Do Pisces like many people at the same time?
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I hung out withe Pisces yesterday. He got A Lot of incoming messages. He tried not to check his phone too frequently but still... =.=
Posted by Piscouh oh. not looking good for me then
I don't, but I can't speak for the everyone.
When I like someone, they are the only person I want to talk to and get to know.
how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
Posted by LadyNeptuneI guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night?
how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
Posted by whatisthisallaboutYou do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?Posted by LadyNeptuneI guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night?
how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lolclick to expand
Posted by YasmineMinGood to know! Thanks!
Im a Pisces and no, when I really like a guy all of my heart and feelings are for him and only him. I havent like more than one guy at a time. He is literally the only one I want and see and I dont want substitutes. This may not be a Pisces thing though! Maybe it's me
Posted by Capri-sunHaha. That's funny, but I can see that.
It's possible.
One pisces guy used to get teased about who was the "flavor of the week"
Posted by LadyNeptuneThat's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the casePosted by whatisthisallaboutYou do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?Posted by LadyNeptuneI guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night?
how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lolclick to expand
Thanks for the positvitiy.
I would advise that although Mercury is no longer moving backward it still has not come forward to the place it originally started it's retrograde.
This means communication is not the best. I would advise go slower as yes Venus is in Pisces with Neptune where there was a conjunction which can bring the illusion of love...
I will also say that It depends largely on other placements besides just the sun as well as someone's personal vibration.
I know it is never what anyone wants to hear but feeling are normally only hurt that bad once physical relation has started. It is always then you see if a man will actually stick around or not. Once they had it or have had enough of it either you will be worth the effort to him or not.
By taking 30 days or 2 moon cycles and understanding that he could be emotional during these times... and negative qualities can come out. It is then to see how he treats you. As well as during a Mercury retro because yes x's come back often.
Best of luck
PM
This means communication is not the best. I would advise go slower as yes Venus is in Pisces with Neptune where there was a conjunction which can bring the illusion of love...
I will also say that It depends largely on other placements besides just the sun as well as someone's personal vibration.
I know it is never what anyone wants to hear but feeling are normally only hurt that bad once physical relation has started. It is always then you see if a man will actually stick around or not. Once they had it or have had enough of it either you will be worth the effort to him or not.
By taking 30 days or 2 moon cycles and understanding that he could be emotional during these times... and negative qualities can come out. It is then to see how he treats you. As well as during a Mercury retro because yes x's come back often.
Best of luck
PM
Posted by whatisthisallaboutLol I wouldn't say its positivity, per se. But don't jump ahead of yourself and assume that him getting texts means..x,y, or z. If you want to know if he likes/values you call him (at a time you know he isn't at work) and see if he takes your call.Posted by LadyNeptuneThat's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the casePosted by whatisthisallaboutYou do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?Posted by LadyNeptuneI guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night?
how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
Thanks for the positvitiy.click to expand
Posted by piscesmoon2Thank you! I am not ready to be intimate with him so I guess I will keep observing him then.
I would advise that although Mercury is no longer moving backward it still has not come forward to the place it originally started it's retrograde.
This means communication is not the best. I would advise go slower as yes Venus is in Pisces with Neptune where there was a conjunction which can bring the illusion of love...
I will also say that It depends largely on other placements besides just the sun as well as someone's personal vibration.
I know it is never what anyone wants to hear but feeling are normally only hurt that bad once physical relation has started. It is always then you see if a man will actually stick around or not. Once they had it or have had enough of it either you will be worth the effort to him or not.
By taking 30 days or 2 moon cycles and understanding that he could be emotional during these times... and negative qualities can come out. It is then to see how he treats you. As well as during a Mercury retro because yes x's come back often.
Best of luck
PM
I know there is this girl who broke his heart not too long ago. He said she led him on for months... maybe she will come back.
Posted by LadyNeptuneThanks. Yea, I guess it's better not to make assumptions. I just don't want to make myself a fool by thinking he likes me but only to find out that he talks to everyone the same way... =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutLol I wouldn't say its positivity, per se. But don't jump ahead of yourself and assume that him getting texts means..x,y, or z. If you want to know if he likes/values you call him (at a time you know he isn't at work) and see if he takes your call.Posted by LadyNeptuneThat's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the casePosted by whatisthisallaboutYou do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?Posted by LadyNeptuneI guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night?
how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
Thanks for the positvitiy.click to expand
Posted by Capri-sunuh oh.. what did you find out?Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by LadyNeptuneThat's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the casePosted by whatisthisallaboutYou do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?Posted by LadyNeptuneI guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night?
how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
Thanks for the positvitiy.
