Dating
I hate dating. It's absolutely horrible. I'm to a point where I don't even wanna date someone. ...
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Posted by Redoctober2000I'm not being fake I'm genuinely trying to see what happens and give it a chance. Sometimes it's good to get other's perspectives
@moonbutter. Just be straight and do the decent thing and tell him. The truth will set him free.
I would rather be single than "Fake it" or be in his position with a "Fake"...
Too many fake people around....
That's why I don't date. But I'm lucky enough to get the one guy that I want straight away without the dating bs. Just tell him.
But what is dating actually but another label?
I have no problem going out with someone getting to know them. And work my way to focusing only on them and no other person.
What else should I do?
I like you, you're hot. Let's take a chance and get hitched and see where life takes us well have plenty of time to get to know each other.
Totally have a great aunt and uncle got married within a week of knowing each other.
But nowadays the risk is too much... Lol isn't there a new reality show coming out like blind weddings
What else should I do?
I like you, you're hot. Let's take a chance and get hitched and see where life takes us well have plenty of time to get to know each other.
Totally have a great aunt and uncle got married within a week of knowing each other.
But nowadays the risk is too much... Lol isn't there a new reality show coming out like blind weddings
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Posted by HarleyTwinFlameIt's in the third/fourth season.... "Married at First Sight." I've been watching since the previews. Good stuff.
I have no problem going out with someone getting to know them. And work my way to focusing only on them and no other person.
What else should I do?
I like you, you're hot. Let's take a chance and get hitched and see where life takes us well have plenty of time to get to know each other.
Totally have a great aunt and uncle got married within a week of knowing each other.
But nowadays the risk is too much... Lol isn't there a new reality show coming out like blind weddings
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One out of the 5 usually survives!
Posted by AriesLoveYou ma'am are awesomesauce
I guess I'm an Aries. I like to dress up and hit the town. I like to be seen. The President and First Lady coming through. All eyes on us.
Even in marriage and relationships you are supposed to continue to date. Fuck fucking all day long in the house. There's a million places to fuck outside the house.
Posted by cheekyfaerieYeah...every time I try to tell him he hits me emotionally :/ and then I try to reason with my feelings.Posted by MoonbutterThe only positive things you've said are that he's all the things your ex lacks. You even admitted to still having unresolved feelings towards your ex. Stick a fork in it sister. It's done.Posted by Redoctober2000I'm not being fake I'm genuinely trying to see what happens and give it a chance. Sometimes it's good to get other's perspectives
@moonbutter. Just be straight and do the decent thing and tell him. The truth will set him free.
I would rather be single than "Fake it" or be in his position with a "Fake"...
Too many fake people around....
That's why I don't date. But I'm lucky enough to get the one guy that I want straight away without the dating bs. Just tell him.click to expand
Posted by VenusAquariusReally it's that old? Well geez.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameIt's in the third/fourth season.... "Married at First Sight." I've been watching since the previews. Good stuff.
I have no problem going out with someone getting to know them. And work my way to focusing only on them and no other person.
What else should I do?
I like you, you're hot. Let's take a chance and get hitched and see where life takes us well have plenty of time to get to know each other.
Totally have a great aunt and uncle got married within a week of knowing each other.
But nowadays the risk is too much... Lol isn't there a new reality show coming out like blind weddingsclick to expand
I saw the commercial for it only recently
Lol
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Posted by HarleyTwinFlameI was gonna blog about... astologically... but, I don't have the time. This place provides mental breaks and stress relief while writing 100+ page contracts.Posted by VenusAquariusReally it's that old? Well geez.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameIt's in the third/fourth season.... "Married at First Sight." I've been watching since the previews. Good stuff.
I have no problem going out with someone getting to know them. And work my way to focusing only on them and no other person.
What else should I do?
I like you, you're hot. Let's take a chance and get hitched and see where life takes us well have plenty of time to get to know each other.
Totally have a great aunt and uncle got married within a week of knowing each other.
