cause also in the dream an asteroid hit the earth so it could be all just Mercury Retrograde
I used to be scared to say no to people but
I used to be too mutable and always wanting to give other people what they wanted with no concern for what I wanted.
Thinking they’ll hate me, they’ll be mad at me, they won’t like me.
It always seemed easier to go with the flow
The hell with that.
There is power in saying No.
There is power in not just accepting anything out of fear of being disliked.
I welcome people to walk away from me when they can’t get what they want from me.
I think my cancer rising fools people into thinking I’m this nurturing, motherly person
Far from it
Far from it
“I think my cancer rising fools people into thinking I’m this nurturing, motherly person”
No, no they don’t…..
No, no they don’t…..
I love that picture. Yes intimidating, but confident, and strong personality, energy.
Why not with hat? I think it’s cool. I’ve always enjoyed when you’re around. You say it how it is, and who gives a shit what people think.
Why not with hat? I think it’s cool. I’ve always enjoyed when you’re around. You say it how it is, and who gives a shit what people think.
Posted by DMVPosted by geminiflyby
Visually you project strength, confidence and individuality (yes, the hat).
But then you post things like this from @xxAjuxx’s thread. “ You were asked.
Your response should have been No.
Forgiveness is overrated.”
You’d rather break than bend. I don’t know you or your past but it feels like you’ve been badly hurt and you’re damn sure it doesn’t happen again. Life is not so black and white but more like a million shades of gray.
Interesting
Interesting
I’d like to double down on that post. Sometimes as a Mercury in Scorpio, I talk in bullet points without elaborating
Forgiveness is very overrated
Most take advantage of your ability to forgive because they read the same studies you do and see the same memes. “Forgive, forgive. Do it for you, not for them.” “Forgiveness helps you move on.” Blah blah blah. All in the game fr fr
How about, you don’t do dumb shit the first time so your ass won’t need forgiveness later on.
Is it truly that hard to be a standup member of society.
I guess who needs to come correct if you’re just going to be forgiven later.
click to expand
Forgiveness isn't the same as second chance. It helps give inner peace for those that gets fixated on a outcome they can't change.
You always take such stunning pictures! I love that your hair is always out.
Great photo composition!
I don't have much to add, except that you seem to have lived an adventurous life so far, with acting and comedy.
Great photo composition!
I don't have much to add, except that you seem to have lived an adventurous life so far, with acting and comedy.
This thread is more forgiving than I thought it would be.
Posted by saggurl88I agree with this
You always take such stunning pictures! I love that your hair is always out.
Great photo composition!
I don't have much to add, except that you seem to have lived an adventurous life so far, with acting and comedy.
Great pic …. Stunning looking
And very creative.
Posted by GeminiJimThe dating show was just an example of how strangers can pretty accurately read someone with only 6 mins of content.Posted by DMV
I think my cancer rising fools people into thinking I’m this nurturing, motherly person
Far from it
What is your goal from this?
You said it was from a dating show?
Are you looking to change, I guess is my question..
Because I think most people would be very resistant to any "suggestion" that they should change, even if they say they are open to itclick to expand
Evolution is always at the forefront
Posted by EggrollNoPosted by DMV
I think my cancer rising fools people into thinking I’m this nurturing, motherly person
Far from it
Do you resent looking nurturing?click to expand
Posted by KachiHmm, I don’t think I said it was a top feat.Posted by DMV
I think my cancer rising fools people into thinking I’m this nurturing, motherly person
Far from it
Nurturing isn't the top feat of cancer influence.
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Posted by saggurl88Thank you.
You always take such stunning pictures! I love that your hair is always out.
Great photo composition!
I don't have much to add, except that you seem to have lived an adventurous life so far, with acting and comedy.
It took me years to enjoy the sight of my natural hair.
I’m surprised I didn’t get more “judgement calls” from you because you’re very perceptive 😀
Posted by FindingbalanceI like this write up.