I stalked my pisces
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Btw, it takes a long time for a Pisces to move on, right?
He did tell me about this other girl he used to spend a lot of time with who led him on. They were seeing each other for months, but she kept telling him she's not ready for a relationship (He told me he thinks she was using him for sex). I think he's probably not over her. Pisces and I have been talking for just 3-4 weeks.
He did tell me about this other girl he used to spend a lot of time with who led him on. They were seeing each other for months, but she kept telling him she's not ready for a relationship (He told me he thinks she was using him for sex). I think he's probably not over her. Pisces and I have been talking for just 3-4 weeks.
Posted by DickButtI don't have a taurus love interest atm. sorry.
Oo Ooo do taurus next
Posted by Capri-sunThis is what I am afraid of... I can never tell if he means it or he's just being dramatic.Posted by whatisthisallaboutLol nothing interesting. He did more damage in front of my face than behind my backPosted by Capri-sunuh oh.. what did you find out?Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by LadyNeptuneThat's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the casePosted by whatisthisallaboutYou do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?Posted by LadyNeptuneI guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night?
how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
Thanks for the positvitiy.
I stalked my pisces
He was a very open individual. I just never could tell the truths from the lies. His stories were so far fetched sometimes, but hell their imagination is so vivid. To this day, I still can't tell when he's lying or telling the truthclick to expand
you misspelled libra
Posted by hydorahare you trying to say it's more a libra thing?
you misspelled libra
Posted by Capri-sunI see. The Pisces I am dealing with is extra cheesy thoughPosted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by Capri-sunThis is what I am afraid of... I can never tell if he means it or he's just being dramatic.Posted by whatisthisallaboutLol nothing interesting. He did more damage in front of my face than behind my backPosted by Capri-sunuh oh.. what did you find out?Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by LadyNeptuneThat's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the casePosted by whatisthisallaboutYou do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?Posted by LadyNeptuneI guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night?
how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
Thanks for the positvitiy.
I stalked my pisces
He was a very open individual. I just never could tell the truths from the lies. His stories were so far fetched sometimes, but hell their imagination is so vivid. To this day, I still can't tell when he's lying or telling the truth
Um, he probably means it because they can be dramatic in general, the emotions behind the dramatics I find to be genuine.click to expand
Well, I guess it's always good to give people the benefit of the doubt.
Posted by Capri-sunThat's what I am afraid of... =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by Capri-sunI see. The Pisces I am dealing with is extra cheesy thoughPosted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by Capri-sunThis is what I am afraid of... I can never tell if he means it or he's just being dramatic.Posted by whatisthisallaboutLol nothing interesting. He did more damage in front of my face than behind my backPosted by Capri-sunuh oh.. what did you find out?Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by LadyNeptuneThat's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the casePosted by whatisthisallaboutYou do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?Posted by LadyNeptuneI guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night?
how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
Thanks for the positvitiy.
I stalked my pisces
He was a very open individual. I just never could tell the truths from the lies. His stories were so far fetched sometimes, but hell their imagination is so vivid. To this day, I still can't tell when he's lying or telling the truth
Um, he probably means it because they can be dramatic in general, the emotions behind the dramatics I find to be genuine.
Well, I guess it's always good to give people the benefit of the doubt.
Cheesy....sounds like he's running game lolclick to expand
I guess, my next question would be, how do you spot it when a Pisces is playing games?
Posted by Capri-sunscorpio. I think that's why I am very skepticalPosted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by Capri-sunThat's what I am afraid of... =.=Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by Capri-sunI see. The Pisces I am dealing with is extra cheesy thoughPosted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by Capri-sunThis is what I am afraid of... I can never tell if he means it or he's just being dramatic.Posted by whatisthisallaboutLol nothing interesting. He did more damage in front of my face than behind my backPosted by Capri-sunuh oh.. what did you find out?Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by LadyNeptuneThat's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the casePosted by whatisthisallaboutYou do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?Posted by LadyNeptuneI guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night?
how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
Thanks for the positvitiy.
I stalked my pisces
He was a very open individual. I just never could tell the truths from the lies. His stories were so far fetched sometimes, but hell their imagination is so vivid. To this day, I still can't tell when he's lying or telling the truth
Um, he probably means it because they can be dramatic in general, the emotions behind the dramatics I find to be genuine.
Well, I guess it's always good to give people the benefit of the doubt.
Cheesy....sounds like he's running game lol
What's your sign?click to expand
I don't like to have to worry so much.
