Pisces update#3: We went on a trip together... now how do I prepare for telling her Im in love?...

My love for her is so strong it makes me think of death... How Ironic we went to go see Edgar Allen Poe together..... We drove for a day Trip yesterday to Baltimore. Just me and her. Were together from 3:30pm until about 3:30am by the time we got bac...

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by WaterDevil on Wednesday, July 26, 2017 and has 70 replies.
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Posted by pinkbird03
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You went as friends. You're not even dating. Ask her on a date before you say I love you.
We've dated before. Twice. There is a backstory.
So you dated twice, then became friends?
yes
Sounds like she friend zoned you. Don't confess your love. It might scare her away

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I friendzoned my self actually. Friends was my ultimatum not hers.

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so you wrote a thesis and expect me to read it


no.
lol you don't have to. It's optional.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
so you wrote a thesis and expect me to read it


no.
lol you don't have to. It's optional.
but why can't you be more succinct, some of us do want to read ...just a paragraph though not a blog post.
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I just feel like I can't get the full story out. And I think it's important relatively to be detailed. It was longer believe it or not... i always proof read and edit. hah. Im just a writer and a dreamer... I guess its hard for me not to explain things in detail. In person too... lol. Times I don't go into detail are in text/phonecalls/social media/ dating ect. I keep it short and to the point as possible. But forums are meant for venting no? If youre interested feel free.. thats my motto.. smile
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Posted by pinkbird03
You went as friends. You're not even dating. Ask her on a date before you say I love you.
We've dated before. Twice. There is a backstory.
So you dated twice, then became friends?
yes
Sounds like she friend zoned you. Don't confess your love. It might scare her away

I friendzoned my self actually. Friends was my ultimatum not hers.

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Well I still think it's too soon to say those words. But that's just me

Posted by pinkbird03
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Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by WaterDevil
Posted by pinkbird03
You went as friends. You're not even dating. Ask her on a date before you say I love you.
We've dated before. Twice. There is a backstory.
So you dated twice, then became friends?
yes
Sounds like she friend zoned you. Don't confess your love. It might scare her away

I friendzoned my self actually. Friends was my ultimatum not hers.



Well I still think it's too soon to say those words. But that's just me

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A year?

I mean I dont intend to say them. But I think a year is more than appropriate enough to feel like you love someone...
Dude reading that paragraph where you wrote how you felt. Damn that got ME in my feels. DON'T tell her. I think you'll freak her out and I'm not a Pisces. Just dissapear. Trust me I know it's easier said than done. I only lasted 1 week of my "dissapearing" when I text the Pisces asking to catch up. When we did next day she told me all she wanted to do was contact me and run into my arms but she didn't want to appear clingy/needy and wanted to respect the space I asked for.

Just do it. Dissapear and she will notice and she will miss you. It's too hard to be friends and be around them when all you want to do is blurt out how much you're in love with them and how fucking perfect they are.

Have you done your synastry? Where are her moon and mars?
Sorry Moon and Venus.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
so you wrote a thesis and expect me to read it


no.
lol you don't have to. It's optional.
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is this what happens when two cancers interact?

so many claws*
Posted by nats
Dude reading that paragraph where you wrote how you felt. Damn that got ME in my feels. DON'T tell her. I think you'll freak her out and I'm not a Pisces. Just dissapear. Trust me I know it's easier said than done. I only lasted 1 week of my "dissapearing" when I text the Pisces asking to catch up. When we did next day she told me all she wanted to do was contact me and run into my arms but she didn't want to appear clingy/needy and wanted to respect the space I asked for.

Just do it. Dissapear and she will notice and she will miss you. It's too hard to be friends and be around them when all you want to do is blurt out how much you're in love with them and how fucking perfect they are.

Have you done your synastry? Where are her moon and mars?
smart move nats

i thought about asking for space

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Posted by nats
Dude reading that paragraph where you wrote how you felt. Damn that got ME in my feels. DON'T tell her. I think you'll freak her out and I'm not a Pisces. Just dissapear. Trust me I know it's easier said than done. I only lasted 1 week of my "dissapearing" when I text the Pisces asking to catch up. When we did next day she told me all she wanted to do was contact me and run into my arms but she didn't want to appear clingy/needy and wanted to respect the space I asked for.

Just do it. Dissapear and she will notice and she will miss you. It's too hard to be friends and be around them when all you want to do is blurt out how much you're in love with them and how fucking perfect they are.

Have you done your synastry? Where are her moon and mars?
smart move nats

i thought about asking for space

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Posted by nats
Dude reading that paragraph where you wrote how you felt. Damn that got ME in my feels. DON'T tell her. I think you'll freak her out and I'm not a Pisces. Just dissapear. Trust me I know it's easier said than done. I only lasted 1 week of my "dissapearing" when I text the Pisces asking to catch up. When we did next day she told me all she wanted to do was contact me and run into my arms but she didn't want to appear clingy/needy and wanted to respect the space I asked for.