But nowadays the risk is too much... Lol isn't there a new reality show coming out like blind weddings
I saw the commercial for it only recently
Lolclick to expand
Posted by AriesLoveYou can't talk about sex and expect a Leo to stay calm. It's virtually impossiblePosted by SssupesDown boy! LolPosted by AriesLoveYou ma'am are awesomesauce
I guess I'm an Aries. I like to dress up and hit the town. I like to be seen. The President and First Lady coming through. All eyes on us.
Even in marriage and relationships you are supposed to continue to date. Fuck fucking all day long in the house. There's a million places to fuck outside the house.
J/k but you have to switch it up. New places, new positionsclick to expand
Posted by rakacAww, you went with the yellow.Posted by Foreverlovemeyeah i have good imagination, had to make something up to not make any suspicions or giveawaysPosted by rakacPosted by Foreverlovemeyellow, i made a test and she was unaware of what i'm doing , i asked all our work team so close your eyes and imagine the colour that makes your life more beautiful, didn't rlly care about what others say, but she said yellow, and i said now imagine that colour each day for a week and your life will become brighter, after couple of days i gaive her the yellow flower and said you no longer need to imagine, this flower will be your yellow, she smiled huged me and said thank youPosted by rakac
Depends on how you look at it rly: if you look at the dating as like in the fucking movies: boring,having a plan for like taking girl to restraunt and talking and shit, i don't know rly, sounds boring, i'd rather meet a person and do something i feel i should in the moment, walking in the park, dancing in the middle of the fucking street with no music, maybe having some deep conversation or simply chillind under a tree looking into the sky, stars and talking nothing , when 2 people can be in silence and there's no akward feeling thats when i think this person rly belongs in my lifewhile you do something you can always feel connected, but i think silence shows what real vibes around people are, i'm kind of on/of guy i think this has to do with my moon and sun signs, one day i might chill second day i might be climbing a fucking mountain and dancing on top singing while there's no music playin.
Love the silence reference. How did the cap like the flower? & what color did you go with?
Very creative!
thats us having a picnic
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She looks like she had fun being with you. Well played rakac, well played.
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Posted by GreenteaSo sweet.Posted by rakacAww, you went with the yellow.Posted by Foreverlovemeyeah i have good imagination, had to make something up to not make any suspicions or giveawaysPosted by rakacPosted by Foreverlovemeyellow, i made a test and she was unaware of what i'm doing , i asked all our work team so close your eyes and imagine the colour that makes your life more beautiful, didn't rlly care about what others say, but she said yellow, and i said now imagine that colour each day for a week and your life will become brighter, after couple of days i gaive her the yellow flower and said you no longer need to imagine, this flower will be your yellow, she smiled huged me and said thank youPosted by rakac
Depends on how you look at it rly: if you look at the dating as like in the fucking movies: boring,having a plan for like taking girl to restraunt and talking and shit, i don't know rly, sounds boring, i'd rather meet a person and do something i feel i should in the moment, walking in the park, dancing in the middle of the fucking street with no music, maybe having some deep conversation or simply chillind under a tree looking into the sky, stars and talking nothing , when 2 people can be in silence and there's no akward feeling thats when i think this person rly belongs in my life
Love the silence reference. How did the cap like the flower? & what color did you go with?
Very creative!
thats us having a picnic
She looks like she had fun being with you. Well played rakac, well played.click to expand
Posted by GreenteaPosted by rakacAww, you went with the yellow.Posted by Foreverlovemeyeah i have good imagination, had to make something up to not make any suspicions or giveawaysPosted by rakacPosted by Foreverlovemeyellow, i made a test and she was unaware of what i'm doing , i asked all our work team so close your eyes and imagine the colour that makes your life more beautiful, didn't rlly care about what others say, but she said yellow, and i said now imagine that colour each day for a week and your life will become brighter, after couple of days i gaive her the yellow flower and said you no longer need to imagine, this flower will be your yellow, she smiled huged me and said thank youPosted by rakac
Depends on how you look at it rly: if you look at the dating as like in the fucking movies: boring,having a plan for like taking girl to restraunt and talking and shit, i don't know rly, sounds boring, i'd rather meet a person and do something i feel i should in the moment, walking in the park, dancing in the middle of the fucking street with no music, maybe having some deep conversation or simply chillind under a tree looking into the sky, stars and talking nothing , when 2 people can be in silence and there's no akward feeling thats when i think this person rly belongs in my life
Love the silence reference. How did the cap like the flower? & what color did you go with?
