Pisces, have you cheated before? (Page 2)

Posted by Erica1
Not possible because I was in fourth grade back in 1986 - '87!
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Is that a yes?

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Posted by Erica1
Not possible because I was in fourth grade back in 1986 - '87!
; )

Is that a yes?

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No response required. I already know.

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Posted by aquapiscescusp I think you hate this woman for whatever reasons and are not seeing the big picture here.

...100 bucks she's fucking him.

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Yeah, I think so 🙂

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Posted by Erica1
Not possible because I was in fourth grade back in 1986 - '87!
; )

Is that a yes?

No response required. I already know.

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You're good!

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Posted by DAMEN VI
relationships has its problems from time to time, but ending them instantly because you go thru a rough period isn't necessarily the answer in life either..i don't condone cheating, but any real man thats been in a relationship as long as me will tell you that these situations can or will occur for various reasons..

No shit, sherlock.

And my original statements were that the choice of cheating rather than leaving or working it out is idiotic. I know you cheated on your cancer so you want to justify your behavior and I am sure you are both miserable in your relationship, but it all comes down to those idiotic choices.

So once again, cheating is weak and idiotic and 9 times out of ten will just cause more problems than there were to begin with. I know you DXPers are into your jerry springer type shit, but nobody in their right mind can dispute that.

You can call me young all you want but you're the one wanting to be Peter Pan. Tryin to compare dinner to relationships. lolol.

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like i said before,you have no experience on the subject, so your thoughts are nothing but common phrases used by people like you..

you sound like a simp and will probably end up being walked all over by whatever chick that decides to deal with you

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Posted by DAMEN VI
relationships has its problems from time to time, but ending them instantly because you go thru a rough period isn't necessarily the answer in life either..i don't condone cheating, but any real man thats been in a relationship as long as me will tell you that these situations can or will occur for various reasons..

I know you cheated on your cancer so you want to justify your behavior and I am sure you are both miserable in your relationship, but it all comes down to those idiotic choices.

So once again, cheating is weak and idiotic and 9 times out of ten will just cause more problems than there were to begin with.

The thing I always wondered about you DAMEN... because you've been on here longer than me... is the fact you don't respect your cancer for forgiving/staying with you. She probably makes you pay for it over & over & over again. I wonder if you get pleasure out of the suffering? Or does the suffering feed into the justification?

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when did i say i cheated? and what makes you think everybody,or anybody suffers?? my father cheated before,and so has my mother,but they stayed together and raised their kids,all of us are doing good..my parents have been together over 40 years and they're happy..

Do you think bill clinton is suffering? Or better yet,do you view hillary as a weak woman for staying with him?

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Posted by DAMEN VI
relationships has its problems from time to time, but ending them instantly because you go thru a rough period isn't necessarily the answer in life either..i don't condone cheating, but any real man thats been in a relationship as long as me will tell you that these situations can or will occur for various reasons..

No shit, sherlock.

And my original statements were that the choice of cheating rather than leaving or working it out is idiotic. I know you cheated on your cancer so you want to justify your behavior and I am sure you are both miserable in your relationship, but it all comes down to those idiotic choices.

So once again, cheating is weak and idiotic and 9 times out of ten will just cause more problems than there were to begin with. I know you DXPers are into your jerry springer type shit, but nobody in their right mind can dispute that.

You can call me young all you want but you're the one wanting to be Peter Pan. Tryin to compare dinner to relationships. lolol.

like i said before,you have no experience on the subject, so your thoughts are nothing but common phrases used by people like you..

you sound like a simp and will probably end up being walked all over by whatever chick that decides to deal with you

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whatever helps you sleep at night, junior

Yes, I do view Hilary as emotionally weak for staying with him. She's about power, status and life style ... she gets that but that doesn't make her respectable. I respect values > assets but prefer both.

I get that people are together for different reasons and there are choices involved when it comes to your personal priorities. Family, comfort, finances. I know there are men who are locked in with women who don't fulfill them and visa versa... but leaving means they lose everything or half of what they've worked for in their life. It's not easy to just walk away.

