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Your Mars & Venus Playbook (Page 2)
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If you have Mars in Leo with Venus in Capricorn
you are . . .
The Maestro of Tragedy
Your first goal is always basic physical pleasure and you are usually very creative in finding ways to achieve this goal. You take a more practical approach to sex, but it also less hampered by idealism and pride. You can be a very demanding Lover partly because of your strong sex drive and partly because you need a partner who will give you something to brag about.
All Mars in Leo Lovers like a bit of theater in their love lives but your tastes run toward the tragic. You??re a sucker for a sad story, either your own or someone else's, and you love expanding these stories and weaving them into your sexual history. Sometimes this taste for dramatizing the negative can cause you to broadcast your least desirable qualities and wallow in your weaknesses. At best it makes you a champion of the weak and unloved.
In either case, you are never boring ..
Famous Maestro of Tragedy - James Dean (born Feb. 8, 1931 adb,) who was famously self-destructive in all aspect of his life, including sex.
you are . . .
The Maestro of Tragedy
Your first goal is always basic physical pleasure and you are usually very creative in finding ways to achieve this goal. You take a more practical approach to sex, but it also less hampered by idealism and pride. You can be a very demanding Lover partly because of your strong sex drive and partly because you need a partner who will give you something to brag about.
All Mars in Leo Lovers like a bit of theater in their love lives but your tastes run toward the tragic. You??re a sucker for a sad story, either your own or someone else's, and you love expanding these stories and weaving them into your sexual history. Sometimes this taste for dramatizing the negative can cause you to broadcast your least desirable qualities and wallow in your weaknesses. At best it makes you a champion of the weak and unloved.
In either case, you are never boring ..
Famous Maestro of Tragedy - James Dean (born Feb. 8, 1931 adb,) who was famously self-destructive in all aspect of his life, including sex.
If you have Mars in Libra with Venus in Scorpio
you are . . .
The Dangerously Perfect Lover
You are the most seductive of the Mars in Libra Lovers, one who understands the importance of sex both as a natural urge and a psychological force. This bit of wisdom adds a savvy edge to you romantic maneuvering but it does not make you any less of an idealist. You are still looking for the perfect love with the perfect partner. It's just that, in your case, this bond must take place on a deeper, emotional level as well as in the mind.
You are the most conservative of Lover of this type an you prefer relationships in which you are the person in control. This can become a problem because the perfect union that Mars in Libra people always seek is a partnership between two equals. Your desire to dominate will make it difficult for you to find and hold on to the person who can fulfill you ideal. Someone is going to have to compromise and, as much as you might despise the notion, more often than not it's going to be you.
you are . . .
The Dangerously Perfect Lover
You are the most seductive of the Mars in Libra Lovers, one who understands the importance of sex both as a natural urge and a psychological force. This bit of wisdom adds a savvy edge to you romantic maneuvering but it does not make you any less of an idealist. You are still looking for the perfect love with the perfect partner. It's just that, in your case, this bond must take place on a deeper, emotional level as well as in the mind.
You are the most conservative of Lover of this type an you prefer relationships in which you are the person in control. This can become a problem because the perfect union that Mars in Libra people always seek is a partnership between two equals. Your desire to dominate will make it difficult for you to find and hold on to the person who can fulfill you ideal. Someone is going to have to compromise and, as much as you might despise the notion, more often than not it's going to be you.
I m the crafty extremist :p
Venus in gem , mars in Aries! Bring on that pussy fast! :p
Venus in gem , mars in Aries! Bring on that pussy fast! :p
Posted by lucyL
Mars in Leo with Venus in Leo
The Divine Maestro of Love
You are the divinely anointed autocrat of sex. No one tells you what to do and nothing can limit the expression of your sexuality. You break rules, not because you are rebellious, but because your sexual needs supercede all man-made laws (and even some natural ones). Of course, you??ll probably deny that you??ve ever had notions like this and chuckle over the implications. And that's okay. The divinely anointed autocrat of sex shouldn't be forced to admit to anything.
The one skill missing from your erotic arsenal is compromise. It's not that you??ll ever have problems getting people to do what you want. If your effervescent charm doesn't get them then your commanding self-confidence surely will. Still, your need to be in complete control of your sexual experience often causes you to behave in unrealistic and even unsavory ways and your stubbornness with regard to what you do and do not find pleasurable can put off even the most enamored partner. You need to keep in mind that, at its best, sex is a shared experience and that putting someone else's happiness above your own is actually kind of hot.