Yes we do and also depends on your intellectual level.. Lower the more people around.
Posted by pisceanlovesGood to know. He also has a lot of female frineds.
Yes we do and also depends on your intellectual level.. Lower the more people around.
Do you have a lot of guy friends?
Posted by whatisthisallaboutYeah. I'm pretty flirtatious too. Having multiple choice is always better as you can settle for the best and if something goes wrong you can replace without wasting time and energy looking for someone else.Posted by pisceanlovesGood to know. He also has a lot of female frineds.
Yes we do and also depends on your intellectual level.. Lower the more people around.
Do you have a lot of guy friends?click to expand
Love doesn't come easily and we are perfectionists, not the best combo. If you wanna keep him be perfect, simply perfect.
Posted by pisceanlovesHaha. I think you and he are very similar.Posted by whatisthisallaboutYeah. I'm pretty flirtatious too. Having multiple choice is always better as you can settle for the best and if something goes wrong you can replace without wasting time and energy looking for someone else.Posted by pisceanlovesGood to know. He also has a lot of female frineds.
Yes we do and also depends on your intellectual level.. Lower the more people around.
Do you have a lot of guy friends?
Love doesn't come easily and we are perfectionists, not the best combo. If you wanna keep him be perfect, simply perfect.click to expand
No if my eyes are set on someone they have my full focus and attention. The best way to tell us how quick he replies to messages. The higher on my priority list the quicker I respond.
I do have a lot of guy friends and they are just friends, not friends with benefits so yes don't jump to conclusions.
I do have a lot of guy friends and they are just friends, not friends with benefits so yes don't jump to conclusions.
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.
Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.
But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).
I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends
So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.
Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on
But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people. But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).
I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends
So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it
He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.Posted by RoanaI agree with a lot of that. If I'm seeing someone my tone changes when talking to others and I make it clear that I'm not available.
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.
Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on
But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).
I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends
So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it
Posted by WonderWoman14Posted by RoanaI agree with a lot of that. If I'm seeing someone my tone changes when talking to others and I make it clear that I'm not available.
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.
Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on
But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).
I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends
So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about itclick to expand
Yeah the same with me
I think usually us as pisces we let other people know that we are not available in one way or another. But I rarely cut people out of my life if they don't push over the line that I show them Posted by WonderWoman14Good to know there's no firends with benefits
No if my eyes are set on someone they have my full focus and attention. The best way to tell us how quick he replies to messages. The higher on my priority list the quicker I respond.
I do have a lot of guy friends and they are just friends, not friends with benefits so yes don't jump to conclusions.
Regrading how quickly he replies to messages... hmm, I think it is not very consistent, varing between immediately and a couple of hours later.... but usually he replies within 20-30 minutes.
Posted by RoanaHe did tell me that he kept sevearl girls in his life because he wanted to continue helping them... He told me that even though it hurts him to keep them, he still wants to be there for them because they want him in their lives... I guess this matches the doctor-patient relationship you described... He told me his ex gf was very angry about the situation, but he could never drop those people for her.
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.
Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on
But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).
I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends
So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it
Posted by WonderWoman14I guess I will have to pay attention to how he talks to others then. thanksPosted by RoanaI agree with a lot of that. If I'm seeing someone my tone changes when talking to others and I make it clear that I'm not available.
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.
Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on
But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).
I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends
So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about itclick to expand
Posted by cvurkoThat's good to know, thanks.Posted by Pisco^ What she said. But that depends on a lot of other influences so, as Pisco said, there are different Pisceans.
I don't, but I can't speak for everyone.
When I like someone, they are the only person I want to talk to and get to know.
Edit: Nah, i thought she was referring to romantic relationships.
If i am into smb i am fixed and can like only that person but i still continue communicating with a lot of people. If i see someone has interest in me i always tell them i am unavailable as soon as i feel there might be something on their side.
Oh, and i check my phone a lot because a lot of ppl are writing but when i am with someone i try to be polite and dont touch my phone.click to expand
How if you like someone but you are just getting to know each other?
Posted by whatisthisallaboutYeap, that does seem very similar to what we do. Granted if you two would be in a relashionship for a very long time (couple of years) than I am sure he would push them out of his life one way or another. Just don't push him to do it, because that will push him away from youPosted by RoanaHe did tell me that he kept sevearl girls in his life because he wanted to continue helping them... He told me that even though it hurts him to keep them, he still wants to be there for them because they want him in their lives... I guess this matches the doctor-patient relationship you described... He told me his ex gf was very angry about the situation, but he could never drop those people for her.
