Mars square saturn? is that a huge problem?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Nouran20 on Monday, March 20, 2017 and has 18 replies.
Hi everyone I read that Mars square saturn is a very bad thing for relationships. In our chart It appears twice. Is that such a horrible thing and is there other good aspects that can cancel out that bad aspect?

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrological_composite_chart.php

ME:

Sun 27°32' Taurus

Moon 16°05' Sagittarius

Mercury 12°30' Taurus

Venus 20°24' Taurus

Mars 09°26' Aries

Jupiter 05°05' Virgo

Saturn 18°17' Aquarius

Uranus 17°45' Capricorn

Neptune 18°47' Capricorn

Pluto 21°13' Scorpio

Him:

Sun 08°16' Sagittarius

Moon 01°49' Capricorn

Mercury 19°12' Sagittarius

Venus 23°10' Capricorn

Mars 17°48' Scorpio

Jupiter 09°13' Cancer

Saturn 11°58' Capricorn

Uranus 03°55' Capricorn

Neptune 10°54' Capricorn

Pluto 15°53' Scorpio

If anyone can help tell me if whether this relationship is a NO NO or that there is a chance for it to follow in a good direction and why?

Thank you!
Saturns current location is more your problem unless you are both really on the same page...

Very strong vibrations it will not work out for the long term.

As far as all the placements they work well together for attraction... mars

Is in Taurus now and can be being issues to the surface more. You have to look a little more into the future unless you just want to have fun.

Piscesmoon
Posted by piscesmoon2
Saturns current location is more your problem unless you are both really on the same page...

Very strong vibrations it will not work out for the long term.

As far as all the placements they work well together for attraction... mars

Is in Taurus now and can be being issues to the surface more. You have to look a little more into the future unless you just want to have fun.

Piscesmoon
What do you mean by "Saturns current location is more your problem unless you are both really on the same page..." Does that mean that I am the trouble maker?

Yes of course I want a serious stable long term relationship not just fun.

Are you saying that it is better not to be in a relationship with this guy? I really like him a lot.
Posted by Nepturanus
double trouble


why is that please?
These are our date of births if anyone could tell me anything about mars square saturn and if there are any other more difficult aspects in our charts?

Me: 18/05/1992

Him: 30/11/1989
Posted by Nouran20
Posted by Nepturanus
double trouble


why is that please?
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Theres a mars sq sat but the other way round is mars trine sat so thats good, what it can mean is like conflict between your drive, and your sense of authority, one might stop the other one from fully expressing his anger. But the trine kinda smoothes this out, so it could be fine.
Your sun trines his venus! Thats amazing!

Theres a positive moon merc, and a merc- saturn.

But theres also mars square jup, so he has Jupiter opp Sat. Which means theres a conflict between his expansion, or possibilities, and the law, or his father...so your Mars coming right in the middle of there means you'll well fit for him, you understand what's at the heart of the conflict, and it will be hard but you can help him.
Posted by Nevermore
I don't see a great chart together. He'll hurt you even more. Straight Face If you both are stable, strong and mature to each other.. With tons of communication, than it won't have problem.
Hurt me in what way? Like is there a specific region or area that he would hurt me in?

Posted by bricklemark
Posted by Nouran20
Posted by Nepturanus
double trouble


why is that please?
Theres a mars sq sat but the other way round is mars trine sat so thats good, what it can mean is like conflict between your drive, and your sense of authority, one might stop the other one from fully expressing his anger. But the trine kinda smoothes this out, so it could be fine.
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For sure I feel like I can't express myself like I used to I think a thousand times before saying anything and many times I end up not saying what I want to really say to avoid hurting his feelings or creating problems. I am not sure if that is a good thing or a bad thing. I mean he has better control over his anger and what he says while angry than me. But I am trying now to control my anger and not speak while im angry so i don't say anything foolish.

When we argue I try to avoid saying everything in my head I only say like a quarter and then stop!
Posted by bricklemark
Your sun trines his venus! Thats amazing!