Very creative!
thats us having a picnic
She looks like she had fun being with you. Well played rakac, well played.click to expand
We always seem to be having fun, even at work
thank you ! 
Posted by KilgoreThank youPosted by WallFlower422That will happen. You have a lovely face and awesome hairI wish I was so inundated with dates that I could be tired of dating
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Posted by AriesLoveAll goodPosted by SssupesI wasn't talking about sex I said fucking...but yeah I get it.Posted by AriesLoveYou can't talk about sex and expect a Leo to stay calm. It's virtually impossiblePosted by SssupesDown boy! LolPosted by AriesLoveYou ma'am are awesomesauce
I guess I'm an Aries. I like to dress up and hit the town. I like to be seen. The President and First Lady coming through. All eyes on us.
Even in marriage and relationships you are supposed to continue to date. Fuck fucking all day long in the house. There's a million places to fuck outside the house.
J/k but you have to switch it up. New places, new positionsclick to expand
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Posted by VenusAquarius....HEELS to a picnic? Lawdy.Posted by GreenteaSo sweet.Posted by rakacAww, you went with the yellow.Posted by Foreverlovemeyeah i have good imagination, had to make something up to not make any suspicions or giveawaysPosted by rakacPosted by Foreverlovemeyellow, i made a test and she was unaware of what i'm doing , i asked all our work team so close your eyes and imagine the colour that makes your life more beautiful, didn't rlly care about what others say, but she said yellow, and i said now imagine that colour each day for a week and your life will become brighter, after couple of days i gaive her the yellow flower and said you no longer need to imagine, this flower will be your yellow, she smiled huged me and said thank youPosted by rakac
Depends on how you look at it rly: if you look at the dating as like in the fucking movies: boring,having a plan for like taking girl to restraunt and talking and shit, i don't know rly, sounds boring, i'd rather meet a person and do something i feel i should in the moment, walking in the park, dancing in the middle of the fucking street with no music, maybe having some deep conversation or simply chillind under a tree looking into the sky, stars and talking nothing , when 2 people can be in silence and there's no akward feeling thats when i think this person rly belongs in my life
Love the silence reference. How did the cap like the flower? & what color did you go with?
Very creative!
thats us having a picnic
She looks like she had fun being with you. Well played rakac, well played.click to expand
Honestly, I try not to take dating too seriously.
I just like to have fun and flirt with them a little unless I notice right off the bat that I connect with them and then I put in more effort to know them.
So I personally don't neeeeed a relationship, it's kinda draining to constantly try to find someone. I think the person will come along without you in constant search for them, bcuz if you look or try too hard you'll probably miss the opportunities that knock softly.
I'm not afraid to be single but with that, Capricorns also love being in love, and we're great partners to those we feel are deserving.
I have a date this weekend actually, I'm looking forward to it too. So I think I'm just gonna go with the flow, have fun and be in the moment. See where it goes from there.
I just like to have fun and flirt with them a little unless I notice right off the bat that I connect with them and then I put in more effort to know them.
So I personally don't neeeeed a relationship, it's kinda draining to constantly try to find someone. I think the person will come along without you in constant search for them, bcuz if you look or try too hard you'll probably miss the opportunities that knock softly.
I'm not afraid to be single but with that, Capricorns also love being in love, and we're great partners to those we feel are deserving.
I have a date this weekend actually, I'm looking forward to it too. So I think I'm just gonna go with the flow, have fun and be in the moment. See where it goes from there.
Posted by JohnnyRed007
Dating at 30 sucks......
Try closer to 40!
