how funny...

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by christinelovessnickers on Wednesday, April 17, 2013 and has 20 replies.
Running into an ex randomly. Especially since he has been calling and I have been ignoring.
is it a coincidence or you think he planned to run into you?
Coincidence. He would have had no clue that I would have been there.
Posted by feb16aqua
that seems to happen to me a lot lol. oh HIIII!


Lol kind of sucks
Posted by feb16aqua
that seems to happen to me a lot lol. oh HIIII!


Hey Feb smile
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by feb16aqua
that seems to happen to me a lot lol. oh HIIII!


Lol kind of sucks
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Why does it suck? Just ignore...
Posted by CluelessCancer
Did you run up to him and KISS him?


Lol not at all!
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by feb16aqua
that seems to happen to me a lot lol. oh HIIII!


Lol kind of sucks


Why does it suck? Just ignore...
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True. Just sucks cause I still care about him. Lol lame, I know.
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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by feb16aqua
that seems to happen to me a lot lol. oh HIIII!


Lol kind of sucks


Why does it suck? Just ignore...


True. Just sucks cause I still care about him. Lol lame, I know.
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You ignored his phone calls, it sucked running into him, but you still care!? What piece of the puzzle am I missing?
Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by CluelessCancer
Did you run up to him and KISS him?


Lol not at all!


I would. I'd remind him ...
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Lmao. I am not as ballsy as you, I guess. smile
Posted by CluelessCancer
Did you run up to him and KISS him?


Hahaha
This sounds like something my sister would sayLaughing
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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by feb16aqua
that seems to happen to me a lot lol. oh HIIII!


Lol kind of sucks


Why does it suck? Just ignore...


True. Just sucks cause I still care about him. Lol lame, I know.




You ignored his phone calls, it sucked running into him, but you still care!? What piece of the puzzle am I missing?


I am trying to just be friends with him now. I need the space for myself...not fall back into the same patterns.
"I just asked him what he wanted from me. He said he he didn't know. So I said that if a serious relationship couldn't be an option in the future than friendship is best."
I wasn't trying to push him into one, just wanted to make sure I wasn't headed into something that could never progress.

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I concur.
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Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by feb16aqua
that seems to happen to me a lot lol. oh HIIII!


Lol kind of sucks


Why does it suck? Just ignore...


True. Just sucks cause I still care about him. Lol lame, I know.
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Not lame at all. I just recently started talking to my ex again. I was doing the same thing...ignoring him, lol. He wouldn't let up so I just said to hell with it & called him because I do miss him, plus I wanted to know what he wanted as well but I didn't ask yet.
I plan on asking him the same question "what do you want from me"...& his response may be the same! Hahahaha, men. *rolls eyes* I feel your pain!
Not lame at all. I just recently started talking to my ex again. I was doing the same thing...ignoring him, lol. He wouldn't let up so I just said to hell with it & called him because I do miss him, plus I wanted to know what he wanted as well but I didn't ask yet.
I plan on asking him the same question "what do you want from me"...& his response may be the same! Hahahaha, men. *rolls eyes* I feel your pain!


You will have to update us on that one smile. What's his sign? Aren't you a Virgo?
We hung out the other day and it was fine ...actually talked about things. Turns out he isn't against a relationship. He just knows a lot of people expect a lot from him and he knows that it would take a lot of work that he isn't ready to add to his load at the moment. We are still friends but it seems like his demeanor towards me has become sweeter And more open. he even asked my opinion on furniture that he wants to buy.
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You will have to update us on that one smile. What's his sign? Aren't you a Virgo?
We hung out the other day and it was fine ...actually talked about things. Turns out he isn't against a relationship. He just knows a lot of people expect a lot from him and he knows that it would take a lot of work that he isn't ready to add to his load at the moment. We are still friends but it seems like his demeanor towards me has become sweeter And more open. he even asked my opinion on furniture that he wants to buy.


Yup, I am. He's a watery Gemini Tongue.
I've done some research on our charts & we have some very strong synastry connections. I've read that one of the top 5 strongest connections were Sun conjunct Descendent. We have that connection along with 2 south node connections in the Moon & Mars. Sheeeeesh...
I hung out with mine also & it went pretty ok. He's depressed because he has alot going on & we talked about it, along with some other personal info. We hugged, held hands, friendly kissed...no french fries Winking, & that was it. I'm not pursuing anything with him or jumping into anything. If I hear from him great, if not, tooda loo! I will K.I.M. I have no time for fuckery. smile
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Turns out he isn't against a relationship. He just knows a lot of people expect a lot from him and he knows that it would take a lot of work that he isn't ready to add to his load at the moment. We are still friends but it seems like his demeanor towards me has become sweeter And more open. he even asked my opinion on furniture that he wants to buy.


Maybe you guys can re-kindle???
Yup, I am. He's a watery Gemini Tongue.
I've done some research on our charts & we have some very strong synastry connections. I've read that one of the top 5 strongest connections were Sun conjunct Descendent. We have that connection along with 2 south node connections in the Moon & Mars. Sheeeeesh...
I hung out with mine also & it went pretty ok. He's depressed because he has alot going on & we talked about it, along with some other personal info. We hugged, held hands, friendly kissed...no french fries Winking, & that was it. I'm not pursuing anything with him or jumping into anything. If I hear from him great, if not, tooda loo! I will K.I.M. I have no time for fuckery. smile


Well, it sounds like a good thing with the synastry. I still haven't figured out how to do that. Do you know how to find out about the past relationship in synastry?
At least you have the patience to go with the flow lol. Patience is something I have really been learning from the Virgo, even just in friendship.
Maybe you guys can re-kindle???

I don't know. This was the second time around....very short lived. I am not pushing for anything at this point.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Yup, I am. He's a watery Gemini Tongue.
I've done some research on our charts & we have some very strong synastry connections. I've read that one of the top 5 strongest connections were Sun conjunct Descendent. We have that connection along with 2 south node connections in the Moon & Mars. Sheeeeesh...
I hung out with mine also & it went pretty ok. He's depressed because he has alot going on & we talked about it, along with some other personal info. We hugged, held hands, friendly kissed...no french fries Winking, & that was it. I'm not pursuing anything with him or jumping into anything. If I hear from him great, if not, tooda loo! I will K.I.M. I have no time for fuckery. smile


Well, it sounds like a good thing with the synastry. I still haven't figured out how to do that. Do you know how to find out about the past relationship in synastry?
At least you have the patience to go with the flow lol. Patience is something I have really been learning from the Virgo, even just in friendship.
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Yes, you can go to a website called astrolada.com & go to birth charts to find out what your Rahu & Ketu are. North & South nodes. Conjunctions are the strongest connections in synastry & so are opposites. I've read the ones that are not so strong are sextile & trine. Square is just, well square Tongue. That's what I've read. I'm still researching it because it's pretty interesting to me. Before I came to DXP I was just a Virgo, hahaha. Come to find out I'm not your average Joe.
Uh no. I have no patience. I have been with other people, but I've just always loved him. Right now I'm not dating anyone because I'm trying to better myself & focus more on myself. With him I just go with whatever I feel is right for me to do regarding our situation. I'm ok with being friends with him again, but I'm not rushing or pushing for anything.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Maybe you guys can re-kindle???


I don't know. This was the second time around....very short lived. I am not pushing for anything at this point.

I feel you there.