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Your Mars & Venus Playbook
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Mars in Virgo, Venus in Scorpio
The Basically Scandalous Lover
You are the sexiest Mars in Virgo Lover, the one who knows that there's more to proper lovemaking than the pleasure of the moment. Your sensuality runs deep, touching the psychological roots of desire and the yearnings of the soul. You are always alert to your partner??s feelings and moods and you have a capacity for slow seduction that is rare in this type. However, it is not how good you are that makes you such a desirable partner—it's how bad you can be.
Sex is never quite as simple for you as it is for most Mars in Virgo Lovers. You see sex as a complex layering of desire, love and power. You don't have to have power over your partner in order to enjoy sex but, with your irresistible sexual allure and your instinctive understanding the mechanisms of desire it is easy for you to achieve any level of control you want. There is a dark side to your sexual nature that sometimes lures you to use this power in a cruel and destructive fashion but, more often than not, this delicious hint of danger only serves to make you more attractive.
The Basically Scandalous Lover
You are the sexiest Mars in Virgo Lover, the one who knows that there's more to proper lovemaking than the pleasure of the moment. Your sensuality runs deep, touching the psychological roots of desire and the yearnings of the soul. You are always alert to your partner??s feelings and moods and you have a capacity for slow seduction that is rare in this type. However, it is not how good you are that makes you such a desirable partner—it's how bad you can be.
Sex is never quite as simple for you as it is for most Mars in Virgo Lovers. You see sex as a complex layering of desire, love and power. You don't have to have power over your partner in order to enjoy sex but, with your irresistible sexual allure and your instinctive understanding the mechanisms of desire it is easy for you to achieve any level of control you want. There is a dark side to your sexual nature that sometimes lures you to use this power in a cruel and destructive fashion but, more often than not, this delicious hint of danger only serves to make you more attractive.
Mars in Cancer with Venus in Aries: The Hurry Home Body
You are the most confrontational of the Mars in Cancer Lovers. You??re not going to sit back all sexy and nice and hope someone gives you the love and emotional support you need; you go out and demand it. Nor are you likely to be satisfied with merely security and comfort in your relationships. You have a strong sense of pride and you also need your partner to recognize all your talents and abilities. Of all the Mars in Cancer Lovers you are the most protective of your Beloved and the most likely to come out swinging if you feel that your partner is being threatened. You are not afraid to fight for what you need but you are even more willing to fight for the one you love.
Your erotic life is naturally full of fire, conflict and crazy passion. Your feelings are so strong and your desires so compelling that you have no time for either gentleness or good manners. Perhaps more importantly, the contradictions within your sexual nature often cause you to veer wildly between aggression and passivity. One moment you are giving yourself completely, the next you are angrily demanding a refund. The person who loves you must be prepared for a challenge, but a sexier and more seductive challenge would be hard to imagine.
It's so accurate I almost laughed.
You are the most confrontational of the Mars in Cancer Lovers. You??re not going to sit back all sexy and nice and hope someone gives you the love and emotional support you need; you go out and demand it. Nor are you likely to be satisfied with merely security and comfort in your relationships. You have a strong sense of pride and you also need your partner to recognize all your talents and abilities. Of all the Mars in Cancer Lovers you are the most protective of your Beloved and the most likely to come out swinging if you feel that your partner is being threatened. You are not afraid to fight for what you need but you are even more willing to fight for the one you love.
Your erotic life is naturally full of fire, conflict and crazy passion. Your feelings are so strong and your desires so compelling that you have no time for either gentleness or good manners. Perhaps more importantly, the contradictions within your sexual nature often cause you to veer wildly between aggression and passivity. One moment you are giving yourself completely, the next you are angrily demanding a refund. The person who loves you must be prepared for a challenge, but a sexier and more seductive challenge would be hard to imagine.
It's so accurate I almost laughed.
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Me too
The Wiley Home Body
Unlike most Mars in Cancer Lovers, you can be reasonable about sex. You are aware of your special sexual allure and your innate sensuality and you are determined to make intelligent use of these gifts. At first glance you seem to have a lighter, more flexible and less conservative approach to sex but, in reality, you are just as deeply cautious and serious about these matters as are most Mars in Cancer Lovers. People who come to you looking for nothing more than a good time will be shocked at how quickly your frivolous overtures can transform into deep, obsessive passions.
Like all Lovers of this type, relationships are very important to you and a sense of mutual commitment is essential to your enjoyment of sex. When you are in a relationship that doesn't touch your heart you can appear to be very clever and in control but when you find the right person, the person who can truly answer all your emotional needs and quiet all your insecurities then you become like all the other Mars in Cancer Lovers—a happy slave to your feelings.
Me three.
My friend has that combo...venus in gemini/mars in cancer. I guess I don't answer his emotional needs 😢
Me:
If you have Mars in Libra with Venus in Scorpio
you are . . .
The Dangerously Perfect Lover
You are the most seductive of the Mars in Libra Lovers, one who understands the importance of sex both as a natural urge and a psychological force. This bit of wisdom adds a savvy edge to you romantic maneuvering but it does not make you any less of an idealist. You are still looking for the perfect love with the perfect partner. It's just that, in your case, this bond must take place on a deeper, emotional level as well as in the mind.
You are the most conservative of Lover of this type an you prefer relationships in which you are the person in control. This can become a problem because the perfect union that Mars in Libra people always seek is a partnership between two equals. Your desire to dominate will make it difficult for you to find and hold on to the person who can fulfill you ideal. Someone is going to have to compromise and, as much as you might despise the notion, more often than not it's going to be you.
Me:
If you have Mars in Libra with Venus in Scorpio
you are . . .
The Dangerously Perfect Lover
You are the most seductive of the Mars in Libra Lovers, one who understands the importance of sex both as a natural urge and a psychological force. This bit of wisdom adds a savvy edge to you romantic maneuvering but it does not make you any less of an idealist. You are still looking for the perfect love with the perfect partner. It's just that, in your case, this bond must take place on a deeper, emotional level as well as in the mind.
You are the most conservative of Lover of this type an you prefer relationships in which you are the person in control. This can become a problem because the perfect union that Mars in Libra people always seek is a partnership between two equals. Your desire to dominate will make it difficult for you to find and hold on to the person who can fulfill you ideal. Someone is going to have to compromise and, as much as you might despise the notion, more often than not it's going to be you.
If you have Mars in Pisces with Venus in Taurus
you are . . .
The Charismatic Love Addict
You are a doubly sensuous Mars in Pisces Lover, capable of making sex both physically pleasurable and emotionally fulfilling. More importantly, you are also a very practical and grounded Lover. You do not let your emotions run away with you and conduct your sex live in a reasonable and generally cautious manner. Of all the Lovers of this type, you are the one most likely to make your sexual allure and emotional sensitivity work for you and not against you, revealing the true depth of your luscious sensuality only to a chosen few who, through loyalty, commitment and proven honesty, have paid the price of admission.
The problems in your sexual nature are rooted less in your emotional vulnerability than in your self-indulgence. Your sexual impulses are so immediate, so intense and so deeply entangled with your emotions that they tend to absorb you completely. Even though you are very sensitive to the emotional needs of others, it is nearly impossible for you to think of anyone but yourself when your own sexuality is engaged. You must guard against letting the power of your desires drive you to unwise and selfish extremes.
you are . . .
The Charismatic Love Addict
You are a doubly sensuous Mars in Pisces Lover, capable of making sex both physically pleasurable and emotionally fulfilling. More importantly, you are also a very practical and grounded Lover. You do not let your emotions run away with you and conduct your sex live in a reasonable and generally cautious manner. Of all the Lovers of this type, you are the one most likely to make your sexual allure and emotional sensitivity work for you and not against you, revealing the true depth of your luscious sensuality only to a chosen few who, through loyalty, commitment and proven honesty, have paid the price of admission.
The problems in your sexual nature are rooted less in your emotional vulnerability than in your self-indulgence. Your sexual impulses are so immediate, so intense and so deeply entangled with your emotions that they tend to absorb you completely. Even though you are very sensitive to the emotional needs of others, it is nearly impossible for you to think of anyone but yourself when your own sexuality is engaged. You must guard against letting the power of your desires drive you to unwise and selfish extremes.