Posted by MoonbutterJust asking ssupes what happened for him to not want to date anymore. Sounds like he's discouraged.Posted by clippityclopWhat do u mean?
what happened for you to feel this way?click to expand
Posted by clippityclopIt's very time consuming and draining.Posted by MoonbutterJust asking ssupes what happened for him to not want to date anymore. Sounds like he's discouraged.Posted by clippityclopWhat do u mean?
what happened for you to feel this way?click to expand
Posted by clippityclopIt's very discouraging so I'm not surprised if he is. Those that are already in relationship and have been for years ya'all can royally shove it lolPosted by MoonbutterJust asking ssupes what happened for him to not want to date anymore. Sounds like he's discouraged.Posted by clippityclopWhat do u mean?
what happened for you to feel this way?click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterDid we just become best friends?Posted by clippityclopIt's very discouraging so I'm not surprised if he is. Those that are already in relationship and have been for years ya'all can royally shove it lolPosted by MoonbutterJust asking ssupes what happened for him to not want to date anymore. Sounds like he's discouraged.Posted by clippityclopWhat do u mean?
what happened for you to feel this way?click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by clippityclopIt's very discouraging so I'm not surprised if he is. Those that are already in relationship and have been for years ya'all can royally shove it lolPosted by MoonbutterJust asking ssupes what happened for him to not want to date anymore. Sounds like he's discouraged.Posted by clippityclopWhat do u mean?
what happened for you to feel this way?click to expand
Bahaha. I know i know. I can't imagine. I havent been out there for a long time. Not that I'm not afraid of it.. it could happen where some day I'm lost and lonelay. It could be easier to be alone in a lot of cases. Especially since the older you get, the less flexible you are with certain things. Just less likely to believe peoples shit i guess lol
Posted by SssupesI always liked your style hahaPosted by MoonbutterDid we just become best friends?Posted by clippityclopIt's very discouraging so I'm not surprised if he is. Those that are already in relationship and have been for years ya'all can royally shove it lolPosted by MoonbutterJust asking ssupes what happened for him to not want to date anymore. Sounds like he's discouraged.Posted by clippityclopWhat do u mean?
what happened for you to feel this way?click to expand
Posted by Moonbutter???Posted by SssupesI always liked your style hahaPosted by MoonbutterDid we just become best friends?Posted by clippityclopIt's very discouraging so I'm not surprised if he is. Those that are already in relationship and have been for years ya'all can royally shove it lolPosted by MoonbutterJust asking ssupes what happened for him to not want to date anymore. Sounds like he's discouraged.Posted by clippityclopWhat do u mean?
what happened for you to feel this way?click to expand
@Sssupes, something tells me that your Leo Sun and Sag moon would show my my Leo Venus and Sag Moona Good time ?
Posted by MoonbutterAbsofreakinlutely.
@Sssupes, something tells me that your Leo Sun and Sag moon would show my my Leo Venus and Sag Moona Good time ?
Posted by Sssupes?Posted by MoonbutterAbsofreakinlutely.
@Sssupes, something tells me that your Leo Sun and Sag moon would show my my Leo Venus and Sag Moona Good time ?click to expand
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Posted by SssupesSsupes,
I hate dating. It's absolutely horrible. I'm to a point where I don't even wanna date someone.
What does your 5th house look like? Planets and their aspects?
That's the house that fits this topic... a house ruled by your Sun ironically.
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Posted by ForeverlovemeFook, I see it now.Posted by rockyroadicecream
....HEELS to a picnic? Lawdy.
??? Sandalsclick to expand
...I'm also relieved for him haha. I was like oh mah gawd, run. If a chick is wearing heels to something like THAT, you run the hell away haha. High maintenance ho ahoy!
Posted by rakacOhhmygoodnesh RAKAC cutest DATES EVA I hope you guys continue having such fun, she looks like an absolute champ and a sweety!Posted by Foreverlovemeyeah i have good imagination, had to make something up to not make any suspicions or giveawaysPosted by rakacPosted by Foreverlovemeyellow, i made a test and she was unaware of what i'm doing , i asked all our work team so close your eyes and imagine the colour that makes your life more beautiful, didn't rlly care about what others say, but she said yellow, and i said now imagine that colour each day for a week and your life will become brighter, after couple of days i gaive her the yellow flower and said you no longer need to imagine, this flower will be your yellow, she smiled huged me and said thank youPosted by rakac
Depends on how you look at it rly: if you look at the dating as like in the fucking movies: boring,having a plan for like taking girl to restraunt and talking and shit, i don't know rly, sounds boring, i'd rather meet a person and do something i feel i should in the moment, walking in the park, dancing in the middle of the fucking street with no music, maybe having some deep conversation or simply chillind under a tree looking into the sky, stars and talking nothing , when 2 people can be in silence and there's no akward feeling thats when i think this person rly belongs in my life
Love the silence reference. How did the cap like the flower? & what color did you go with?