But if you're in a relationship for love and commitment and that is broken.... you have to give up something to stay.

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Posted by Erica1
Not possible because I was in fourth grade back in 1986 - '87!
; )

Is that a yes?

No response required. I already know.

You're good!

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That would have been completely sick as I was a 9-year-old girl! His mistress was a grown woman at the time, so she was at least 18. This was back in about 1986-1987.

I am very attracted to my friend's dad, but I have never slept with him. I'm not going to lie; I am not ashamed to say I'm not his type. Also, he remarried a lovely (Libra) lady a few years ago and they are really happy. I feel a little jealous of her sometimes, but I personally wouldn't want to be a home wrecker.

I have to say tho damen i give you credit for being able to maintain a long term relationship at a young age, whatever the circumstances. which are really nobody's business. it's not like you are on here seeking relationship advice like so many of these crap threads. very challenging, few can say that

Posted by shellshocker
I have to say tho damen i give you credit for being able to maintain a long term relationship at a young age, whatever the circumstances. which are really nobody's business. it's not like you are on here seeking relationship advice like so many of these crap threads.very challenging, few can say that

exactly..its so many situations one may face when dealing with someone for damn near a decade..not only cheating,but financial situations, some may have drug/drinking issues,etc..i've never seen a relationship last over 10 years without some type of serious issue(s) talking place within it

Here's a funny story.
My Pisces works in an industry where there are A LOT of women. I have felt protective of our relationship but I've only felt threatened twice.

1st. was a long time female friend who was clearly harbouring feelings for him. Let's keep it real... she was the ego stroke girl. Allows supportive, allows available, allows thirsty. I picked up on this and in 1 conversation with him I was reassured and it was never an issue again with me.
2nd was a work colleague who broke up with her boyfriend and suddenly took an intense interest in my Fish. (she didn't know he had a gf cause he's private on the job) He told me about her interest and I had a HUGE issue with it... because she had the same birthday as me.

I get very possessive, jealous etc. and don't handle it well. Over the next week, my imagination gets the better of me and i start reading into things. I'm so worked up I'm doubting and accuse him of cheating.

Now here's how fucked up my Fish is... he lets me believe he cheated. He even starts feeding it and pushing it into my head by bringing it up constantly, apologizing and matching my level of drama. mirror, mirror
In his mind he was testing me to see how I??d react in this situation. Was I going to get abusive? Was I going to get revenge? Was I going to stay or walk on him? You never really know what you??ll do in a situation until you??re there.

At first, I didn't want to talk about it. I just sat there in a daze and let him talk at me. Then I started to justify and rationalizing his actions in my mind... because we had been fighting and were broken up at the time I thought it happened. I tried to forgive him but I was just becoming sad, despondent and distant. It probably would of taken me a long time to physically leave him... but I was mentally & emotionally checking out already.

This went on for almost two weeks until my Pisces told me it never happened, that I created my own drama out of fear and insecurity so he let me stew in it to see my true self. I was so pissed at him... that's another story... but looking back I think it was one of the best life lessons I??ve ever had.

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Posted by Erica1
Not possible because I was in fourth grade back in 1986 - '87!
; )

Is that a yes?

No response required. I already know.

You're good!

That would have been completely sick as I was a 9-year-old girl! His mistress was a grown woman at the time, so she was at least 18. This was back in about 1986-1987.

I am very attracted to my friend's dad, but I have never slept with him. I'm not going to lie; I am not ashamed to say I'm not his type. Also, he remarried a lovely (Libra) lady a few years ago and they are really happy. I feel a little jealous of her sometimes, but I personally wouldn't want to be a home wrecker.

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B O O M :: You are attracted to your friend's dad??_

Now, that's a good thread starter.

B O O M :: You are attracted to your friend's dad??_

I am, yes. He is so handsome...thick silver-and-black (real salt-and-pepper) hair, beautiful brown eyes, incredible bronze Sicilian skin, and he's a big guy with a VERY broad back! In fact, he was a gymnast as a young man and he was that good that he almost went to the Olympics, but did the honorable thing by choosing police work, marriage, and fatherhood instead. He is strong, brave, and protective of and loving towards his family.