Mars in Sagittarius with Venus in Libra
The Starry-eyed Love Child
You take love to a higher level. You harness all the Mars in Sagittarius energy and fire and combine it with a romantic dream of perfection. This optimism makes you a gloriously enthusiastic Lover who looks for something sacred and beautiful in every act of love. But that same faith in love can also make you behave in ways that are wildly reckless and unwise. Even when you look before you leap, you never see anything but the good stuff.
You are perhaps the one Lover of this type who values companionship over freedom. You need one partner—someone toward whom you can channel all your warmth, all your passion, and all your grand hopes for love. Unfortunately, once you establish this relationship, or think you have established it, the attention you give the other party is often sporadic and incomplete. The hard, tedious work of maintaining a relationship and making it grow does not appeal to you and you would like to believe that relationships can take care of themselves. Experience, painful experience, will soon teach you otherwise.
The Starry-eyed Love Child
You take love to a higher level. You harness all the Mars in Sagittarius energy and fire and combine it with a romantic dream of perfection. This optimism makes you a gloriously enthusiastic Lover who looks for something sacred and beautiful in every act of love. But that same faith in love can also make you behave in ways that are wildly reckless and unwise. Even when you look before you leap, you never see anything but the good stuff.
You are perhaps the one Lover of this type who values companionship over freedom. You need one partner—someone toward whom you can channel all your warmth, all your passion, and all your grand hopes for love. Unfortunately, once you establish this relationship, or think you have established it, the attention you give the other party is often sporadic and incomplete. The hard, tedious work of maintaining a relationship and making it grow does not appeal to you and you would like to believe that relationships can take care of themselves. Experience, painful experience, will soon teach you otherwise.
Mars in Aries with Venus in Leo
you are . . .
The Golden Extremist
You are such a sweet, generous and exciting Lover that it often goes unnoticed that you are also something of an egotist. This is not to say that you don't care about other people. You are actually a very warm, openhearted individual. But your sexual feelings are so geared toward challenge, so tinged with competitive zeal, that it's difficult for you to separate your need for love from your drive to be the best and also have the best.
The greatest problem in your love life is choosing between excitement and control. Unlike most Mars in Aries Lovers, you actually like a little predictability in your sexual adventures. You want to feel that you are in control of both your passion and the situation. However, you also love the thrill, the joy, and the heady release of love in flight. So, like it or not, you are always making adjustments: interjecting control into wild situations and slipping a touch of fire into the predictable.
you are . . .
The Golden Extremist
You are such a sweet, generous and exciting Lover that it often goes unnoticed that you are also something of an egotist. This is not to say that you don't care about other people. You are actually a very warm, openhearted individual. But your sexual feelings are so geared toward challenge, so tinged with competitive zeal, that it's difficult for you to separate your need for love from your drive to be the best and also have the best.
The greatest problem in your love life is choosing between excitement and control. Unlike most Mars in Aries Lovers, you actually like a little predictability in your sexual adventures. You want to feel that you are in control of both your passion and the situation. However, you also love the thrill, the joy, and the heady release of love in flight. So, like it or not, you are always making adjustments: interjecting control into wild situations and slipping a touch of fire into the predictable.
If you have Mars in Capricorn with Venus in Sagittarius
you are . . .
The Saucy Slave of Love
You are the most impulsive Lover of this type and the one most likely to forget practicality and follow your instincts. This spontaneity, when combined with your strong physical drives, makes you a tremendously exciting, adventurous and unpredictable sex partner. It also gets you into more than your share of trouble. But acting in haste and repenting in leisure is not a problem for you. Like all Mars in Capricorn Lovers, you rather like repenting.
What is lacking in your sexual nature is subtlety. You pursue your desire with such directness and determination that you can appear inconsiderate and crude and you don't control your relationships as much as you bully people into seeing things your way. The good new is that you are so affectionate and generous a Lover that you are easily forgiven your sins. The bad news is that this quick forgiveness only makes you more likely to commit the same offense again and again.
you are . . .
The Saucy Slave of Love
You are the most impulsive Lover of this type and the one most likely to forget practicality and follow your instincts. This spontaneity, when combined with your strong physical drives, makes you a tremendously exciting, adventurous and unpredictable sex partner. It also gets you into more than your share of trouble. But acting in haste and repenting in leisure is not a problem for you. Like all Mars in Capricorn Lovers, you rather like repenting.
What is lacking in your sexual nature is subtlety. You pursue your desire with such directness and determination that you can appear inconsiderate and crude and you don't control your relationships as much as you bully people into seeing things your way. The good new is that you are so affectionate and generous a Lover that you are easily forgiven your sins. The bad news is that this quick forgiveness only makes you more likely to commit the same offense again and again.
Posted this a dozen times before, The Maestro of Sensuality I believe. "...braggadocio..." 😉
I remember this. 🙂
The Naked Sensualist
Not 100% , but there's a lot of truth to it.
The Naked Sensualist
Not 100% , but there's a lot of truth to it.
Mars in Scorpio Venus in Sag
The Inquiring Powerhouse of Passion
You are the most adventurous of the Mars in Scorpio Lovers and the one least likely to be in awe of your own sexuality. On the one hand, this makes you an alert and energetic Lover who knows how to make the most of his or her sexual allure. On the other this attitude leaves you unprepared when a relationship that you started just for fun suddenly morphs into a midnight obsession filled with emotional tangles and deep psycho-sexual implication. In situations such as this you may find yourself just as surprised at the power and dark weight of your sexuality as your partner is sure to be.
You are one of the few Mars in Scorpio Lovers who has trouble keeping a secret. In fact, the bluntness and lack of guilt with which you express your sexual needs might just pass for bragging. Some people may find this lack of reserve offensive but these people don't interest you. The people who do are the ones you share your sense of adventure and your bold acceptance of even the darkest secrets of the human mind. With these people you show yourself to be a Lover of marvelous intensity and courage.
The Inquiring Powerhouse of Passion
You are the most adventurous of the Mars in Scorpio Lovers and the one least likely to be in awe of your own sexuality. On the one hand, this makes you an alert and energetic Lover who knows how to make the most of his or her sexual allure. On the other this attitude leaves you unprepared when a relationship that you started just for fun suddenly morphs into a midnight obsession filled with emotional tangles and deep psycho-sexual implication. In situations such as this you may find yourself just as surprised at the power and dark weight of your sexuality as your partner is sure to be.
You are one of the few Mars in Scorpio Lovers who has trouble keeping a secret. In fact, the bluntness and lack of guilt with which you express your sexual needs might just pass for bragging. Some people may find this lack of reserve offensive but these people don't interest you. The people who do are the ones you share your sense of adventure and your bold acceptance of even the darkest secrets of the human mind. With these people you show yourself to be a Lover of marvelous intensity and courage.
Mars Scorp/Venus Sag give birth to:
The Inquiring Powerhouse of Passion
You are the most adventurous of the Mars in Scorpio Lovers and the one least likely to be in awe of your own sexuality. On the one hand, this makes you an alert and energetic Lover who knows how to make the most of his or her sexual allure. On the other this attitude leaves you unprepared when a relationship that you started just for fun suddenly morphs into a midnight obsession filled with emotional tangles and deep psycho-sexual implication. In situations such as this you may find yourself just as surprised at the power and dark weight of your sexuality as your partner is sure to be.
You are one of the few Mars in Scorpio Lovers who has trouble keeping a secret. In fact, the bluntness and lack of guilt with which you express your sexual needs might just pass for bragging. Some people may find this lack of reserve offensive but these people don't interest you. The people who do are the ones you share your sense of adventure and your bold acceptance of even the darkest secrets of the human mind. With these people you show yourself to be a Lover of marvelous intensity and courage.
The Inquiring Powerhouse of Passion
You are the most adventurous of the Mars in Scorpio Lovers and the one least likely to be in awe of your own sexuality. On the one hand, this makes you an alert and energetic Lover who knows how to make the most of his or her sexual allure. On the other this attitude leaves you unprepared when a relationship that you started just for fun suddenly morphs into a midnight obsession filled with emotional tangles and deep psycho-sexual implication. In situations such as this you may find yourself just as surprised at the power and dark weight of your sexuality as your partner is sure to be.