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.
Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on
But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).
I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends
So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about itclick to expand
Posted by piscesmoon230 days including the retrograde that just LEFT on the 8th?! Good God!!!!
I would advise that although Mercury is no longer moving backward it still has not come forward to the place it originally started it's retrograde.
This means communication is not the best. I would advise go slower as yes Venus is in Pisces with Neptune where there was a conjunction which can bring the illusion of love...
I will also say that It depends largely on other placements besides just the sun as well as someone's personal vibration.
I know it is never what anyone wants to hear but feeling are normally only hurt that bad once physical relation has started. It is always then you see if a man will actually stick around or not. Once they had it or have had enough of it either you will be worth the effort to him or not.
By taking 30 days or 2 moon cycles and understanding that he could be emotional during these times... and negative qualities can come out. It is then to see how he treats you. As well as during a Mercury retro because yes x's come back often.
Best of luck
PM
cyber hugs! Love,
Eva
PS: I know, I know! P-A-T-I-E-N-C-E
Posted by RoanaRoana is spot on!
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.
Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on
But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).
I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends
So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it
That's why we Pisceans (women) do NOT sleep with our "friends"; even exes. I am NOT friendly w/any of my exes since I don't want them in my life. cyber hugs! Love,
Eva
Good to know there's no firends with benefits
Regrading how quickly he replies to messages... hmm, I think it is not very consistent, varing between immediately and a couple of hours later.... but usually he replies within 20-30 minutes.
Friends with benefits doesn't work for me. I don't do hook ups either. That might be more of a girl thing but I don't jump into bed with just anyone.
I'm not purely a looks based person, obviously there has to be a physical attraction but personality is a big deal. If you can make me laugh you've already caught my attention.
Obviously there will be times when he's busy and can't reply immediately but it sounds like he's interested.
Posted by RoanaThanks! I will just have to see how this is goingPosted by whatisthisallaboutYeap, that does seem very similar to what we do. Granted if you two would be in a relashionship for a very long time (couple of years) than I am sure he would push them out of his life one way or another. Just don't push him to do it, because that will push him away from youPosted by RoanaHe did tell me that he kept sevearl girls in his life because he wanted to continue helping them... He told me that even though it hurts him to keep them, he still wants to be there for them because they want him in their lives... I guess this matches the doctor-patient relationship you described... He told me his ex gf was very angry about the situation, but he could never drop those people for her.
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.
Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on
But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).
I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends
So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about itclick to expand
Posted by cvurkoHe has told me he likes me... but how if an old flame comes back?Posted by whatisthisallaboutIt doesnt matter how much i know the person if i like them. I have to know some stuff in order to get to like them though. But if i do, im fixed and dont think of others that way.Posted by cvurkoThat's good to know, thanks.Posted by Pisco^ What she said. But that depends on a lot of other influences so, as Pisco said, there are different Pisceans.
I don't, but I can't speak for everyone.
When I like someone, they are the only person I want to talk to and get to know.
Edit: Nah, i thought she was referring to romantic relationships.
If i am into smb i am fixed and can like only that person but i still continue communicating with a lot of people. If i see someone has interest in me i always tell them i am unavailable as soon as i feel there might be something on their side.
Oh, and i check my phone a lot because a lot of ppl are writing but when i am with someone i try to be polite and dont touch my phone.
How if you like someone but you are just getting to know each other?click to expand
I know a girl broke his heart not too long ago before we met. He was really into her but she didn't want a relationship. I think he didn't talk to her as much after we met, but how if she changed her mind and wanted to give it a shot? Hypothetically, if it was you, what would you do?
Posted by EvatheDivaThanks for the affirmation, Eva!Posted by RoanaRoana is spot on!
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.
Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on
But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).
I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends
So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it
Love,
Evaclick to expand
What would you do if you met someone new but an old flame came back and wanted to work things out?
Posted by WonderWoman14Friends with benefits doesn't work for me. I don't do hook ups either. That might be more of a girl thing but I don't jump into bed with just anyone.
Good to know there's no firends with benefits
Regrading how quickly he replies to messages... hmm, I think it is not very consistent, varing between immediately and a couple of hours later.... but usually he replies within 20-30 minutes.
I'm not purely a looks based person, obviously there has to be a physical attraction but personality is a big deal. If you can make me laugh you've already caught my attention.
Obviously there will be times when he's busy and can't reply immediately but it sounds like he's interested.
Thanks! I have another question. I know there's this girl just broke his heart not too long ago before we met.
