HELP ME PLEASE I NEED LIKE SOME CLUES WITH THIS GUY
This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Jubileeee on Friday, September 23, 2016 and has 38 replies.
Hello!!!
I'm quite new to this website but I've recently read so many things from this site so I decided to sign up. However, I have signed up for multiple purposes and this is just 1 of them. I'm seeking advice on how to deal with this guy I have been crushing on for a few months and I'll type them all here.
Before I start, here is mine and HIS natal chart
Mine: http://imgur.com/a/dphBP
*His: http://imgur.com/a/uNmgS
If its too hard to see, read the 2nd post.
* I do not know the timing for his birth, so I set his time at 12PM. However, his date is correct.
This relationship started this May, and I met him during a school camp my school had. We talked quite a lot during the camp and I suddenly felt very connected to him because we were talking about similar interests and things during the camp. It was extremely easy to talk to him and I fell for that. After the camp, both of us continued to talk and developed a deep friendship. He asked me out several times and I agreed. It continued only for a month (The whole period of May) until school stopped since we were having a whole month of holidays during June. It was enjoyable and fun to be with him and I was happy. The last time I talked to him was on 27th May, which he called since he was concerned about my absence in school.
However, during the holidays, he never called which he promised to do when we had the call on the 27th. I missed him and I was determined that he would talk to me after the holidays were over. So it was a pretty boring period during the holidays.
Once the holidays were over, we went back to school and we saw each other again. However, I suddenly felt a sudden distance between me and him because he stopped talking to me. However, he was smiling at me whenever I was looking at him for the first two weeks when school started. I even took an opportunity when he was alone to ask him why he stopped talking to me, he didn't tell me and left. A friend then told me that 'his parents forbid him to talk to me' and so after that, I felt that he was pushing me away and I started ignoring him and never looked at him again.
But the problem is this, weeks past and he was staring at me whenever I walked past and ignored his presence. Even in a far distance, he was able to find me and stare at me, thinking I wasn't noticing his stares. This continued several times between weeks and I got a friend to ask him to stop staring at me because it was slightly irritating. His response was rather neutral as he didn't bothered. Weeks past again and recently I heard from his class that he actually wrote a love letter to me, but I have never received it. I have asked my friend again to confirm this, but I have yet to get any answer.
During the holidays, I developed a strong crush on him... now I'm slightly confused on what to do... Please help based on his and my natal charts! Do ask me more qns if you need more details on this!
I'm quite new to this website but I've recently read so many things from this site so I decided to sign up. However, I have signed up for multiple purposes and this is just 1 of them. I'm seeking advice on how to deal with this guy I have been crushing on for a few months and I'll type them all here.
Before I start, here is mine and HIS natal chart
Mine: http://imgur.com/a/dphBP
*His: http://imgur.com/a/uNmgS
If its too hard to see, read the 2nd post.
* I do not know the timing for his birth, so I set his time at 12PM. However, his date is correct.
This relationship started this May, and I met him during a school camp my school had. We talked quite a lot during the camp and I suddenly felt very connected to him because we were talking about similar interests and things during the camp. It was extremely easy to talk to him and I fell for that. After the camp, both of us continued to talk and developed a deep friendship. He asked me out several times and I agreed. It continued only for a month (The whole period of May) until school stopped since we were having a whole month of holidays during June. It was enjoyable and fun to be with him and I was happy. The last time I talked to him was on 27th May, which he called since he was concerned about my absence in school.
However, during the holidays, he never called which he promised to do when we had the call on the 27th. I missed him and I was determined that he would talk to me after the holidays were over. So it was a pretty boring period during the holidays.
Once the holidays were over, we went back to school and we saw each other again. However, I suddenly felt a sudden distance between me and him because he stopped talking to me. However, he was smiling at me whenever I was looking at him for the first two weeks when school started. I even took an opportunity when he was alone to ask him why he stopped talking to me, he didn't tell me and left. A friend then told me that 'his parents forbid him to talk to me' and so after that, I felt that he was pushing me away and I started ignoring him and never looked at him again.