You are one of the few Mars in Scorpio Lovers who has trouble keeping a secret. In fact, the bluntness and lack of guilt with which you express your sexual needs might just pass for bragging. Some people may find this lack of reserve offensive but these people don't interest you. The people who do are the ones you share your sense of adventure and your bold acceptance of even the darkest secrets of the human mind. With these people you show yourself to be a Lover of marvelous intensity and courage.
Mars/Scorpio Venus/ Aqua
The Extraordinary Powerhouse of Passion
You are the most idealistic of the Mars in Scorpio Lovers and in some way this doubles your sexual power. The mingling of sex and big ideas gives you a sex appeal that goes beyond the personal and adds high purpose and objectivity to your desires. You are a challenging and inspirational Lover and you bring out the best of the people who love you. Of course, you are also an exacting and judgmental Lover and your treatment of those who reject your ideals can be cold and quite ruthless.
You are often torn between the power of sex and the power of ideas. You need the physical and emotional charge that you get from sex but the complexity and lack of perspective that comes with those intense experiences makes you nervous. You long for a sexual experience that is clear, transcendent and somehow serves the greater good of humanity although, while you wait for this super-human encounter, you are generally willing to partake freely of the ordinary sex that seems to always be available to you here on earth.
^ meh
The Extraordinary Powerhouse of Passion
You are the most idealistic of the Mars in Scorpio Lovers and in some way this doubles your sexual power. The mingling of sex and big ideas gives you a sex appeal that goes beyond the personal and adds high purpose and objectivity to your desires. You are a challenging and inspirational Lover and you bring out the best of the people who love you. Of course, you are also an exacting and judgmental Lover and your treatment of those who reject your ideals can be cold and quite ruthless.
You are often torn between the power of sex and the power of ideas. You need the physical and emotional charge that you get from sex but the complexity and lack of perspective that comes with those intense experiences makes you nervous. You long for a sexual experience that is clear, transcendent and somehow serves the greater good of humanity although, while you wait for this super-human encounter, you are generally willing to partake freely of the ordinary sex that seems to always be available to you here on earth.
^ meh
Mars in Gemini, Venus in Virgo
The Technician of Real Love
You are the most realistic of the Mars in Gemini Lovers. You bring sex down to its most basic level and you make no apologies for your direct and earthy approach to love making. Some people might be put off by your distain for romantic illusions and amorous pretenses. They may think your down-to-earth attitude toward sex is crude and unrefined. But others will find your honesty and unpretentious practicality refreshing. The truth is that, despite a few rough edges, you are still the most resourceful and intelligent Lovers of this type.
It is often easier for you to be friend rather than a Lover. You seem to regard love as a threat which you hold a bay with heavy doses of cynicism, emotional coolness and, at times, even cruelty. After all, what does the —love?? stuff have to offer except a lot of dreamy lies that no one really believes. As a friend, on the other hand, you can be truthful and loyal. You can build a relationship based on shared ideas and intellectual affinity. As a friend you are ready helpmate, always willing to give of your time and be of service. Let everyone else waste their time looking for true love. All you really need is one true friendship.
Pretty true except I do look for a true friend in a lover, not just a friend lol. I'm also a pretty big romantic and love "not earthy" sex haha
The Technician of Real Love
You are the most realistic of the Mars in Gemini Lovers. You bring sex down to its most basic level and you make no apologies for your direct and earthy approach to love making. Some people might be put off by your distain for romantic illusions and amorous pretenses. They may think your down-to-earth attitude toward sex is crude and unrefined. But others will find your honesty and unpretentious practicality refreshing. The truth is that, despite a few rough edges, you are still the most resourceful and intelligent Lovers of this type.
It is often easier for you to be friend rather than a Lover. You seem to regard love as a threat which you hold a bay with heavy doses of cynicism, emotional coolness and, at times, even cruelty. After all, what does the —love?? stuff have to offer except a lot of dreamy lies that no one really believes. As a friend, on the other hand, you can be truthful and loyal. You can build a relationship based on shared ideas and intellectual affinity. As a friend you are ready helpmate, always willing to give of your time and be of service. Let everyone else waste their time looking for true love. All you really need is one true friendship.
Pretty true except I do look for a true friend in a lover, not just a friend lol. I'm also a pretty big romantic and love "not earthy" sex haha
Mars in Aries with Venus in Sagittarius
The Exuberant Extremist Awesome 😄
You are the most optimistic, open and altogether positive Lover of this (or any other) Mars type. Your approach to loving is so fresh and free, so brimming with idealism and energy that sex becomes an act of inspiration for you. You are a very curious Lover, always ready to respond to any sexual challenge. At times you can be foolish and clumsy and you have a disconcerting tendency to place more confidence in your ideals than you do the facts, but these faults typically only add to your charm. You are an exhilarating partner who can make the most mundane sexual situation seem magical.
Physical sex always means less to you than the passion and the ideals that surround it. The relationships that really hold you will be those that are based less on sex and more on intellectual and spiritual affinity. In these situations you can be a very loyal Lover. Otherwise, you will go wherever the next inspiration or wave of passion happens to take you.
The Exuberant Extremist Awesome 😄
You are the most optimistic, open and altogether positive Lover of this (or any other) Mars type. Your approach to loving is so fresh and free, so brimming with idealism and energy that sex becomes an act of inspiration for you. You are a very curious Lover, always ready to respond to any sexual challenge. At times you can be foolish and clumsy and you have a disconcerting tendency to place more confidence in your ideals than you do the facts, but these faults typically only add to your charm. You are an exhilarating partner who can make the most mundane sexual situation seem magical.
Physical sex always means less to you than the passion and the ideals that surround it. The relationships that really hold you will be those that are based less on sex and more on intellectual and spiritual affinity. In these situations you can be a very loyal Lover. Otherwise, you will go wherever the next inspiration or wave of passion happens to take you.
If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Taurus??
you are . . .
The Reluctant Extremist
Yours is a difficult combination. A sensualist at heart, you don't really approve of the headlong recklessness of your sexual nature. You would like to slow down and give your senses ample time to drink in each erotic experience but you find that your Mars in Aries nature runs well only in high gear and the more you try to put on the brakes the more ungainly and muddled you appear. You are among the most practical Mars in Aries Lover but, unfortunately, your actions often give little evidence of this wisdom.
On the positive side, in the right situation and with the right partner, your unique combination of sensual patience and volcanic passion can make you a gifted Lover. And there is a sweetness and soft conventionality about your sexual nature that allows you to get away with sexual extremes that might land other Mars in Aries Lovers in jail. If you can learn from your frustrations and build on your strengths, your capacity for erotic expression is unlimited.
Is there a reading for mars Pisces and Venus capricorn?
Found it. It reads:
If you have Mars in Pisces with Venus in Capricorn
you are . . .
The Systematic Love Addict
Yours is a lush and earthy sexuality. You never let your strong emotional needs interfere with your constant and clear awareness of the physical. Unlike most Mars in Pisces Lovers, you have an uncanny knack for managing your feelings. You know how to use your volatility to intimidate and gain sympathy and how to direct your devastating sexual allure. This allows you to not only pick your targets, but also control relationships, thus guaranteeing that you always get exactly what you need from them.
However, this tendency to take control of relationships and to calculate your emotions does not always serve you well. It deprives you of the incomparable experience of truly letting your feelings take charge of your life. It can also make you seem hard and stilted when, in fact, you are brimming over with passion you can never properly express. In terms of material expressions of affection, you can be outstandingly generous and reliable but when it comes to love you are often so cagey that you end up cheating everyone, including yourself.
If you have Mars in Pisces with Venus in Capricorn
you are . . .
The Systematic Love Addict
Yours is a lush and earthy sexuality. You never let your strong emotional needs interfere with your constant and clear awareness of the physical. Unlike most Mars in Pisces Lovers, you have an uncanny knack for managing your feelings. You know how to use your volatility to intimidate and gain sympathy and how to direct your devastating sexual allure. This allows you to not only pick your targets, but also control relationships, thus guaranteeing that you always get exactly what you need from them.
