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This topic was created in the Pisces forum by cotton candy on Saturday, December 29, 2007 and has 18 replies.
hi all
plz i ready i want advice in how to deal with pisces fiance im really thinking of breaking up with him coz i fel like he is not caring and not interested to me < for the records i cought him cheating last year and since that time im feeling sad not happy,, i really want to fall in love with him again ,he is trying but i need to do it by myself ,,u know what i mean ??
"u know what i mean ??"

Not really .. you think he's not interested in you because you looked through his books and found out that he's cheating on some records .. so, this means he isn't interested in you.

No, I don't get that .. sorry.
Oh, never mind ... it's the language barrier, I mis-interpretated what you wrote .. you meant .. you caught him cheating on you last year.
Is that what you meant?
"i really want to fall in love with him again ,he is trying but i need to do it by myself"

Sorry, I wish I could help you, but, I'm having a hard time understanding what you're saying.
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Why would you want to make it work with a fiance who cheated on you.....Could you forgive that? it could be a taste of whats to come...
hi p-amgel thanx honey
what i meant is that how to capture his heart again ,i realized that there were some mistakes i did in the past in dealing with him ...what im planning is to reconnect again without making myself looking trying too hard. coz he is trying to win my trust again and thets cause us alot of toubles,,,in other words i want him to fall in love with me again ? how to do it ??
Cotton Candy..nobody can answer that for you....And you can't force anyone to fall in love with you again..It has to happen naturally...If it doesn't..then you have your answer...theres never a quick solution to this..it will take time no doubt..
"Even though you might not understand him try to understand or just pretend."

Pretend to understand?
Cotton Candy, here's my two cents ...
Your guy has lost much of your trust. I don't know what is the "dealbreaker" for you, it doesn't seem like it is his cheating on you, b/c you still want to give your relationship a chance. This is very forgiving of you. Take the time you need and let him know how you feel and listen to what he says as well. People make mistakes. If you decide that your relationship is worth working through this, then do it.
Garfield,
I think I understand what you mean. You may have felt embarrassed since you have asked some people to explain something a little more to you, yet they get angry and walk away instead of helping you to understand something they have said. However, if you really need to understand something (work, family, school, etc.), don't let people intimidate you. Ask someone else or Google.
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thank u all for your heartbfelt answers. what i meant by make him fall in love with me again ( i meant to try to solve the issue we have not in aggresive way just try to bring the love again ) that what i wanted to say. he is trying to gain my trust so hard but i started to push him away till now i think he gave up and i don want my relationship with cold and meaningless
so he is asking me out i just want to suprise this pisces guy of how much i understand what he need.
so pllllz i need tips on how to suprise him i want romantic gesture coz he is doing alot i just wanna show i saw what u did to gain my trust.
thank u all for your heartbfelt answers. what i meant by make him fall in love with me again ( i meant to try to solve the issue we have not in aggresive way just try to bring the love again ) that what i wanted to say. he is trying to gain my trust so hard but i started to push him away till now i think he gave up and i don want my relationship with cold and meaningless
so he is asking me out i just want to suprise this pisces guy of how much i understand what he need.
so pllllz i need tips on how to suprise him i want romantic gesture coz he is doing alot i just wanna show i saw what u did to gain my trust.
I am not a romantic...so that's kinda lost on me....Good luck however, I hope it works out for you....Some are worthy of a second chance....and if he's making that much effort than well you have to ask yourself will you ever forget what he did in time to come..Never force yourself to do anything..
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thanx missmorals
To have good luck, means a good lick Tongue
Garfield thanx allllooooot for these tips i really appreciate it smile i hope i get good luck and lick both smile LOL
I use to have some problems with my love one, but if we are together all seems to be solved, and we share so many good things...and a good lick solves things also lol
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pisceans plz tell what do u like? what attracts u in a woman heart? heart not body Tongue