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lol nah I wouldn't say I am commanding, hate that. Don't mind compromise at all or adjusting to my partner, I am Libra Sun - pleasing my partner and making him happy makes me happy and pleased too, but if he is overly dominant in a way that he is literary telling me what to do, it will put me off! We have to be on an equal level here.
Same here. I second the comment as well. My Virgo sun makes me a bit shrewd at first, but I'm more than willing to please.... if it's been made clear that my pleasure is of equal importance, of course.😉
Can somebody post Mars in Capricorn, Venus in Leo please. .thx
Mars in Pisces with Venus in Pisces
you are . . .
The Automatic Love Addict
You are a Lover driven by passions more powerful and more extraordinary than most people can even imagine. You are never at peace, never fully satisfied. Even in the happiest relationship you are always seeking more, always jockeying for a new emotional high. Your feelings are often extreme and compulsive but just as often they are ambiguous and indescribable. There is a mystical quality about you connections with other people and your affection often has a deep, spiritual dimension. But that doesn't make those connections any more likely to last.
Obviously, you are not the kind of Lover everyone can value, or even endure. At your worst you blow through people's lives like a hurricane, leaving a path of shattered hearts and broken promises. At your very worst you use sex as a replacement for the emotional fulfillment that seems to constantly elude you. Your best, however, you can become an example of love at it most selfless and devoted, love that transcends the ordinary, the physical and even the emotional. Achieving this —best?? will not be easy and many of you will fail but the fact that you??ve even attempted it should be enough to cancel out all your sins.
you are . . .
The Automatic Love Addict
You are a Lover driven by passions more powerful and more extraordinary than most people can even imagine. You are never at peace, never fully satisfied. Even in the happiest relationship you are always seeking more, always jockeying for a new emotional high. Your feelings are often extreme and compulsive but just as often they are ambiguous and indescribable. There is a mystical quality about you connections with other people and your affection often has a deep, spiritual dimension. But that doesn't make those connections any more likely to last.
Obviously, you are not the kind of Lover everyone can value, or even endure. At your worst you blow through people's lives like a hurricane, leaving a path of shattered hearts and broken promises. At your very worst you use sex as a replacement for the emotional fulfillment that seems to constantly elude you. Your best, however, you can become an example of love at it most selfless and devoted, love that transcends the ordinary, the physical and even the emotional. Achieving this —best?? will not be easy and many of you will fail but the fact that you??ve even attempted it should be enough to cancel out all your sins.
Posted by MadMarchRam
Mars in Pisces with Venus in Pisces
you are . . .
The Automatic Love Addict
You are a Lover driven by passions more powerful and more extraordinary than most people can even imagine. You are never at peace, never fully satisfied. Even in the happiest relationship you are always seeking more, always jockeying for a new emotional high. Your feelings are often extreme and compulsive but just as often they are ambiguous and indescribable. There is a mystical quality about you connections with other people and your affection often has a deep, spiritual dimension. But that doesn't make those connections any more likely to last.
Obviously, you are not the kind of Lover everyone can value, or even endure. At your worst you blow through people's lives like a hurricane, leaving a path of shattered hearts and broken promises. At your very worst you use sex as a replacement for the emotional fulfillment that seems to constantly elude you. Your best, however, you can become an example of love at it most selfless and devoted, love that transcends the ordinary, the physical and even the emotional. Achieving this —best?? will not be easy and many of you will fail but the fact that you??ve even attempted it should be enough to cancel out all your sins.
Sounds about right, but I don't let the emotions come out so easily. These days they need to be dragged out of me lol
Wow this is cool! What about both Mars and venus is Libra? I'm a scorp sun, pluto and saturn though.
Posted by LunarMaiden
Mars in Aries with Venus in Leo
you are . . .
The Golden Extremist
You are such a sweet, generous and exciting Lover that it often goes unnoticed that you are also something of an egotist. This is not to say that you don't care about other people. You are actually a very warm, openhearted individual. But your sexual feelings are so geared toward challenge, so tinged with competitive zeal, that it's difficult for you to separate your need for love from your drive to be the best and also have the best.
The greatest problem in your love life is choosing between excitement and control. Unlike most Mars in Aries Lovers, you actually like a little predictability in your sexual adventures. You want to feel that you are in control of both your passion and the situation. However, you also love the thrill, the joy, and the heady release of love in flight. So, like it or not, you are always making adjustments: interjecting control into wild situations and slipping a touch of fire into the predictable.
This is my combo, too.
If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Gemini
you are . . .