However, this tendency to take control of relationships and to calculate your emotions does not always serve you well. It deprives you of the incomparable experience of truly letting your feelings take charge of your life. It can also make you seem hard and stilted when, in fact, you are brimming over with passion you can never properly express. In terms of material expressions of affection, you can be outstandingly generous and reliable but when it comes to love you are often so cagey that you end up cheating everyone, including yourself.
If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Cancer
you are . . .
The Emotional Extremist
You demand more from sex than most Mars in Aries Lovers. Sure, you want edgy excitement and far-reaching challenges but you also require emotional comfort and security. This adds an emotional intensity and visceral need to your sexuality that is pretty scary at times. People are drawn to you because of the power of your emotions and the urgency with which you express your sexual desires but they may be put off by your tendency to confuse extreme feelings and extreme experiences with extreme love.
You are among the most emotionally vulnerable of the Mars in Aries Lovers but this in no way hampers your aggressive, all-or-nothing approach to sex. In fact, this acute sensitivity and fear of rejection can cause you to take the violence and extremism of this type to an even higher and more dangerous level. You often behave as if you can somehow lessen the pain you are feeling by moving faster and being even more radical. Yours is a sexual nature that benefits greatly from maturity. Once you??ve gone through a few train wrecks and somewhat exhausted your taste for extremism, you can become a loving and extraordinarily faithful partner.
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I don't have an aggressive, all-or-nothing approach to sex. I do, however, have had that approach concerning love. Paced myself down through the years and with a Venus in Aquarius help. Never had train wrecks either.
Loving and extraordinarily faithful? Yeah.
Extremist? Yeah, unfortunately.
" This adds an emotional intensity and visceral need to your sexuality that is pretty scary at times."
^^Spot on. If it doesn't move me..I'm out in a heartbeat.
you are . . .
The Emotional Extremist
You demand more from sex than most Mars in Aries Lovers. Sure, you want edgy excitement and far-reaching challenges but you also require emotional comfort and security. This adds an emotional intensity and visceral need to your sexuality that is pretty scary at times. People are drawn to you because of the power of your emotions and the urgency with which you express your sexual desires but they may be put off by your tendency to confuse extreme feelings and extreme experiences with extreme love.
You are among the most emotionally vulnerable of the Mars in Aries Lovers but this in no way hampers your aggressive, all-or-nothing approach to sex. In fact, this acute sensitivity and fear of rejection can cause you to take the violence and extremism of this type to an even higher and more dangerous level. You often behave as if you can somehow lessen the pain you are feeling by moving faster and being even more radical. Yours is a sexual nature that benefits greatly from maturity. Once you??ve gone through a few train wrecks and somewhat exhausted your taste for extremism, you can become a loving and extraordinarily faithful partner.
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I don't have an aggressive, all-or-nothing approach to sex. I do, however, have had that approach concerning love. Paced myself down through the years and with a Venus in Aquarius help. Never had train wrecks either.
Loving and extraordinarily faithful? Yeah.
Extremist? Yeah, unfortunately.
" This adds an emotional intensity and visceral need to your sexuality that is pretty scary at times."
^^Spot on. If it doesn't move me..I'm out in a heartbeat.
Posted by Damnata
If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Cancer
you are . . .
The Emotional Extremist
You demand more from sex than most Mars in Aries Lovers. Sure, you want edgy excitement and far-reaching challenges but you also require emotional comfort and security. This adds an emotional intensity and visceral need to your sexuality that is pretty scary at times. People are drawn to you because of the power of your emotions and the urgency with which you express your sexual desires but they may be put off by your tendency to confuse extreme feelings and extreme experiences with extreme love.
You are among the most emotionally vulnerable of the Mars in Aries Lovers but this in no way hampers your aggressive, all-or-nothing approach to sex. In fact, this acute sensitivity and fear of rejection can cause you to take the violence and extremism of this type to an even higher and more dangerous level. You often behave as if you can somehow lessen the pain you are feeling by moving faster and being even more radical. Yours is a sexual nature that benefits greatly from maturity. Once you??ve gone through a few train wrecks and somewhat exhausted your taste for extremism, you can become a loving and extraordinarily faithful partner.
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I don't have an aggressive, all-or-nothing approach to sex. I do, however, have had that approach concerning love. Paced myself down through the years and with a Venus in Aquarius help. Never had train wrecks either.
Loving and extraordinarily faithful? Yeah.
Extremist? Yeah, unfortunately.
" This adds an emotional intensity and visceral need to your sexuality that is pretty scary at times."
^^Spot on. If it doesn't move me..I'm out in a heartbeat.
this is the same for me!!... except I'm all-or-nothing about sex. Was always wary of love and if the sex is weak, I just won't....unless it serves a purpose. I think that's the Mars/Pluto, tho.
I just realized I'm sleeping with scorched 😐 weird
Mars in Leo, Venus in Cancer: The Maestro of Emotion
You are one of the most alluring and passionate Mars in Leo Lovers. Sex is more that just playtime to you, more than an excuse to display your creative verve. It is an all-consuming emotional passion, an irresistible mixture of fiery desire and sincere, heart-felt sentiment. People respond immediately to you emotionally charged sexuality but they??re not always prepared to deal with your bossiness and your need to dramatize your emotions, your relationships and your partners. In fact, your love life often resembles an overwrought play in which everyone is expected to perform to your specifications.
You are a sensitive Mars in Leo Lover with a remarkable capacity for anticipating the needs of your partner. The problem for you is deciding how to use these intuitions. You can use them to be a better Lover, a Lover who always knows how best to please his or her partner on every level. Or you can use this sensitivity to increase your control over the relationship and bend your partner to your will. Those who choose the former course can count on warm, rewarding and enduring relationships. Those who choose the latter will, at some point or another, have a lot of explaining to do.
Our most outstanding example of The Maestro of Emotion is the dancer and alleged spy Mata Hari. Real estate developer, politician and deal maker, Donald Trump provides us with a masculine example of this group. Known for his self-aggrandizing tactics, Trump??s highly publicized marriages and divorces to beautiful, and much younger women, have become a?? part of his larger than life persona. Other examples of this category are comedian Milton Berle and actors Martin Sheen, William Dafoe and Gary Busey.
You are one of the most alluring and passionate Mars in Leo Lovers. Sex is more that just playtime to you, more than an excuse to display your creative verve. It is an all-consuming emotional passion, an irresistible mixture of fiery desire and sincere, heart-felt sentiment. People respond immediately to you emotionally charged sexuality but they??re not always prepared to deal with your bossiness and your need to dramatize your emotions, your relationships and your partners. In fact, your love life often resembles an overwrought play in which everyone is expected to perform to your specifications.
You are a sensitive Mars in Leo Lover with a remarkable capacity for anticipating the needs of your partner. The problem for you is deciding how to use these intuitions. You can use them to be a better Lover, a Lover who always knows how best to please his or her partner on every level. Or you can use this sensitivity to increase your control over the relationship and bend your partner to your will. Those who choose the former course can count on warm, rewarding and enduring relationships. Those who choose the latter will, at some point or another, have a lot of explaining to do.
Our most outstanding example of The Maestro of Emotion is the dancer and alleged spy Mata Hari. Real estate developer, politician and deal maker, Donald Trump provides us with a masculine example of this group. Known for his self-aggrandizing tactics, Trump??s highly publicized marriages and divorces to beautiful, and much younger women, have become a?? part of his larger than life persona. Other examples of this category are comedian Milton Berle and actors Martin Sheen, William Dafoe and Gary Busey.
Apparently I'm a hurricane of love at best and a drug/sex addict at worst.
dammit nobody besides me has Mars in Sag/Venus in scorp
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dammit nobody besides me has Mars in Sag/Venus in scorp
that's a good one, i know a man very personally, very intimately with that, and we sleep together every night. and also, he doesn't have the same moon/rising as you, so...beeepppp no cigar.
lol
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If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Cancer
you are . . .