Very creative!
thats us having a picnicclick to expand
Posted by wagtailyeah she def is! she has a killer right hand tho!Posted by rakacOhhmygoodnesh RAKAC cutest DATES EVA I hope you guys continue having such fun, she looks like an absolute champ and a sweety!Posted by Foreverlovemeyeah i have good imagination, had to make something up to not make any suspicions or giveawaysPosted by rakacPosted by Foreverlovemeyellow, i made a test and she was unaware of what i'm doing , i asked all our work team so close your eyes and imagine the colour that makes your life more beautiful, didn't rlly care about what others say, but she said yellow, and i said now imagine that colour each day for a week and your life will become brighter, after couple of days i gaive her the yellow flower and said you no longer need to imagine, this flower will be your yellow, she smiled huged me and said thank youPosted by rakac
Depends on how you look at it rly: if you look at the dating as like in the fucking movies: boring,having a plan for like taking girl to restraunt and talking and shit, i don't know rly, sounds boring, i'd rather meet a person and do something i feel i should in the moment, walking in the park, dancing in the middle of the fucking street with no music, maybe having some deep conversation or simply chillind under a tree looking into the sky, stars and talking nothing , when 2 people can be in silence and there's no akward feeling thats when i think this person rly belongs in my life
Love the silence reference. How did the cap like the flower? & what color did you go with?
Very creative!
thats us having a picnicclick to expand
stronger then most of the guys i hold the pads for whahah Posted by rakacPosted by wagtailyeah she def is! she has a killer right hand tho!Posted by rakacOhhmygoodnesh RAKAC cutest DATES EVA I hope you guys continue having such fun, she looks like an absolute champ and a sweety!Posted by Foreverlovemeyeah i have good imagination, had to make something up to not make any suspicions or giveawaysPosted by rakacPosted by Foreverlovemeyellow, i made a test and she was unaware of what i'm doing , i asked all our work team so close your eyes and imagine the colour that makes your life more beautiful, didn't rlly care about what others say, but she said yellow, and i said now imagine that colour each day for a week and your life will become brighter, after couple of days i gaive her the yellow flower and said you no longer need to imagine, this flower will be your yellow, she smiled huged me and said thank youPosted by rakac
Depends on how you look at it rly: if you look at the dating as like in the fucking movies: boring,having a plan for like taking girl to restraunt and talking and shit, i don't know rly, sounds boring, i'd rather meet a person and do something i feel i should in the moment, walking in the park, dancing in the middle of the fucking street with no music, maybe having some deep conversation or simply chillind under a tree looking into the sky, stars and talking nothing , when 2 people can be in silence and there's no akward feeling thats when i think this person rly belongs in my life
Love the silence reference. How did the cap like the flower? & what color did you go with?
Very creative!
thats us having a picnicclick to expand
Lol she'll keep ya in line mate
Posted by Prince_PiscesAwwwww! You broke my heart PP!
Aren't you a redhead? I've heard most women don't like those, so no wonder.
Posted by VenusAquarius5th house in SagPosted by SssupesSsupes,
I hate dating. It's absolutely horrible. I'm to a point where I don't even wanna date someone.
What does your 5th house look like? Planets and their aspects?
That's the house that fits this topic... a house ruled by your Sun ironically.click to expand
I hate dates, talking on the phone, texting, the getting to know u phase it's all a fucking snooze fest to me. But I hate serious relationships too so........????
Yeah alot of people want you to treat them like sh!!!!!t and I don't know how to do that cuz it's not me so yea I'm thinking of just having one Fwb and live my life...this generation wants no commitment or a monogamous relationship
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