Just do it. Dissapear and she will notice and she will miss you. It's too hard to be friends and be around them when all you want to do is blurt out how much you're in love with them and how fucking perfect they are.

Have you done your synastry? Where are her moon and mars?
https://www.dxpnet.com/users/photos/?i=WaterDevil

Shes A pisces sun, lib moon virgo rising. Thats my chart. I havn't done our synastry
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Posted by pinkbird03
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Posted by pinkbird03
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Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by WaterDevil
Posted by pinkbird03
You went as friends. You're not even dating. Ask her on a date before you say I love you.
We've dated before. Twice. There is a backstory.
So you dated twice, then became friends?
yes
Sounds like she friend zoned you. Don't confess your love. It might scare her away

I friendzoned my self actually. Friends was my ultimatum not hers.



Well I still think it's too soon to say those words. But that's just me

A year?

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Time doesn't matter. It's about doing it when 1. You really believe it 2. She'd feel comfortable hearing it. You don't want to scare her away. Those words are sometimes scary to a girl.
Posted by pinkbird03
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Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by WaterDevil
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by WaterDevil
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by WaterDevil
Posted by pinkbird03
You went as friends. You're not even dating. Ask her on a date before you say I love you.
We've dated before. Twice. There is a backstory.
So you dated twice, then became friends?
yes
Sounds like she friend zoned you. Don't confess your love. It might scare her away

I friendzoned my self actually. Friends was my ultimatum not hers.



Well I still think it's too soon to say those words. But that's just me

A year?

Time doesn't matter. It's about doing it when 1. You really believe it 2. She'd feel comfortable hearing it. You don't want to scare her away. Those words are sometimes scary to a girl.
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I am a girl so I get that. And We've already established that Im not going to tell her. But I can't help how I feel. It is what it is I guess.

At this point, you are trying to understand another human being when even people can't understand themselves sometimes. Right NOW I suggest you be kind to yourself and let her go for a littlewhile. that'll work in two ways.

1. It will give you time to recenter on your values, on who you are, on what you like, on what makes you YOU.

2. It will give her time to think about the good times you had and make her think "damn that was actually really fun, maybe I SHOULD give this a try." If there was tension there when you wanted to kiss her and she still accepted you without being distant (trust me I know when someone wants to kiss me) then you better believe she knows it too.

It's time for you to take hold of your life right now. Objectively speaking, and I am guilty of this myself, you are making yourself go in circles. LET. HER. GO. for now. In two or three weeks, give her a call. just get busy and refocus on your life and what makes you happy. Find something that appeals to you and only you, and do that. Something you never let anyone know about yourself even if you trust them. And focus on that. It's the one piece that's still you. You have to be nice to yourself and stop beating up on the opportunities you may or may not have wasted. Look forward, not down!! smile
Posted by urbane101
At this point, you are trying to understand another human being when even people can't understand themselves sometimes. Right NOW I suggest you be kind to yourself and let her go for a littlewhile. that'll work in two ways.

1. It will give you time to recenter on your values, on who you are, on what you like, on what makes you YOU.

2. It will give her time to think about the good times you had and make her think "damn that was actually really fun, maybe I SHOULD give this a try." If there was tension there when you wanted to kiss her and she still accepted you without being distant (trust me I know when someone wants to kiss me) then you better believe she knows it too.

It's time for you to take hold of your life right now. Objectively speaking, and I am guilty of this myself, you are making yourself go in circles. LET. HER. GO. for now. In two or three weeks, give her a call. just get busy and refocus on your life and what makes you happy. Find something that appeals to you and only you, and do that. Something you never let anyone know about yourself even if you trust them. And focus on that. It's the one piece that's still you. You have to be nice to yourself and stop beating up on the opportunities you may or may not have wasted. Look forward, not down!! smile
thanks! im going to do that smile...
Which girl is this again?
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Which girl is this again?
Original Pisces. The one I'm in love with. The other one is away rn. But I'm gonna see her on Saturday at the music festival I'm preforming at. THIS one that I went to Baltimore with is "THE PISCES"... essentially. My muse.
Damnn I just read all of that took me like 10 minutes but for God sake she has a dude & know this breh two wrongs don't make it right it makes it one pile of doo doo on carpet that is already covered in magnified horse crap..

But anyways where y'all going next? Can't wait for the next episode of Dawson's creek
Posted by AntiSocial
Damnn I just read all of that took me like 10 minutes but for God sake she has a dude & know this breh two wrongs don't make it right it makes it one pile of doo doo on carpet that is already covered in magnified horse crap..

But anyways where y'all going next? Can't wait for the next episode of Dawson's creek
lol. she doesn't have a dude. she dates women. and isnt really with anyone. you must have misunderstood something..

dawson's creeeek. I lol'd at that... more like the L word hah