The Emotional Extremist
You demand more from sex than most Mars in Aries Lovers. Sure, you want edgy excitement and far-reaching challenges but you also require emotional comfort and security. This adds an emotional intensity and visceral need to your sexuality that is pretty scary at times. People are drawn to you because of the power of your emotions and the urgency with which you express your sexual desires but they may be put off by your tendency to confuse extreme feelings and extreme experiences with extreme love.
You are among the most emotionally vulnerable of the Mars in Aries Lovers but this in no way hampers your aggressive, all-or-nothing approach to sex. In fact, this acute sensitivity and fear of rejection can cause you to take the violence and extremism of this type to an even higher and more dangerous level. You often behave as if you can somehow lessen the pain you are feeling by moving faster and being even more radical. Yours is a sexual nature that benefits greatly from maturity. Once you??ve gone through a few train wrecks and somewhat exhausted your taste for extremism, you can become a loving and extraordinarily faithful partner.
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I don't have an aggressive, all-or-nothing approach to sex. I do, however, have had that approach concerning love. Paced myself down through the years and with a Venus in Aquarius help. Never had train wrecks either.
Loving and extraordinarily faithful? Yeah.
Extremist? Yeah, unfortunately.
" This adds an emotional intensity and visceral need to your sexuality that is pretty scary at times."
^^Spot on. If it doesn't move me..I'm out in a heartbeat.
this is the same for me!!... except I'm all-or-nothing about sex. Was always wary of love and if the sex is weak, I just won't....unless it serves a purpose. I think that's the Mars/Pluto, tho.
I just realized I'm sleeping with scorched 😐 weird
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lol
scorched and shellshocker. lesbie power!!
Mars Aqua/Venus Aqua
The Unlimited Liberator
You are the coolest of the cool—a detached and thoroughly rational Lover for whom sex means little beyond a momentary thrill and, occasionally, an opportunity to make more conventional people uncomfortable. The attitude you take toward sexual pleasure might seem very free and uncomplicated but, even though you lack the animal lust that plagues some people and the emotional vulnerability that limits other, your sexual nature is subject to its own kind of problems. How you think about a person, or a relationship, or sex in general will greatly impact your ability to relate to that person sexually. For you, it only takes one errant thought to spoil a whole evening.
Given your intellectual approach to sex and your love of freedom, fidelity can become a very touchy issue. You must have your independence and if holding on to a relationship means compromising your free spirit, you response is generally going to be, —See ya.?? In fact, you??ll often opt for your freedom even when that choice means no sex at all. Still, relationships are important to you and, no matter how many times you are disappointed, you will never stop looking for that honest and complete intellectual partnership that is your ideal.
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Bullshit
The Unlimited Liberator
You are the coolest of the cool—a detached and thoroughly rational Lover for whom sex means little beyond a momentary thrill and, occasionally, an opportunity to make more conventional people uncomfortable. The attitude you take toward sexual pleasure might seem very free and uncomplicated but, even though you lack the animal lust that plagues some people and the emotional vulnerability that limits other, your sexual nature is subject to its own kind of problems. How you think about a person, or a relationship, or sex in general will greatly impact your ability to relate to that person sexually. For you, it only takes one errant thought to spoil a whole evening.
Given your intellectual approach to sex and your love of freedom, fidelity can become a very touchy issue. You must have your independence and if holding on to a relationship means compromising your free spirit, you response is generally going to be, —See ya.?? In fact, you??ll often opt for your freedom even when that choice means no sex at all. Still, relationships are important to you and, no matter how many times you are disappointed, you will never stop looking for that honest and complete intellectual partnership that is your ideal.
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Bullshit
Posted by malloryor
Mars Aqua/Venus Aqua
The Unlimited Liberator
You are the coolest of the cool—a detached and thoroughly rational Lover for whom sex means little beyond a momentary thrill and, occasionally, an opportunity to make more conventional people uncomfortable. The attitude you take toward sexual pleasure might seem very free and uncomplicated but, even though you lack the animal lust that plagues some people and the emotional vulnerability that limits other, your sexual nature is subject to its own kind of problems. How you think about a person, or a relationship, or sex in general will greatly impact your ability to relate to that person sexually. For you, it only takes one errant thought to spoil a whole evening.
Given your intellectual approach to sex and your love of freedom, fidelity can become a very touchy issue. You must have your independence and if holding on to a relationship means compromising your free spirit, you response is generally going to be, —See ya.?? In fact, you??ll often opt for your freedom even when that choice means no sex at all. Still, relationships are important to you and, no matter how many times you are disappointed, you will never stop looking for that honest and complete intellectual partnership that is your ideal.
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Bullshit
that's ALOT of detachment and frankly not a desirable person to want to be mated with. Ew. Honestly i don't blame you for disliking it.
Guess cafeastrology are liars if you don't feel it is right. 😆
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by malloryor
Mars Aqua/Venus Aqua
The Unlimited Liberator
You are the coolest of the cool—a detached and thoroughly rational Lover for whom sex means little beyond a momentary thrill and, occasionally, an opportunity to make more conventional people uncomfortable. The attitude you take toward sexual pleasure might seem very free and uncomplicated but, even though you lack the animal lust that plagues some people and the emotional vulnerability that limits other, your sexual nature is subject to its own kind of problems. How you think about a person, or a relationship, or sex in general will greatly impact your ability to relate to that person sexually. For you, it only takes one errant thought to spoil a whole evening.
Given your intellectual approach to sex and your love of freedom, fidelity can become a very touchy issue. You must have your independence and if holding on to a relationship means compromising your free spirit, you response is generally going to be, —See ya.?? In fact, you??ll often opt for your freedom even when that choice means no sex at all. Still, relationships are important to you and, no matter how many times you are disappointed, you will never stop looking for that honest and complete intellectual partnership that is your ideal.
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Bullshit
that's ALOT of detachment and frankly not a desirable person to want to be mated with. Ew. Honestly i don't blame you for disliking it.
Guess cafeastrology are liars if you don't feel it is right. 😆
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That's what I'm saying! Like what the hell, I'm a Pisces Sun with a Leo Asc. detachment is not me at all, even when I try to put a wall up my emotions and need to be social get the best of me. This is actually why I don't take my birth chart seriously in the slightest, my love style is so far from this so fuck this bullshit!
BAHAHA
could be that your aqua venus/mars are in a watery house too! 🙂
houses are so underrated IMO.
houses are so underrated IMO.
Posted by lisabethur8
could be that your aqua venus/mars are in a watery house too! 🙂
houses are so underrated IMO.
They are because I was told by a few people that the planets placement in the house of Aquarius means nothing, so who knows, all I know is that it's not me.
If you have Mars in Cancer with Venus in Aries
you are . . .
The Hurry Home Body
You are the most confrontational of the Mars in Cancer Lovers. You??re not going to sit back all sexy and nice and hope someone gives you the love and emotional support you need; you go out and demand it. Nor are you likely to be satisfied with merely security and comfort in your relationships. You have a strong sense of pride and you also need your partner to recognize all your talents and abilities. Of all the Mars in Cancer Lovers you are the most protective of your Beloved and the most likely to come out swinging if you feel that your partner is being threatened. You are not afraid to fight for what you need but you are even more willing to fight for the one you love.
Your erotic life is naturally full of fire, conflict and crazy passion. Your feelings are so strong and your desires so compelling that you have no time for either gentleness or good manners. Perhaps more importantly, the contradictions within your sexual nature often cause you to veer wildly between aggression and passivity. One moment you are giving yourself completely, the next you are angrily demanding a refund. The person who loves you must be prepared for a challenge, but a sexier and more seductive challenge would be hard to imagine.
If you have Mars in Cancer with Venus in Pisces
you are . . .
The Hazy Home Body
Yours is a very delicate sexuality. Your keen sensitivity to the feelings of others, good and bad, often forces you to shy away from making real connections. It's not just that you fear being hurt. You also fear hurting other people. You understand that not everyone can handle your deep, heart-felt response to sexual stimuli or your enormous capacity for love. So you hold back, try and keep your volcanic emotions in check and wait, as patiently as you are able, for the right person to step into your life and whisk you away.