But the problem is this, weeks past and he was staring at me whenever I walked past and ignored his presence. Even in a far distance, he was able to find me and stare at me, thinking I wasn't noticing his stares. This continued several times between weeks and I got a friend to ask him to stop staring at me because it was slightly irritating. His response was rather neutral as he didn't bothered. Weeks past again and recently I heard from his class that he actually wrote a love letter to me, but I have never received it. I have asked my friend again to confirm this, but I have yet to get any answer.
During the holidays, I developed a strong crush on him... now I'm slightly confused on what to do... Please help based on his and my natal charts! Do ask me more qns if you need more details on this!
I'm a Pisces Sun & Mercury, Taurus Moon & Mars, Aries Venus.
He is a Taurus Sun, Capricorn Moon, Gemini Venus, Mercury & Mars.
Extra information**: During the period of May, he invited me to his home and I went. I've talked to his parents and played with his siblings and relatives. Thus, my friend was then informed by HIM that his 'parents forbid him to talk to me', which is a ridiculous excuse because what kind of parents would forbid their kids from talking to someone unless I have seriously offended them in anyway, which I haven't.
Another ridiculous excuse HIM gave to my friend was that he 'couldn't talk to me because he has tuition', which was also stupid. So I stopped talking to him because he gave me those dumb excuses during the first two weeks when school restarted.
He is a Taurus Sun, Capricorn Moon, Gemini Venus, Mercury & Mars.
Extra information**: During the period of May, he invited me to his home and I went. I've talked to his parents and played with his siblings and relatives. Thus, my friend was then informed by HIM that his 'parents forbid him to talk to me', which is a ridiculous excuse because what kind of parents would forbid their kids from talking to someone unless I have seriously offended them in anyway, which I haven't.
Another ridiculous excuse HIM gave to my friend was that he 'couldn't talk to me because he has tuition', which was also stupid. So I stopped talking to him because he gave me those dumb excuses during the first two weeks when school restarted.
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If it's a cultural thing then he may not pursue you. Sorry.
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Does a mother or father know best in picking a wife or husband? No but if he loves family then you. You have to work your ass off for him.
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Then there's the whole fuck that who had time for all this excuse bullshit. I actually put myself in a situation like this on purpose. Because one that is interested would not let go or play excuses like that at all.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428He has a chaotic life in his family. He doesn't really like it but I can tell he does love them. But he tries to escape from his harsh family usually by staying in school longer than he should to avoid his mother scolding him every single day. But I'm fine to work the fk outta myself for him but I don't think its worth it if he doesn't notice lmao.
Does a mother or father know best in picking a wife or husband? No but if he loves family then you. You have to work your ass off for him.
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How old are you guys again?
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Love your pooch avi though. Is that a basset hound or weenie dog.
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I mean daschund.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428haha I wouldn't want to say that here cause I don't feel comfortable stating an age but we're between teen - adult years.
How old are you guys again?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428its a dachshund puppy
I mean daschund.
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So you both the same sign . I don't read those like that sorry well pictures are blurry to me. You are Pisces moon , Aqua mars. Or he is?
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Posted by JubileeeeHm I talk 16 year olds on here. Because they do come out for advice.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428haha I wouldn't want to say that here cause I don't feel comfortable stating an age but we're between teen - adult years.
How old are you guys again?click to expand
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Cool pup. We had a Chia weenie dog/daschund.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428He is a Taurus Sun, Capricorn Moon, Gemini Venus, Mercury & Mars.
So you both the same sign . I don't read those like that sorry well pictures are blurry to me. You are Pisces moon , Aqua mars. Or he is?
I am a Pisces Sun, Taurus Moon, Aries Venus, Pisces Mercury & Taurus Mars.