The Crafty Extremist
You are a shrewd Mars in Aries Lover. You go through the motions of putting it all on the line and swooping headfirst into love but you still manage to maintain a sense of intellectual distance between yourself and all the crazy things you are doing. To some degree this makes you a supremely enjoyable Lover who blends all-out intensity with plenty of fun. But there is also an element of duplicity in your sexual nature. In your drive for extreme experiences you are prone to promise much more than you intend to deliver.
You may be the most restless of the Mars in Aries Lovers and the most easily distracted. Plus, you have a taste for immediate gratification that often outweighs your Mars in Aries loyalty. However, physical sex is always a secondary allurement for you. It is ideas that really turn you on. The partner who wishes to hold your attention, and your loyalty, must be prepared to continually stoke the fires of your imagination.
so true! that is me!
you are . . .
The Crafty Extremist
You are a shrewd Mars in Aries Lover. You go through the motions of putting it all on the line and swooping headfirst into love but you still manage to maintain a sense of intellectual distance between yourself and all the crazy things you are doing. To some degree this makes you a supremely enjoyable Lover who blends all-out intensity with plenty of fun. But there is also an element of duplicity in your sexual nature. In your drive for extreme experiences you are prone to promise much more than you intend to deliver.
You may be the most restless of the Mars in Aries Lovers and the most easily distracted. Plus, you have a taste for immediate gratification that often outweighs your Mars in Aries loyalty. However, physical sex is always a secondary allurement for you. It is ideas that really turn you on. The partner who wishes to hold your attention, and your loyalty, must be prepared to continually stoke the fires of your imagination.
so true! that is me!
Me: Venus Taurus/Mars Cancer
The Hedonistic Home Body
You are an easy-going Mars in Cancer Lover who doesn't like to rush. You avoid the emotional extremes of other Lovers of this type because you are more practical and more inclined to concentrate on the pleasures of the body rather than the angst of your inner child. This makes you one of the sexiest of the Mars in Cancer Lovers, a person who combines layers and layers of emotional complexity with a surface that is totally devoted to fun. By nature you are a quiet, conservative Lover but your love of pleasure often gets in the way of this cautious approach and brings you much more attention than you would like.
Your appreciation of physical pleasure combined with your emotional sensitivity can make you doubly dependent upon the person you love. Material security is just as important as emotional security to you and you will expect your Beloved to provide you with both. These high expectations not only limit your choice of partners, they place you in a very vulnerable position if you make the wrong choice. Fortunately, you are a very practical Lover, as well as an extremely cautious one, and you rarely find yourself at a disadvantage for long.
Partner: Venus Scorpio/Mars Capricorn
The Salacious Slave of Love
You are the Mars in Capricorn Lover who has the most difficulty keeping his or her sex life under control. This is unfortunate since you are also the Mars in Capricorn Lover to whom this control is most crucial. It's not that you don't try to hold to your essential conservatism, but with your devastating sexual allure, the temptation to do otherwise is sometimes just too great. And once you lower your guard and all that erotic madness is let loose, it's hard to go back to being careful again.
Of course, since you are the sexiest of the Mars in Capricorn Lovers, you generally have ways to controlling a relationship other than just being careful. You have a marvelous knack for making people fall in love with you and it's hard for you not to take advantage of that power. This might cause some people to regard you as high handed and manipulative but, since few people understand the complexities and awesome power of the sex instinct as well as you do, having you in charge of a relationship is typically a good thing. You can guide those willing to be led to sex that is both emotionally sustaining and physically pleasurable.
Yikes -_-
The Hedonistic Home Body
You are an easy-going Mars in Cancer Lover who doesn't like to rush. You avoid the emotional extremes of other Lovers of this type because you are more practical and more inclined to concentrate on the pleasures of the body rather than the angst of your inner child. This makes you one of the sexiest of the Mars in Cancer Lovers, a person who combines layers and layers of emotional complexity with a surface that is totally devoted to fun. By nature you are a quiet, conservative Lover but your love of pleasure often gets in the way of this cautious approach and brings you much more attention than you would like.
Your appreciation of physical pleasure combined with your emotional sensitivity can make you doubly dependent upon the person you love. Material security is just as important as emotional security to you and you will expect your Beloved to provide you with both. These high expectations not only limit your choice of partners, they place you in a very vulnerable position if you make the wrong choice. Fortunately, you are a very practical Lover, as well as an extremely cautious one, and you rarely find yourself at a disadvantage for long.
Partner: Venus Scorpio/Mars Capricorn
The Salacious Slave of Love
You are the Mars in Capricorn Lover who has the most difficulty keeping his or her sex life under control. This is unfortunate since you are also the Mars in Capricorn Lover to whom this control is most crucial. It's not that you don't try to hold to your essential conservatism, but with your devastating sexual allure, the temptation to do otherwise is sometimes just too great. And once you lower your guard and all that erotic madness is let loose, it's hard to go back to being careful again.