In the meantime, of course, you have to deal with the pretenders, the many people who respond to your luscious sex appeal without having the slightest idea what to do with it. It is not easy for you to say no to all these people. After all you have so much love to offer and people fall in love with you so easily. But you have to maintain your focus; you have to find ways to contain or perhaps disguise you irresistible sexual allure. Otherwise you will end up with more demands on your affection than you can possibly fulfill.
...I hate my water sign placements. e.e
you are . . .
The Hazy Home Body
Yours is a very delicate sexuality. Your keen sensitivity to the feelings of others, good and bad, often forces you to shy away from making real connections. It's not just that you fear being hurt. You also fear hurting other people. You understand that not everyone can handle your deep, heart-felt response to sexual stimuli or your enormous capacity for love. So you hold back, try and keep your volcanic emotions in check and wait, as patiently as you are able, for the right person to step into your life and whisk you away.
In the meantime, of course, you have to deal with the pretenders, the many people who respond to your luscious sex appeal without having the slightest idea what to do with it. It is not easy for you to say no to all these people. After all you have so much love to offer and people fall in love with you so easily. But you have to maintain your focus; you have to find ways to contain or perhaps disguise you irresistible sexual allure. Otherwise you will end up with more demands on your affection than you can possibly fulfill.
...I hate my water sign placements. e.e
If you have Mars In Taurus with Venus in Aquarius
you are . . .
The Sensualist Without Limits
You are an uninhibited, free-spirited Lover and you bring to your sexual experiences a joy of discovery that is both exciting and infectious. You like to experiment in your sexual play and you appreciate variety and openness. Combined with your avid sensuality, this openness often leads you far away from the conservatism typical of Mars in Taurus. But as long as you stay close to your essential earthiness and follow the lead of your body, you can't get into too much trouble.
Typically, the only aspect of your sexuality that causes you problems is your own headstrong idealism. Even though you are the most liberated Mars in Taurus Lover, you are also the least flexible. You have strong opinions about what your sexual experience should be and who it is you must love. Not only does this tendency to intellectualize sensation interfere with your ability to enjoy sex, it also sets up conflict between your mind and body that you may never completely resolve.
you are . . .
The Sensualist Without Limits
You are an uninhibited, free-spirited Lover and you bring to your sexual experiences a joy of discovery that is both exciting and infectious. You like to experiment in your sexual play and you appreciate variety and openness. Combined with your avid sensuality, this openness often leads you far away from the conservatism typical of Mars in Taurus. But as long as you stay close to your essential earthiness and follow the lead of your body, you can't get into too much trouble.
Typically, the only aspect of your sexuality that causes you problems is your own headstrong idealism. Even though you are the most liberated Mars in Taurus Lover, you are also the least flexible. You have strong opinions about what your sexual experience should be and who it is you must love. Not only does this tendency to intellectualize sensation interfere with your ability to enjoy sex, it also sets up conflict between your mind and body that you may never completely resolve.
Mars in Leo with Venus in Leo
The Divine Maestro of Love
You are the divinely anointed autocrat of sex. No one tells you what to do and nothing can limit the expression of your sexuality. You break rules, not because you are rebellious, but because your sexual needs supercede all man-made laws (and even some natural ones). Of course, you??ll probably deny that you??ve ever had notions like this and chuckle over the implications. And that's okay. The divinely anointed autocrat of sex shouldn't be forced to admit to anything.
The one skill missing from your erotic arsenal is compromise. It's not that you??ll ever have problems getting people to do what you want. If your effervescent charm doesn't get them then your commanding self-confidence surely will. Still, your need to be in complete control of your sexual experience often causes you to behave in unrealistic and even unsavory ways and your stubbornness with regard to what you do and do not find pleasurable can put off even the most enamored partner. You need to keep in mind that, at its best, sex is a shared experience and that putting someone else's happiness above your own is actually kind of hot.
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lol nah I wouldn't say I am commanding, hate that. Don't mind compromise at all or adjusting to my partner, I am Libra Sun - pleasing my partner and making him happy makes me happy and pleased too, but if he is overly dominant in a way that he is literary telling me what to do, it will put me off! We have to be on an equal level here.
The Divine Maestro of Love
You are the divinely anointed autocrat of sex. No one tells you what to do and nothing can limit the expression of your sexuality. You break rules, not because you are rebellious, but because your sexual needs supercede all man-made laws (and even some natural ones). Of course, you??ll probably deny that you??ve ever had notions like this and chuckle over the implications. And that's okay. The divinely anointed autocrat of sex shouldn't be forced to admit to anything.
The one skill missing from your erotic arsenal is compromise. It's not that you??ll ever have problems getting people to do what you want. If your effervescent charm doesn't get them then your commanding self-confidence surely will. Still, your need to be in complete control of your sexual experience often causes you to behave in unrealistic and even unsavory ways and your stubbornness with regard to what you do and do not find pleasurable can put off even the most enamored partner. You need to keep in mind that, at its best, sex is a shared experience and that putting someone else's happiness above your own is actually kind of hot.
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lol nah I wouldn't say I am commanding, hate that. Don't mind compromise at all or adjusting to my partner, I am Libra Sun - pleasing my partner and making him happy makes me happy and pleased too, but if he is overly dominant in a way that he is literary telling me what to do, it will put me off! We have to be on an equal level here.
The Technician of Big Love
There is never any question as to the ground rules of your erotic universe: what best serves your ego, best serves your libido. You have a marvelous capacity for enjoying sex but your pride and self-possession always come first. Some people might find the egotism of this position offensive but many others will hardly notice. After all, a Lover as lively, generous and exciting as you has good reason to be proud.
There is always a distinctively theatrical quality about your love making. You want sex to be a big event, full of drama and intellectual significance. This grandiose approach to sex can certainly be entertaining but it often makes your romantic moments seem less than spontaneous. More importantly, real life sex rarely meets your cinematic standards. This is one reason why you often find the idea of love much more appealing than its physical manifestations. The sex in you head is never common or clumsy, and you can always count on great reviews.
There is never any question as to the ground rules of your erotic universe: what best serves your ego, best serves your libido. You have a marvelous capacity for enjoying sex but your pride and self-possession always come first. Some people might find the egotism of this position offensive but many others will hardly notice. After all, a Lover as lively, generous and exciting as you has good reason to be proud.
There is always a distinctively theatrical quality about your love making. You want sex to be a big event, full of drama and intellectual significance. This grandiose approach to sex can certainly be entertaining but it often makes your romantic moments seem less than spontaneous. More importantly, real life sex rarely meets your cinematic standards. This is one reason why you often find the idea of love much more appealing than its physical manifestations. The sex in you head is never common or clumsy, and you can always count on great reviews.
Venus - Libra, Mars - Capricorn
Venus - Virgo, Mars - Libra
Could someone please post the results for the combos above?
Venus - Virgo, Mars - Libra
Could someone please post the results for the combos above?
If you have Mars in Pisces with Venus in Pisces
you are . . .
The Automatic Love Addict —
You are a Lover driven by passions more powerful and more extraordinary than most people can even imagine. You are never at peace, never fully satisfied. Even in the happiest relationship you are always seeking more, always jockeying for a new emotional high. Your feelings are often extreme and compulsive but just as often they are ambiguous and indescribable. There is a mystical quality about you connections with other people and your affection often has a deep, spiritual dimension. But that doesn't make those connections any more likely to last.
Obviously, you are not the kind of Lover everyone can value, or even endure. At your worst you blow through people's lives like a hurricane, leaving a path of shattered hearts and broken promises. At your very worst you use sex as a replacement for the emotional fulfillment that seems to constantly elude you. Your best, however, you can become an example of love at it most selfless and devoted, love that transcends the ordinary, the physical and even the emotional. Achieving this —best?? will not be easy and many of you will fail but the fact that you??ve even attempted it should be enough to cancel out all your sins.
you are . . .
The Automatic Love Addict —
You are a Lover driven by passions more powerful and more extraordinary than most people can even imagine. You are never at peace, never fully satisfied. Even in the happiest relationship you are always seeking more, always jockeying for a new emotional high. Your feelings are often extreme and compulsive but just as often they are ambiguous and indescribable. There is a mystical quality about you connections with other people and your affection often has a deep, spiritual dimension. But that doesn't make those connections any more likely to last.