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I was going crazy with they are the same charts I was confused for sec. Can't read it like that still.
Posted by SeraphlightOh oops HAHAHAHA hold on let me redo it zzz
Those two charts are the same btw.
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Posted by JubileeeeI'm a Taurus with mercury and mars. LolPosted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428He is a Taurus Sun, Capricorn Moon, Gemini Venus, Mercury & Mars.
So you both the same sign . I don't read those like that sorry well pictures are blurry to me. You are Pisces moon , Aqua mars. Or he is?
I am a Pisces Sun, Taurus Moon, Aries Venus, Pisces Mercury & Taurus Mars.click to expand
Posted by SeraphlightThey are such a cute breed~ I like themPosted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428We have a mini dachsund!
Cool pup. We had a Chia weenie dog/daschund.click to expand
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Nope so opposite, for real hope it works out but family issues are very important while being in friends mode.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
He has a Gemini in Venus, Mars, and mercury in Gemini, and you are fire with fixed actions and communication. Mm
Posted by Seraphlightyeah that's true. I would go for family first as a Taurus in moon. I long for long term relationships too but he easily pushed me away when I wanted to be loyal lmao.Posted by JubileeeeOk Well tradition and approval is obv important to him and also education at this stage. It could be that he feels his priorities at this stage need to be that. Also if you are teens ..parents have a say ..they perhaps don't want him dating now. And if he is ...under 18 they can do that.Posted by SeraphlightOh oops HAHAHAHA hold on let me redo it zzz
Those two charts are the same btw.
Taurus and cappes can like tradition etc. And those relationships that are long term are important. Family is important.click to expand
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428mhm he talked to me alot about his family when he was still talking to me. i did give him advice too but i doubt he took it
Nope so opposite, for real hope it works out but family issues are very important while being in friends mode.
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What did you say to him, move out ?
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Thank scrump still weird because family is important to some rather than others regardless of signs.
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If I was with someone who I was compatible with I mean couple years. And then finally you get to that time line where yall meeting family, friends, etc. And family disapproves one why do they think that? and two I just lost my lover for life.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428lmao no.. i would tell him to do that temporarily if he was in his 20s haha. but ermm if im not wrong i did told him that he needs to free out himself from his family stress to gain some freedom because his mom crazily controls him on whatever he does. however, his mom did thought that we both were dating for a short period of time when i was talking to him too and i told his mom that we aren't but just close friends zzz.
What did you say to him, move out ?
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Okay sorry good up but still a person that has fixed in their chart is fixed and I'd the other person has air in mars, moon, mercury, Venus it's just so much more to taking time because complete different.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428i cannot say anything on his family's opinions abt me cause honestly HIM himself did told his own parents good things abt me but i dk why they would doubt me after they talked to me lol but i find his family weird after all of this
If I was with someone who I was compatible with I mean couple years. And then finally you get to that time line where yall meeting family, friends, etc. And family disapproves one why do they think that? and two I just lost my lover for life.
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So you are friends now hoping a relationship at some point though.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428i dont wish for a relationship though i've thought about it but errr if we ever talked again i'll say ill like to have a closer relationship than before??? because i want to get to know him more
So you are friends now hoping a relationship at some point though.
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When it comes to family you do know later you guys hit it off. You will see them alot they become in laws if you all get married. Lol
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Okay when was the last time you talked to him? and you do your own thing btw. Just be friends for now you got along way to go before settling.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428oBV but this guy is so fking confusing with the love letter / creepy stares / etc.., but i like his parents regardless
When it comes to family you do know later you guys hit it off. You will see them alot they become in laws if you all get married. Lol
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428mhmm i will. the last time i talked to him like a long convo was like on 27th May on call. that's it. and he only give me smiles and shit after school reopened
Okay when was the last time you talked to him? and you do your own thing btw. Just be friends for now you got along way to go before settling.
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Okay good luck in your adventures you have plenty awaiting.
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