Idk what everyone's seeing but I think you're an original, dgaf about what's popular and instead go with your own unique tastes. You look like you'd be fun to go out on the town with and sing karaoke in a thrift store outfit, just be authentic and fun.
You do have an energy about you, like you might know things others don't. Very old soul but not in a tired of this bs way.
I have cancer on my 2nd house cusp and thrift stores are my first stop.
There is something about the history of items that is alluring. Like they have a soul to them. Even a beat up t shirt has a story to tell.
Posted by SeaLionDitto!!
This thread is more forgiving than I thought it would be.
Posted by DMVI thought people woulda came with more “heat” but idk…Posted by SeaLion
This thread is more forgiving than I thought it would be.
Ditto!!click to expand
I’m not asking for online abuse but this is pretty tame
Posted by GeminiJimWell for a Gemini, you’re pretty mute on the subject at handPosted by Findingbalance
Idk what everyone's seeing but I think you're an original, dgaf about what's popular and instead go with your own unique tastes. You look like you'd be fun to go out on the town with and sing karaoke in a thrift store outfit, just be authentic and fun.
You do have an energy about you, like you might know things others don't. Very old soul but not in a tired of this bs way.
Yeh ok people pleaser Librerclick to expand
Posted by DMVI'm not one to tear another women down.Posted by saggurl88
You always take such stunning pictures! I love that your hair is always out.
Great photo composition!
I don't have much to add, except that you seem to have lived an adventurous life so far, with acting and comedy.
Thank you.
It took me years to enjoy the sight of my natural hair.
I’m surprised I didn’t get more “judgement calls” from you because you’re very perceptive 😀click to expand
If you were an asshole, then maybe!
Also, it's hard to judge a person who doesn't put it all out there. I can tell you are careful with what you air out, which is smart, especially on this site.
It's brave of you to want feedback though. Looking within and doing a check up with yourself is always a good thing, IMO.
Posted by GeminiJimWell, your opinion matters here on this post.Posted by DMVPosted by GeminiJimPosted by Findingbalance
Idk what everyone's seeing but I think you're an original, dgaf about what's popular and instead go with your own unique tastes. You look like you'd be fun to go out on the town with and sing karaoke in a thrift store outfit, just be authentic and fun.
You do have an energy about you, like you might know things others don't. Very old soul but not in a tired of this bs way.
Yeh ok people pleaser Librer
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Well for a Gemini, you’re pretty mute on the subject at hand
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Yeh well I don't really like passing judgement in this way
I don't like the picture, it gives me witchdoctor vibes but it depends what it is used for..
The astrology reading vid is kind of bland to me but I find them boring anyway
The Harry Potter xmas vid you seem vibrant - I much prefer this version of you
but idk what its worth to hear one persons likes and dislikes? I guess if you get consensus then it may be helpful but most seem to "like your style "click to expand
I’m not looking for consensus I’m looking to hear what you have to say.
You scared?
Posted by saggurl88AgreedPosted by DMVPosted by saggurl88
You always take such stunning pictures! I love that your hair is always out.
Great photo composition!
I don't have much to add, except that you seem to have lived an adventurous life so far, with acting and comedy.
Thank you.
It took me years to enjoy the sight of my natural hair.
I’m surprised I didn’t get more “judgement calls” from you because you’re very perceptive 😀
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I'm not one to tear another women down.
If you were an asshole, then maybe!
Also, it's hard to judge a person who doesn't put it all out there. I can tell you are careful with what you air out, which is smart, especially on this site.
It's brave of you to want feedback though. Looking within and doing a check up with yourself is always a good thing, IMO.click to expand
Posted by KachiWow.Posted by DMVPosted by KachiPosted by DMV
I think my cancer rising fools people into thinking I’m this nurturing, motherly person
Far from it
Nurturing isn't the top feat of cancer influence.
Hmm, I don’t think I said it was a top feat.
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I know but that's the popular opinion.
Cancer rising can be cold asf. I do believe people tend to gravitate to us. At least from experience despite the mood I'm in.click to expand
That’s the first time I’ve heard Cancer rising coming off cold.
I need to read up on that.
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