Virgo dealing with a Taurus man sigh

During this Pandemic me and my Taurus been spending a lot more time together. Im at his house 6 or 7 days out the week. I knew him since 6th grade. We been seeing each other since july 2019. He made me his girl back in September but claim hes not committe...

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Virgokiss05 on Thursday, June 25, 2020 and has 60 replies.
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Yea he watching my pages with no shame. I made my Instagram private and he felt a way about it before
I use to deal with another taurus in 2018 and he had a cancer moon. He was the worst. He came to my block to stalk me. He threatened to punch me in my face. He cried on my voice messages and he called all the time crying when I broke it off with him. I will not tolerate threats. He still stalk me till this day. He hit me up on IG couple months ago telling me he changed. And send his congrats on my success and then kept dragging the conversation. He started hitting me on Instagram everyday I told him can he stop hitting up so much I have a boyfriend. Then he got mad and unfollowed me lol a month later follows me on my business page so I blocked him lol. He even told I could go to Vegas for my bday and said if I go he not talking to me anymore lol I still went and guess what he was blowing my phone up lol. That controlling sh** I dont like. I would never date him again even tho chemistry was good
He told me I couldn't go to Vegas.. typos
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Posted by virgoOPPP
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might even make a whole new account just to stalk


OP is actually doing this lol...


awkward


i blame cancer moon coz that's the moon that will demand whatsapp access


I can appreciate a woman who is willing to do a little stalking...I find it flattering....unless of course, you don't like the person in which case it is annoying and kinda scary lol...
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i am a proponent of stalking. i like stalking. i've even done "stakeouts" as part of my job. it's fun. i stalked my bull.


the thing is if you stalk well then the other person will never know so can never feel scared or creeped out. to this day, my bull doesn't know the things i learnt about him back then...


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Posted by virgal_perfectionist

This sounds just like the Taurus man I was dating. Trust issues, insecurities, would not take ownership of his actions, constantly blaming others for the way he feels, did not want to be 'played' (that was his favorite line), random girls in his phone, very possessive, ... I can go on and on...


But yet, I was so in love with him. I actually never loved someone like him. He was my soul mate. I saw who/ what he could be past all of that. But what I had to come and realize was that he wasn't ready for commitment. He had too much baggage and things he needed to let go of. It was like I was walking on eggshells to make sure I didn't do the wrong thing or say the wrong thing because if I did the smallest thing, like "laughing underneath someone picture on social media" he would go bat shhh crazy. I had to let him go so that he could find his sense of happiness. He wasn't happy with himself at all. He was a broken man. It's been 4 years since we broke up and I still love him.


I know you probably feel like its your fault or you wished you would've done something or said something to make him 'change' but you didn't. He has to mature and figure things for himself first. My best friend would always tell me something that kind of stuck with me: "you will never be good enough to man who isn't ready."


Had an experience almost exactly like virgal. He was a Taurus, w/ Pisces moon and Aries Venus. Very damaged from previous relationship and blamed that for all his issues and insecurities. Any time I tried to speak up about something he’d explode and compare me to his ex-wife. He had a tendency to explode and yell, never violent, over anything and I never knew what was gonna set him off. The last time I spoke to him he literally told me in very much detail every single thing he hated about me. I went home feeling like a shell of a person and I’ll never go through that again. Sounds like your Taurus needs to deal with his issues before he can function in a relationship and not be a dick. Taurus loves comfort too, make sure he’s not holding on to you while chatting up all these other girls. I wish you the best of luck, but sounds like you may have one of these toxic Taurus combinations.
Yeah he is hard to talk to when upset. I told him I need to be alone for awhile and it's been 8 days since we last spoke. I havent seen him post on social media or anything so maybe he is feeling it. Only way Ill take him back if he agrees to committing and I'm going to stick to what I deserve. He usually get what I'm saying once he calms down so I'm going to see what happens. If he really dont want to commit to me then I know he doesnt love me enough and that's okay I will just see him as not the one. I can move on because I know ill meet the right one eventually. I put my best foot forward these last couple months so he'll be the one feeling like sh** in the end.
Update: we spoke and he was still mad about me accusing him. I didnt mentioned the commitment thing. Then he asked me to come over to talk but I told him maybe tomorrow. Idk why it's like I want to make it work but at the same time I dont anymore. Even if did he commit idk if I can really trust him. It's like I'm starting to see a lot of toxic traits more clearly since I been not in contact these last 10 days. Not sure if I want to open that wound again. I guess I'm afraid that I may be wasting my time with him or worried that he may not be the one.
Libra mercury? Same sis.


Damn this could never be me tho smh Taurus men are a nono
Posted by MissKrabs

Taurus with trust issues, jealous when the woman he is seeing is getting attention? First time i hear about it.

Yup, we have that problem big time

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