After we met, I think he didn't talk to her as much. She didn't want a relationship.
What do you think he'd do if she decided that she changed her mind and wanted to date him now?
I suspect that she didn't want to date him because she knew he was very into her (too much for her). Now that he's not giving his full attention, maybe she'd want to date him now.
Posted by starwarsIs it true?
"Pisces men are liars and can't be trusted" - Scruffles
Posted by cvurkoThank you! This is very helpful!Posted by whatisthisallaboutYeah, i cant speak for him but normally if smb breaks my heart or hurts me its game over for me. I move on pretty easily. (To decide to move on is the hard part for me)Posted by cvurkoHe has told me he likes me... but how if an old flame comes back?Posted by whatisthisallaboutIt doesnt matter how much i know the person if i like them. I have to know some stuff in order to get to like them though. But if i do, im fixed and dont think of others that way.Posted by cvurkoThat's good to know, thanks.Posted by Pisco^ What she said. But that depends on a lot of other influences so, as Pisco said, there are different Pisceans.
I don't, but I can't speak for everyone.
When I like someone, they are the only person I want to talk to and get to know.
Edit: Nah, i thought she was referring to romantic relationships.
If i am into smb i am fixed and can like only that person but i still continue communicating with a lot of people. If i see someone has interest in me i always tell them i am unavailable as soon as i feel there might be something on their side.
Oh, and i check my phone a lot because a lot of ppl are writing but when i am with someone i try to be polite and dont touch my phone.
How if you like someone but you are just getting to know each other?
I know a girl broke his heart not too long ago before we met. He was really into her but she didn't want a relationship. I think he didn't talk to her as much after we met, but how if she changed her mind and wanted to give it a shot? Hypothetically, if it was you, what would you do?
And im very picky as well so if i find a trait i really dislike and is against my principles i instantly stop liking the person.click to expand
Thanks! I have another question. I know there's this girl just broke his heart not too long ago before we met.
After we met, I think he didn't talk to her as much. She didn't want a relationship.
What do you think he'd do if she decided that she changed her mind and wanted to date him now?
I suspect that she didn't want to date him because she knew he was very into her (too much for her). Now that he's not giving his full attention, maybe she'd want to date him now.
That's a tough one and male/female might view things differently. Also break his heart? How is that possible when they weren't even dating?
If someone wanted me back suddenly because they weren't getting my attention I wouldn't be interested. I don't need anyone, I want them. If I feel it's not reciprocated I'll walk away. I'm at an age where I won't settle for less than I deserve.
Posted by ShadowcatEarly stage... just getting to know each other and hanging out. I want to assess the situation first to decide if I should invest emotionally... obviously, I don't want to end up having a broken heart... (=da rebound girl)Posted by whatisthisallaboutWell I'm not a pisces. But I am someone who fancies multiple people at a time. It's rare that even one of them have my number though. Are you two dating?
I hung out withe Pisces yesterday. He got A Lot of incoming messages. He tried not to check his phone too frequently but still... =.=click to expand
Posted by WonderWoman14Thanks! I have another question. I know there's this girl just broke his heart not too long ago before we met.
After we met, I think he didn't talk to her as much. She didn't want a relationship.
What do you think he'd do if she decided that she changed her mind and wanted to date him now?
I suspect that she didn't want to date him because she knew he was very into her (too much for her). Now that he's not giving his full attention, maybe she'd want to date him now.
That's a tough one and male/female might view things differently. Also break his heart? How is that possible when they weren't even dating?
If someone wanted me back suddenly because they weren't getting my attention I wouldn't be interested. I don't need anyone, I want them. If I feel it's not reciprocated I'll walk away. I'm at an age where I won't settle for less than I deserve.
I guess he felt heart-broken because he thought evenfully she'd want a relationship with him. I think they were in a FWB situation. He had true feelings for her, but she was not over someone else so she didn't want to committ... I appreciate that you shared your perspective
Posted by JayceonPlease elaborate
As a Pisces manI plead the fifth lol.
But in all seriousness,
whenever I hear "you can't like more than one person at once"
is like hearing,
"I only poop butterflies!"
Of course you can fancy more than one person. But the degree of your crush can vary.
Also, when I'm in a relationship,
I am as loyal
as possible.
But I can also understand how someone saying they're "in love" to multiple people in a short period time can be really..really annoying.
Like this one guy who claimed to be "in love" with me
after meeting me the first day.
I understand chemistry can make that happen,
but I could tell this guy was just needy.
All in all, there's two sides in a coin.
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