But he is a married man and I would not sleep with him.

I have never cheated in my life. When I decide a relationship isn't working, I leave it. First of all, I'm too lazy to cheat and lie and hide shit..it's exhausting just thinking about it. Secondly, and most important, I respect the people I'm in any kind of relationship with. Cheating is one of the most hurtful, disrespectful things one can do in my opinion. I've been on the opposite end of cheating and it fucking hurts. I would much rather have a man tell me to my face he doesn't like/love me like that anymore so he can go his way and I can go mine. No harm, no foul, and no disrespect. I get that in some cases there may be kids involved and other things to just up and leave a relationship, but I think in the long run it's better than cheating.

Posted by Erica1

B O O M :: You are attracted to your friend's dad??_

I am, yes. He is so handsome...thick silver-and-black (real salt-and-pepper) hair, beautiful brown eyes, incredible bronze Sicilian skin, and he's a big guy with a VERY broad back! In fact, he was a gymnast as a young man and he was that good that he almost went to the Olympics, but did the honorable thing by choosing police work, marriage, and fatherhood instead. He is strong, brave, and protective of and loving towards his family.

But he is a married man and I would not sleep with him.

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What if he wasn't married, would you date your friend's dad?

What if he wasn't married, would you date your friend's dad?

If he were single and he asked me out, yes.

Posted by shellshocker
Here's a funny story.
My Pisces works in an industry where there are A LOT of women. I have felt protective of our relationship but I've only felt threatened twice.

1st. was a long time female friend who was clearly harbouring feelings for him. Let's keep it real... she was the ego stroke girl. Allows supportive, allows available, allows thirsty. I picked up on this and in 1 conversation with him I was reassured and it was never an issue again with me.

lol at the 1st story..i had a similar situation at work too.my gf seen a unfamiliar chick number in my phone,and i explained that it was for work related reasons(and it was)and how she had the same bday as her also..she didn't make a real issue out of it either thou..probably only because i wasn't trying to hide it lol..but if i wanted to,i could have a strickly sexual relationship with said co worker if i choose to..but i won't and never will

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What if he wasn't married, would you date your friend's dad?

If he were single and he asked me out, yes.

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And your friend would be ok with that?

Posted by DAMEN VI

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Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Posted by DAMEN VI
relationships has its problems from time to time, but ending them instantly because you go thru a rough period isn't necessarily the answer in life either..i don't condone cheating, but any real man thats been in a relationship as long as me will tell you that these situations can or will occur for various reasons..

I know you cheated on your cancer so you want to justify your behavior and I am sure you are both miserable in your relationship, but it all comes down to those idiotic choices.

So once again, cheating is weak and idiotic and 9 times out of ten will just cause more problems than there were to begin with.

The thing I always wondered about you DAMEN... because you've been on here longer than me... is the fact you don't respect your cancer for forgiving/staying with you. She probably makes you pay for it over & over & over again. I wonder if you get pleasure out of the suffering? Or does the suffering feed into the justification?

when did i say i cheated? and what makes you think everybody,or anybody suffers?? my father cheated before,and so has my mother,but they stayed together and raised their kids,all of us are doing good..my parents have been together over 40 years and they're happy..
Do you think bill clinton is suffering? Or better yet,do you view hillary as a weak woman for staying with him?

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not every marriage is perfect that's for sure. If bill and hillary love eachother through thick and thin, then so be it. But you know what? Many people are gonna NEVER let it down. Even if years go by and the couple is straight and narrow and doing awesome together. Just because they got hit by the Monica Lewinsky types who don't give a shit about bill in the first place, you're still gonna get shit from people who have no business in their marriage in the first place. It's just how the world is.