Of course, since you are the sexiest of the Mars in Capricorn Lovers, you generally have ways to controlling a relationship other than just being careful. You have a marvelous knack for making people fall in love with you and it's hard for you not to take advantage of that power. This might cause some people to regard you as high handed and manipulative but, since few people understand the complexities and awesome power of the sex instinct as well as you do, having you in charge of a relationship is typically a good thing. You can guide those willing to be led to sex that is both emotionally sustaining and physically pleasurable.
Yikes -_-
Mars in Libra with Venus in Virgo
The Perfectly Reasonable Lover
You want sex to be real, tangible, and easily accessible. For this reason you are prone to divide your sexual contacts between those that serve your physical needs and those that involve your search for the perfect relationship. Your approach to the former will be practical and matter-of-fact while you will look to the latter with dreamy fascination. This dual approach will certainly not make sense to everyone. Many people, including some potential partners, are apt to call you insensitive, along with a few other, less printable names.
Your attitude toward sex is essentially passive. Whether you are looking for love or just a good time you are easily led, emotionally lazy, and sometimes opportunistic. This lack of initiative makes it difficult for you to find the perfect love that is always your utmost goal. Relationships of this sort require great energy and determination and there is a part of you that will always balk at such extraordinary effort. But if you are lucky enough to find a partner who is willing to do most or even all the work for you, you can be a Lover well worth keeping.
The Perfectly Reasonable Lover
You want sex to be real, tangible, and easily accessible. For this reason you are prone to divide your sexual contacts between those that serve your physical needs and those that involve your search for the perfect relationship. Your approach to the former will be practical and matter-of-fact while you will look to the latter with dreamy fascination. This dual approach will certainly not make sense to everyone. Many people, including some potential partners, are apt to call you insensitive, along with a few other, less printable names.
Your attitude toward sex is essentially passive. Whether you are looking for love or just a good time you are easily led, emotionally lazy, and sometimes opportunistic. This lack of initiative makes it difficult for you to find the perfect love that is always your utmost goal. Relationships of this sort require great energy and determination and there is a part of you that will always balk at such extraordinary effort. But if you are lucky enough to find a partner who is willing to do most or even all the work for you, you can be a Lover well worth keeping.
Mars in Cancer with Venus in Capricorn
The Hard-Nosed Home Body
You are the Mars in Cancer Lover least likely to admit to your emotional vulnerability. You would prefer the world to see you as a self-sufficient and tough-minded individual whose attitude toward sex and love is practical, down-to-earth and generally conservative. It is only when people get to know you well that the true depths of your psychological and sexual needs become apparent. Even then you will adamantly hold on to your emotional aloofness. The partner most likely to impress you is the person who will give you the hug you so desperately need without making you admit that you needed it.
You often feel most comfortable when you can quantify your feeling. You use gifts and favors to express the deep affection you dare not declare and you often project your emotional dependency and need for security onto physical objects given to you by your Beloved. This may seem to reduce the exchange of love to the level of a business transaction but the true value of these exchanges lies on a deeper, emotional level and at this level, no matter how business-like and practical you may appear, you are always willing to pay whatever is asked in order to get the unconditional, enduring love you require.
Incredibly spot on 😄
The Hard-Nosed Home Body
You are the Mars in Cancer Lover least likely to admit to your emotional vulnerability. You would prefer the world to see you as a self-sufficient and tough-minded individual whose attitude toward sex and love is practical, down-to-earth and generally conservative. It is only when people get to know you well that the true depths of your psychological and sexual needs become apparent. Even then you will adamantly hold on to your emotional aloofness. The partner most likely to impress you is the person who will give you the hug you so desperately need without making you admit that you needed it.
You often feel most comfortable when you can quantify your feeling. You use gifts and favors to express the deep affection you dare not declare and you often project your emotional dependency and need for security onto physical objects given to you by your Beloved. This may seem to reduce the exchange of love to the level of a business transaction but the true value of these exchanges lies on a deeper, emotional level and at this level, no matter how business-like and practical you may appear, you are always willing to pay whatever is asked in order to get the unconditional, enduring love you require.
Incredibly spot on 😄
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you are . . .
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You are too demonstrative a Lover with too much of an appreciation for drama and display in your love life to keep it completely secret. And, typically, you??re having too much fun to care. You are a boisterous, fiery Mars in Taurus Lover: warm-hearted, generous and profoundly sensual. You have a taste for the unusual in your sexual experiences and bragging rights matter as much as sensation.
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