Theres a positive moon merc, and a merc- saturn.

But theres also mars square jup, so he has Jupiter opp Sat. Which means theres a conflict between his expansion, or possibilities, and the law, or his father...so your Mars coming right in the middle of there means you'll well fit for him, you understand what's at the heart of the conflict, and it will be hard but you can help him.
Im sorry what do you mean not sure I got that...how would i be able to help him and what you mean by conflict between his expansion?

could you further elaborate on that.

Thank you!
I would like to know if this chart is good enough for a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP?
Posted by Nouran20
Posted by bricklemark
Your sun trines his venus! Thats amazing!

Theres a positive moon merc, and a merc- saturn.

But theres also mars square jup, so he has Jupiter opp Sat. Which means theres a conflict between his expansion, or possibilities, and the law, or his father...so your Mars coming right in the middle of there means you'll well fit for him, you understand what's at the heart of the conflict, and it will be hard but you can help him.
Im sorry what do you mean not sure I got that...how would i be able to help him and what you mean by conflict between his expansion?

could you further elaborate on that.

Thank you!
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Your Mars comes in between these two planets of his, do you understand ?

He has this opposition, and your Mars is square both planets. So you take the pressure off the opposition, and focus the energy on all 3 points. It makes him work on his problems, maybe solve them. Noone can tell you if it's along term relat, we're just lookin under the hood here, tryin to anaylse the dynamic, how you relate to each other, you should do that first. Later you'll see if you're meant to be.
all I know is that anything square is HORRIBLE.

too much of it is just terrible.

if it's not square by degrees, it should be fine, but if you have too much, it's DISASTER.

the more I know astrology the more I understand why astrologers say what they say.
Posted by lisabethur8
all I know is that anything square is HORRIBLE.

too much of it is just terrible.

if it's not square by degrees, it should be fine, but if you have too much, it's DISASTER.

the more I know astrology the more I understand why astrologers say what they say.
What about the rest of what l said?
No response. Lot of mentally lazies here...theres no work that can be done with such an attitude, you're fvkwits.
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Posted by bricklemark
Your sun trines his venus! Thats amazing!

Theres a positive moon merc, and a merc- saturn.

But theres also mars square jup, so he has Jupiter opp Sat. Which means theres a conflict between his expansion, or possibilities, and the law, or his father...so your Mars coming right in the middle of there means you'll well fit for him, you understand what's at the heart of the conflict, and it will be hard but you can help him.
Im sorry what do you mean not sure I got that...how would i be able to help him and what you mean by conflict between his expansion?

could you further elaborate on that.

Thank you!
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Your Mars comes in between these two planets of his, do you understand ?

He has this opposition, and your Mars is square both planets. So you take the pressure off the opposition, and focus the energy on all 3 points. It makes him work on his problems, maybe solve them. Noone can tell you if it's along term relat, we're just lookin under the hood here, tryin to anaylse the dynamic, how you relate to each other, you should do that first. Later you'll see if you're meant to be.
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Thank you sooo much for the effort and providing me with further details that is nice of you. Basically what I understood that his Jupiter opposite his saturn means that he may constantly need reassurance from others that he is talented/good...etc. Basically he may lack self confidence? hmmm

And my Mars is opposite his Jupiter, meaning I (mars person) would sometimes attack his beliefs and that makes him very mad...well recently I told him a friend of his (a girl) somehow gave the impression that she is cheap and that him supporting that behavior is silly so he attacked me for being judgmental. sooo...I guess I should learn to keep my opinion to myself next time. Perhaps not attack his friends or their behavior.

Posted by bricklemark
Posted by lisabethur8
all I know is that anything square is HORRIBLE.

too much of it is just terrible.

if it's not square by degrees, it should be fine, but if you have too much, it's DISASTER.

the more I know astrology the more I understand why astrologers say what they say.
What about the rest of what l said?
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like you said we are just analyzing the aspects but I was wondering if there are any red alerts?

Overall im happy to hear that the positive aspects can make it work.
Your mars is not opposite his jupiter.

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