I bet you Hillary never lets it down either privately. Always harping and reminding him about what he did. He'll never escape that!!

it's the marriages that have current mistresses, long term mistresses on the s

long term mistresses on the side where the husband keeps, while the wife just endures and doesn't want to lose her husband. she suffers in this way. but that is her choice. Some women or men NEVER want to LET go of someone, because they can't help it. They dont wanna be alone sure, but they LOVE being with that person so much that they will sacrifice their entire being, even sacrificing themselves for allowing their husbands or wives several mistresses. It's how the world works with some marriages.

Posted by shellshocker
Yes, I do view Hilary as emotionally weak for staying with him. She's about power, status and life style ... she gets that but that doesn't make her respectable. I respect values > assets but prefer both.

I get that people are together for different reasons and there are choices involved when it comes to your personal priorities. Family, comfort, finances. I know there are men who are locked in with women who don't fulfill them and visa versa... but leaving means they lose everything or half of what they've worked for in their life. It's not easy to just walk away.

But if you're in a relationship for love and commitment and that is broken.... you have to give up something to stay.

i dont view that about Hilary. I believe honestly she loves Bill, more than just power and status.

for example, Arnold cheated on Maria Shriver for years, but even after the begging and pleading from Arnold to come back to him, she won't budge. Perhaps she did kind of love him, but it's not enough. Perhaps, what he did was too much. He continously did it with other women, and i'm pretty sure she wasn't entirely blind to it.

And your friend would be ok with that?

It's all hypothetical, but I wouldn't imagine so because I am six years younger than she is. :0

happy birthday darling have a great day beach; imvu; facebook; myspace; house; work; shopping; collecting stuff; buying shoes; resting.

I really hate so much to admit it. I have many times before. But now I take my relationships more seriously as I'm growing in age. Although I don't think it's my pisces as much as it is my aries venus.

I do it really because the person isn't giving me enough attention. If I don't feel clung to a little bit, I drift away and get my satisfaction elsewhere.

Posted by SuperMissMan
I do it really because the person isn't giving me enough attention. If I don't feel clung to a little bit, I drift away and get my satisfaction elsewhere.

i respect you for being honest and not being afraid to admit it. I think you're the first pisces on this board to admit to this without getting super defensive.. hats off to you.

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Posted by SuperMissMan
I do it really because the person isn't giving me enough attention. If I don't feel clung to a little bit, I drift away and get my satisfaction elsewhere.

i respect you for being honest and not being afraid to admit it. I think you're the first pisces on this board to admit to this without getting super defensive.. hats off to you.

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Thank you 🙂 but I'm not afraid to talk about my flaws. We all have them, and for something like this, it's my own fault and I won't hide it.

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Posted by SuperMissMan
I really hate so much to admit it. I have many times before. But now I take my relationships more seriously as I'm growing in age. Although I don't think it's my pisces as much as it is my aries venus.

Really?! And all this vast pool of knowledge and wisdom you keep all so generously sharing with the public comes from 15 years of experience you've walked this planet earth?

Mkay...

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Hahaha yeah I guess.

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Posted by Sn1p3r187
Someone stated something about the Pisces guys here. And I wanted to know from both genders. Was it just a little fling with someone? Was it emotional wise? And did you ever regret it once you were done? I'm stating this because the dude or whoever accused Pisces of cheating, I'm using it just to hear personal experience on a bias subject.

Yes. Emotional and sexual. I just recognized the fact that since my first husband cheated on me when we were married, I became a habitual cheater. I never really faced it till this year. The hurt that was produced in my marriage did damage I wasn't admitting to myself. My three long relationships afterward I cheated right after they hurt me. I went right out and began to cheat with no remorse. It was a defense mechanism. None of these relationships shouldn't have been given the light of day. They all were very dysfunctional. I truly think I was choosing these folks because I felt I deserved it. I talked to my ex husband about this. He apologized profusely and told me to stop carrying the blame to our breakup. It was him and he needed to face it as well. It really helped close that door. I now am back into dating and able to walk away from the men who display damaging traits. Before I would act like I could fix them....I am a work in progress.......

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very candid, nice