Obviously, you are not the kind of Lover everyone can value, or even endure. At your worst you blow through people's lives like a hurricane, leaving a path of shattered hearts and broken promises. At your very worst you use sex as a replacement for the emotional fulfillment that seems to constantly elude you. Your best, however, you can become an example of love at it most selfless and devoted, love that transcends the ordinary, the physical and even the emotional. Achieving this —best?? will not be easy and many of you will fail but the fact that you??ve even attempted it should be enough to cancel out all your sins.
Posted by intheair
Venus - Libra, Mars - Capricorn
Venus - Virgo, Mars - Libra
Could someone please post the results for the combos above?
"If you have Mars in Capricorn with Venus in Libra you are . . ."
The Idealistic Slave of Love
There is an intellectual fury about the way you approach love and sex that can be hard to take. You expect a lot out of your partners. The good news is that you have the charm and grace to get the most out of every relationship and every partner. You are almost obscenely easy to love and people want to please you. The bad news is that no matter how determined your Beloved may be, or how well-schooled in the arts of love, it is rarely enough to completely satisfy your high standards.
Though you are a hard lover to please, what often goes unnoticed is just how confused you are about your own sexuality. Torn between an earthy desire for pleasure and a romantic image of love, you often have trouble deciding which brass ring you want to grab for. This sexual dichotomy can cause you a lot of frustration, particularly since you are not a person who does well alone. Often it is necessary for you to give up on finding the perfect partner and settle for someone who can be trained.
"If you have Mars in Libra with Venus in Virgo you are . . ."
The Perfectly Reasonable Lover
You want sex to be real, tangible, and easily accessible. For this reason you are prone to divide your sexual contacts between those that serve your physical needs and those that involve your search for the perfect relationship. Your approach to the former will be practical and matter-of-fact while you will look to the latter with dreamy fascination. This dual approach will certainly not make sense to everyone. Many people, including some potential partners, are apt to call you insensitive, along with a few other, less printable names.
Your attitude toward sex is essentially passive. Whether you are looking for love or just a good time you are easily led, emotionally lazy, and sometimes opportunistic. This lack of initiative makes it difficult for you to find the perfect love that is always your utmost goal. Relationships of this sort require great energy and determination and there is a part of you that will always balk at such extraordinary effort. But if you are lucky enough to find a partner who is willing to do most or even all the work f
Posted by AquaLuv4yaPosted by intheair
Venus - Libra, Mars - Capricorn
Venus - Virgo, Mars - Libra
Could someone please post the results for the combos above?click to expand
"If you have Mars in Capricorn with Venus in Libra you are . . ."
The Idealistic Slave of Love
There is an intellectual fury about the way you approach love and sex that can be hard to take. You expect a lot out of your partners. The good news is that you have the charm and grace to get the most out of every relationship and every partner. You are almost obscenely easy to love and people want to please you. The bad news is that no matter how determined your Beloved may be, or how well-schooled in the arts of love, it is rarely enough to completely satisfy your high standards.
Though you are a hard lover to please, what often goes unnoticed is just how confused you are about your own sexuality. Torn between an earthy desire for pleasure and a romantic image of love, you often have trouble deciding which brass ring you want to grab for. This sexual dichotomy can cause you a lot of frustration, particularly since you are not a person who does well alone. Often it is necessary for you to give up on finding the perfect partner and settle for someone who can be trained.
"If you have Mars in Libra with Venus in Virgo you are . . ."
The Perfectly Reasonable Lover
You want sex to be real, tangible, and easily accessible. For this reason you are prone to divide your sexual contacts between those that serve your physical needs and those that involve your search for the perfect relationship. Your approach to the former will be practical and matter-of-fact while you will look to the latter with dreamy fascination. This dual approach will certainly not make sense to everyone. Many people, including some potential partners, are apt to call you insensitive, along with a few other, less printable names.
Your attitude toward sex is essentially passive. Whether you are looking for love or just a good time you are easily led, emotionally lazy, and sometimes opportunistic. This lack of initiative makes it difficult for you to find the perfect love that is always your utmost goal. Relationships of this sort require great energy and determination and there is a part of you that will always balk at such extraordinary eff
Posted by stillwat3rPosted by lisabethur8Posted by malloryor
Mars Aqua/Venus Aqua
The Unlimited Liberator
You are the coolest of the cool—a detached and thoroughly rational Lover for whom sex means little beyond a momentary thrill and, occasionally, an opportunity to make more conventional people uncomfortable. The attitude you take toward sexual pleasure might seem very free and uncomplicated but, even though you lack the animal lust that plagues some people and the emotional vulnerability that limits other, your sexual nature is subject to its own kind of problems. How you think about a person, or a relationship, or sex in general will greatly impact your ability to relate to that person sexually. For you, it only takes one errant thought to spoil a whole evening.
Given your intellectual approach to sex and your love of freedom, fidelity can become a very touchy issue. You must have your independence and if holding on to a relationship means compromising your free spirit, you response is generally going to be, —See ya.?? In fact, you??ll often opt for your freedom even when that choice means no sex at all. Still, relationships are important to you and, no matter how many times you are disappointed, you will never stop looking for that honest and complete intellectual partnership that is your ideal.
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Bullshit
that's ALOT of detachment and frankly not a desirable person to want to be mated with. Ew. Honestly i don't blame you for disliking it.
Guess cafeastrology are liars if you don't feel it is right. 😆
+1
Mars in aqua IMO is one of the worse placement s for sexuality and love (my ex was). Despite other placements aqua Mars can always be seen. I have aqua Venus but I'm glad for the sag Mars,click to expand
So how did that play out for you in the bedroom...if you don't mind me asking? Because if I'm to be honest here, I'm really into passionate, sensual love making style s and BDSM--sub stuff but on the less intense scale and even then, I expect to cuddle after.
Mars in Aries/Venus in Aries
The Extreme Extremist
You have no capacity for soft words or gentle persuasion. You win hearts with the explosive force of your ego or not at all. The intensity of your lovemaking along with your aggressive, sometimes even belligerent approach to relationships will likely frighten away many prospective partners. But those brave enough to weather the storms will find you a passionate, caring and fiercely loyal Lover.
The real problem in your sex life is finding a stopping place. You develop intense bonds with your sexual partners but you rarely give yourself a chance to stop and enjoy the fruits of these relationships. You are always moving away from, or struggling against comfort and complacency. This makes you are a restless and inconsistent Lover who, despite all your fiery passion and loyalty, often has difficulty holding onto love.
The Extreme Extremist
You have no capacity for soft words or gentle persuasion. You win hearts with the explosive force of your ego or not at all. The intensity of your lovemaking along with your aggressive, sometimes even belligerent approach to relationships will likely frighten away many prospective partners. But those brave enough to weather the storms will find you a passionate, caring and fiercely loyal Lover.
The real problem in your sex life is finding a stopping place. You develop intense bonds with your sexual partners but you rarely give yourself a chance to stop and enjoy the fruits of these relationships. You are always moving away from, or struggling against comfort and complacency. This makes you are a restless and inconsistent Lover who, despite all your fiery passion and loyalty, often has difficulty holding onto love.
I have a Cancer, Cancer.
Partner is; Gemini, Aries
Partner is; Gemini, Aries
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If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Taurus??
you are . . .
The Reluctant Extremist
Yours is a difficult combination. A sensualist at heart, you don't really approve of the headlong recklessness of your sexual nature. You would like to slow down and give your senses ample time to drink in each erotic experience but you find that your Mars in Aries nature runs well only in high gear and the more you try to put on the brakes the more ungainly and muddled you appear. You are among the most practical Mars in Aries Lover but, unfortunately, your actions often give little evidence of this wisdom.
On the positive side, in the right situation and with the right partner, your unique combination of sensual patience and volcanic passion can make you a gifted Lover. And there is a sweetness and soft conventionality about your sexual nature that allows you to get away with sexual extremes that might land other Mars in Aries Lovers in jail. If you can learn from your frustrations and build on your strengths, your capacity for erotic expression is unlimited.??
Hey, me too.
...makes sense though, haha. I call it "crotch vs brain."
I have : Mars in Aries with Venus in Gemini
The Crafty Extremist
You are a shrewd Mars in Aries Lover. You go through the motions of putting it all on the line and swooping headfirst into love but you still manage to maintain a sense of intellectual distance between yourself and all the crazy things you are doing. To some degree this makes you a supremely enjoyable Lover who blends all-out intensity with plenty of fun. But there is also an element of duplicity in your sexual nature. In your drive for extreme experiences you are prone to promise much more than you intend to deliver.
You may be the most restless of the Mars in Aries Lovers and the most easily distracted. Plus, you have a taste for immediate gratification that often outweighs your Mars in Aries loyalty. However, physical sex is always a secondary allurement for you. It is ideas that really turn you on. The partner who wishes to hold your attention, and your loyalty, must be prepared to continually stoke the fires of your imagination.
The Crafty Extremist
You are a shrewd Mars in Aries Lover. You go through the motions of putting it all on the line and swooping headfirst into love but you still manage to maintain a sense of intellectual distance between yourself and all the crazy things you are doing. To some degree this makes you a supremely enjoyable Lover who blends all-out intensity with plenty of fun. But there is also an element of duplicity in your sexual nature. In your drive for extreme experiences you are prone to promise much more than you intend to deliver.
You may be the most restless of the Mars in Aries Lovers and the most easily distracted. Plus, you have a taste for immediate gratification that often outweighs your Mars in Aries loyalty. However, physical sex is always a secondary allurement for you. It is ideas that really turn you on. The partner who wishes to hold your attention, and your loyalty, must be prepared to continually stoke the fires of your imagination.
If you have Mars in Cancer with Venus in Scorpio
you are . . .
The Hell-of-a-Home Body
You are a psycho-sexual force of nature capable of bowling people over with the power of your desires and then amazing them with the subtlety and sensitivity of you sexual technique. You are a very intense Lover who demands a lot of attention and who tends to dominate relationships even though you approach to sex and love is essentially passive. People respond to you not just because of your sexual allure or because of your emotional vulnerability. They just want be a part of the awe inspiring phenomena that is you.
Because you take sexual relationships so seriously you tend to be conservative or at least quiet about them. Unfortunately, those who have been swept up in your emotional maelstrom are not always so secretive. These survivors are likely to come away with terrible tales of a demanding and irrational Lover, too sexy to ignore and too incredibly complex to understand. But that lucky person who has been sucked into the calm and loving eye of this emotional hurricane that is your emotional life and is enjoying the incredible warmth and sexual opulence that is at your core, that person is not likely to utter the smallest complaint.
you are . . .
The Hell-of-a-Home Body
You are a psycho-sexual force of nature capable of bowling people over with the power of your desires and then amazing them with the subtlety and sensitivity of you sexual technique. You are a very intense Lover who demands a lot of attention and who tends to dominate relationships even though you approach to sex and love is essentially passive. People respond to you not just because of your sexual allure or because of your emotional vulnerability. They just want be a part of the awe inspiring phenomena that is you.
Because you take sexual relationships so seriously you tend to be conservative or at least quiet about them. Unfortunately, those who have been swept up in your emotional maelstrom are not always so secretive. These survivors are likely to come away with terrible tales of a demanding and irrational Lover, too sexy to ignore and too incredibly complex to understand. But that lucky person who has been sucked into the calm and loving eye of this emotional hurricane that is your emotional life and is enjoying the incredible warmth and sexual opulence that is at your core, that person is not likely to utter the smallest complaint.
If you have Mars in Gemini with Venus in Libra
you are . . .
The Technician of True Love
You are the most idealistic Mars in Gemini Lover, a Lover who truly believes in the power of love. You are not a person who does well alone and you will always need a significant relationship in your life in order to feel complete. The feeling of being —connected?? to another person is extremely important to you. Your definition of this crucial connection doesn't include a lot of sloppy sentiment or even a lot of sex. You??re looking for more than an emotional crutch or a sensual experience. Your kind of love must be a perfect partnership, the seamless blending of two minds.
Physical sex has a way of complicating this search for the perfect partner. It messes with your idealism and takes love out of the domain of the mind where you can operate with breathtaking lightness and skill, and brings it down to the level of the body where you are never quite as comfortable. This is not to say that you can't enjoy physical sex for its own sake. The problem is keeping this frivolous banging of bodies, diverting as it may be, separate from the very serious business of love.
you are . . .
The Technician of True Love
You are the most idealistic Mars in Gemini Lover, a Lover who truly believes in the power of love. You are not a person who does well alone and you will always need a significant relationship in your life in order to feel complete. The feeling of being —connected?? to another person is extremely important to you. Your definition of this crucial connection doesn't include a lot of sloppy sentiment or even a lot of sex. You??re looking for more than an emotional crutch or a sensual experience. Your kind of love must be a perfect partnership, the seamless blending of two minds.
Physical sex has a way of complicating this search for the perfect partner. It messes with your idealism and takes love out of the domain of the mind where you can operate with breathtaking lightness and skill, and brings it down to the level of the body where you are never quite as comfortable. This is not to say that you can't enjoy physical sex for its own sake. The problem is keeping this frivolous banging of bodies, diverting as it may be, separate from the very serious business of love.
Venus in Leo/Mars in Taurus anyone?
Mars in Capricorn Venus in Capricorn
The slater slave lover
Partner is
Mars in Libra Venus in Libra
The slater slave lover
Partner is
Mars in Libra Venus in Libra
The Technician of True Love
You are the most idealistic Mars in Gemini Lover, a Lover who truly believes in the power of love. You are not a person who does well alone and you will always need a significant relationship in your life in order to feel complete. The feeling of being —connected?? to another person is extremely important to you. Your definition of this crucial connection doesn't include a lot of sloppy sentiment or even a lot of sex. You??re looking for more than an emotional crutch or a sensual experience. Your kind of love must be a perfect partnership, the seamless blending of two minds.
Physical sex has a way of complicating this search for the perfect partner. It messes with your idealism and takes love out of the domain of the mind where you can operate with breathtaking lightness and skill, and brings it down to the level of the body where you are never quite as comfortable. This is not to say that you can't enjoy physical sex for its own sake. The problem is keeping this frivolous banging of bodies, diverting as it may be, separate from the very serious business of love.
Lol this is really true !
You are the most idealistic Mars in Gemini Lover, a Lover who truly believes in the power of love. You are not a person who does well alone and you will always need a significant relationship in your life in order to feel complete. The feeling of being —connected?? to another person is extremely important to you. Your definition of this crucial connection doesn't include a lot of sloppy sentiment or even a lot of sex. You??re looking for more than an emotional crutch or a sensual experience. Your kind of love must be a perfect partnership, the seamless blending of two minds.
Physical sex has a way of complicating this search for the perfect partner. It messes with your idealism and takes love out of the domain of the mind where you can operate with breathtaking lightness and skill, and brings it down to the level of the body where you are never quite as comfortable. This is not to say that you can't enjoy physical sex for its own sake. The problem is keeping this frivolous banging of bodies, diverting as it may be, separate from the very serious business of love.
Lol this is really true !
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If you have Mars in Cancer with Venus in Gemini
you are . . .
The Wiley Home Body
Unlike most Mars in Cancer Lovers, you can be reasonable about sex. You are aware of your special sexual allure and your innate sensuality and you are determined to make intelligent use of these gifts. At first glance you seem to have a lighter, more flexible and less conservative approach to sex but, in reality, you are just as deeply cautious and serious about these matters as are most Mars in Cancer Lovers. People who come to you looking for nothing more than a good time will be shocked at how quickly your frivolous overtures can transform into deep, obsessive passions.
Like all Lovers of this type, relationships are very important to you and a sense of mutual commitment is essential to your enjoyment of sex. When you are in a relationship that doesn't touch your heart you can appear to be very clever and in control but when you find the right person, the person who can truly answer all your emotional needs and quiet all your insecurities then you become like all the other Mars in Cancer Lovers—a happy slave to your feelings.
Here's the website if anyone is interested. 🙂
http://goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook.html